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Why is an insidious subculture going uncontested on social media? My question is meant to challenge an assumption that is so common here, that the onus for improving rests on healing wounded individuals. Conversely, that those who do wrong do so because they are defective. It is true that...

I really want to see a dominatrix. I enjoy the experience and want to try it again, but i feel like this is bad for so many reasons. It is expensive, the connection is tied with money and is limited, bdsm is viewed in a bad light by many, etc. I feel conflicted, but i dont know what to do. I...

I was exposed to bdsm porn before even discovering the normal porn, i came across it on facebook one day when i was 10 years old, believe it or not, I was just a little kid, an innocent kid, using my dad's phone checking facebook after finishing my homework for school, just watching funny...

I joined NoFap journey in december and today it is around 75th day without PMOing, I stopped countung long time ago, sometimes I have urge but I really easy avoid that. I think I am done with P forever. The thing that is going around my head is that I watched BDSM much more that “normal” P and I...

I started watching porn regularly at a very young age. I was exposed to porn around the age of 10 and began watching it on my own around age 12-13. Since then I've compulsively watched porn multiple times a day, I hate it. I am now 20 years old and in the past few years I have escalated to...

Hey guys. Sorry, English is not my native language though I love English and I've been studying it a lot but if you notice grammar error or something else, please skip it:) Now I wanna tell my story. When I was 9 or 10 years old, I opened a porn site somehow(I don't know how I did it!) and the...

hi , i have impulsive porn addiction for porn escilly kinks and fetishes and i have premature ejaculation sometimes erectile dysfunction . i wanna should i do nofap or semen retention (masturbation without ejaculation) what is better for me because everytime i think about practsing nofap i...

Hello, i Am 17 year Old,I started Nofap Like 3 months ago, but i failed over and over, my longest streak was 19 days, Now im day 17 And im getting serious about it. i am addicted to porn like for 3 years. FEMDOM/BDSM/CUCKOLD/FOOT FETISH(foot fetish i dont mind tho, but yeah) im seeing...

For literally as long as I can remember, I've been into BDSM. Dom. I've watched sooooo much hardcore BDSM porn throughout the years. In adulthood, I read a post talking about how if you liked self bondage you might want that domination and merely have trust issues. I had experimented with self...

For literally as long as I can remember, I've been into BDSM. Dom. I've watched sooooo much hardcore BDSM porn throughout the years. In adulthood, I read a post talking about how if you liked self bondage you might want that domination and merely have trust issues. I had experimented with self...

Hello everyone! I'm sorry if you find my English bad a little bit, it's not my original language. Anyway, for now I'm on 33day of NoFap (Hard Mode) and it's my first time to try it. I'm not counting days and living day by day. I'm a sadist and I love hitting and humiliating girls during sex...

Today is the first day after long streak of nofap, it was more than 55 days, i relapsed in 5 or 4 days in each day I was relapsing a lot,and today is the first day after these days,but I feel strong guilt and shame of my self, in addition to there is some porn pop up in my head it's weak but...

Doing PM here and on day 34. Until day 30 it was a near-hard mode. But since D30 all hell broke loose. I had sex 4 times in 4 days which even exceeds the M rate of before. I also introduce hardcore and bdsm practices to IRL sex with both wife and mistress. This includes unplanned seeing of...

TRIGGER WARNING**** MY FEMDOM STORY let me tell me about myself how this all started....I hope you are okay to hear my story and i haven't told this to anyone till this date i think it was at the age of 12 i started getting attracted toward feet...i used to admire my class teacher's feet...i...

Hey guys! As the title suggests, I'll talk about some fetishes and there are going to be triggers. If you are easily triggered, please turn back. So, I've been doing a lot of reading into the psychology of fetishes lately in order to learn more about me and how certain fetishes developed and I...

I've been on this road a long time. I've started making attempts to stop this degenerate habit during my teenage years. I'm 28 now. I've read spiritual books, self-help books, watched lots of the nofap you-tube videos and have read the forums on this website/reddit over the years. They've all...

I am now about a week away from 90 days on Nofap and I really wanted to here what you think. The post might be a little long, but even if you can´t help, I think it will be very motivational for you. Short version: I´ve had weird sexual (innate) fetishes for a lot of years which I have...

This is something that has been on my mind massively. Since well before starting the PM reboot. Before even considering it. Warning; this is a rant. TL;DR version is basically porn is unnatural and bad, and I think made a mess of my head and I'm still figuring out just how much. I've been...

