accountability partner

Hi all, PMO addiction recovery can be a very lonely task, especially when even the "closest" folks around you like friends and family wouldn't understand your situation. Nonetheless, I'm looking for someone who's willing to be a serious accountability partner. I have no preference in where...

Hi I'm gay 17m looking for an accountability partner. My goals are to watch, jerk off, cum, only once a week. I have a very large sex drive (multiple times a day) and I want to slowly ease into my once a week goal. Why? I'm a very passionate, academic-driven teenager who will be applying to...

I've been doing nofap for a while but now I want to take it more seriously then before.

Hi Looking for someone to do some serious no nonsense accountability with for NO PORN. Completely gloves off, hard and brutal. NOT looking for a pen pal or a friend.

Hey, I’m looking for a serious accountability partner(s) - 1-3 people for 90+ days, ideally long-term. I’ve done 96 days of MONK MODE with an accountability partner before, and I think it’s the best way to stay focused on the goal and be successful. Please contact me if you’re really...

Hello! I'm new to this Forum but I'm not new to NoFap. I've been struggling with maintaining streaks for awhile now, but compared to my old habits a few years ago, I've been doing a lot better than I've ever been. For a while, I've been silent about it and haven't disclosed this issue to a lot...

I don’t know what is wrong with me, I have lost all respect for myself, I don’t know what the fuck was going through my head but I ordered a fleshlight and relapsed after 35 days. I feel incredibly ashamed and want to die, this is the most painful relapse even worse than one I had after 120...

Hey Everyone! I'm no stranger to NoFap, having tried it a couple years ago when my grades were slipping, and managed to do about 9 months- no PMO. However, over the years, I have made some half-hearted attempts to stop but about a month ago I decided to take it seriously. I managed 10 days...

I’ve been on NoFap in the past, with a longest streak of over 70 days last year which I was super proud of at the time and believed it was only going to get better from there. Unfortunately this year has been the exact opposite, feel like I’m in a massive rut again with PMO. I really want to...

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Cannot do this alone . The battle is inside me so I need someone from outside for guidance and support. Anyone from UK , is a male , is straight can be my accountability partner . I'm 24 years old . Fighting this battle from the age of 13 years . I don't have a gf . Never had a gf . And the...

What is your overall experience with accountability partners and what advice would you give to those who are new to this? Now i know this is highly individual and depends on the situation. Still I'm wondering if there are some general tips and tricks how to get the most out of it. What are the...

PLEASE READ: Before we begin, I want to layout some guidelines for this thread, and I hope everyone follows it. Whatever we post, DO NOT mention anything that might give away his identity. This is an anonymous site (the reason we are all here). I am thankful that most people here are good...

My day counter hits 89 today, and this upcoming weekend I have planned an overnight getaway with my spouse of 23 years. I can say I am grateful to my Higher Power that I've learned so much over this time, have seen some awesome benefits, have met many wonderful people (both virtually and In Real...

For those of you who have had or currently have an Accountability Partner, what was your experience with it? How effective was it?

About 2.5 months ago, I had to split things on with my fiance (which is now my former) because she had some not-good things going on. Bless the situation. That was hard for me emotionally and I relapsed hard on alcohol and porn one week after our split. I watched porn for like 3 hours straight...

Hi fellow fapstronauts. I am new here and I had to join after discovering this platform in a YouTube video I watch 2 days ago. Age: 20yrs Here's my story... Flashback 2010, I was just 10 years old when I stumbled upon an 18+ video being watched by my own parents in our home. Though it wasn't...

Have there ever been any? Have you been to one? How was it? Where was it?

So I’m definitely having a very rough time with Nofap especially with the quarantine as it hasn’t been easy trying to not PMO. I feel like I’m back at square 1 and that I’ve literally made no progress. Part of the reason for that is that every time I have a boner, I immediately think about PMO...

Hey everybody. I'm on day 6 of the journey. I've tried before but am putting a different energy into it now. I really want to change. Porn is the worst. Just takes you further and further away from your best self. To use an analogy - its like watching the game instead of being on the court. Good...

Usain Bolt, literally the fastest man alive. LeBron James, one of, if not the best of the game. Roger Federer, has been at the very top for a loooooong time. Despite being basically super-human, what do they have in common? They reportedly sleep 10-12h EACH DAY. 9-10h sleep during the night...

Hey, A friend of mine and me are building a group of guys with whom we can regularly play some video games together, have some fun but also keep each other accountable and support each other when things (inevitably) get tough. We have been free from porn 2 and 5 years respectively and been...

Hello ladies and gentlemen, as I said earlier I will take my time to write a long post for everyone. THANKS! For the people that helped me overcome this obstacle. For the people that liked my content and encouraged me to not give up when times are the toughest. For everyone that wrote a...

