delayed ejaculation

Hey guys, Quick backstory: long history of porn use since I was in middle school, had sex in high school into freshman year of college (2016), nothing since then until this year. I relied heavily on femdom/findom stuff. At least once a day, often times multiple times a day for hours, you know...

Hi everyone. I am 28 years old, and i have been addicted to femdom porn for my entire life. Despite that, i have managed to have sexual relationships with girls. It was never satisfying, since it was almost impossible for me to reach an orgasm doing regular intercouse (DE), but only with...

already been moving towards recovery of porn addiction and death grip. have made great progress but plateaued in progress and had multiple relapses but looking to finally stand my ground and take control of my urges. i'm in a relationship still with the love of my life, and have made mistakes...

Hello everyone. I am 6 months into a relationship with my beautiful girlfriend, who is 18, just like me. We have so much fun together and have healthy, safe fun in private. The issue is I have never been able to O without using my own hand, even when I’m with her. Whether she’s using her hand...

Hello fellow comrades sergeant Tipsy I've been incognito trying to win this war. Most territories have been retaken but one remains a strong hold I love your help on how to take it out. I still suffer from delayed ejaculation I can go for 30mins to an hour hitting straight without ever feeling...

So I haven't posted yet, this is actually my first post. And I'm so proud that it is. So this is also an intro post, so buckle in, it's a long one. Background: 27 y/o, in a committed 3 year relationship, and kinky individual having dabbled in nonmonogamy prior to. I am one of those who has gone...

I am newly married and me and my wife had sex for first time in wedding night, I was only on 10 days nofap. Even though I was super errect, but I felt no sensation on my penis due to condom. Is this really a condom issue or is it pmo that has made it less sensitive?

I started looking at porn when I was 9 or 10 I think. But it wasn't until 2009 when I was 23 that I fist realized it was an issue and started trying to quit. I didn't even know about porn addiction yet I just knew I was spending way too much time doing it and getting into weird territory. Then I...

Greetings everyone, I embarked in the nofap journey to kick away the pmo habit and also to solve delayed ejaculation complications in the act of sex, I have had relapses here and there, but for the last 3-4 weeks I haven't consistently pmo'd at all. I am married and sex is a key element to...

Hi there, Well, lots of things to say, I will try to write them down here, not sure in which order. So, I'm 40, married, with children, and a beautiful wife I've been with for 15 years (and she was the one who took my virginity). Been fapping on porn for 20 years I think maybe a bit more (it...

I'm 29 and been pmo for 10 years. I wanted to quit pmo because I can't orgasm during sex. Well I went 6 months hard mode and I've been in a flatline the whole time. I feel sleepy all the time, my penis is numb and shriveled and face looking ugly as shit. I had more symptoms but these are the...

I thought I would be sharing a success story by now, but I’m unfortunately still recovering from nofap. My TL;DR is posted below. I’ll try to keep this all short I got into masturbation at a very young age. Maybe as early as 10. It only progressed and got worse as I discovered fetish porn. That...

Hello all, This is my first post on the forum and I may be in the wrong section but please help me with this. I rebooted about 2 years ago and started masturbating without porn and sometimes with pictures after about 60 days. All well and good no problems. I can bust a nut in 10 minutes on...

Hello, so I’m back. I have been gone for many months, enjoying my relationship strangely which I never thought I’d say. In the months that have passed, I solely have been relying on my partner and PIV to give me my O’s which by depriving myself of P has worked a dream. All functionality is...

I suffer from DE and Death Grip and I never realized how bad this actually is for me and my SO. I'm currently starting my first reboot with no PM for 90 days, after 10 years of PMOing and having at most 1 week breaks when I started dating my SO. Does masturbation ever feel normal or OK after...

Hi, I'm new to this but I've been looking at ways to improve my situation for a while. I'd really value any feedback, general thoughts or personal stories to help with this. I appreciate this site is about a commitment to nofap, and cutting out at least P/M. However, my problem is such that...

