death grip

So first off, I'm 25 and have been on a No PMO streak since New Year's (nine days - ignore my counter). Around two or so years ago, I would have these super long and drawn out masturbation sessions, where I would compulsively and aggressively masturbate. I have OCD, which was severe at the time...

So first off, I'm 25 and have been on a No PMO streak since New Year's (nine days - ignore my counter). Around two or so years ago, I would have these super long and drawn out masturbation sessions, where I would compulsively and aggressively masturbate. I have OCD, which was severe at the time...

already been moving towards recovery of porn addiction and death grip. have made great progress but plateaued in progress and had multiple relapses but looking to finally stand my ground and take control of my urges. i'm in a relationship still with the love of my life, and have made mistakes...

I'm just trying to understand, how death grip cause desensitization and ED? Everything online simply says that it's "too much pressure" on the penis. Okay, but what is the mechanism that causes desensitization? With PIED, it is explained that sheer overstimulation leads to neurochemicals...

Hi all, Bit of a random post, and something that stems for a renewed effort to improve the sensitivity of my penis due to years of heavy fapping (3 to 4 times per day, most days for 20 years). The result of this had culminated in serious problems while trying to reach O through anything other...

Hi everyone! I hope y’all are doing great and you somehow manage to fight this addiction. I personally gave up a long time ago, I'm 23 and all my conscious teenage life was covered in porn addiction. Whenever i felt sad, happy, tired, energetic I would watch porn. Now that I'm older let me...

Hi all I remember when i was young (16-19), I got boners very easily by just being aroused. Hard one at that. However, after about 11 years of PMO (i'm now 28), I realized i can't get and stay hard except i use my left hand and in a particular sitting position . Also this happened when i was...

So I haven't posted yet, this is actually my first post. And I'm so proud that it is. So this is also an intro post, so buckle in, it's a long one. Background: 27 y/o, in a committed 3 year relationship, and kinky individual having dabbled in nonmonogamy prior to. I am one of those who has gone...

Hey guys I’m still learning a lot about this and it’s very hard to get answers for I have spent the last week many hours reading people’s comments and stuff about this. What I’m really hoping for is someone who has experienced and recovered from this to give me some advice or input. Maybe you...

So yes, I have beaten HOCD. Porn escalation. All that shit. However regular porn and death grip is the final hurdle, and if I can beat HOCD, I can beat this too. I have an issue with my penis that is really messing with my head, and I'm not even sure if it is a huge deal or not. I've death...

I suffer from DE and Death Grip and I never realized how bad this actually is for me and my SO. I'm currently starting my first reboot with no PM for 90 days, after 10 years of PMOing and having at most 1 week breaks when I started dating my SO. Does masturbation ever feel normal or OK after...

A short intro: I'm a 28 year old man. I start masturbating since I was 14. When i was young i used to masturbate 1-2 times a day, than around age 20, progressed to 1 in 5 days or 1 time per week, however, with longer sessions 1-2hr or even 2-3 hr to O, usually with a dry hand. 2 years ago I...

Hi, guys, I came across this site to cure DE and death grip:https://www.beatdeathgrip.com/cure-death-grip/ Can anyone tell me whether it is a reliable plan or not to buy and use a fleshlight? thanks

Guys could anyone please explain to me what is death grip and what causes it. I have been Masturbating dry and while lying down and now I have developed hourglass penis which shrinks at the shaft of the penis. But when my penis fully becomes erected the hourglass shaped disappears. Is this a...

Hello, I am 19 years old I have been watching porn for most of my conscious life. A few months ago I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time. I don't know why - maybe it was just the anxiety of losing my virginity or something else -, but I kept losing my erection. Things got better...

Hi guys, I wanna start by saying i have suffered with erection problems for about 4 years now and wanna get back to my old self, i often M with a flaccid as i cant get hard easy like i did before this issue started. I have been using porn everyday pretty much for the past 6-8 years. My D is...

Basically I remember I started masturbating with lube when I was 16 but for the pas few years almost 7, i have been masturbating dry. Yesterday I relapsed after 15 days Nofap and I tried to use Lube after using dry in the first round and I realized it didn't feel grippy or pleasurable like my...

Hello NoFap Community, i am a 19 year old Guy. I've been addicted to since young Age, Hardcore addicted since i am \~15 years old. It went from fapping once a day, to fapping 3-5 Times a Day. I relapsed a couple of Times on my NoFap Streaks (longest was 14Days) but this Time i'm even more...

I've been masturbating with a roughly once a day rate for 8 years since I was 15. Around the third year I've witnessed that the intense pleasure I've been having was dying away. Then the unwanted fantasies began. Stuff I would never do in the real world (although I guess I should consider myself...

