feelings

  1. InAQuietSpace

    No situation is so bad that relapsing can't make it worse

    08/03/24 01:26 No situation is so bad that... relapsing can't make it worse. Usually the reason for relapse is negative feelings, perhaps something bad has happened that makes you feel quite shitty, maybe even horrible, and your mind immediately looks for a fix, just the thought of using again...
  2. modern milarepa

    Pleasure, feelings and other demons

    Love can turn into hate, pleasure becomes suffering. Happiness in sadness. All these are extreme states of mind, you can’t keep any of them forever. Suffering comes from getting attached to these shallow feelings and states of mind. I find the middle path a stoic approach sort to speak more...
  3. 2080Future

    Where am I going?

    I haven't gotten past a week of no PMO in the last 2 months. I couldn't figure out why until my relapse today. You see most of my strategy to beat this addiction, apart from the healthier habits i've been picking up, was thinking about why i started in the first place. It has always been about...
  4. 2080Future

    Need emotional support over this

    Posted this on my log but posting it here so it can reach more people. I am feeling fucked up, i have a horrible stomach ache and i think i know why. This weekend I met a girl during an activity I had to do. They put us in pairs and i got with her, she was really sweet and i felt like i could...
  5. FezMan76

    I found the cause

    Today, after another relapse from this ongoing streak of urges and failures, I think I have finally found the root cause of my PMO problem. And that is... loneliness and repressing myself from being open to people and from making friendships and relationships. I know that it isn't stress from...
  6. @

    Restsarting

    Hi. 14 days ago I decided to stop porn and fapping and I'm starting to feel again, I feel anything again. My emotions are harder, sadness, happiness, anger... The thing is that in these days I've been dating a girl (nothing had happend yet) and when I think about her I want to fap, but I don not...
  7. Druvomir

    Is something wrong in my head, or I am just stupid?

    Hello, I don't know if this is right posted here, but anyways. This is long, so I would understand if you guys don't want to read it all. In Octuber 2018 I realized that I was having porn addiction problems when I was having 300gb of HD porn and cutting parts to save space, which took me hours...
  8. Just a Kid with a Dream

    For gods sake it was the last time.

    A few hours ago I messed up. Again. But before I go in further detail I should explain my background with nofap. Around 1,5 years ago I was confronted with this movement and I started overthinking my porn consume and my masturbation habits. After trying and failing several times after just a...
  9. Dim Meadow

    Feelings of Inadequacy/ Insecurity

    Hey guys, I'm starting this thread because #1: I haven't yet seen one focusing on the subject matter and #2: I currently really feel like venting. I hope it's in the correct section of forums and please feel free to share your own opinions and experiences. Maube we can shes some rationality on...
  10. P

    Discovering one's feelings and their expression

    Greetings to my fellow heroes and NoFappers! I want to ask for help regarding an problem, I haven't quite been aware of till I started NoFap (btw today is my 3rd week in hard mode and it was the best decision in my life!): I noticed that I really cannot express my emotions, especially love and...
  11. T

    My feelings are coming back!

    Hello, fellow fapstronauts! It's been over 200 days since I've started fighting with this horrible addiction. I mainly used it to forget about things. Things that happened at home or at school. I really numbed my feelings. Before I started my journey with NoFap I couldn't feel anything really...
  12. Saurav04

    Respect, do you feel the same

    Its been appx 2 weeks abstaining from PMO. I feel respect towards me and orhers, this is very different feeling. When doing PMO there is just guilt and regret. For past 2 weeks I have been taking care of me and providing myself with things I like except PMO. I know 2 weeks is not that much...
  13. brightsidealien

    Meditation. I very Highly recomend it.

    I know it's not news or even a passing fad. This is ancient wisdom at play and it WORKS wonders on the soul and mind of any who dare undertake the activity. What activity might that be? MEDITATION! Trust me guys, if you can't sit with yourself for a lil while, closing your eyes and focusing on...
  14. S

    Can you trust feelings (when addicted or during reboot)

    Basically, in the past months (during my struggle fighting PMO) I noticed one girl seemed to like me and I also felt like I liked her. But I overthink everything and now I wonder: Can you trust your feelings during your reboot? Are the crazy swinging hormones reliable and representative of your...
  15. green lion eating the sun

    From what he said, did he ever truly like me?

    he told me "At the beginning I thought there could be something between us, but there wasn't". I dated this guy for about a month and we had s. twice. i had a feeling for the first time in my life that someone i was intimate with was opening up to me (he showed me after 1st s. album of photos of...
  16. S

    Are feelings reliable during PMO reboot?

    Basically, in the past months (during my struggle fighting PMO) I noticed one girl seemed to like me and I also felt like I liked her. But I overthink everything and now I wonder: Can you trust your feelings during your reboot? Are the crazy swinging hormones reliable and representative of your...
  17. Vegetto_97

    I feel lonely after thinking about a young woman

    August 2017, I move to a city to study Bachelors Degree in Law and Administration. Next month, I meet this girl at a gym center and I start to train there regularly. No contact were made. I look at her and she is the sex-bomb in the gym, the only hottest girl there, short and petite. She looks...
  18. D0M4

    Feeling no emotions or empathy...