I just joined NoFap after recently digging into the research on how porn rewires the brain and can lead to addiction, sexual dysfunction and relationship consequences and wanting to find a supportive community. What I really want out of this thread is advice from people with a history of PMO...

Hi all! Ive known for a while I should do something like this - indeed about 8 years ago I went through a successful reboot - and now it’s time for another go. I’m a 36 yo gay male in Australia. When I was 26 I was diagnosed with depression & anxiety and prescribed Zoloft. It’s been a godsend...

TW: mention of porn and sex. Idk if that’s a trigger but I guess Hey, new here. Had a girlfriend for about a year. Started being active together about 7/8 months ago. Only one previous encounter where I was very drunk in a European city so the little man didn’t show up, marginally traumatising...

TW: mention of porn and sex. Idk if that’s a trigger but I guess Hey, new here. Had a girlfriend for about a year. Started being active together about 7/8 months ago. Only one previous encounter where I was very drunk in a European city so the little man didn’t show up, marginally traumatising...

Okay, so I have Delayed Ejaculation and it has become a hindrance to my relationship. Any testaments or experience with this would be greatly helpful as this is such a neglected area of dysfunction. Appreciate any comments in advance!

I have been in a new relationship for around 3 months now after talking for 4/5 months, we are working really well, we have really good trust & we have been consistently communicating about any issues. Anyway, we met in a hotel a couple of months ago, this is the moment that made me come here...

This post is probably not for many people on this site but for anyone suffering from delayed ejaculation I would implore you to give it a read. One of my main reasons for coming to NoFap was concern about the fact that I could never orgasm during sex... like NEVER. Oftentimes I could not even...

Hello everyone, I just want to thank the Nofap community for getting me to my end goal and ultimately, that was to end Delayed Ejaculation during sex and I have done just that and I talked about that briefly on my last post. It sounds very weak but the longest nofap streak I went on is only 111...

Hi all, First post here - just wanted to give the community a brief introduction and hopefully get some discussion going. Background: I am a 24 year old male, PMO since 14, increasing to 1-3 times a day since about 17. Have had those periods where i will do it 4-5 times a day. Been struggling...

Hi all, First post here - just wanted to give the community a brief introduction and hopefully get some discussion going. Background: I am a 24 year old male, PMO since 14, increasing to 1-3 times a day since about 17. Have had those periods where i will do it 4-5 times a day. Been struggling...

Hello everyone, I’m 19 year old who has big problem. For the past two years I’ve been trying to quit masturbation and porn. Well it’s been kinda unsuccessfully. First of all I started masturbating when I was 10. I was introduced to the porn while I was 9 years old, but I wasn’t that much...

I've had this problem since i was 17. The only time I've cum with a girl is when was like 13 from a hand job. I thought is was just something that i had to deal with and it was just something i couldn't do. I was always kind of shy and also had weird shit goin on from my childhood years so i...

Hey, so as the title says I've had this problem all of my life right from when I lost my virginity at 17. I find it very hard to Cum during sex, I've only managed like 3 times before and two of those times with the same girl in certain position while she grinds a certain way. While when I PMO...

Hey all. So long story short been relying on PMO for years now. Finally got a gf First time we had sex - Initially strong erection but only lasted 10 mins during foreplay after that mild ED. Completely unable to O. Second time - Mild ED again and unable to O. Sex felt good but its almost...

I'm currently doing no pmo and am at 40 days. It's really paying off and I'm seeing many benefits, but I have delayed ejaculation. I can get hard, but sex isn't enough for me to ejaculate. If I continue to do no pmo will it eventually allow me to ejaculate during sex?

hi, so im 24 yo and I have been masturbating for years, rubbing my glan with a piece of cloth for hours , so i lost all my sensivity and i suffer delayed ejaculation when having sex. my penis is numb. so i dediced to do a 30 days reboot to regain my sensivity only, so after my reboot i decided...

aight so I edged today (which I seriously regret), REALLY had to fight my urges to cum and orgasm and in the end ejaculated a tiny bit but didn't orgasm. does this count as a relapse? I know it's a personal journey and what not but I suffer from very mild ED and can't seem to reach orgasm when I...

