desire

Yes, I look at a lot of porn. I am in fact addicted to this habit. I like to look at the same catalog over and over again up to 6 times a day. I prefer the catalogue of Hqporner because it is all the same and gets updated like 3-4 times a day and limits my choices for the day. I used to...

Guys, I'm having a very strong desire to watch pornography, and at the same time a desire to do absolutely nothing, I'm really having a hard time, have you guys gone through the same thing? what did you do about it?

Does the desire to watch porn decrease over time? All I want from recovery is switch from porn to real girls. And I think, first of all, this switch must take place in desires. Do I understand correctly what recovery is? Or I'm wrong? On my stage of rebooting sometimes I feel improvements...

Hey 'Nauts. Z3LT01D here. Like all the rest, I'm a creature of desire. I desire so many things. All my life, I've been driven by desires. I've become very aware throughout my life of what it looks like to pursue desires that I know aren't good for me. I've been on a particular path, a very...

HI! : ) Today I felt the sadness and guilt associated with my addiction more strongly than in recent days. 4 months ago I last M. I don't fall into old patterns, but by being further away from them I am more afraid of being healthy and want to go back to them. It's crazy. I hope you understand...

Hello. I am 30yo male, happily married. I am addicted to porn since I remember myself. I consider myself as having a really really high sex drive. I tried to quit porn several times, but never succeeded for long time. The only time I did succeed to quit porn and masturbation, was during a...

Tomorrow i will be 24 years old. Last 4 years of my life was miserable. I was trying so hard to quit my nicotine and porn addiction but every my attempt ended in a relapse. I would always relapse after 30,40 days... i tried everything but no matter how hard i try no matter what i do or what...

"I do not wish to be horny anymore... I just want to be happy." You guys might have seen this meme already since it's been going around for at least a few months. But I saw it for the first time today and wanted to share it with you, because it really resonates with me. Hopefully you will...

I've always been known as the "shy" person in the room, or the one that is picked on for not engaging in conversation, especially when it involves talking with women or people I don't know. This could be due to a lot of things, such as genetics or the circumstances of my childhood. But a lot of...

what are the step behind the addiction ?? if you now in which step you are now , this will help you understand more about your addiction and as result , improvement 1- first step : looking the cycle start from looking to women if you did not look to women , you will block the cycle and hence ...

I tried leaving PMO from last 12 years, now I am 25. I abstain from PMO. First few days, then weeks it felt good. You start going to gym, feel good about having more energy and time. But after a month there is so much desire in me for having sex. I again started seeing porn again but it no...

sooo I’ve been trying to talk to this girl for like 6 months and she’s so perfect and I can’t get her off my mind it’s lasted like 3 months and it’s actually kinda worrying. Idk how she feels about me but that’s off the table pretty much I can’t stop thinking about her and my sexual desires I’m...

Today in a sleep I got a sexual dream like I was kissing a women hardly then after lots of kissing before i try to mate with her I ejaculate in my pant (In Dream). I was started thinking in dream what the fuck is happening? Before fuck how I ejaculated? Then again I felt what I did? I am on...

So, This is my first post. I'm old 34 yrs, started in my teens. Heavy on porn. It is/was rhythmic. I had to masturbate morning then at night, it was a routine and i needed to stick to it. i was also a smoker for 10 years but cleared that years back. I would combine both for the ultimate...

Hey everyone. Lately I am finding it difficult to go threw a day with thinking of wanting to being with a Woman/Girlfriend or of course having sex for one day? I feel honestly like something is off balance? I've tried hard the past few months to find some one online and just have a fun easy...

Hey fam, Of couse, each and everone of us is different. Yes, the majority of us is sexual in some form or another. Some like it more frequent, some do not. And yet, with a lot of couples, there is still a misconception of what the partner wants and needs when it comes to enjoying themselves...

Little bit of story about me: I've had sex with around 100 women and I'm in my mid twenties. I have an addiction to women. When I have sex, I'm very aroused and have no problems coming. Also I've been fapping for a long time. I started dating this amazing girl recently. She's brillant, and...

Ive been heard by several motivational speakers in various mediums like book, youtube, audio books e.t.c.. But one thing is common among all of them.. everyone is suggesting people to set an appropirate goal.. yes that overall sounds good.. but my question is, is that creating any limit or...

See Desire mentioned here often. Missing, misplaced, not enough, too much. This old German Movie, “Wings of Desire” is great ponderous movie, 1987. (German; Der Himmel über Berlin) I post here a photo from the final scene. Shows the protagonist anchoring and focused on his lover with all his...

Although the desire doesn't seem as overpowering as last week, I'm starting to experience regular urges for sex, and it's stressing me out. You'd think it would be easy to allocate all my energy and attention into a productive activity, but sexual thoughts creep into my conscious like an...

Continuing on from my first philosophical submission to this forum, I have begun to read through the works of Lucius Annaeus Seneca. I will read ten to twenty letters each day, and submit relevant and thought-provoking lines from the tutor to Nero below so that they too might offer insight on...

I was on my phone when this overwhelming desire to masturbate came over me. I gave in and broke a plan to go 7 days without PMO. I really don't want this to happen to me again. Are there anyways to ignore/suppress these urges?

Hi I am a Catholic christian and I have tried to live like a saint for a period of a time. We catholics try to be christians who do not break marriages. So therefore we do not let the desires of the flesh control us very much actually. Desires of the flesh include for example masturbation, what...

I'm in fucking tears writing this. I'm officially broken. I tried to tell my family I'm having issues with suicide thoughts and depression. "Its all in your head" they state while smiling "Nothings wrong with you" they tell me "Its your fault you don't have friends because you never leave the...

yo people, last month i saw porn every 2 days, is it possible to instantly quit it ? or should i watch every week porn and then every 2 weeks and so on? i dont think you can get rid of an addiction that quick. and I have tested NoFap before, after 7 days i just thougt about sex all day, was a...

DISCLAIMER: This is by no means a social study on loneliness and I am by no means a psychiatrist. This is simply what I've seen in my own experience and what I have concluded from those experiences. Recently I've noticed a trend with many people who are single and struggle with PMO. Loneliness...

I thought this short interview with a philosopher about the nature of sexual desire would interest some people here. It touches on porn, masturbation, and addiction. I don't endorse his conservative views but I do find them interesting and useful...

Hello, I am 99 days into my reboot, and I have a topic to discuss. Hopefully you can help me. Sorry if the text triggers you in any way. My reboot helped me with my social interactions, made me a more relaxed human being overall, motivated me to start learning a lot of things, and on top of...

As far my experience goes, your libido meter tells you how horny are you feeling today & it happens the moment you are about to get up from sleep. It may vary in intensity from zero to its peak but it happens at that wake up moment, at least for me it works like this. At days when i felt my...