dating

  1. D

    Struggling with being horny

    So I'm about 3 weeks clean now and I don't want to watch porn or even masturbate but I'm just stupidly horny to the point where I'm chatting up multiple girls on multiple dating sites to see who I can fuck the soonest and it's distracting me from my work. Feel like my porn addiction might...
  2. M

    Rebooting...but starting a new relationship

    So I started my reboot by just avoiding P. Didn't watch it, but still MO'd because I thought that P was the only thing messing with my life. I had known this girl for awhile and started getting vibes that she was into me. About two weeks went by (still MO'ing) and I decided that I was going to...
  3. aps1991

    Lack of physical/emotional intimacy

    Hi, One of the main drivers of my urge to PMO is the lack of physical and emotional intimacy I have in my life. I moved to a new city five months ago and have built a new social circle (including men and women) from scratch, which is great. However I don't get to see these people often due to...
  4. aps1991

    Question For Ladies - Best Flirting You've Received

    Hi, Ladies - do you have any examples you can give me of the best flirting you've received from a guy? Today I've realised that I'm not actually 100% clear on how best to flirt with women. I'm not sure how to tread that fine line between flirting and being vulgar/inappropriate. I want to flirt...
  5. aps1991

    Expressing Yourself To Women - The Conundrum

    Hi, What's the best way to express your true feelings to a woman you're attracted to? In my experience simply going up to them and telling them that I think they're sexy just gets a "thanks" and the conversation dies immediately. However the alternative of focusing on getting to know them...
  6. WuTangFinancial

    Oblivious to Romance

    I posted this in another category and I am pretty sure it was the wrong one so I brought it to here. I hope it is appropriate now. I have been struggling with PMO for almost 14 years and in my times of abstinence, I am greatly aware of the improvements. Yet sometimes, for reasons that do not...
  7. S

    No more Mr. Fap guy.

    Hi I'm new to this. I recently came to the conclusion I may have a problem with masturbation. I have no problem having sex women but the way my schedule at work is set up its hard to really have time to continue talking to a girl until she ready to go all the way. So like any guy I masturbate to...
  8. noonoon

    Where to meet women - for introverts and nerds

    Here's a few good spots where you'll likely find nerd-loving girls, and where you'll have a leg up on those alpha-male neanderthals that frequent the bars: Library/Book store - Seriously. #1 spot for nerd introverts like you. Lots of women there and few "alpha" men. The women there like the...
  9. D

    Dating Apps...

    I'm not super into dating people, I've had one girlfriend and it was long distance. It didn't last long. But when I'm ready I wanna start to put myself out there and using apps is the best way in my area. So what do you guys think of them? I'm not sure myself, I've been advised to just wait...
  10. Code Hero

    Dating and Hard Mode?

    Hi all, I started my 90 day hard mode reboot 6 days ago, and just now matched with someone on Tinder. I started chatting with this girl, but I suffer from PIED and really want to have normal, healthy relationships. Is it worth trying to meet anyone or do I need to push forward with the...
  11. N

    Finally really getting started - finding my core masculinity

    Hi guys, first of all, i hope my story won't be to long :D i'm not completely new to the whole NoFap topic, i read about that concept in a book about manliness maybe 1,5 years ago and already tried to avoid masturbation a few times (i think my record was about 25 days or so). Often when i'm...
  12. United States Pageant Model

    Ready to Change my Life; Looking forward to Joining a Community that can Help me do it!

    Hey everyone! I'm a new member here, not necessarily new to NOFAP, but.... I've recently found that I'm having a lot of trouble doing it myself. It's very clear to me that I'm addicted, because it's incredibly hard to stop. I started my own company at 19 and ran Nightclubs/Yacht...
  13. A

    Off my Chest

    Have PMO'ed from a young age and Sex has almost always lasted for more than 20+minutes for me and sometimes 60+mins without orgasm. I broke up from an 8 month relationship in Feb this year and have only just recently started dating again. Met this real nice girl (very shy though) and made out...
  14. T

    I constantly feel like I'm messing up

    I am happily in love and with a partner who has been with me since the start of my reboot. In fast she is the reason for my reboot all together, as my sexual addiction and porn addiction along with compulsive masturbation led to difficulties and struggles within the relationship. My current...
  15. G

    First post, 24 days in. Flatline and loneliness

    Hey everyone! This is my first post ever on this forum since I started on the nofap journey. Im 22 and started on the nofap journey 24 days ago and so far I havent felt much of the benefits everyone talks about. I started working out 3 months ago so I doubt my excercise habit is due to nofap...
  16. G

    Day 26 and this happened!!!

    Hi, So I started my nofap journey in the hopes of going a month without porn and masturbating and also rewiring my brain to go crazy for a human partner. One bonus is before nofap I used to have delayed/ no ejaculation with a real partner unless I used my hand and now I can O with a partner. I...
  17. TurnedOff

    Dating app

    Hey yall I'm on day 50 something and I gotta be honest, I am incredibly lonely. The days leading up to today have been a lot of isolation besides rehearsals and lessons and services I sing in. I wish I could spend time with someone but it's a small town and Id rather not drink. I downloaded...
  18. H

    My introduction.