Hey guys, I'm a 25 year old and have been PMOing since I was like 10. During pre-adolescence, I was always full of libido and would get off to porn at least once a day. Back then, I also remember masturbating to toughts and just my imagination (classmates, girls who lived on my street, some...

Hi everyone. So I recently discovered NoFap fully and have decided to give a 90 day PMO stoppage a shot. I am currently suffering from a lack of sensation during sex, delayed orgasms, not being able to become fully erect, as well as porn addiction and a host of mental health issues that may be...

Hello fapstronauts, For about a couple of weeks I’ve stopped masturbating to porn and only do it to finish myself off during sex, although this is an improvement to what I used to do (masturbation 3-4 times a day) I wanna be able to ejac from penetration or from oral or even from my...

Here are my top tips for beating this! FIRST YOU MUST TRUST You are biologically made to reproduce. It is your main function as a male. You have been conditioned from a young age to learn habits of masturbation or sexual stimulation like porn. Your brain needs to re-wire itself. There is...

Hey everyone, I am suffering with DE and am working hard to do nofap (on about day 20 or so). However, I have some real issues with stopping myself from edging. Am I effectively breaking my NoFap with this or is it okay to a point?

Hey guys, I really need some help and support with an on going issue i have. I am recently in a relationship with a girl who is amazing but due to her long hours at work it means I only get to see her during the weekend. This has lead me to message other girls and sext them basically. I am doing...

Hi all, I'm in my early 20s and unable to reach orgasm with my mate. We have been together for a year and half and I've never been able to orgasm without having to jerk myself off at the end. This has been incredibly frustrating and only made me jerkoff more and more in order to satify my...

So I've joined NoFap about 2 months ago. I started it because I have trouble cumming in my sex life (delayed ejaculation). I used to take 2h or so total, after 1 and half+ I'd have to start M cos my partners either get sore, or tired from multiple orgasms or even bored (non-spoken, but I can...

Heyyy So basically the reason why I’m doing NoFap is not for the confidence benefits or skin benefits or anything like that, but basically in my whole entire life I have never been able to O for a woman but I can whilst choking the chicken. To a lot of people that sounds like a great thing...

Hi there, this is my first post on nofap and as of now I'm a bit of a mess - looking to see if anyone has had a similar hocd experience and ways to deal with it. First off I have massive respect for gay guys, i've lived in gay friendly cities, gone to gay bars and drag shows with my ex...

Ok, I'm on a different phase in life. I'm not having one night stands, got a nice girl, Im finally studying what I love (mechanical engeneering) and I feel, with almost certainty that PMO is bringing me down..... I dont want to make this very long but my idea is to just cut the PM and leave the...

Hi guys, I've been following the forum for a while and have hit a bit of a wall in my current streak of 46 days. Basically I've had success before with this, relapsed and now my current streak has seemingly been complicated by the fact I've been hooking up regularly with an amazing girl from the...

Hey Guys, Just wondering if anybody else can relate to this. Has anybody suffered both from delayed ejaculation (DE) initially and then premature ejaculation (PE) later? I've had DE for ages. I'm a 27 year old male. I lost my virginity at the age of 23. Before then I used to masturbate to porn...

I'm a thirty year old male and I've have only recently been able to admit to myself that my relationship with porn is an addiction. I have a good job and live a normal, socially active lifestyle and I'm happy with who I am. However, my compulsion to watching porn is a blight on an otherwise...

OK. So I'm on day 5 of my noPMO streak. Before this I reached 15 days, and another 15 days, hitting a mile stone in overcoming DE. (I finally reached PIV-O with my partner for the first time, ever. :)) Now, I don't know if this is ED or PIED, or not. When aroused: I can get a semi, but I don't...

Hello all! I never really seen myself joining this community but after some looking around I can see it's niche. Anywho, my name is Tristan. I'm 18 years old and have been using porn frequently for many years. However I'm starting to realize now that it's been causing more problems than I might...

