blue balls

I want to zoom in and focus on edging. Let's single this activity/habit out. In this thread, forget about masturbation with or without porn if and when there's no edging involved. First, let's define EDGING: It is an orgasm control technique which involves the maintenance of high levels of...

Hello all- So my case may be complicated so I will try to summarize: my wife and I had a baby 3 months ago and about a month ago, she was cleared for sexual activity so we went for it after not being intimate for about 7 months as she had a tough pregnancy. During that time I probably went...

hi , i have impulsive porn addiction for porn escilly kinks and fetishes and i have premature ejaculation sometimes erectile dysfunction . i wanna should i do nofap or semen retention (masturbation without ejaculation) what is better for me because everytime i think about practsing nofap i...

When I'm around men or just doing my own hobbies I tend to be more confident afterwards. But I tend to be very nervous and shy around women I will admit that I am a bit of an introvert so I don't really talk much or express myself but I've noticed that that I tend to be more talkative and...

Hi all, I posted this on my my recovery journal, but wanted to put the question out here a little more publicly, to hear if anyone had further opinions. Thanks in advance to anyone who has advice! ------- I'd love some advice on something: As mentioned above, yesterday (day 4 of no PMO) I had...

Hi, Im new here so sorry if Im posting in the wrong section. In short i have not orgasmed for the past 2 weeks but there were times when i would edge. That being said everything was going fine until yesterday when late Afternoon I edged. Sometime during the night I woke up and noticed that I...

So, i' ve been 9 days into nofap. and since day 6 my right testicle has swollen incredibly as compared to the left one. It also hurts a lot on touching. On self-examining it more carefully, there's actually a painful lump on the top of my right testicle from where the vas deferens joins. Now, i...

I recently had blue balls, blue balls so bad that I could t sleep. I looked up methods and nothing worked. However, ejaculating is supposed to work and help it (obviously). So I did that, I didn’t do it to porn just to help the pain. Should I consider this a relapse or a slip up or neither? P.S...

Greetings, made a conscious decision to abstain from fapping as a result from a couple of recent fap binges I didn't find healthy. The issue for me is binging. Sometimes I can fap once and be fine but usually it leads to a binge which is concerning. Because of that I am looking for change. I...

Just a quick question. What would happen if during my no PMO reboot time I get so aroused that I end up having Blue Balls and they hurt as hell? Would it be wrong to just MO to let go of the pain? Or should I control the pain and hold myself?

I am doing the 90 day challenge and I am now at day 6, the problem is I feel motivelessly tired and I have the so-called Blue Balls. In these 6 days I had orgasm twice just by sex dreams. I don't know what to do now, hold on? restart?

Excluding masturbation or sex, of course.

Hello guys is been more than a month since i ejaculated and i havent experienced the blue balls yet,will i experience it too or it doesnt happen to everyone??

I'm on day 10, day 11 will start soon. But the problem of testicles pain started from last 2/3 days. Mostly since I'm stopped masturbation. I want to know is it normal or not any advice please.

This is my story about my 40+ day nofap journey after leaving hospital today, while taking Xyvelam, Diclac and some other stuff to shrink my oversized balls. This story is about huge benefits as well, as downsides of doing nofap. A must read for younger nofappers. About me: I'm Inski, 36 years...

I understand from experience the benefits of abstaining from PMO, therefore I am going to gain these benefits. Should I get tired I'll try and pop on here and write something. Any love would be appreciated. Especially interested in semen retention and hitting the 365, I mean I'm nearly not 29 :D...

Okay dear ex-fappers here is a willing commando trying to recover from his ED probably caused by PMO. Today I’m extremely freaked out on my day 12 of NoFap. Let me put this from the very beginning today I woke up with an regular morning wood realized someone has woken up earlier than me anyways...

Good evening guys this is my first ever post so i hope i get some support. I've just decided to stop masturbating and this is something i've been struggling with for almost 7 years. i've been a daily masterbater ever since i was young but thankfully it became less recently by it being between...

Hi, yeah, I'm new to all this. I'm on day 5 PMO, and never tried this before. Though always thought that abstinence might be the doorway to enlightenment and happiness. Well, maybe. I'm married for over 15 years, and I think, in retrospect, that porn has probably always been a barrier to decent...

So I've been with this girl for awhile now and things are starting to get sexual. I'm in my early stages of a reboot from PMO and I am wondering how to handle this situation. One of my biggest problems at the moment is that when we hangout, I get blue balls pretty bad due to all the fooling...

MSM stands for Methylsulfonylmethane. It's chemical compound naturally found in green plants. It can be bought as a natural supplement. Some people use it for joint pain and it's also supposed to be good for nails, hair and reducing overall inflammation. I found about this by stumbling on a...

we’ll since I’m new I would like to introduce myself ..first all I’m a mixed guy(Latino/Chinese)I’m 34 years old and live in the Northwest, growing up all my life I enjoyed masturbating since I had know I could do it ,it hunk I stared when I was 11 years old so for me it was something really...

