fantasy

  1. FreeTh1nker

    Warcraft Challenge

    Warcraft Challenge The time has come to embark on an epic quest—not just in the world of Azeroth, but within ourselves. Join us in the ultimate challenge to conquer the forces of PMO (Porn, Masturbation, Orgasm) and achieve self-mastery. In a world filled with temptation and...
  2. Marcus113

    The "real" approach: Technique for resisting temptation

    I would like to share with you an interesting observation about porn addiction. It is possible that it has already been mentioned on the forum, but I still feel like it is worth telling with the hope that it may help someone. Porn addiction is, in my opinion, a very "mental" thing. What I mean...
  3. A

    What to do if i always do this in public?

    Im 15 and i have always been insecure about my penis. Ive never had kissed or hugged a girl. When im outside i make myself have erections on purpose and then walk around with it and sometimes i get some women look at it and it just gives me the attention i need. What to do? Im 1 month in nofap...
  4. A

    What to do if i always do this in public?

    Im 15 and i have always been insecure about my penis. Ive never had kissed or hugged a girl. When im outside i make myself have erections on purpose and then walk around with it and sometimes i get some women look at it and it just gives me the attention i need. What to do? Im 1 month in nofap...
  5. neuron_starver

    question for those who don't check out women, does it ever get easier?

    this is mostly aimed at ppl who purposefully avoid ogling/gawking at the bodies of the opposite sex, and also try to not entertain sexual daydreams/fantasies. (sometimes called the "No Arousal Method") Does it ever get easier? like, averting my gaze whenever i'm walking past female bodies is...
  6. O

    Sexual thoughts

    Hi, when you have sexual thoughts do you entertain them or try not to think of it? I am wondering if sexual fantasies will lead to further pmo. Thanks
  7. B

    Which fantasies are considered “porn-like”?

    Mini background Day 11, I can control myself more and started reading books instead of watching porn and masturbating. Build up to the question So I was reading “Your Brain on Porn” and there is a chapter called fantasising. I used to refuse every fantasising and anything sexual, but I...
  8. BangJul

    Dead Dick, Random Erection, and Random Fantasy. What happened to me?

    This is my 63 Days on Nofap, im suffering and confused with my nofap Progression. I've tried so hard to stay away from porn, masturbation, orgasm, and any fantasy. But the Fantasy come accidentally. I also confused about my dick. Sometimes he dies when my mind craving for porn. Sometimes i got...
  9. you_can_UK

    How do you build the mindset to stop fantasizing?

    First of all I am not a hard extreme fantasizer.I fantasize about previous recaps from porn videos I saw.Sometimes I am lost into creating the best porn as per my taste in my head.I know it's weird.For me the first trigger is not a pic, or a clip, or a model as in the first place I never...
  10. D

    Today I wrote a book, I don't think I should continue writing it anymore...

    I woke up today and I had this wonderful idea of writing this noir drama detective book set in the 'cyberpunk' future. The book I wrote is a fictional novel and I've wrote 20 pages so far. The story is simple, It's about an undercover detective entering an industrial city set in future (2060)...
  11. Meshuga

    How to Get to 90 Days

    Spend any amount of time here on NoFap and you'll discover, the average fapstronaut active in the forums is Overtly enthusiastic about quitting, and vocal about their disgust for P and the negative impact on their life Struggles to sustain a streak longer than a week Logically one can only...
  12. Meshuga

    Succubus

    I'm not talking about the fear based etiological myth to explain wet dreams. I'm thinking of the more well-known version, the fantasy monster, the D&D encounter you need a Will save to pass. I always thought it should be Int. based instead, I mean come on. You live in a world of gods, dragons...
  13. modern milarepa

    Fapper's logic 101

    I've hear some crazy things here in NoFap. Like: "all women just want my sperm. Get out of here you sperm vampires. " "your sperm becomes fertile after 90 days and you become irresistible to girls" By the infamous Alexanderbois "I was horny so I relapsed. Now I feel horny as hell." " I...
  14. M

    Masturbation without porn

    It was never a dream of mine to become an "expert" on PMO but after years of failed attempts and relapses, I think I have valuable information to share about my recovery. Like many of you, I've tried every possible method ie; hard mode, light mode and everything in-between to combat my...
  15. vishop

    What exactly is a wet dream? Is it different then fantasy?