    Hi fellow Fapstronauts. It has been a long time since I've posted anything here.Nearly a year.A lot has changed for that year.Except one thing.You guessed it.Porn. When I first started NoFap it helped me for awhile,it seemed like I was taking back my life.And I did,for a short while.And then...
  19. Limitbreaker

    Arousing women

    ive stumbled across a video from Hypnotica about creating raw emotions of lust, unstoppable sensuality and uncontrollable feelings of lust in women. In the video ( wont post it, its graphic). It was showed that men can easily arouse women so hard, that they almost fall all over you. Im not...
  20. M

    I really need to get this off my mind

    Hey guys, this is the only place where I can feel I can vent so here goes... I'm a 20 year old male that has started dating a girl last week that is 17. We met at bowling coaching so we've known eachother for about a year since I'm still quite new to the sport. I don't get to see her very often...
  21. Sayonara

    The male period, and flatlining

    After having a couple of flatlines, I've come to a realisation that these (lack of) feelings aren't completely new... I consider myself quite lucky when it comes to my psychological wellbeing. In general I've got lots of happiness to share and there's not much sadness and dwelling on things...
  22. Zillion

    I DO OFTEN GET NOSTALGIC EFFECT!

    Well, i was the very lethargic, procrastinating and often blame other or the situation and cirumstances around me... also got banged up by many different kind of pain, struggles and challenges... i had PMO addictions, binge eating now everything goes fine, even done 65 DAYS OF SUCCESSFUL NO...
  23. E

    Your ego will consume you

    Here's a very important topic which I think people should pay more attention to: your ego. Have you ever been one of those people who goes to a place and just has an awful perspective on everybody who seems happy? Have you ever despised other people feeling that they have the happiness and the...
  24. E

    KILL UNWORTHINESS NOW

    I apologize for the clickbait title, but I really need to spread this message as far as I can. Let me tell you a little story about myself: I have always been a "what if" kind of guy who hangs on to the past and daydreams about a perfect future. I've repressed my feelings so hard that I always...
  25. NightReaper775

    PMO addiction always acts as a veil

    Today I went deeper into myself. A cycle of relapses and very short streaks made me see how I really felt and what I thought about myself. I keep comparing myself to others, albeit knowing it is not useful at all. When studying, I think I will never become the next [insert important author...
  26. Single Palm Change

    Battling emotions? Read this

    Battling negative emotions Some of us have problems with negative emotions: Self-hate. Worry. Sorrow. Frustration and anger, apathy, hopelessness, feeling like a zombie, and many more. These are things that happen because the mind is out of sync with the body. By the mind I mean the conscious...
  27. Tonytone

    Feelings after a workout.

    Do any of you have this problem? Working out just makes me horny as fuck and the urges afterwards are insane! I'm tired, but feeling very sensual/sexual afterwards. (Not all the time, but more often than not). I don't even look at porn, it's all fantasy most of the time. And not just kinky...
  28. N

    79 days in, it's me who is struggling

    I am the SO of the PMO addict. We are not far away from the 90 mark and Hubby is feeling good about his progress. I have been supporting him as much as I can. He seems to be happy with his progress and thinks he is cured! Back storey; is that we have been married for over 2 years, been together...
  29. FormerFapaholic

    Irritable and hyper sensitive after relapse

    I did so well on my last streak to reach 61 days fap free. That was until I succumbed to a relapse. Which I noted down in my journal, and identified how and why my relapse happened. So I know what should be done next time now I've rebooted for future references. I started the reboot with a cold...
  30. Captain K'nuckles

    (OCD) Intrusive thoughts during masturbation

    Hi again folks, anyone here experienced intrusive thoughts when fapping? like sexual images who you don't want to think during orgasm? i feel like i need to fap again until i orgasm without having the thoughts again, if i don't do this 'ritual' i have no will to do anything, also i feel i cn't...
  31. aps1991

    Expressing Yourself To Women - The Conundrum

    Hi, What's the best way to express your true feelings to a woman you're attracted to? In my experience simply going up to them and telling them that I think they're sexy just gets a "thanks" and the conversation dies immediately. However the alternative of focusing on getting to know them...
  32. Captain K'nuckles

    Starting to see a lot of beautiful and attractive women around me

    In the bus, in the streets, in the college after giving up porn i start notice so many beautiful and charismatic girls who surround me, the world is starting to look more colorful, i feel my feelings towards people are going back to what should be, did you guys experienced things like this?
  33. Captain K'nuckles

    Do you became more romantic after nofap?

    my feelings about sex are getting more comfortable
  34. M

    Your feelings after quitting

    Hi guys, I've started this journey ,it's five days. I wonder to know ,how much was the difference between the first days' feelings(anxiety,depression,social skills, self-esteem,....) and last days in your journey. Is that considerable and perceptible to you? Please explain one of them if...
  35. The moon

    My heart feels so broken...

    It's 6 am here in my country. I just woke up. I am writing her because I don't know what to do. I wrote about it in my previous days.....So I like a girl, i met her online(a foreign friend) and she is my very close friend....more like I love her and I told her about my feelings after EASTER...
  36. FormerFapaholic

    Journals

    Since doing NoFap, I've decided on having a journal, and regularly writing my thoughts and feelings throughout my streaks and relapses I've had. Also on what I've done, how things have changed mentally, physically and emotionally for me, and what impacts it's made on me and my life for the...
  37. Urtarget1992

    A short ,dark ocd story with hope!

    Hi , my name is Christophe I'm 24 years old. Five years ago i met a girl who'm i liked but i never developed feelings for. I got scared because i always fell in love so easily. I could not get it out of my mind why i did not feel "love" for her and i began doubting everything, who i was ma...
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