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3 years post DDay. He just relapsed and said he did it on purpose to make it easy for me to leave him so I’m not in pain anymore.
I'm doing well. Even with the pandemic, I'm strong and happy. Husband is still going strong, no relapses or lies. He's working strong and I am...
I really like how you lay out your journal. I haven't been on for many many months. It's comforting to see that you and your husband are still...
27 mo. from Dday. He's still on the course he set. No relapses if honest. I'm still healing. Still separated. Yes, it takes that long.
Still legally separated, it's been 23 months. Despite him still working his recovery successfully, I struggle trusting him. Wish I could.
18 months post Day. Healing still happening on both sides. If he's being honest, 2 slips, 0 relapses, 1 lie. I'm a strong ass woman now.
Separated but spending time together. Taking trust building class together. I'm proud of him and appreciate his determination and strength.
Separated husband appears to be doing well in his recovery and in helping me heal. Tonight is our first "reconciliation" counseling.
17 months post D-day. Still healing, much better now. Is it possible to rebuilt trust? It took me 17 months to even want to find out.
Husband is done with Out of the Shadows workbook, 15 months of sex addiction counseling. I'll attend the next session to see the progress.
I scuba dive and identify as a mermaid... lol
15 months since Dday, 5 months since last caught lie. Invited him to Hawaii. Hope I'm strong enough for this. Triggers will be everywhere.
How long will you wait for me to heal in this "gray abyss"? He said "I'll sit with your for as long as you want me." I'm feeling safer.
It's been a year after Dday. My husband's hidden porn addiction has completely devastated our blended family with 4 kids, with the ugly truth that...
My husband made the 1 year mark with 2 slips no relapses if he is being honest. I'm very proud of him for making his recovery his priority.
I'm emotionally healing nicely, but now my body is complaining. Too much hiking to deal with stress has affected my sacroiliac joint. ugh.
Of course that’s OK to do things you’ve learned from previous partners. The point is that if you’ve betrayed somebody their mind changes about you...
Yes. This is true.
I'm just saying that the betrayed (wounded from their PA's porn addiction) has thoughts like "where did he learn or do this?". My husband admitted...
Here's a glaring problem that I experience as an SO having sex with my husband.... If he were to bring up something new or different that he...