Hi guys! I have never been part of any kind of forum. Like with porn, I was mostly a voyeur. I was also scared to participate. As I have not been able to find some answers while looking around and I really felt like sharing here I go. Thanks in advance for your patience. I'm a 23-year-old man...

I'm a 33 year old, heterosexual man who has suffered from DE my entire sexual life - since the age of 16. I believe the route of my DE problems stem from psychological issues (I suffer from generalised anxiety disorder, in part caused by childhood sexual abuse) and an unhealthy dependency on...

Hi all, I’m new to NoFap and six days in. I signed up today and thought I’d share my experience with DE. I believe I’ve had this all my life. I’m 37 and have rarely been able to come thru penetration. A long (persistent) blow job will get me there, but more often than not, it’s masturbation...

I had sex for the first time maybe 2 months ago. I have never been in a relationship before so the nerves are all over the place. During my first act of sex I noticed I didn't feel anything and was not able to orgasm. Like seriously, not even feeling my dick in her vagina. I mean, I finally got...

Hello there, wow where do I start I am cured and you can be as well by reading this and hopefully something helps you. I’d recommend reading all or at least skim all to get a good idea. Please because I want to help you take 10 minutes and save your sex life as well as become a king in life ...

Hi guys! I recently found NoFap and I am now on my 11th day. I am trying to do a hard reboot for at least around 60 days. But I feel my situation is kind of weird and wanted some advice on what might be best for me. I have tried to describe my situation below as succinctly as possible. Ever...

hi everyone. I am a 27 year old. I have a gf and we been dating for about a yea and a half. This is my first time going on a website system to help me stop my addiction to porn. I did not think my porn addiction was bad until I got a gf and I realized that I could not climax while having sec...

Hi, I'm not sure what's going on with me, so I came here for advice and help. I started watching porn in high school, around the age of 16. Back then it was tame and mild and it didn't screw with my mental health or anything. Honestly, I think it was quite normal and I had a normal life. I've...

A few weeks ago, my girlfriend tried performing oral sex on me, and nearly 20 minutes had passed and I couldn’t cum for the life of me. We both decided to stop, and since then I’ve been worried about my sex life and whether I’ve been masturbating too much, and too abnormally. I take 5-10 minutes...

Hello guys, 18-yr-old here. I've been addicted to PMO for five years now, and I'm starting my first day here! I got a girlfriend last year, and we have been sexually active, but we limit ourselves to only oral—we are still virgins. However, I can rarely achieve orgasm from her stimulation...

:emoji_wave:Day 1: This is my story and my journey with my partner. I lost my virginity a little over two years ago to my ex fiancé. Since then I’ve always had trouble orgasming except on my own that being almost always with porn. I have shed many tears over it and counting about half the times...

Hey how's it going guys I'm in need of some help! I've been masturbating and watching porn almost daily I've been masturbating and watching porn since about 14 I'm 18 now. Most of the time I masturbate with porn if not in my head just think about someone attractive. Usually do it once a day...

Hi, I’m an 18 year old male and I’m new to this but I have been checking out the forums on nofap for delayed ejaculation which I believe I am suffering from. I’m still a virgin but I have oral sex with my girlfriend very regularly, I love this girl very much and find her extremely attractive. I...

hi all, Well this has been a looooong time coming. So I’m 38. Started fapping when I was about 12 (started with underwear catalogues, etc then once the internet arrived it was all over with P). I wouldn’t say I was a heavy addict, but i would regularly pmo very day (or other day) for about an...

hi all, Well this has been a looooong time coming. So I’m 38. Started fapping when I was about 12 (started with underwear catalogues, etc then once the internet arrived it was all over with P). I wouldn’t say I was a heavy addict, but i would regularly pmo very day (or other day) for about an...

Today At my 60th day of Pure Nofap (My counter below includes two days of handjobs) I cummed inside V within 2 mins of "gentle""thrusting but without condoms. I tried with condoms twice but I couldn't cum both the times.Even strong thrusting did not work. So after a while I decided to go...

