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  1. Fenix Rising

    The question is not why the addiction, but why the pain

    Hi fellow Fapstronauts, I've been rereading dr. Gabor Mate's wonderful book In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts and would like to share some of his insights that struck me hard: ______________ “I’m not going to ask you what you were addicted to,” I often say to people, “nor when, nor for how long...
  2. FTI

    KPOP?!

    Assalaamu 'alaikum, everyone. There is something I want to ask your opinion about: What do you think of KPOP? For me, it's hypersexualised due to all the provocative movements and tight or minimal clothing used. In addition, to meet the messed up beauty standards of the public, contracts require...
  3. Awakened & Aware

    Analysis of causes of relapses

    Experienced people probably know this, but I realised the following recently - in last 1 to 2 years of my 15+ year old struggle against PMO: Cause 1: Majority of my relapses started with "anxiousness/frustration in other areas of work/life", rather than temptations. Basically using PMO as...
  4. Fenix Rising

    That's why stopping PMO is so difficult

    It's all in your brains, for many cause lies in subconscious early age traumas. You're fighting against your primal reptile part of brains. Our compulsive addictive behavior is engraved in neuropathways. It really doesn't matter what your addiction is. What matters the most is for how long and...
  5. RUN-YOU-FOOL

    Masturbating, but no real sex?

    Good day, Having enjoyed written pornography and masturbation since the age of 10. However I have never fallen in love with anyone, nor have I ever enjoyed sexual activity as soon as somebody else is involved. The stories that arouse me are far from the typical lovemaking. I have been with...
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