    Greetings fellow Fapstronauts! Quite recently I embarked on a very difficult but glorious quest,to overcome my addiction to pornographic imagery and masturbation. Unfortunately in my case,pornography and masturbation affected me severely. From the age of eleven 11 I was addicted,all of that...
  19. The Errol

    Jelousy and angry as triggers for MO

    I want to share a topic that I was thinking about myself. The main reason, may be, is that I feel kind jelous about guys who often have sex, but damage girls in the process. Males trying to patch a void in them, but left women hurt, alone and sometime worse than they found them. I though that...
  20. The Errol

    Intro & lil' bio

    (Sorry if my English isn't gramatically correct; I can undertand it properly, but writing or talking needs more improvement from my part.) Hello community! I'm here ironically searching for advice for dating and courtship. Well, I want to stop fap because I'm still virgin. I'm almost 24, but...
  21. D

    Need advice on making an impression (Dating) + Rewiring.

    Backstory: I have PIED. I failed countless times trying to reboot, and I'm now currently on my highest streak and have no intention to fall back into the trap that pornography is. I would now like to approach and meet women in hopes of finding a long-term partner. Unlike most of the men here, I...
  22. F

    Making efforts to date but it's difficult...

    Salutations to you all. I thought I'd stop by and tell you my story. I've been on NoFap for 5 months with continual relapses every 3-4 weeks but fortunately I'm still seeing positive effects. I'm now 33 years old, never had a girlfriend, still virgin, never kissed a girl and I'm pretty sure...
  23. brother89

    Am I cheating somehow?

    Hi brothers! Just want to say I'm f*cking amazed by this community. Sorry for the strong words, but yeah, this is just awesome. To be short, I live with ED since I started my sexual life (about 17) and today I'm 27. Can't say I have severe ED because I could handle good and healthy sex for many...
  24. ensour11

    Thoughts on Sex during the 90 Day Reboot?

    Hey guys, So I'm on Day 10 of my first ever 90-Day Reboot. So, I know no P-M-O is an absolute requirement during the reboot, but is Hard Mode? Do any of you suggest or advise against sex/physical intimacy during the reboot period? I'm currently single so it's not a huge deal for me, but I...
  25. MontStar48

    1st Date & I'm Nervous!

    Jitters, Butterflies & Overthinking: Met this girl about a month ago on OKCupid :rolleyes: & I'm actually digging her! Of course she's beautiful, smart & has a sense of humor... But she's a bit reserved then the women I'm use to talking to. Usually I can turn my charm on & melt a girl out of...
  26. thel00ker

    Thoughts on ED and Performance Anxiety...Tips anyone?

    Feeling a bit tense and turned on today, mi worries about ED keep me checking if I get horny about this or that, what happens if I touch myself etc. I feel like I have very unrealistic views about what turns me on. I feel like I don't know my own body and what activates it. Before, my body was...
  27. Ocean Man

    Started dating a girl. What about NoFap?

    Hey mates! Hope you are all doing fairly well and that everything is fine. So I started a small chemistry with this girl (I have liked her since 9th grade) and finally we get together on an evening and she confesses to me that she likes me. I instantly melted. But she said she hated dating and...
  28. L

    Trouble with girls

    So ive been trying to reboot ever since I got dumped in November for being too needy. Im 17. I had PIED with my gf who was so hot and it sucked. Now I'm on day 9 of no PMO (longest streak yet, determined to keep it going), experiencing a flatline. Not to sound arrogant but I am good looking and...
  29. M

    Screw Loneliness, Its time to live.

    Anxiety, self-doubt, no love, no popularity. They all get to you ehh, why though? Look, I ain't gon be the positive guy and tell you it'll all come to you if you wait, that's bs. Here's the thing about us all, we see what we want, but we don't work for it. We just want. Ever wondered what...
  30. MontStar48

    Striking Out Left & Right

    Made it to 40 days which was my longest stint, before relapsing. Now I'm back at day 7 & noticing something a little different about my new journey.. I've been so focused on dating & trying to score that I've come off a bit desperate & eager in my interactions with women. Trying to not think...
  31. P

    Is it safe to fill out our Credit Card Number on the Internet?

    I've been talking with a girl these day. I met her on a dating site. She asked me to verify through a website that need my CCN.. Cause she said she had been spammed and stalked before. I hesitate. Can anyone edify me? I will thank you a lot.
  32. Don Gately

    Neuroscience perspective on rejection and/or breaking up with someone you're still in love with

    I just read this article and it gave some seriously cool insights about the process of recovering from a breakup. "This brain imaging study of individuals who were still 'in love' with their rejecter supplies further evidence that the passion of 'romantic love' is a goal-oriented motivation...
  33. MontStar48

    Day 18: Bad Date Adventures & Fighting Off Relapsing

    Aaaahhhhhh!! The Struggle is REAL Does she love ne does she not? Fine porn can help me stay "satisfied"!? Stop It!.... Those are my old ways & train of thoughts. This is new & improved me, super sexy, confident 18 days NoFap strong 2.0 me.. Right? But Then WHY???? I go on a date with a girl...
  34. D

    I know that she knows that we both know that we both like each other

    Yeah.... There is a huge elephant in the room and it is so awkward. The problems are; She is really shy, which makes conversation difficult I am not generally shy but I am when trying to communicate with her She is only 15 so I think I need to wait anyway. But I really like her, she is very...
  35. YourShiningVeganHero

    2017 is YOUR YEAR. Go claim it! NEW resolution and Motivational Story

    I have been trying to quit for many years but never did it in hard mode. . I had very good streaks.. 60 days + . But eventually i would start edging again or bullshit myself into how i made it and am now healed and free todo whatever i want. Im strongly opposed to masturbation i general now. as...
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