Hey guys, I started the 90 Day NoFap challenge (PM Mode) as I discovered that successive sexual encounters where DE was a problem was not due to just "getting older" but was probably related to my PM habit. Well, after just a little over a week of no PM, it looks likes I'm getting back to my...

I am 19 years old and I have been watching porn content for about 10 years now... I started to discover the world of pornography when I was around 10 years of age and my life has been molded around it ever since... My family had a lot of money when I was a little kid, so I had a very recent PC...

Hey, I posted in the success stories about this, but I was just checking this was the right place to do it, and whether it's the right place to have done it. I'm lucky enough that I don't think I was ever really addicted to porn or masturbation, both of them had been a really bad habit at some...

I haven't been following this as a program or anything, but I was getting sick of most porn and how it wasn't very intimate. I didn't really want to be watching it anyway, it just filled a bit of a gap because there wasn't really anyone for me to be intimate with myself. I used to pretty much...

Apologies in advance for the long and possibly explicit thread, I want to change my life from today. I'm currently in Paris, laying down next to my wife, who today caught me masterbating in the hotel bathroom immediately after we had intercourse. I'm 29 years old and I have never cum from oral...

Hi everyone, A couple of months ago I discovered all this thing about the NoFap and I decided to join in. I would say I wasn't a big porn addicted (I used to fap 5 days of a week), but I could see how PMO could affect negatively in my life so I tried to give it a chance. Around that time I was...

Have PMO'ed from a young age and Sex has almost always lasted for more than 20+minutes for me and sometimes 60+mins without orgasm. I broke up from an 8 month relationship in Feb this year and have only just recently started dating again. Met this real nice girl (very shy though) and made out...

Hey I suffer from porn induced delayed ejaculation. I cant cum with women, and a few months ago i couldnt cum witouth porn. I quited porn for about 2/3months now. I abstained masturbation alltogheter for some weeks but now I came back at it and Im able to cum in a few minutes using only my...

Hi All, I'm posting here to get as many perspectives as possible. During a long (but generally good) talk with my SO, I addressed my concerns re: ogling. He admitted he still does it and definitely leans into the side of fantasizing (mentally undressing/ imagining sex with etc.) and not just...

I've been trying to quit PM for some time now and it is so damn hard for me to do. I honestly feel that PM has rewired my brain and makes it so hard for me to not PM. I started M when i was around 13, and now i'm 22. I'd say i average around doing it once a day for those years and i'm worried...

**New poster and am unsure about what counts as triggers, so please be wary. Also, semi-long post** Where do I start? I just created this account to talk to like-minded people and gather support, because I am in a bad place. My girlfriend is beginning to blame herself for my PIED symptoms and...

Hi I am a 28 year old guy. I have never cumed inside a woman. I have mostly had sex with prostitutes (about 6, had to use hands to cum finally with each one of them). Recently, I have a partner (This is also my first full relationship) . Had sex with her last night, but couldn't cum inside...

Need to reboot to fix my delayed ejaculation. It kills me that after a year I can't cum for my girlfriend during sex. I want to be able to enjoy life without depending on PMO. It truly feels like an addiction I'm experiencing withdrawals and every pic of a model in a bikini that pops in my news...

Good day from South Africa to all the Fapstronaughts, I am a 21 year old Male who currently learnt that is suffering from the Death Grip syndrome. I started Masturbating at the age 13, and back then I could masturbate by only using my imagination, but as time went on it became harder and harder...

Hey, Im a 18 year old boy and I suffer form delayed ejaculation (more than delayed, actually, because it never comes). I cant climax with real women because of all my years watching porn. Do you guys know any "therapy" for dealing with that? Its really sad to never being able to cum with real...

Hey, i'm new to this nofap thing and I could use some help My question is simple, what do you guys do (specificly) to deal with the temptation? For better advice I can explain my particular situation: Im 18 and as every teenage boy, Ive been jacking off to porn all my teenage years. One year...

