cheating

Yes, I am a cheater. I was cheated on once before. It is probably one of the hardest things I have ever had to experience. I swore to myself that I would never do that to another person and I believed it. I lived by that for most of my life. Then I became the cheater. There are a lot of...

I want this journey to be based on accountability and truth. Please do not excuse my actions for any reason. I am in the wrong. I have been in two relationships with my current girlfriend. There is little doubt that she broke my heart in the first instance. I thought we would never get back...

Hello folks, This is my first post. I am 24 and am now on an extended NoFap journey. Last year I had a panic attack in the spring. Since then I've also been in therapy because I also want to work through a lot of things from my childhood and with my parents. Over the last few years, PMO has...

Look guys well i have come up with the nofap formula and here it is M=B+MF-MM Masturbation = Bed + Mind Fog - Mental Fortitude 1. Bed This part is very easy. According to me 99% of all masturbation happens in Bed, and when lying in bed you are more likely to masturbate, especially when you...

Hi, I'm here for the first time because I want to change my life and my attitude towards sex. I used to masturbate a lot in the past using omegle (we could say I am an omegle "victim") and then I met a beautiful girl that I love so much and we are in a relationship since 3 years now. Everything...

Hello all, I'm an addict in recovery and engaged to be married. I have been free from porn for 3+ years thanks to NoFap. There has been improvement in my masturbation habits as well - less frequent and less compulsive. I have been working with a very supportive AP and we have determined that I...

Does anyone think they deserve to be cheated on because of all the porn they've looked at? Sometimes I think that. I'm single at the moment and I sometimes imagine being cheated on in the future. If I were ever cheated on I think I would accept it because that's what I get for looking at porn.

I made a thread in this forum yesterday about how I may have cheated on my girlfriend. However, I want to know if what I did actually constitutes cheating or if it was just a weird thing that I should not have done. The basic run down is that I have a pantsing fetish. I met up with a girl I've...

I’m going to try my best to get right to the point. I need urgent help because I am pretty much freaking out right now. I have a pantsing fetish (the prank where you pull someone’s pants down). My girlfriend does not know, and she is definitely not into it because she gets annoyed when I pants...

Triggers and all that stuff so be careful! I wanna start with saying that I admire all of you, your will to fight and become better people. The fact that you want to change yourself is amazing and you will surely succeed. I am gonna go to the root of it. After practicing NoFap for almost a...

Newbie here- not to porn, but to this site. As far as porn, I have watched it all kinds. I am tired of it, I wanted to start 2022 without porn and I failed so here it is 19 days in to the new year. I am ashamed and embarrassed. I have a family, wife & kids. What I do behind closed doors is awful...

Hello. I am 30yo male, happily married. I am addicted to porn since I remember myself. I consider myself as having a really really high sex drive. I tried to quit porn several times, but never succeeded for long time. The only time I did succeed to quit porn and masturbation, was during a...

** TRIGGER WARNING ** I just signed up five minutes ago. I don't know if I'm allowed to post stuff here or not. I didn't read over all the rules or even go looking for them. I'll just assume if this is inappropriate someone will just delete it. I need to get my story out there. FEMALE WITH A...

Well into our forth year of marriage, my husband got a terrible depression and escalated into something of a porn addict. While we had previously been exceptionally happy together (like really, really deliriously happy), everything just fell apart at that point. I found out that he had written...

Hi all, After trying several times to get rid of my addiction, I decided to create an NoFap account to see if it can help me in my journey to quit watching porn. Five days ago, I created an account and thought, easy, I'll just quit and let's count the days. After 5 days (yesterday) I relapsed...

My girl leaves in another city & we can't have regular sex often. We sometimes do virtual sex. But it's basically just a masturbation under supervision. She's not a seduction expert and she doesn't know how to drive me to pleasure. I am quite polyamorous and she's very jealous and superstitious...

I just made this account so I never loose track of this heinous, wretched, despicable feeling. I have an amazing gorgeous girlfriend who is the world to me. Sadly we are long distance and she is not into sending nudes etc too much. As a result of this my disgusting vile selfish self has used...

This is a long post and with me being new here I’m not sure if it’s inappropriately long. Please forgive me if so, I just desperately need to talk to someone. I did something Monday night and have been riddled with guilt ever since. I've been having difficulty sleeping and my heart constantly...

