attraction

Do you know men who have a partner where she is taller than him? im sorta in a long distance relationship with someone I haven't met yet (will soon) but she is 4cm taller than me. So i don't wanna put my expectations too high that she'll be attracted in me or whatever, I wanna be ready if we...

Are there certain type of jobs that make a woman more attractive to you? If so, which ones?

Greetings. 36 yo male, for background refer to my post on the new section. Have fun! I have quit all of my other addictions, been 3 years sober now, but weekend comes and I dread not having girls to have sex with. I was in a monogamous relationship for the past 3 years, broke up in april, and...

Hello everyone, I registered today and I am proud of being an officiall fapstronaut now. I started consuming porn at around age 12, really cant remember anymore. First there werent really any changes in my mood. Back in this time (around 14) i was fit, extroverted, did well in school, and had...

I first heard about NoFap in 2016. At the time, I didn't think I was addicted to porn. I always thought addiction meant "severe" addiction but addiction really does look different for everyone or perhaps I was just in denial. At the time, I had a door to door job which for some reason I liked...

My last thread was August 26, at this moment (Sep 7) is my 101 days streak. All the benefits is continuing to going on and on. I'm not intended to explain this hyperbolically, just reporting as objective : my colleagues, my friends, on college almost always greet me wherever i walking past such...

Gentlemen… I’ve been struggling for over a decade with pmo. My longest streak was around 100 days back in 2019 then I relapsed after hooking up with a girl. I’ve been off nofap and back on it throughout the years and now I’m on 21 days in it again and I feel more… present and grateful to be...

Ok, now I am in no way implying that NoFap is going to make you look like Brad Pitt after 90 days or whatever, but I, along with many other people believe that NoFap generally makes you more attractive. Whenever I relapse, my face looks more puffy and feels more oily/greasy, and about a day or...

Ever since I'm starting to genuinely talk to a girl more in a friendly manner I'm starting to get some serious attractive girls and even some girls that are quite hard to know because their personality. I also enjoy it more, the conversation becomes more wide and enjoyable. Because flirting...

An old friend from school texted me, asking me if I know a good psychologist. He wants to break up from this girl he is been 6 years now. They girl has depression and they are no longer together since 2009. He is a film director and also a nice guy. He has allowed the girl to live in his house...

I have no or why this started but lately I have been getting turned by fat women [I did not get this from watching porn for your information.] But lately I notice myself fantasizing about fat women as well and not just sexually, I had a dream last night where a fat woman was holding a baby and...

Let’s feel free to talk about this. Because there are many claims, it’s about a 2 minute read, but feel free to express thoughts on this awesome benefit. Today is day 10 for me, tomorrow will be day 11. Today is the day I started noticing my voice getting deeper and I started to notice the...

I say neither, because you become artificial you have to be you when dealing with people, I love authenticity in others and if I see someone playing games, a girl just acting cold on purpose I leave. When I'm me, I'm spontaneous, confident, funny, seductive. I trust in myself and that my...

I'm on day 24 of my hard-mode reboot. I have (and think have always had) trouble being horny when I'm simply around someone that I find attractive. I'll get hard if we start kissing or something, but if we're just hanging out, I almost never get an erection naturally. And these are people I want...

So I was reading a thread regarding women wearing revealing and skimpy clothes and getting looks from men. It had woken up a long-time lingering thought in the back of my head: It is kinda easy for women to dress so that they get a lot from attention from men. Question is, does this work the...

I have recently thought about that women are attractive in two types of ways (this is my personal experience). First there is the universal way. You know if someones 8, 9 or 10 everyone can agree on that. Everybody can see those good genes. Then the second way or thing is (I came up with this...

I never thought I'd get over this. I honestly just wanted to give up PMO and have a girlfriend that was OK with being dominant. Hopefully this gives some hope for anyone going through similar things. I've tried to stay on track the last few years. Averaging about 1 month no PMO at a time, and...