Brothers, sisters, I have been addicted to torture and BDSM hentai. I could not stop pouring liquids all over my body and start touching myself everywhere. The nipples, the feet, the thighs, the chest. Which eventually led to me being unable to resist thus I masturbated until I reach orgasm...

i have strong urges to that I’m having a really hard time shaking. I’ve always had a really strong interest in BDSM - and not just the light stuff like furry cuffs but the whole “dungeon” scenario with lots of kinks - but my wife couldn’t be more opposite. She has low sex drive, experiences pain...

hello all - hoping to get this communities advice on my nofap journey. To quickly summarize I have abused P and M for a number of years, driven first by some bisexual curiosities but then escalating into some BDSM fetishes that began to take over my life. I am married to a woman and she knows...

I hear a lot of women talk about "rape culture" in our society. The places where I see most latent "rape culture" are in movies, novels, and fiction that women adore and flock to in droves. 50 shades(women loved it), and all the other "romance novels" even though we all know they are just rapey...

So there's a part of my journey that I've been struggling to come to terms with in my head, and I wondered if anyone had any opinions... For some context, my fetish was something that was of interest to me (in a non-sexual setting) from a very young age and developed into a sexual fetish later...

I've started an account here maybe about a month ago and still keep relapsing. I don't even think I've made it to a week without going back to those sites. For me, these places are much more addictive than porn, especially the one with the initials CS. Everyone's profile is festooned with...

Problem: Greetings, everyone. I have been on this forum before but "fell off the wagon" tumbled down the mountain and hit every branch of failure on the way down. I'm here to try this again... As you all know addiction is a progression, just as a heroin addict has to keep upping their dose, so...

I’ll start by saying, I have looked at all “31 flavors” of porn over the years and some of them (such as jailbait and other underage fantasy) have really messed me up mentally and emotionally. This caused me to think I am a certain type of person just because I viewed certain porn genres, which...

I'm sick and tired of porn ruining my life, my marriage and my brain. I have been hooked on porn since I was 14 years old. Met my first love when I was 17 and we got married right after I turned 20(June-02-12). After we got married I slowly started watching more and more porn. By 3 years of...

Hello, literally half of my life has been weighted down with this horrible addiction. If I'd grown up in an age without the internet or somehow never made contact with porn etc, I truly believe I would be in a much more successful position in my life, and probably a far better, more honest, less...

Hi Guys, As you probably suspect, I have problems with porn addiction. More specifically, I started to masturbate with BDSM porn at 16-17, shortly thereafter I became addicted. I just had BDSM thoughts all the time, it got so bad that sometimes I watched porn for days, uninterrupted. Really...

So... due to my obvious problems(why else am I here right?) I started to have extremely rough sex with my GF. She was also a PMO addict so she was sort of into it but I took it to another level. Very hard, fast, and deep motions with choking and slapping(her idea as well)... this became normal...

So I figured out why our p-brains always want to go back and look at images, websites, and videos, even when we aren't horny. Ever heard of the fear of missing out? It's why I want to keep looking at twitter accounts about So's so's feet. Or new foot videos. Or them talking about something while...

Hey everyone, It feels weird posting here again. About a week ago I broke a 134 day record. It was a fairly casual record though, since I did not abstain from masturbation, only porn. But it turns out it wasn't enough and my urges caught up with me. In the week that followed I lost all self...

Greetings from the Frontier A query: Is talking to 'them' just as bad? We'll get to that... Intro: I'm 26 and on my first real NoFap journey - 22 days in, no MO and one great big internal confrontation over what "P" has come to mean in my life. Now you're probably wondering, who are 'they?'...

Hello to everyone, I am here for asking help to someone who is in the same situation of mine, or simply to talk a bit about my situation and don't keep it just for me. I am sorry if I do some grammar mistake, but I am not an English mother tongue speaker. This problem started 2-3 years ago...

Hi, I'm Troy, my friends always call me that name. I'm from Indonesia and I'm ready to change and stop. Currently, i'm always find exciting when i watch BDSM Porn. I always get the excitement when i'm thinking that if i can slip on some latex catsuit and being tortured or humiliated, and imagine...

Every time I see a beautiful I fantasizing about them; I also think I have HOCD, I've fantasized about being with men and have watched gay porn. I have a BDSM and DOM fetish which my girlfriend and I regularly practice. I'm slightly ashamed of these thoughts I have but I can't stop them...

Hi, I'm M! I'm new to the community but I've been wanting to do this for a long time. I have a porn and masturbation fixation. My father committed suicide the first week of March 2017, and as his only daughter, I have been dealing with his estate. It has made me realize that if I continue...

Hey guys, I need some advice. Right now I'm almost 6 days into rebooting and it's getting harder and harder every day. I hoped I would gain energy from quitting porn but quiet the opposite is happening. It's taking so much energy to just abstain from relapsing I have nothing left for anything...