Hi there. Today my wife found out my terrible little secret. For around 10 years I have been going on and off - with breaks when i felt bad about going on Omegle/Chatroulette - to PMO. I feel ashamed to not be able to fix my personal problem, ashamed to my wife, for breaking her trust in me...

Hi, i'm new in this page. I just admitted that I got a problem with my personal relantionships because of my porn and masturbation habits. Since my mother died, when I was 12 (i'm 22) I started watching porn and jacking me off, at firts it helped me to quit or avoid stress and anxiety, then I...

More than 40 days past since I stopped watching porn and I did not edge for more than three months. I got married in May, but currently my wife is abroad and I haven't seen her for two months now. I must find a new job before she can rejoin me. So here I am, mostly alone the whole day...

Hey guys, I'm three weeks in to NoFap, no masturbation, no porn. and involuntarily no orgasm because I am currently separated from my wife. We married in mai, than I had to leave the country and I am currently looking for a new job or something. Then and only then will she be able to rejoin me...

Hi, Not sure if this is the right forum, still a noob. Recently, got dumped, deservingly so I think. I cheated on my gf and waited a week before confessing, and only confessed after she read a message on my phone. The chat wasn't sexual or anything,me just telling the other party I don't know...

Hello guys, I'm having a hard time in my personal life and I feel like it will help me a lot if some of you could just give me some of your time to read my story, thank you :) I'm in a relationship since 3 years ago, even thou we're happy together and we love each other I've been feeling my...

Hey There. Not Taking Much Of Your Time. I Just Want To Say That I've Been In A Relationship With A Girl For Over 1.5 Years Now. I Told Her My PMO Problem In The First 2 Months Of Our Relationship. Till Yesterday, I K new She Loves Me, And She Is So Honest And She Knows Nothings About These...

Hello everyone! For the past two years, I have been struggling with an addiction that started rather basic. I'm talking about the findom kink. I have been in a relationship with my significant other for almost 3 years but that still has not stopped me from indulging with this fetish online. I...

Hello, I’m new to the site and not sure where to start but here goes. I am a 30-35 years old male, married with a beautiful two year old and a baby on the way in May. My issues with M stem back as far as I can remember from when I was 9 years old. By 13 I would M twice daily using my...

First of I don't expect to receive any pity for the embarassing act I committed today. I've been addicted to porn since I was 15. I am now 23 soon to be 24. I've been fighting and fighting and I have yet to overcome it. I started working with a women recently and right away the conversations...

Firstly, thanks for taking the time to read this? If you relate at all, feel free to connect with me and journey along. If there is hope for me.... then I truly believe anyone can change. EVERYTHING in this post is 100% truth. My name is John and I am 33 years old (within a month of my 34th...

Here are the goals I made for myself to ease into rebooting: Soft MO once every 7 days Abstain from P entirely (this will count as a relapse) Repeat until counter reaches 90 days and decide what to do from there This was because my focus was on abstaining from P and excessive MO. But here's...

I think it's understandable if a SO cheats on their PA partner and PA shouldn't think they're entitled to faithfulness from their SO when they've been unfaithful by looking at porn. Having said this I think forgiveness is better than revenge but taking revenge is understandable. So if you're a...

So first time here and I feel I should get this out here. Maybe it will help, who knows. Anyways. I started the nofap journey about a month and half ago. Went 4 weeks without pmo, but the urges were too strong so I relapsed. Now another week into my urges are coming back. I find myself not...

I have always been highly sexual, and fairly proud to be. A lot of intellectuals and successful people are highly sexual people, my thought being that I may belong among them. This has rarely been a problem, I am fairly successful, although who couldn't be more successful if they managed to rid...

I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. About a year into the relationship he confessed that he had an addiction to porn and I was super understanding and we talked about it a little bit. Neither him nor I really realized how tremendous the problem actually was. Things have gone...

Hello. I've been googling how to get rid of a fetish and it brought me up to this site. I am in desperate needing of help... I had several non harming fetishes over time, some passed some are part of my character (like rough sex, forced one, some bdsm). Those don't harm me because I finally...

your boss was cheating on his/her SO? I'm not having to deal with this myself but I was watching a show where it's happening and was wondering what I would do if I was in that position.