I remember when I was on a 60 day streak, I joined a sports club. And we were teamed up by our instructor each round I believe. The vast majority there was guys. One time the timer rung and one blonde girl was without a partner. So the instructor was thinking aloud, should she go to...

Good morning guys just looking to clear my head here. I started nofap because I have PIED, I am at day 30. I think I am at a flatline maybe? I seem to have no sex drive. The problem is I got hooked on a very specific fap material and now i’m worried my normal attraction to women isn’t coming...

So , today is my Nofap Monkmode/Hardmode (not using porn,NoM,NoPMO, Noedging,Nosex) 185th day.And also to include, I am on 23rd day till my last wet dream. And 197th day of no porn , I will share my experience and benefits I got from this and how I feel these days now. So let's get started...... Let's...

I am on 172nd day of Nofap-MonkMode (NoPMO Noedging Nosex) and on 184th day of not using porn to include . My addiction of these things have gone I can say that . Only some urges comes that I can control. So I am writing this as I wanted to tell you that I got these so many benifits of Nofap Monkmode...

I keeps coming back sometimes hard sometimes not so hard. I have given up porn and masturbating, whilst its only been a week and a half I want this gone. How long did it take all of you guys individually to get it finally gone? It makes me want to break up with my girlfriend when i dont want...

I Am 15 and i at 9 years i watched my first porn and became addited. I deeply knew that it was wrong and brought me away from my pourpose but the addiction became to strong and i became depressed. My root Chakra and my life Energy with the connention to this life became weak and my brain became...

So, as a preface, I'm a bit of a perfectionist. I may not admit it in normal conversation, but deep down I know that I am. I stand at 5'9.5" in the morning, and it decreases throughout the day by roughly a half an inch. Admittedly, I know that this is not a bad height per se, being the average...

I have decided to check whether Sexual Transmutation Magic works or not on my self. I will post all the magic stuff that, if happens during this NOFAP journey starting today i.e. 13th March 2020. Earlier I was in PMO for long streaks 200+ days, But relapsed. Anyways Today is my Day1 and I am...

Okay so this October 30th (2019), I ended my 47 day no PMO streak. I'm still truggling to fight the addiction, and that has been the longest I've been without it in 5 years. That's crazy. Even though I've fapped many times since then, I still have a lot of benefits due to my average nofap...

i have spent over a year overcoming addictions and compulsions. first, it was substance-related. i had large buy-in to knowing the detrimental risks that i was taking and it was definitely helpful in overcoming the substance issues. i also had to overcome a serious love addiction and exit out of...

Hey everyone I have an off topic discussion that is kind rattling my mind lately. Recently there is this woman at work that I find very attractive and she is kind of a bigger woman.. Every so often she changes her hair color and style and I want to give her compliments or something. She has an...

Hey Guys, Just wanted to share with you that I noticed 2 things since starting nofap. #1. It gets easier. Since I have now had practice and experience with going on streaks of no porn or masterbation and eventually no edging, its gotten much easier to go longer and longer. #2. The “super...

Hey ladies and gentleman. I've had a slight problem with dating all the time. I'll set up a online dating profile and actually meet an awesome woman that is really into me and eventually we start dating online. But the catch is always that some woman in real life starts liking me afterwords. I...

Okay, so I’ve been practicing nofap for over a year now. I’ve been on and off streaks and my highest has been 70 days so far. (planning on beating that) My current streak at the time I posted this is 20 days. This streak has been different though, because my last few I have cheated and peaked a...

I've found myself admiring women, especially my age, that are more tasteful, not narcissistic, and not reserved necessarily, who enjoy having another intellect to speak with. Though this intelligence is not the end-all-be-all. Sexuality is important and a healthy amount of attention and...

34M with PIED. It’s been a good reboot. Feeling more like a man and getting semis and great morning woods. My gf has had her period and we’ve always had an excuse not to have sex. She’s told me in numerous occasions that my PIED has taken away her attraction as I wasn’t acting like a true man...