Hello everyone, I'm new in this forum, 28yo male on my 32nd day of (at least) 90-day reboot in hard mode, and just decided to join this amazing community. I'm doing this because of: - PIED: recently discovered, only one instance until now. I think its not a severe case, since I have no problem...

Hey, Up until last week I was a 19 year old virgin who used to masturbate every single day and recently I got a girlfriend. I never ever worried about anything downstairs until I finally had sex with her. To get into details she really turned me on and I was super hard but when was having sex I...

Hello, I'm not entirely sure if I'm in the right sub thread here. My apologies if I've gotten it wrong. I've been trolling the web looking for a good place to try and anonymously speak with other men suffering DE. It's not a widely spoken about subject, but I'm hoping I've found a good community...

Please help me,,, went on hard mode 50 days nothing change,, it only cure my ED, but the tingling feelings i have on my upper right thigh make me cum asap as i penetrate,, even after Cumming I still have weak vein feeling like I will still cum earlier all over and over again,,, am very confuse...

I can have sex, I can have a long erection but I can't cum. My gf doesn't want to have sex yet but besides that in sex we do any kind of things but I can cum without fap myself. I watch a huge amount of porn. I don't think is only in my mind problem but more like a physical problem. Do you guys...

I wanted to do no nut November but only lasted 7-8 days until I ended up masturbating. Last day I masturbated was Nov.10, I told myself I would stop masturbating and hit the gym again. Because few months ago I wanted to hook up with a chick from high school, she came over (I was 3 weeks no...

So I’m sure many of you know the coined term death grip and while I’m not sure if it’s quite a true phenomenon or not I do know that I may have been suffering from related conditions. I’m quitting masturbation because for the last 10 years, (24M) I’ve done it non stop and always with a very...

sorry for saying this but there are many users who say they recovered their penis sensivity by doing a 90 days reboot or more but they dont specify they just had a mental problem, it was physiological problem ... so if there is people with numb pennis caused by deathgrip and they have a numb...

Hello everybody. Today I'd like to bring in hope and tell you about my story. I have been to hell, so that you don't have to. This story is about someone who has MO for 36 (thirthysix) years, PMO for 30 (thirty!) and VN for 1. Someone whose death grip caused physical damage. Someone who got so...

Hi all, I'm a long time reader, well not even much (1 year ) but with ED problems for so many years, yes, it sucks. I just want to add some aspects of this problems that happened to me and that maybe would be familiar to some of you reading that didn't find in other threads. Going to the past...

so recently I’ve decided to join the community and work on recovering my mind and body from porn and fapping addiction. I’m at 3weeks and am now aware of Death Grip, which frankly scared me. I have abused my body and the appearance of my private area went to more of a pale and grey color and the...

Hello, I’ve been trying nofap and struggled massively Recently. However something that has charged me again is realising I have death grip. Or rather the worry that I do. Sensitivity is low. Far too low. So I need to sort this. Anyone ever had deathgrip? Has it gone? How long did it take? Was...

Hey guys I am new on here. I'm a 19yo and well I guess I'm paying dearly for the evil the "deathgrip". Two nights ago I hooked up with this girl and I just could not O and that got me thinking, out of all the girls I've slept with I maybe got to O once or twice. I started looking at some posts...

Hi all, I'm in my early 20s and unable to reach orgasm with my mate. We have been together for a year and half and I've never been able to orgasm without having to jerk myself off at the end. This has been incredibly frustrating and only made me jerkoff more and more in order to satify my...

TLDR: I have a mild death grip but seemingly no problem with porn or getting an erection. How long should i abstain from porn, masturbation and sex to allow my penis to recover? i have masturbated basically everyday once or twice since i was about 13. Never really seen it as a problem and while...

Who am I? I am a 16 year old junior with a 3.6 GPA, I do 3 sports, I have a part time job, I have a girlfriend, and a great social life. I have a problem that no one, not even my best friends no about. While most teenagers have problems between their parents or with their piers, I struggle with...

Hi there, this is my first post on nofap and as of now I'm a bit of a mess - looking to see if anyone has had a similar hocd experience and ways to deal with it. First off I have massive respect for gay guys, i've lived in gay friendly cities, gone to gay bars and drag shows with my ex...

Hello everyone, i have been doing nofap for 13 days now, I have many questions and confusion, I am 20 years old, i have been first exposed to porn at 12 years old, i was not addicted to it and i rarely masturbated to it, instead i would use my imagination, My penis used to be extremely sensitive...

