arousal

I quit porn at the beginning of 2025. I want to have sex and masturbate. I can't get aroused for either without thinking about pornographic images. I find that there is no other option than to think about porn if I can't watch it. I don't know how to learn or practice getting aroused and I don't...

I came across this video of Dr. Andrew Huberman discussing the causes behind foot fetishes (and fetishes in general), which I found very intriguing, as I've never stumbled upon this explanation before (as a person with a fetish, I've researched several explanations on the internet). Although the...

So I was doing nofap well for 5 days but mistakenly a video aroused me in YouTube, which led me to the hot p*** video sites due to which I relapsed. But it does not end here. I cannot forget the hot p*** star there and this is leading me to binge relapses. Yesterday I fapped 4 times seeing the...

I was doing something for school work, they wanted me to take a test where I try to identify peoples emotions based on their facial expressions. being on nofap I get aroused easily. I saw pictures of girls faces. I got aroused and got a boner. But I had to because of school work, I kept...

I join this forum as I want to quit porn and wanking. I hope this forum helps me. Since I am new here it will be convenient for me if the old members help me to navigate the forum. Thanks.

The title says it all, recently I’ve had struggles with arousal. i a lot of the time I can’t tell if the arousal is real or not. A couple examples that I’ve done recently is doing things I’ve seen in r34 or porn in the past (like squeezing my butt or playing with my nipples) majority of...

A lot of people on this forum talk about how you should be getting a gf and someone real to spend time with and have a healthy sexual life with. ive been thinking of asking for numbers my question is, how do you do so without getting aroused? like, I will likely get a boner if I ask a girl...

Last night, I was looking at pictures of something (not trying to get aroused) and I stumbled across images that got me aroused, I tried to ignore them multiple times, but I got so aroused I almost fapped right then and there. Now I have urges still and also I feel a little bit of pressure in my...

Hello everyone. Im on my 2nd streak and until now ita very good.no pmo at all.but there is a problem. I get excited sexualy and have a small erection which last for 4 or 5 seconds when im chatting with her.and the strange part is that im not talking dirty or anything about sex. We love...

Im new to the forums but ive been on this journey for over 3 years! I suspect im recovered but i have a question regarding arousal. Its a really stupid question but it made me avoid being sexual with a girl all together. What activities should give a guy an erection and make him horny? Are you...

Will it harm my boyfriends recovery if I arouse him? We agreed to no sex 2 weeks after he started no PMO. It’s been almost 3 weeks and he’s been flatlining for about one now. Even though it’s been a week of no O for him I really need answers on whether or not us kissing and touching will hurt...

When I used to get close to any girl I used to get goosebumps and raise in heart rate and increase in sexual arousal and intimacy. After almost 10 years of addiction here I am , I did manage to do 40+ streak couple of times and this time I have quit PMO permanently, My libido is back and I can...

I'm a 24 year old with PIED (53 days PM). I'm getting an average 3-4 of erections a day, some days I don't get any, if I've abstained from O for a while I get maybe 7-8. My desire for sex is low, when I do have an erection I don't initiate with my wife. I don't know what I'm meant to do, I let...

Hey guys, I'm three weeks in to NoFap, no masturbation, no porn. and involuntarily no orgasm because I am currently separated from my wife. We married in mai, than I had to leave the country and I am currently looking for a new job or something. Then and only then will she be able to rejoin me...

Im on day 20 and today for the first time i got huge urges and watched 10 minutes of pictures of an Escort that i wanted to fuck(stupidity i wont do that , i Will get better) , i didnt M neither O but still i sow those images , should i reset my count?

I've been aware of Nofap since about 2014. Here are my thoughts: Rather than tackle an entire addiction that has taken years and years to ingrain, it's better to tackle this relapse by relapse (IMO). The thing is, aiming for perfection I've found, is not really sustainable. E.g. let's say you...

So guys it's been 40 days I don't watch porn and things are a lot confusing, I mean all the nights I even have very strange dreams. Lets say I masturbated for years and of time of the day watching porn, having the escalation from normal porn to hentai, cuckold, trans and finishing in gay and...

Little bit of story about me: I've had sex with around 100 women and I'm in my mid twenties. I have an addiction to women. When I have sex, I'm very aroused and have no problems coming. Also I've been fapping for a long time. I started dating this amazing girl recently. She's brillant, and...

Something that I've always struggled with and still continue to struggle with is being overly aroused at all times. I've spoken about this to very close friends before and they've always said, "Holy hell, do I wish I was you! That sounds amazing!" Well they really don't get it. I can't sit at...

ive stumbled across a video from Hypnotica about creating raw emotions of lust, unstoppable sensuality and uncontrollable feelings of lust in women. In the video ( wont post it, its graphic). It was showed that men can easily arouse women so hard, that they almost fall all over you. Im not...

I'm a bit embarrassed to bring this up, but seriously wondering if and how I will ever get around this. In short, I get really turned on when girls reject me (and kind of turned off when they are really into me) - is this just the classic "only wanting what I can't have"? I also get turned on...

How often do you get horny? My nofap motivation is anti-sexuality. It's not practical denying your own nature but it's a worthwhile challenge I believe. So initially my approach was not fapping for months if possible a year or maybe years. After a couple of attempts I made a 7 month streak. It...

Guys i was a heavily addicted to PMO, porn, and obsessively doing 4-6 times of ejaculation a day... luckily i come to know about this wonderful #NOFAP which not only changes addiction, also changes a person life entirely productive and making ourself better... as of now ive completed 65 days of...

What are your thoughts on being aroused while chatting with someone attractive? I find it’s easy for me to be aroused when I get attention from someone I’m interested in. One implication of that is that the other party could also be aroused by said attention. Is it prude-ish to be cautious...

Okay so I may end up asking what may seem like a stupid question here, but I'm focusing more on the mechanics of erections and whatnot lately because I feel I focus on sex too much in general -- especially during the act because I'm nervous due to PIED and whatnot, which is bad. Anyway I was...

Let me explain. Reading at these forums i found a post that differences/discriminates between "arousal" caused by porn that makes you to M without any kind of natural need of. And the natural arousal that it is the real and healthy arousal that everyone should have. How does it feel that natural...

Hello everyone.. During last week i had a flatline that now is ending eheh what about this new phase? Is this period harder than others? And how can i be sure that reboot has worked??

I wanna know if there is any way I could not break my PMO streak but still arouse myself somehow. Emphasis on the fact that I still want to be AROUSED/TURNED ON by something. I know about the dopamine stuff and all, but I get bored when ignoring the hornyness and trying to distract myself. I...