Hey everyone. This post has kind of to do with the charisma I guess or Essence of a Man/Woman? My question is does porn deplete the Essence of a Man/Woman. I've felt that allot of the reason's why Men/Woman are attracted to each other is because of there distinct characteristics. Doesn't...

Hi all Just found this place and wondering if my porn addictions are connected to how I am with women... I’m 38 never married, had several long term relationships but they have always got to the point where I’m bored of the sex... in between these relationships I’ve slept around, and it’s like...

Hi, first time here, I'm so ashamed. I have depression and on antidepressant pills. Also porn addict. I stopped my pills a few weeks ago. At the same time I started Nofap. I got huge depression and lost all attraction to my girlfriend through 2 years and feel emotionally blunted. Now I went...

after hundreds of failed attempts over the last 3/4 years using nothing but willpower and and countless website blockers, i have decided to sign up to this site to gain almighty wisdom and support on this journey, as well as support anybody else also struggling! im 27 and have been fapping...

I’m having difficulties meeting women; since I quit drinking about a year and half ago. I find it’s harder to find a girl or socialize with someone while their drunk. I still go out to parties and clubs, but never build the nerve to close the deal. Where’s a good place for meeting sober people...

The reason for me writing this post are many but the primary purpose is to show other men who are struggling with their lives that it is possible to do a 180 degree turn in relatively short time. Being on NoFap hard-mode has helped me greatly in this demanding challenge. So these are some of my...

My first post on nofap. This is tough because googling what’s wrong with me is always a negative reinforcement and I’m a bit afraid of what some comments may be...here we go. I’m 25. Been with my wife for 7 years and married 3. She is good and loving and sensitive and God-fearing and caring and...

I been on Nofap for 2 weeks and have been noticing some female attention.... but it's not flattering female attention. Its actually discouraging. I kept catching girls looking at me like they're disgusted and I'm the ugliest guy in the world. Better to get no attention at all. Lol.

ive stumbled across a video from Hypnotica about creating raw emotions of lust, unstoppable sensuality and uncontrollable feelings of lust in women. In the video ( wont post it, its graphic). It was showed that men can easily arouse women so hard, that they almost fall all over you. Im not...

Hey guys what's good? I'm here to tell a story about women attraction. It's 4am and I just got back from a party in my city. I usually go to that kinda parties at least one time a month. We have a lot of fun dancing with girls. But tonight was a different one. Yesterday I relapsed, after a 8...

Im curious to what many answer because I am in a relationship and am just starting nofap

Hi guys I would like to ask a simple question. Imagine you fapping/porning for 20 years. And because you see loads of pornstars and porn itself you are attracted to high-end very attractive women. If you do long enough nofap and not using porn, can that make you be attracted to less physically...

Hi guys. I just started me reboot to finally kick this nasty habit. My question is since I started my reboot I feel as if im am checking out girls/women even more than before. I understand it is normal to look at people we find attractive but I feel as if I am staring at literally EVERY SINGLE...

Hi there. This is my first post in the forums. I started my NoPMO journey (Hard Mode) more than 100 days ago. I am naturally a very introverted person and never had friends. It is not that I needed friends but could not get one, but it's like I never felt I needed one. I have trained myself...

The question is pretty simple but I'll explain in deeper. There is a lot of science with many different interpretations going around out there. Like the 7 days testosterone spike or the androgen receptors reduction in rats and way more other stuff. But it basically leads to nothing and gives no...

Female attraction is real if ur on nofap. Here is something that happened to me. When I was in college, I was living inside a co-ed dorm with coed washrooms. I was 18 and it was the second month I have fapped in my entire life. I was taking a shower, and there was some gap a person could use...

Guys.. I don't need to explain it you, what is PMO. You already know how it works... Now I would like to know your views on my question related to Law of Attraction. While Masturbating, aren't we do what Law of Attraction tell us to do. By doing that we attract what we think of? In other...

Hi fellow Fapstronauts, I've been noticing lately that women are flirting with me, wherever I go. That was not a case before going into hardmode. I thought it was just my imagination at first, but now I get more invitations to drink, then I can handle. What are your observations?