Hey Guys. Thank you for a dynamite support group. I have been reading posts for a few months and thought it was time to post. In my 50s. For 40+ years I have been MOing. The P back then was imagination then magazines then squiggly P you could almost see to pictures online to the real deal...

Hi all. Feeling a lot of mixed emotions about being here and posting for the first time. Being a part of nofap and finally making a change in my behavior has been a very long time coming. I’ve struggled with compulsive sexual behaviors and maladaptive pornography use for most of my adult life...

Hi, M24 I'm describing some symptoms and looking for advice on PIED. I've been masturbating since age of 11, not always to porn. I would say that I have been regularly masturbating to porn since last 4-5 years - 4 times a week. I'm not sexually active. I'm not addicted to porn - as in I don't...

Hi, M24 I'm describing some symptoms and looking for advice on PIED. I've been masturbating since age of 11, not always to porn. I would say that I have been regularly masturbating to porn since last 4-5 years - 4 times a week. I'm not sexually active. I'm not addicted to porn - as in I don't...

Hey guys, I hope I don’t get flamed but i really had a bog problem with watching porn and masturbation. There wasn’t one day where I did not go without masturbating and watching porn. I had this death grip problem and i decided i had to finally let go of that and start anew for the sake of my...

Hi Everyone, First of all, what is prone masturbation? Prone Masturbation is achieving orgasm, faced down, either by thrusting into a pillow, thrusting into duvet/mattress, thrusting into hand or anything equivalent. Why should you stop it immediately? It will DESTROY your sex life, leaving...

Hello everyone, I am a 22 y/o male who was a virgin until recently. From a very young age, I have had really hard erections. Just closing my eyes and thinking about women got me hard as a rock in seconds. I've always felt that there is more to these erections and when I was 16, I discovered...

The problem with masturbation besides fantasizing is the 'death grip'. If you constantly make your penis used to a tight grip of hand it will be difficult to orgasm with a real woman. This is because your penis will now require a certain amount of pressure to create that sensation. So it is...

Hi, I haven't been on here in a couple of days as my relationship with my SO has been going great but we hit a bump last night. Warning reading further may cause triggers. Whilst i was recieving oral i was holding the base of my penis and masturbating slowly whilst receiving also, I let go and...

I have had no sensation in my penis similar to pinching your elbow skin for the last 2 years. I have little to no urge to mastrubate anymore and rarely get erections (if I do they last like a minute). I have visited a urologist and they didn’t say anything. I think this is due from hard dry...

Just turned 18 I've been watching porn and masturbating for almost 4 years already I masturbate with a hard grip and do it usually once a day atleast 5 times a week. I had some questions for you guys and I was wondering how long do you guys think it'll take for me to he cured. Whenever I have...

Just turned 18 I've been watching porn and masturbating for almost 4 years already I masturbate with a hard grip and do it usually once a day atleast 5 times a week. I had some questions for you guys and I was wondering how long do you guys think it'll take for me to he cured. Whenever I have...

Hey how's it going guys I'm in need of some help! I've been masturbating and watching porn almost daily I've been masturbating and watching porn since about 14 I'm 18 now. Most of the time I masturbate with porn if not in my head just think about someone attractive. Usually do it once a day...

How's it going guys I'm new to NoFap I'm in need of some support from you guys please ! Me and my girlfriend broke up recently because I told her I felt no pleasure when we had sex and she got really upset.. I've had sex other girls before my girlfriend and with every girl I felt the same...

hi all, Well this has been a looooong time coming. So I’m 38. Started fapping when I was about 12 (started with underwear catalogues, etc then once the internet arrived it was all over with P). I wouldn’t say I was a heavy addict, but i would regularly pmo very day (or other day) for about an...

hi all, Well this has been a looooong time coming. So I’m 38. Started fapping when I was about 12 (started with underwear catalogues, etc then once the internet arrived it was all over with P). I wouldn’t say I was a heavy addict, but i would regularly pmo very day (or other day) for about an...

(maybe triggers?) So i've had a crush on this girl i met two months ago, and i finally mustered up the courage to ask her out. She said yes! First date (14 november) we go to a cafe to get some drinks and end up at her place. While cuddling and kissing in her bed, i notice that i can't have an...

Hi Guys, so I’m a new member to the forum but about 6 months ago my girlfriend approached me about my inability to finish during any sexual act and we came upon the conclusion that it was due to my death grip masterbation. After a month or so of abstaining from PMO due to help on this forum, I...

It's a fairly big introductory post so I included a one phrase TL;DR (too long, didn't read) version at the end. Well it's a bit hard to describe my situation, cause I don't even understand it myself, so I'll start from the beginning and I hope you can help me understand. The first warning I...

