dating advise

  1. H

    Confused and Need Help

    Hi everyone, I am 16 years old and have been PMing for 2 1/2 years and recently I joined NoFap. My social skills aren’t that great and I often get social anxiety. After reading about porn’s effects I decided to stop PMing because it was only making my situation worse. It has been 26 days since...
  2. Kai101

    Girl gave me her # but isn't responding. What should I say/do?

    Let me give you guys some background info. I'm 16, never had a girlfriend and don't have much experience with flirting or dating or any of that type of stuff. I was at Skate City with my friend Friday night, and this girl who used to go to my high school came up and said I looked familiar. So we...
  3. Kai101

    Girl gave me her number and said I was cute, but now is not responding to texts?

    Let me give you guys some background info. I'm 16, never had a girlfriend and don't have much experience with flirting or dating or any of that type of stuff. I was at Skate City with my friend Friday night, and this girl who used to go to my high school came up and said I looked familiar. So we...
  4. Kai101

    Girl gave me her number and said I was cute, but now is not responding to texts?

    Let me give you guys some background info. I'm 16, never had a girlfriend and don't have much experience with flirting or dating or any of that type of stuff. I was at Skate City with my friend Friday night, and this girl who used to go to my high school came up and said I looked familiar. So we...
  5. E

    Will NoFap get me laid?

    This is a question that always pops around in this forums and one that you shouldn't be afraid of asking. I've seen a lot of guys who are brave enough to ask this kind of question but then people start attacking them telling them that they're shallow and superficial. And no, I mean sex is...
  6. E

    The difference between the jerk and the shy guy

    Prepare yourself kids because I'm about to drop some knowledge. If you haven't read my last post, I really encourage you to do it, it's called "This is how you start loving thyself TODAY" ( https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/this-is-how-you-start-loving-thyself-today.176365/ ) The...
  7. E

    Stress is killing your game

    I usually write with a structure in my other threads but this one is different, I'm just going to follow my train of thinking. Game is such a difficult concept. It is usually described as natural mating between humans, in which everyone looks for someone to breed. At least that's the...
  8. E

    The Friendzone

    In this thread I want you to give me your personal opinion about the friendzone. I will give you mine right away and I'll be interacting with everyone sharing opinions about this. I intend for guys to really understand why are they in the friendzone and what they can do about it, because we've...
  9. E

    It's all about abundance

    Hey guys, I apologize for not posting for a while. Quick update on my life: I was really making progress with my life and had a lot of goals for 2018 that I haven't been quite able to realize. With all the stress from college, gym and other things I relapsed and haven't been quite able to start...
  10. Sleepingbadger

    What should I plan for the first date, and how should i ask her out?

    Not sure if this is the right forum to ask these kind of things, but... I'm 17 years old guy currently studying in high school. I would like to ask a girl out, but i don't know how should I do it, and what should i plan to do on the date. We had great time together at a school prom, and we...
  11. L

    So I asked my dream girl out...

    I asked her if she wanted to go watch a movie with me in a couple weeks and she responds with "Yea that'd be good" and I then tell her later that I'd let her know times and stuff, and she responds with "Okay, sounds good". First off, she had rejected me before and now is down to go out with me...
  12. E

    This will help you a lot

    Hey guys, I've found this advise very useful for approaching anxiety. I spent almost all of the past year watching 2 girls (one that works at my gym and one that works at my college's library) that I really really really wanted to talk to. This year, I've talked to both of them, I introduced...
  13. BlakeUnchained

    Cured and Need Advice

    I battled ED last year when I was in a relationship with my gf. We've took a break for a couple months, fast forward, it's been a year. She still loves me and wants to be with me but, she's not sure if I can be sexually able. I'v been cured though, I'm a raw vegan of 7 months, i rarely...
  14. Jack York

    What should I do?

    Hello. Ok this is a long one. First I am 20, been single forever. But I’ve been on a few dates. All of which never ended well. Since I’ve been at uni. There’s never really been anyone that’s caught my fancy. But now. I have a conundrum. There’s a few ladies I’ve gotten to know/matched on...
  15. J

    Need help with signals from a girl

    Hey all, I've fallen for a girl who has a BF, but I feel she is sending me signals that she wants to date. I'm super confused since I've never really dated someone or even felt this way before. I could really use some help/advice. If any one would like to help please reply or message me. Thanks...
  16. A

    Need some advice on approaching this woman...

    Not going to make this too long but basically I've kinda found this woman that I saw at the gym extremely attractive. I don't what it is about her, there are other women in my gym who are prettier and well...wear less than her but I find this one woman so attractive. I've been trying to reboot...
  17. green lion eating the sun

    Going on a date with a trainer at my gym?

    Last Sunday I went for a lesson at my gym. Usually I go there to do workout on my own and sometimes I go to group lessons :emoji_lifter: basically last Sunday the trainer was a very attractive guy around my age (I am 25 year old girl) and, given that at my gym trainers put music via their...
  18. Daredevil99

    Is this pied I'm actually scared

    So a few years ago I used to pull a lot of girls before I started getting really hooked on porn. I found it easy to get an erection most times and found a girl a huge turn on. But the last year or half so I've not even attempted to date girls. This is due to not being very turned on when I meet...
  19. T

    I constantly feel like I'm messing up

    I am happily in love and with a partner who has been with me since the start of my reboot. In fast she is the reason for my reboot all together, as my sexual addiction and porn addiction along with compulsive masturbation led to difficulties and struggles within the relationship. My current...
  20. DrAwesome04

    Need Some Real World Help Here ... If you can spare a sec

    Alright. How can you know within the first conversation whether the girl likes you or not? I s she interested? Does she want to friendzone me? How can you tell? And if she doesn't how do make her like you? Any advices or anecdotes please. Kudos!
  21. MontStar48

    1st Date & I'm Nervous!

    Jitters, Butterflies & Overthinking: Met this girl about a month ago on OKCupid :rolleyes: & I'm actually digging her! Of course she's beautiful, smart & has a sense of humor... But she's a bit reserved then the women I'm use to talking to. Usually I can turn my charm on & melt a girl out of...
  22. The Blue Ocean

    Social media friends and dating... (?)

    When one have added someone who one is attracted to in a social media, how do one start a nice and cheerful conversation? Like ... one can't just jump to: Hi! Whats up? [Some messages later] What do you have for interests? I mean, doesn't it sound like those questions comes from nowhere when...
  23. MontStar48

    Struggling with sleeping with stangers

    Hey Guys & Girls I'm on Day 27 on my Nofap journey! Definitely been a struggle, but I can feel the growth & leveling up I'm going through. My only issue is the past few days I've been extremely horny! No girlfriend's in my life, which is a total bummer. Most of the girls that find me...
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