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Thanks Poland! The article and PDF are fantastic.
Thank you so much Kropo! That was really helpful. [SPOILER] I think you may be right with him being too goal oriented and seeing it more as a...
Hi everyone, My husband has been P free for a year and half now (since DDay) but lately he has developed sexual performance anxiety and struggles...
I can only speak for myself but I’m not on it nearly as much as before for the fact that some are the posts are triggering or get me anxious. I’m...
Our therapist recommended karezza/monk mode at least twice a week in order to help my husband rebuild intimacy between us. Sex is off the table...
Just a little two cents, you should probably get yourself checked out for any STDs especially as he may have been with escorts. At least you’ll...
I’m so sorry you’re going through this but it looks like your partner has a complete disregard to your boundaries and your respect. He’s calling...
I hear ya sistah! I’m also a SAHM dealing with husband’s PA and my trauma. We implement two tech-free nights when he gets home from work. Once...
Thanks for responding @anewhope That was really helpful. I read your reply to my husband and he agreed especially where we both need to improve...
Apologies this may be triggering to some. Last night I was feeling frisky in bed and teased my husband until he was erect. There was...
I completely agree with @samnf1990 but also take into consideration you’re risking the health of your wife (and yourself) with potential STDs. She...
I feel for you. I truly do. My DDay 2 & 3 happened just a couple of days before my 1st anniversary. I was devastated. I didn’t answer back to...
My husband told me of his PA out of his own volition while we were still dating. I had no clue he was addicted. The sex was reduced but he was...
Husband surprised me with a massage the other day. I expected just a simple back massage (left my leggings on) and he took it further with a...
My husband is 115 days PM free and 18 days PMO. The 90 days was a benchmark but he definitely felt for him he needed more days to feel any of the...
Thanks for this. I had a trigger earlier this week and it wasn’t received well.
I asked and he is up for it. Thanks for the suggestion!
hi everyone! I’m needing some advice from both PA and SO’s to help me understand my current situation with my husband. My husband is 110 days...
This is brilliant. Thanks QNB for sharing. I had a trigger that led to a breakdown of my betrayal trauma leaving my husband at a complete loss of...
The attraction to my husband has dimmed a bit. I believe it’s a knock on effect from the betrayal trauma, the loss of trust, low self esteem...