I've been struggling with frequent relapses lately, but my relapses are showing me what I suspect, and I'm wondering if anyone has any thoughts/advice. Let me explain: I have been a PMO addict since puberty. Recently married, but have had the same partner for about seven years. One of my...

Hi, Been using the Death Grip approach since I started with M (9 years ago). Luckily, I still have sensation down my shaft/tip, but def not enough to finish during S. Hence why I'm taking the NoFap thing seriously and will give my all to regain full sensation, esp to be able to O during S...

A solution that has worked for me Look guys, So, I’ve tried quitting masturbation completely multiple times to help deal with my ED. It actually didn’t help very much when I would eventually relapse (My EQ was pretty average during concurrent relapses, due to loss of sensation... which was...

I have masturbated for 7 years using the prone position. Im 18 now so I have done it since about 11. I would always masturbate by rubbing against the floor to cum which obviously has way more pressure than using your hand. I only just learned this is really bad for you and causes damage so I...

So my situation is that i can have sex almost always but every now and them im limp. Moreover i go soft very quikly and especialy when changing positions, i used to watch alot of porn and spend hours in sex chatrooms but these are in the past. I am 100% addicted to mastrubating and have been...

Hi. I continuosly delayed the fact that i have problems regarding masturbation and now I am finally getting a hold of myself and trying to fix it. A bit of info about me. I am 18 and I have been masturbating since I was 14. I masturbated twice a day for past couple years, sometimes even more...

Just made this account hoping to make friends and seek help and advice from people in the process or those who have already made it. Today marks 1 month, I made it to 3 months but ended up relapsing due to a break up. I been depressed and sad and I feel alone. Even had urges to kill myself...

Hi everyone, I'll jump right in and explain why I am here. I am turning 20 in a couple of weeks and am ready to get rid of this addiction once and for all. It first started when I was 14. Like many of the rest of you I started with softer content, but soon enough I found myself watching kinkier...

Okay so I masturbated today. I don't watch porn anymore I rebooted from that but unfortunately I still masturbate occasionally. I noticed that my dick looks almost like a gourd shape. I'm pretty sure it's the exact imprint of my hand from grabbing my dick but in a flaccid form. I'm kinda scared...

Peace, y'all-- I've been lurking for a few days, and I find the stories and advice comforting. My story is long and complex, but I'm working to solve a lifetime struggle with DE. I'm nearly 51, gay, and deeply and contentedly married for 20 years. I was catastrophically injured at the age of...

I am 26 and have experienced delayed ejaculation (DE) for years, and I would say has negatively affected me for most of my adult life. After finding something that I could do on my own that ultimately gave me great personal benefit in regards to this condition, I decided I wanted to write about...

M'd a few times this April, however not all bad since I made sure to use a light grip and didn't do it prone. Want to dedicate focus on eliminating PIED. Big challenge will be to stay diciplined when boners begin to recover and become stronger. Before, I would confuse initial recovery with...

So I must have started masturbating when I was around 14 years of age, the usual age with testosterone just surging through my teenage body. I probably masturbated (on average) around once a day until I got into a relationship with a girl at 19. As far as I was aware, masturbation was only...

so I'm 26 and have had multiple partners but I have never been able to achieve anorgasm or ejaculate. Now I'm currently ina new relationship and same thing. She is unaware that I've never orgasmed becauseI know that she would take it personal not to mention the already shame I feel.. I'veonly...

so I'm 26 and have had multiple partners but I have never been able to achieve an orgasm or ejaculate. Now I'm currently in a new relationship and same thing. She is unaware that I've never orgasmed because I know that she would take it personal not to mention the already shame I feel.. I've...

I'm a 22 year old male with PIED. I came to know that I have issues with my thing a few months back. At first I didn't realize that my ED is due to Porn and Mastrubation. I continued to do even after realizing that i have ED and thats not healthy because i couldnt stop myself. I'm not a hardcore...

Greetings to whoever may be reading this. I'm posting in here to tell my story, state what I suffer from, and state what I hope to gain from becoming involved with NoFap and going through a "reboot" process. First off, I'm not against porn. I don't what to quit porn. Actually, I can agree that...

Hey everyone, im the s/o of a fapstronaut. I found this site looking for a support group for so's of people with PIED and DGS. Just here for the support but wanted to introduce myself.

Hello to all you wonderful people. Ive heard about this community for a little while but recently been given a reason to join. Ive been using PMOs since I was a early teen(im in my mid 30s now) and the death grip was my tool of choice. I've never reached orgasm unless it was through death...