Hey guys, 11 days into a new streak after caving at the end of a 2 month streak - disappointed that I couldn't make it a completely porn free year but trying not to let black / white thinking mess me up. Anyway the craving for p hasn't been terrible yet (although, as always, it will be). I...

Not even sure who will read this or if it will be read at all. Like most guys I started "PMO"? (I think that's what it's called on here) in my early teens maybe around 13. I've always had a bit of a thing for feet and with the world of porn at my fingertips, I watched some featuring this...

I dont know if porn has created this or it is just me , i have been in a relationship for 6 years now and basically right from the start i have always lusted other women. I thought that giving up the porn which i have now for around stints of 30 to 100 days being my best , right now i am...

For years, my boyfriend has been struggling with a porn addiction. It disgusts me and I feel betrayed. It started off as videos, regular porn videos. And it turned into obscene, taboo, and frankly disturbing porn. Once he got fed up with his own actions, he turned towards more tame tumblr...

Just wanted to know the opinions of people on drinking. Here's my view: • I think a lot of time alcohol takes people down the slope step by step and makes them do stuff that they never would've done while sober. • For people struggling with depression, it becomes a go to response to escape...

Hi, Last week I found out that my husband was cheating on me for years. I was devasted, my hands were shaking I couldn’t breath so on. He was a good liar. When I was watching and realising how far he went with PMO I couldn’t believe it. My eyes were full of tears. But then I saw he was also...

Watch porn for the rest of your life or Get cheated on? I was listening to Esther Perel podcast today and in this episode she had a couple where the wife had cheated on the husband. Without a doubt it was the most unpleasant episode of her podcast I've heard so far. For most of the episode I...

I've heard some people say it's cheating. I would say it probably is.

Hey there, i got a bit of a problem lately. I´ve been seeing this close friend of mine for quiet some time now and when i am with her (at her home or mine) it´s like a relationship. We chill together, have fun in our free time and in bed and are enjoying endearments (thats just a small part and...

Hey guys, I'm 24 years old, I live in Cape Town, South Africa and I'm heavily addicted to porn. I can't go a whole day without watching porn and masturbating at least once, but often it can be as many as five times. I spent the majority of my undergraduate degree locked away in my room wasting...

I saw that mainly men discuss this topic and seeking help. I'm a woman, a wife and a mother to a 4mo baby boy. I'm desperate to understand what is going on with my family and whether we have any chances of being a positive family example for our beautiful son! It breaks my heart! My husband is...

I've seen a lot of debate about this subject on here so I thought I'd start a thread to lay out why P and/or S addiction is viewed as cheating by many SOs. Here is my take. I'll let others chime in to speak for themselves. This is a highly personal addiction and everyone has their own...

Hey y'all. I'm new here. I've heard a lot of positive things about NoFap, but never felt I needed it until recently. My girlfriend and I have been dating for nearly 2 years. I've always been the protective boyfriend type, but I've really done my best to keep that in moderation. It's not fair...

Hello, I am currently in week 2 and sometimes in the morning, when my dick is a little hard I try to hold its state by mastrubation for 5 secounds or so. Is this already cheating? I mean, I am not even close to O and dont really feel any urge or desire. Its just because Im bored. And it happens...

I'm nearly 23 and a virgin. I wrote this shortly after I quit PMO. Based on real events. Through the Wall I shut the door, blocking out the sounds of the city, and as my ears slowly grow accustomed to the silence of the empty apartment, I become aware that even silence is not silence. It's...

Since attempting to quit PMO, there are a lot of things I am starting to see differently. While I haven’t reached the 90 days yet, I have gone from 49, to 5, to 2, to 8, to Day 46, now back Day 1 (and counting, but I know I’ll be okay!) I’ll admit, the longer I was into my addiction, the more...

Hi All, I'm currently in the early afternoon of day 8 with no wanking or porn watching. The other night my partner and I engaged in sex. The problem is, my ball sac was so full of cum that I came within 2min. I washed my penis and we began again...... The same thing happened again..... The 3rd...

Hi, It's complicated, and the more I try and put my thoughts into writing the more complicated it's becoming. I've just stumbled across this from a Google search as I'm fed up wasting my time, energy (& occasionally money) on viewing porn, and it's getting harder (no pun intended) to find...

Um I think I'm cheating my PMO absence with lucid dreaming. This is probably stupid however, in my case I'm fantastic at knowing that I'm dreaming. (Willing to teach) What do you think?