    So I had a wet dream last night. I couldn't sleep and some geek culture was going on in my mind which made me little stressful. But I still slept early in the morning and thats when I had the wet dream. The dream was weird to say the least. It was a dream within a dream. Honestly I have been...
  16. D

    Extreme addiction.

    Hello guys! Like all of you here i was motivated to stop fap and porn. Reached 1 year. Could not overcome my addiction. Here is my mistake. When i got great urge, i didn`t fap but was watching porn in a frenzy for the whole day. This shit happened to me every 2-3 months in that year. THIS DID...
  17. I

    HOCD GONE, Porn addiction GONE, Penis sensitive, but fantasy is still infrequent.

    This is like the first chapter of a success story. I would say I am about 95% of the way to where I need to be. However I am still not perfect. I suffered from extreme porn escalation for all my teenage life. Since the day I had PIED with a girl, I developed terrible HOCD which fucking sucked...
  18. Y

    Resisting Temptation

    Hi folks. For those who are unacquainted, I am on a journey of removing masturbation as a mechanism of coping with loneliness and self-pity. I wish to document an experience I witnessed today. Let's begin. Prior to writing, I was in the process of preparing for bed. While brushing my teeth, I...
  19. Honey_Singh_420

    Why do we idolize women's body? Is there an alternative?

    What could be the core of the objectification of woman body. Please refrain from commenting those who say calm down it's normal/healthy/blah-blah type bullshit, or that's how men are designed. Well along with our programming, we have intelligence and awareness. We aren't any of those reptilian...
  20. K

    Erection From Thrusting??

    Hi. I’m a 20 year old and have been porn free for roughly 8 months. I previously could not get an erection without porn but can now fairly easily masturbate to sensation with no fantasy. For 6 months I went completely hard mode no relapses. Recently I have been masturbating a couple times a week...
  21. +TenPercent

    A fantasy came true with my SO. But I'm a fantasy addict. Is this good or bad?

    Is it healthy? I would really love to hear from SOs and PAs on this, but warn that it **may be triggering** What happened: I was making love with my gf. 5-10 minutes of foreplay, I went to perform oral but she said no, then we started PIV. I had an emission in less than 2 minutes (so PE, but...
  22. Rationaliser

    Does precum from sexual fantasy set you back?

    I think we've all been there. I'm high on sexual energy and I get boners during the slightest of sexual fantasy. I keep the fantasy going for quite some time without touching but my penis is buzzing all the time and I'm feeling fluid slowly trickling inside. I go to the bathroom and find some...
  23. Iamcryinginside

    Any good obscure anime?

    Pretty self-explanatory based on the title. I don't want any slice of life anime but I like some romance in a adventure anime. OFC NO HENTAI
  24. A

    Instagram/Facebook Addiction, not porn.

    Hey guys, I've never had an issue with watching porn, in fact, I don't watch it much (every other week), However, I am addicted to masturbation. The material I use instead is pictures of girls from Facebook/Instagram, some of whom I know personally or kind of know or sometimes just your classic...
  25. Ginseng12

    Cant stop fantasies while on a streak

    Ever since i have tried to stop PMOing last year to transgendered people, the impulse to do it has become so much stronger, i don't know why, maybe because i'm thinking about it too much, i have exhausted all possibilities of logical reasoning why i don't like doing it and why i shouldn't, but sometimes the...
  26. S

    Attention On Girls

    Stopped PMO For 7 Days Some Effects I Feel Are I Sleep A Lot Now And Very Heavy I Sleep I Feel Less Hungry All The Time I'm Tired Easily Have Pain in bones after I wake up Earlier when I dozed off in classroom my thoughts were of porn but now I'm not watching it I fantasize of Girls in my...
  27. D

    Fantasies - How Do You Stop Them?

    I have been trying to reboot for quite some time now and I’ve almost completely eliminated porn from my life but no matter what I do my minds keeps drifting into imagining sexual fantasies during the day. I try not to dwell on them but they still pop up from time to time. This makes me concerned...
  28. Kyle23

    What’s the Origin of my Fetish?

    Im looking for someone educated on the subject of fetishes and how they come about. Also the psychology behind it. Looking for a pm discussion on the matter to help me better understand it for my own personal reasons. Any help is greatly appreciated.
  29. A

    Does Fantasizing count as a relapse??

    I am doing nofap for couple of days and i get strong urges during the day but i postpone them by keep telling myself that in the night, i will fantasize. And in the night i fantasize myself with all sexy girls i personally know ( not a pornstar ). I do fantasize in bed till i get to sleep. This...
  30. Zillion

    What does it mean by?! - DREAMING OF HUGE SCREEN!

