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Hi @Lucas_P25 and welcome. It is your recovery, so it is your rules. In my opinion though, sexting and sending and receiving nudes isn’t going to...

Trust is built one day at a time. Much like youra recovery occurs one day at a time. So start today to be more present with her, to be vulnerable...

Not Deleted, but concentrating on recovery in real life, with regular groups and meetings. So spending more time trying to be connected in person,...

Unfortunately, us addicts will act like a petulant child when our toys are taken away. While it sounds like he may have stopped porn, he is still...

Shocked that no one has mentioned the Gottman institute. Their “7 principles of making marriage work”, gave both myself and my SO the tools to...

A concept I have been embracing lately is that “sex is optional”. Between my wife going into menopause, my previous transgressions against her,...

Sobriety starts with one day at a time.

Yes! And delete all of them she has ever sent you.

How do you know you are losing interest in her, since you haven’t even seen her? That doesn’t make sense to me. Now if you were spending time with...

You may also find some good support and recovery through meetings for sex addicts in your area. SA matches your goals, but there are other like...

I think it comes down to the adage of “once an addict, always an addict.” Some folks can be predisposed to obsessive compulsive behaviors. Others...

Only by admitting you have a problem, can you begin to work on overcoming it. Who do you really trust the most in your life? Shouldn’t they know,...

As an addict , and one that doesn’t admit they are an addict, the only thing that I can think of would be getting thrown in a pot of boiling...

I have hope for you! Try a reboot, and set those rules and goals that make you feel uncomfortable, but not necessarily unobtainable. I too am of a...

I’m glad to hear it helped. You are very welcome. Congratulations on your month long streak. Keep it up, you are worth it!

@Beaker it could also be the desire for novelty, and its dopamine hit, your inner addict is craving, too. You are in a tough phase, and one of the...

Using you addiction as a weapon isn’t fighting fair. It erodes the vulnerability and honesty you bestowed to her. Now if the root of the argument...

She did neither of these. Perhaps there was an ultimatum in there that I needed to change. But fundamentally she offered her support. It required...

@Lilla_My Thank you for sharing your story with us. I am so deeply sorry you are going through this with your husband, I can identify with P abuse...

I can totally relate to your SOs need to have someone else she can confide in and talk to. While NoFap is a great tool for recovery of PAs and...