I'm fantasizing a person since many years who is close to me. Now i began the nofap journey and struggling to cope up. Anyone with any ideas on how to get rid of these fantasies. I can't avoid that person as I meet her everyday. I have seen her from my young age at a very close(and hot)range...

Guys I was in the 14th day of nofap. And yesterday night while I was sleeping, I came without my knowledge (I was in the sub conscious level). Is it okay or should I consider it a relapse and start all over again.

So I have heard there are some very beneficial superpowers you get from abstaining long enough. and I have heard that one I've read about is attraction from the other gender, and was just wondering how many days it took to notice these powers?? and I know it varies for most but I just want an...

Hi, first time i started NoFap was December 2016 unfortunately it only lasted 10 days after my friend told me i was crazy, came home and relapsed. Next time I tried again in August 2017 and did it for month and a half, honestly I never had that kind of confidence. Experienced new kind of WILL...

Ok, so a pretty long text . I am 22 and have had a pretty traumatic up bringing where there was constant conflict in my life. When I was young I always crushed on men and never really thought about women but then when I was older and checked out porn I felt extremely aroused , especially...

So this weird, I was on a 6 day streak, unfortunately I broke it and relapsed, jerked off to porn twice. Usually I would be so tired, fatigued, feeling depressed and shitty, regretting what I had just done. But this time was so different, I ejaculated and still had energy and motivation. I went...

Why do we find certain types of people attractive? Does our culture and environment make us attracted to what we're attracted to? Does the media play its part? I use to find a certain kind of woman really unattractive when I was in my teens and early twenties, but now I find these types of...

I believe that women can sense that there is something violently wrong with PMO. It is well noted that porn is highly unfavorable among wives, and girlfriends. We have all heard the stories of wives, or girlfriends finding out about the pornographic use of their spouses, or boyfriends...

(I'm a girl ) Last night I was at a club with a guy friend and I had several guys who stared at me but didn't approach me At some point I asked for a cigarette to a group of guys and they said more than once that I was very beautiful. One asked me "what are you gonna give me in return?" I...

so I was on a streak of 24 and relapsed...sadly, but now I am committed and making my way back up. But I was just wondering if I’ll be just as funny and feel just as I did before with the superpowers I had. Or could it be worse? I hope it’s better but idk. Because I was hitting it off really...

Hi, What's the best way to express your true feelings to a woman you're attracted to? In my experience simply going up to them and telling them that I think they're sexy just gets a "thanks" and the conversation dies immediately. However the alternative of focusing on getting to know them...

Yep, I'm talking about venusian arts. We'll share ideas and experiences. I'm sure our game will improve. Actually I haven't found any since the day I joined NoFap. I hope someone somewhere is reading this right now.

Hey guys,i discovered PMO in my 9th grade and since then I'm regularly addicted to it. I'm 22 now and till now what I have understood is that i am no longer interested in any random P. I want something better and hornier P which is increasing gradually. I feel that it has affected me in many...

Sometimes I feel like I lose sight of why I've started nofap. But I always find a way to remind myself of why I started, and what my goals are. That's why I'm a part of this community. I wanted to share with you all a clip of one of my favorite authors, Jordan Peterson-- a very skillful...

Hey guys, I'm now 13 days into nofap and things have been going relatively well. I was never really addicted to porn but it was something that I just did everyday since I was in 7th grade and I am now almost 22. My main motivation behind this is that I am just now recently getting over my HOCD...

Whenever I go on particularly long streaks (10+ days), I tend to notice I become increasingly sexually interested in women I otherwise wouldn't be and for all intents and purposes, shouldn't be. This is problematic because I'm not one to go through the hoops to have casual sex. I'm in it for the...

Yeah.... There is a huge elephant in the room and it is so awkward. The problems are; She is really shy, which makes conversation difficult I am not generally shy but I am when trying to communicate with her She is only 15 so I think I need to wait anyway. But I really like her, she is very...