fantasising

  1. I

    Are sexual fantasies a kind of relapse?

    It's the second day I don't fap, but in compensation I have a lot of sexual fantasies, usually about past experiences or random people I see. I obviously avoid to touch down there, but I wonder if it helps or not my recovery from PMO addiction.
  2. N

    Fantasising

    Yesterday I was taking a shower and I started to fantasize about a girl I made out 4/5 months ago Ave I got hard for like 6/7 minutes, I’ve hadn’t been that hard for that long since a long time. I’m on day 145 of no pmo. My question is is fantasising not good for recovery? And I didn’t fantasize...
  3. D

    Any advice on sexual thoughts while trying to go to sleep?

    Hi everyone. I’m happy to say that I’ve gone a full seven days without PMO. But today I released due to a wet dream. It was more or less related to the porn I’ve consumed. I know it’s natural to have sexual thoughts sometimes but consuming myself with fantasizing has been a been habit of mine...
  4. A

    How do you stop fantasising about real girls like your ex or imaginary girls..

    How do you stop fantasising about real girls like my your ex or imaginary girls??? Because it can be a trigger for a relapse..
  5. Rox7

    PIED: How bad is fantasizing for recovery?

    I am 24 going on 25 and I have had serious PIED for 4-5 years, to the point where I couldn't even get full erections during PMO, but I still get morning wood sometimes. I have been without PMO for 2 months. I have not seen any improvement, though with the issue being as bad as it is, I wasn't...
  6. mouton1998

    Porn flashes and fantasising on sex

    Guys, I need your help. I don't know why but porn flashes come in my mind during the worst moments: sometimes images of p**nstars enter my mind while I'm studying; the same thing happens while I'm having dinner with my parents, or when I go outside with my dog.... Am I the only one who gets...
  7. H

    All Suggestions Welcome "Insomnia"

    I'll try to keep it short. I fantasized every night since puberty, like every single night. Now I'm having trouble sleeping if I do not fantasize. And it grows with the nofap count, first it took me half an hour to fall asleep, now 2 hours and after day 60 I'm awake atleast 4 hours after going...
  8. A

    How do I stop fantasizing and start doing?

    Hey, I'm currently about 10 weeks into my reboot process where I've removed myself from porn and masturbation. However, I don't feel a difference. I still have the same thoughts about women such as they're fit and I'd like to fuck them but this thought process I have is making me remain very...
  9. O

    Fantasy - arousal relation

    Hi there! I'm beginer on this nofap stage of my life. I'm 29 years old and masturbating for a very long time unfortunately. Not watching porn for 3 weeks already but realised one thing: I can not watch porn but my arousal still tied very much to fantasy. And there're two problems about that. 1...
  10. T

    I am here so that I don't have to be here again !

    Hi. I decided to stop watching porn today. I am not going to watch porn or masturbate for a month from today onwards and I want to see the changes myself. I don't have to prove it anybody or anyone. I am here to see if I can control myself or not. I am really glad that I owned up to my habits...
  11. D

    I'm 28 years old and I want to stop fantasizing with Porn [Spanish]

    Buenas noches. Soy de Chile y no estoy seguro si deba escribir mi post de introducción en español, pero mi inglés no es muy bueno. De ser necesario, lo traduciré más adelante. Actualmente tengo 28 años y me he dado cuenta que la vida es muy corta para estar encadenado a una adicción tan dañina...
  12. sfmark12

    Do you ever wonder why?(For people with fantasizing problems) (May have triggers)

    I want to be able to write this down while it is fresh in my head before I head into work. For the people struggling with fantasizing on their reboot I ask you, why does your brain give you these unrealistic, sexual, disturbing thoughts? So today I went to the gym and I said hello to the lady...
  13. 1

    cant stop fantasisisng about porn / visualizsing. please help

    Over the last week I am constantly being bombared with memories of my favourite porn scenes the thoughts dont last that long but are almost visualizations of my favourite scene. I end up getting an erection each time I have these thoughts. They are also very specific fetishes. I have tried very...
  14. Peter Horse

    I'm a new Fapstronaunt.

    Hello all, I am new to NoFap. I'm 28 and I have been watching porn since I was 11 years old. I have been struggling with PIED and I am done with porn controlling my life. Ive tried to quit several times before, but I would always find myself "just checking the new videos." That always...
  15. FormerFapaholic

    Fantasies - Do they fade away?

    Into my recovery from PMO for a month now (at the time of writing). After waking up this morning from having a wet dream overnight. I am enquiring of how long can it take for sexual fantasies and the sexual conditioning change or fade away? Obviously, I appreciate that this will take time. One...
  16. D

    Here I go again...

    Hello all. Tried this before, and the longest I've managed is about three weeks. I felt some benefits from doing so, but I want to push myself to do at least the full 30 days. I want to prove to myself that I AM in control of my primal urges AND my mind. Fantasy was my downfall last time. Porn...
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