I need an accountability partner, been struggling with PMO since 12 years old. Really need some freedom. Looking to do the 90 day challenge, please help. Would really want someone who is committed and wants to quit completely. Would prefer someone in same time zone, i.e. India if possible...

Hi everyone, My name is Sam and I am starting my abstinence journey today. I have been a user of adult content for around 13 years and it was only a few years ago when I first attempted to stop that I realised how much of an issue it really was. I have attempted to stop many times now but have...

I am 33 year old newbie to NoFap trying for a PMO free lifestyle I am looking for Accountability partners and any tips or guidelines to make this a success. I want to quit PMO cold turkey which is to try for a hard mode. I feel Porn and masturbations has led me to make bad choices and unhealthy...

My main reason for stopping PMO is my religion, but also because I believe that it creates a lot more time for me to do other things. I have used working out every time I feel the urge. Is working out a good way to suppress these temptations or does working out heighten these temptations? Also...

Is there any way to drop my sex drive? Any way it can decrease? I know it's because I'm a teenager but constantly thinking about watching porn (subconsciously sometimes) really messes with my head. I want to stay away from it. Any tips? Anyone want to become my accountability partner?

Hello Everyone!! I am a 20 year old currently studying engineering. My main motivation for joining NoFap is to reboot and get my life in control. I have been watching porn since age 12. And yes, it has ruined my life. I had gone roughly 7 months without porn 2 years ago. But, that was becuase I...

Title says it all. I've been feeling for the last two days like I've been absolutely lonely. Not to mention the temptation to relapse that comes along with it. It feels as if I took a shot of espresso on the days of flatlining. Not to sound depressing but that's how it honestly felt on Day 1...

Over on @Acky31's thread Trying to gain back my SOs trust a few of us had the following exchange: Are the wives, girlfriends, husbands, or boyfriends of porn addicts a good choice as an addict's accountability partner?

Hello My Fellow Fapstronauts, I am 26 years old male, single and addicted since the age of 11. This ruined my 6 years relationship with my ex. I have tried numerous times to quit this destructive lifestyle, but every time I relapse there is a feeling of hopelessness and even question my...

I'll get right to the point. I HAVE to do something. I've tried all kinds of things, mindfulness, talking to my pastor, listening to podcasts. But, I can still only goes days before I look at porn and masturbate. I was exposed at age 5 with my dad bringing playboy magazines and calendars...

If you watch porn on your laptop/PC and you're trying to quit it but you find it very hard because porn sites are within your hand's reach, your answer K9 Web Protection. K9 Web Protection is a porn addiction/protection program. It works by blocking all of the porn sites on all internet...

For years, my boyfriend has been struggling with a porn addiction. It disgusts me and I feel betrayed. It started off as videos, regular porn videos. And it turned into obscene, taboo, and frankly disturbing porn. Once he got fed up with his own actions, he turned towards more tame tumblr...

Hi, I have long struggled with habitual porn use. And I have been clean of porn use for 6 months, 2 weeks, 1 month, a few months and still used again. Yet I have never had long term success with preservation of my vital life energy, until recently. When I was clean from porn use for 6 months, I...

Hey everybody, So... before I start.. yes. The subject and user name is a joke. I want to beat the addiction, not actually beat it haha. Alrighty, little background. I am 20 years-old and I was raised in a very religious family... I first started masturbating at a young age... with the...

Hey all, I've been trying to stop jerking off this summer because with the amount of free time I have, it's become ridiculous. I need to stop wasting my time and become more productive (I'm a HUGE procrastinator). As my username shows, I want to turn my life around, and I feel like rebooting...

I have been a porn user for 13 years, and after suffering in silence, I decided to join this website. I'm interested in finding a support group/accountability partner. If there's anyone who can help, I would love to reach out to you.

Hi there, I am 34 years old. I am searching an accountability partner around my age, someone to share experiences on this healing journey on a regular basis. I am a good listener and will be honest with you. We will not ask each other about our professional life rather we stay discreet and focus...

Hi everyone, I'll jump right in and explain why I am here. I am turning 20 in a couple of weeks and am ready to get rid of this addiction once and for all. It first started when I was 14. Like many of the rest of you I started with softer content, but soon enough I found myself watching kinkier...

Hi nofap community...this is the 1st time I have joined a community to help with my addiction. Started when I was around 10 and was always an easy target for porn. 25 yeARS have passed. I guess I have been fighting it since 18 but really intensely for the last 8 years. Managed to have good...

Hey everyone! Found NoFap browsing through different articles and websites trying to find a way to cope with this. I'm a wife to a PMO addict and we have a beautiful 9-month old daughter. Recently he admitted to being addicted and to having cam sex, as well as sending and receiving nudes to...