    This does not feel like an average dream, very amazing and very enjoyable!. let me explain about the style that i usually follow to dream. I`ll always dream about nostalgic events, like spending time with vintage games, toys from the 90s!!. Okay, let me come to the point, Today I slept quite...
  31. I

    Innate fetish, help (or be inspired)

    I am now about a week away from 90 days on Nofap and I really wanted to here what you think. The post might be a little long, but even if you can´t help, I think it will be very motivational for you. Short version: I´ve had weird sexual (innate) fetishes for a lot of years which I have...
  32. D

    Body, speech and mind

    I have made it to 30 days without PMO and so far this is a big achievement. However, within these 30 days, I did engage in sexual thoughts/fantasies. I did read erotic stories online and got aroused by them. Also, I had conversations with women which were of a very sexual nature for kicks. I...
  33. Coolyorky

    Does fantasising hinder reboot?

    Usually most mornings I wake up thinking about sex. I control myself not to MO but does the fantasy hinder reboot? They are about real women not P but do they fire the same neurological pathways as P?
  34. K

    can't stand this forum anymore

    About 12 years ago I began to consume hardcore porn on the internet and soon slipped into an addiction. About 3 years ago I sought help online, found this forum and started my Journey. At first it was a great relief. I confessed, went through the emotions, found immense support and learned to...
  35. Philomath

    Sexual Transference or Something?

    I have the feeling I will struggle to articulate this. Maybe this has a specific name if it's common phenomena? But frequently, and quite maddeningly, I often fantasise or get aroused by other men's pleasure as they have sex with women. Say for example, I'm having sex with my girlfriend, to get...
  36. T

    Ideal perception of women? Need your wisdom

    Hey people, need your thoughts and wisdom on some thoughts/ideas. So I'm on about day 110 at the moment of Nofap and it has been one of the greatest things I've ever done with my life, the number of benefits are insane and I've listed them before here. But at the moment I'm just wondering about...
  37. K

    Problem with fantasizing!

    Hey guys! I am on my 22nd day of a hard mode reboot. In these 22 days I have never stroked my penis or watched full fledged porn. However, I have had a foot fetish since before porn and also used to get turned on by some other scenarios of women being tied up etc which I saw in movies or...
  38. 7

    Is fantasizing considered a relapse?

    What's up Fapstronauts? I have a issue on my conscience. I know we shouldn't dwell on fantasies that come to our mind, but if we do, is it a relapse? I ask because I do this a lot (I need stimulation somehow lol) and after remembering my NoFap commitment, I say "Damn, I relapsed!" and go on...
  39. ArcherJJ

    How damaging is fantasy to recovery?

    Outside of its potential as a catalyst for relapse, I would like to discuss here the understanding that fantasy may slow a person's PIED recovery, and strategies to avoid it. I am at 66 days and have seen improvements in my condition (morning wood, notably), but I often catch my mind drifting...
  40. WittLowryfan0915

    ay guys, help me out?

    Alright fellas, its been a fat minute since I've been on here. I was good to go for a long while. But recently, things have been kind of messy. So a little background. I'm 14, turning 15 in September. Idk if this is a stage of puberty and growing up or not but I need some answers cos its driving...
  41. MrVaughn

    Second Try

    I'm 51. Not had many long, successful or fulfilling relationships in the past, but met a great woman and it all became serious about six months ago. I work abroad, on a different continent from her, and was due to go home for three weeks in April. So we planned to have a weekend in bed. It was...
  42. Animation Fan

    Discussion: What About Lucid Dreams?

    Alright, so a quick lesson; lucid dreams are when you become aware that your dreaming. You have total control over your dreamscape, situations, and people/objects in them. The sensations, even if you've never experienced them, are very realistic. Most people experience them a few times in their...
  43. G

    What my infection made me think!

    Hey there, Gokul G here. I'm a 25 year old management student from Kerala, India. I was so happy and excited by watching porn and fapping off that I used to do the same every day when I was home and had a self imposed restriction on fapping when I'm in my hostel room. I knew that it was wrong...
  44. Peter Horse

    I'm a new Fapstronaunt.