Peace, y'all-- I've been lurking for a few days, and I find the stories and advice comforting. My story is long and complex, but I'm working to solve a lifetime struggle with DE. I'm nearly 51, gay, and deeply and contentedly married for 20 years. I was catastrophically injured at the age of...

Hello! I´m male 28. Had a severe case of delayed ejaculation and had low sensitivity. When I first joined this site, I was reading the success stories here and damn how I wished I could some day write my own one. And here it is! :) MY STORY: My problem was that I had troubles reaching...

Hi everybody, I found this forum about 6 months ago, and searched for success stories of curing DE while in a relationship. I didn't find anything exactly like my situation, but I was inspired by other successes. first, it was a gradual process to actually reach my goals. I had suffered from...

I am 26 and have experienced delayed ejaculation (DE) for years, and I would say has negatively affected me for most of my adult life. After finding something that I could do on my own that ultimately gave me great personal benefit in regards to this condition, I decided I wanted to write about...

I'm 35 I can masturbate to orgasm easy with no issues. I do look at porn on a regular basis during masturbation but can still climax without it. I also have a fetish but it's not necessary to climax. It's my 4th day today on here. I used to masturbate between 1-3 times a day, sometimes 4...

so I'm 26 and have had multiple partners but I have never been able to achieve anorgasm or ejaculate. Now I'm currently ina new relationship and same thing. She is unaware that I've never orgasmed becauseI know that she would take it personal not to mention the already shame I feel.. I'veonly...

so I'm 26 and have had multiple partners but I have never been able to achieve an orgasm or ejaculate. Now I'm currently in a new relationship and same thing. She is unaware that I've never orgasmed because I know that she would take it personal not to mention the already shame I feel.. I've...

So I am 27 and have been regularly fapping since the age 11 or 12. I currently have complete erectile dysfunction. I came to know about nofap when I was 23 and joined this site around a year ago. I also have enormous seminal leakage while passing stools. This is also attributed to excessive pmo...

Hello, Just been reading about the rebooting and how much help it's given people and I thought it might give it a try. I've recently started a sexual relationship and I been having problems with delayed ejaculation. I had this problem with my previous girlfriends but at the time I put it...

It's 2 in the morning in this unspecified Scandinavian bitch country. I'm sick of obeying my every whim. I'm sick of that guilty feeling and I'm sick of delayed ejaculation. I'm sick of being in a long distance relationship where when we are together she can't get me to finish unless she jerks...

My daily hardcore porn viewings began at age 18, and by 21 I'd still never had a girlfriend (or anything close to sex). An 18-year-old virgin found me on Facebook and we began a roller coaster of an Internet love affair (pathetic, I know). She lived 2,000 miles away, and it was almost two years...

Hi everyone! I'm a 23 years student. I'm new here and that's my first post :) ! (It's a long story so I just have one question, If i'm doing NOFAP, does having sex with a girl is making me relapsing?) I'm studying in education sciences and I want to be a history and geography teacher in...

Hello, just stumbled upon this community and am very curious. I have searched the forum but haven't found a case exactly like mine. I have had delayed ejaculation my whole sexually active life, and coped with it by finishing myself off by hand with the girl still there. Used to watch porn and...

I started rebooting about two weeks ago. Before I stopped PMOing, I couldn't finish in bed with my gf. I told her that it was because of my death grip while PMOing and she was understanding and told me not to worry. After a few weeks of no PMOing, I can finally finish with my gf. On top of this...

Hello, I'm new to nofap. I'm currently 18 and have been masturbating almost daily for the past 10 or so years. I just recently got a girlfriend and I figured out that I was so conditioned to PMOing that I couldn't finish for her. I can't even finish in her presence and it's terrible. My penis is...

Hello fapstronauts. I'm currently on day 39 of nofap, trying to cure DE. Have struggled with it for years, often going for hours with no climax. Anyone who suffers from DE will understand how frustrating this can be. I have abstained from P since before Christmas and no longer have a desire to...