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Hey GhostWriter...it’s been a long time. I hope all is well. I’m wondering if we can connect? Lostneverland

Very well written and I agree. Thank you

I think you’re doing great . Just go easy on yourself...life through curveballs , so try not to be concerned about how things will or won’t turn...

Hallelujah...you go girl...you sound so empowered...right on

Yup I hear ya. I asked an addict what is the quickest way to deal with someone who has an addiction. He said give them more of what they are...

Yup, it’s a mind blowing , a life altering hidden addiction that creates so much turmoil , anxiety, hyper-vigilance,anger and deep pain. I...

Ooch...that must have hurt to hear your sisters say he doesn’t love you. I believe he doesn’t love himself therefore he is unable to love anyone...

So prove it to her...rise to the challenge , do everything and anything possible to gain her trust and support. If you want forgiveness,...

Isn’t that the whole thing...connection verses control...attachment verses detachment..love verses hate...acceptance verses anxiety. Susannah I...

Ya it’s tough isn’t it. For me it’s like my feelings for him were crystal clear, now my feelings are murky and dark, with periodic lightness. This...

Way ta go,..sounds like an exciting journey. I’m happy for you

Hey I hear ya loud and clear...and I bet the other SOs do too. I happened to meet a woman today, who started talking with me...soon she just broke...

Excellent post...well written

I agree , decide what is important to you and for you. Put your needs first and foremost. The addict doesn’t know right from left at this point....

Well...when my PA through his temper tantrum...I said “sober up, clean up and grow the f*ck up, you’re almost 50yrs old. Then he ran away . I’ve...

Queen Bee you are absolutely correct.

Yup...it’s truly mind boggling. I’m actually finding my PA quite interesting with his lies. Maybe I’ve detached, but it seems when I loose my...

One breath, one moment, and one day at a time is all we have. Just breath...

Hey just sending you my prayers and thoughts.

It doesn’t imply anything of the sort . Detaching with love is simply putting boundaries in place for self protection. She can do whatever feels...