    Hello all, I am new to NoFap. I'm 28 and I have been watching porn since I was 11 years old. I have been struggling with PIED and I am done with porn controlling my life. Ive tried to quit several times before, but I would always find myself "just checking the new videos." That always...
  45. T

    I am not addict to porn, but my mind is fucked

    In fact I never used porn for M or O, I always fap with fantasy on my mind. Thinking to pretty/hot girl was enought to make me horny and i usually invent somes scenarios to enjoy it. So I started fapping to the girls we see on ad, music clip etc... (specially Kpop during the last 2 years) and...
  46. ASD_OZ

    Avoiding Day dreaming

    I have this problem where I day dreaming almost everyday and never aware of my existence until I get into social interactions. Now , the problem is that while I'm alone I need to take care of my life as any1 does. Thing is , I find myself day dreaming rather than finding the girl of my life ...
  47. E

    Need advice & encouragement to stop fantasizing

    I haven't M'ed in 137 days and been without P longer than that but I'm struggling with fantasy. I'm still addicted to dopamine. I have been intentionally fantasizing to get an erection so I can feel the rush of dopamine. I need to stop as it's likely slowing my reboot and could trigger me to...
  48. M

    My Haunting Fantasies

    I have been watching porn since two years and I have recently discovered this amazing platform. I have tried to abstain myself from any type of PM for only 9 days. Its a start and I hope I reach 90. But the issue is my mind is full of fantasies and wierd thoughts. I have fantasized my ex in...
  49. The man who was Thursday

    Advice on fantasizing

    I've been PMO free for 11 days now and so far I was feeling good. However today I was reading the news and there was triggering clickbait which I clicked. It's like a snowball, I start with just one thought of desire and that starts rolling downhill and gaining force. Some minutes later I was...
  50. D

    A question about fantasizing! (Would appreciate any input)

    Hello, Fapstronauts! So on the topic of fantasizing, I was wondering if these things are hindering my reboot. I know it's wrong to fantasize sexual scenarios, look at P-Subs and whatnot. But the problem is when I sweet talk a lady I'm texting, I get erections just thinking about having dinner...
  51. Josh88

    Making sense of my sexual dream

    Last night I had a sexual dream. During the dream I was acting out a specific sexual fantasy that I learned from watching countless porn videos in my past. The moment I woke up, I felt some shame. I felt like a monster for having that dream. Looking back at it now, I know that I had no control...
  52. W

    Want to end fantasies

    Im 16 year old male. And I have sex-related fantasies. And it comes to my mind very often in a bad time and in a bad place. It has got to the point when fantasies would come on funeral. Sounds ridiculously rigged. I know. I used to watch porn daily. Now I try to clear my mind off and think like...
  53. O

    Fantasy is my biggest problem

    i didn't know PMO was a problem till i get first time laid ... i am trying my best for NoFap for last 6 months ...Max streak is 21 days ..i didn't relasped with porn but my imagination/looking at good looking girls and somehow move my thighs as i have trained my hands not to go to groin area...
  54. Roar

    How to get over Anal sex fantasy? A simple solution that helped me.

    I admit I have fantasy of Anal sex. So today I had this urge of watching it. I looked at this image instead http://3milliondogs.com/blog-assets-two/2015/01/SpencerPitBullPuppy14WeeksPoopWormsTape.jpg. My urges were immediately gone. Hope it helps someone else. Look for similar images on google...
  55. D

    What are some indirectly sexual things that trigger you?

    For me it has to be browsing through the threads on NoFap. You admins really need to pick up some slack around here lol. In all seriousness it's probably the unusual encounters I have with girls/women. For example, about a week ago I put in the wrong key by accident to the front door of my...
  56. N

    Fantazising

    Can I still have a successful reboot while MOing? If I cut out all visual stimulation but i still fap to my imagination of girls I know, will that still reverse the effects of porn and bring my brain back to normal? I'd imagine it would depend on my situation. Well I'm a teenager, been fapping...
  57. D

    PE in sexual dreams

    This has happened to me a couple of times, most recently last night. I have a semi conscious, semi lucid dream in the middle morning. It turns sexual :oops:, and I have sex (I am a virgin though :eek:). But what happens is that I have PE in the dream. It only takes a few seconds for me to...
  58. N

    What I Want from a Reboot

    Greetings to whoever may be reading this. I'm posting in here to tell my story, state what I suffer from, and state what I hope to gain from becoming involved with NoFap and going through a "reboot" process. First off, I'm not against porn. I don't what to quit porn. Actually, I can agree that...
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