Please be wary if these may be triggers for you. And this post is very extense, so if you want to read a lot, then this is the place. Hello everyone. I'm a man and I'm 25 years old and I have decided to end this addiction, I want to share my story and I hope you can help me, I will be as...

Hey all. This is something I have been wondering about since the beginning of my nofap journey. Is it OK to go back to masturbating? There is a saying which is very true on life and that is "everything in moderation". So I am wondering, if a couple months or years down the line, can I go back to...

Hello everyone. I have been MO and P free for some time now but I have not had sex with my wife for over 2 months, we are in the divorce process. I have not edged myself and have stayed pretty clear of triggers. The discomfort from not ejaculating is increasing and is a daily nuisance. I have...

A few weeks ago, my girlfriend tried performing oral sex on me, and nearly 20 minutes had passed and I couldn’t cum for the life of me. We both decided to stop, and since then I’ve been worried about my sex life and whether I’ve been masturbating too much, and too abnormally. I take 5-10 minutes...

My biggest issue is difficulties sleeping. That being said I think I'm sleeping better or reaching a new norm. I have recently started to date may ex and let me tell you she has never looked so good, damn, I got the most wicked set of blue balls from hell after edging from being around her...

Hello, I have been on NoFap for a week or two and it's probably time that I introduce myself here. Though I have been trying to give up masturbation and porn for a few years and I have known about NoFap for awhile, it is only recently that I joined. A few decades of excessive porn and...

Hi Nofappers! So I’m new to NoFap. I’ve reflected on how much PMO has changed my life in a negative way and I want to quit. However, the urge to relapse just grows stronger and strongers as the days go by. Plus, once I get blue balls I know the urge to “empty my tank” will grow stronger. I...

So I quit porn and masturbating on December 26th. I had sex three times since then but only ejaculated two times (December 31st and January 1st) So I haven't had an orgasm in one week. I really want to feel all the benefits of no PMO so I told my girlfriend, I would like to keep from...

I’ve got symptoms on day 50 where I feel like my head is about to explode, my eyes are teary, throat is numb and there are aches and pains throughout my body. There is also a dull ache in my right testicle and I cannot sleep as I had a coffee earlier in the day. As far as I’m aware I haven’t...

Day 14 was awesome till right about a few minutes ago, when my balls started hurting in fucking pluses. Guess blue balls are real. To be honest, it is a bit exciting but i really find the pain fucked to a different level. Boy OH BOY it hurts. Like a 6/10 at the moment (10 being a kick in the...

As up this date (11/26/2017) , I'm nearly reaching the month of no PMO (27 days total), but I have great fear over one thing that happen quite often. I often get erections simply by imaging sexual events right before I go to sleep. I fear I might get "blue balls" and I'll have to masturbate to...

Here's the thing. I've been doing NoFap Hardmode 27 days. While i was in college, i fantasized about a past sexual experience with my gf and i started to get hard but not complete. Before nofap my penis would be dead if I fantasized about that. Is that an improve about PIED? After a few minutes...

Hey guys, I'm fairly new to NoFap, and I'm writing this because I'm extremely anxious about something. Before I start, let me share my story: So basically, I'm 23 and my new girlfriend and I were making out last week when she was petting/rubbing my inner thighs in a public area. That made me...

Can anyone point me to the science behind this? There seem to be two schools of thought: The longer a man goes without ejaculating, the more there is an internal build up (of something??) resulting in increased desire that needs to find an outlet. There is no such thing for a man as a physical...

To summarise, I'm on day 3. I recently became aware of my wanking habit when I caught myself masturbating over an instagram photo of a girl I once had a fling with. You may argue I am crazy but I actually told me girlfriend. Partly as an attempt to give myself the wake up call I really needed...

I'm prone to blue ball if I don't get a release after I get horny. What are some coping methods I can use to deal with this

I have abstained from PMO for longer periods before, but it's been a while. My day counter below is marking PMO, but I have gone without MO for 15 days now. At first, you feel kinda horny but the battle is mostly mental. Once you pass a week, the mental battle is less, in the sense of just...

I'm on day 7 of my current no PMO streak. Longest I've made it is 11 days. This time around, I've been dealing with "blue balls" for 3 days now. The bad news is I know breaking the streak will alleviate the pain. The good news is I'm on day 3 and I'm not screaming in agony or anything like...

Title speaks for itself. Saw a few sexy pics in my Instagram feed and a few mins later my testes were on fire. Planning to overcome past addiction to porn and readjust myself but I don't wanna be in public with sore balls. Advice?

So this is my first post on these forums, but I’ve been following them closely - and have to say a massive thanks to the community, you’re an inspiration and true help. Some quick background: I’m 33, and have been addicted to masturbation since I was 13. My trigger isn’t so much porn (albeit I...

I'm on day 8 of my reboot and I'm getting blue balls. My testicles are starting to become painful. Someone give me some advice on what to do and how to deal with it! Obviously I can't masturbate to relieve myself otherwise that defeats the point haha

Lurker turned poster here. I decided to share my story (going against my natural internet tendencies) in the hope that it may bolster others out there struggling. If you like, skip my history as it could trigger you. I've included it nevertheless as it helps give a fuller picture of my success...