femdom addiction

  1. W

    Starting out...

    I'm giving this another shot. I made this account a few years ago, I let it be and I'm actually surprised how much time has passed since then. I'm now 32 and have been using pornography, cybersex, phonesex and masturbation fairly compulsively for many years now. I first discovered pornography...
  2. S

    A Life without porn

    Since tuesday I've been avoiding porn and it seems to be working so far. I'm feeling intense craving right now for all these images that have burnt into my mind. I want to use this thread as a log for my journey towards a porn-free life. So I'm on day 4 without porn, especially femdom/findom...
  3. S

    Recovered but not enjoying real sex.

    Hi, I have been addicted to bdsm,femdom & almost every fetishes came under it for 13 years. Also tried these in real life with 2 dominant beauties approx. 10 sessions in year only. In previous year got married & now completed 11 months without PMO & MO. With my wife I started having good...
  4. DryRiser

    Is this porn induced or just psychological?

    Here's my story, followed by my question... that I would kindly appreciate your opinions on: 48 year old male, estranged wife, and I have 3 kids. Wife turned off sex and intimacy 6 years ago and I immersed myself in porn and MO. I've never really been into vanilla porn before this but very much...
  5. Mental strength

    Victory over femdom - Resurface

    I've been consuming this type of content for about 8 years, not very often, but it's always been there. Which is very harmful to your male mental health (energy, power, self-esteem, confidence, self-love) Today I will change that. we can be whoever we want to be. resurface lets go DAY 0...
  6. R

    Starting because of low self esteem and femdom

    Hi my fellow fapstronauts, Today i am starting my nofap adventure because i'm starting to realize how my addiction to femdom is starting to reach a more extreme side and it has a negative influence on my self esteem. Since i started watching porn which was about 9 years ago i have always been...
  7. Lassquwuquwuw

    I want to change

    Im in the middle of my exams phase and relapsed because of the stress/anxiety for tomorrow. I’m feeling really down right now and my brain feels like it’s being fried. But i feel as if there was a tiny bit of hope. My exams are done with Friday and the rest of my exams will be not that big of a...
  8. J

    Why am I addicted to Sissyfication and Beta Mentality?

    Hello Guys This is my first Journal and many more will come in future about how I was addicted to Porn, my struggle with "Sexual Lust" for a long time, Sissyfication, Masturbation, Femdom, Sissy Hypnosis and especially Big Black Cocks because of which I feel I have lost my Masculine Aura and...
  9. Lassquwuquwuw

    Last Chance

    The past few weeks ive been really struggeling with corn, relapsing more often and way worse. I have a lot of Important exams coming up, which Stress me 24/7 which leads to relapsing which leads to doing nothing for the exams. So i have a few weeks left, and in these few weeks i need to get...
  10. Lassquwuquwuw

    Why can’t i change?

    I‘ve been trying to quit porn for years now, but only got once over 20 days. And usally relapse every 3 days, and each time i feel like im going back one step more in that porn rabbit hole. I‘ve been to Therapy and tried much. But i could Never beat the temptation to relapse. All the time i do...
  11. Lassquwuquwuw

    First 30 days challange

    Day 0 Well i just relapsed now, and i normally always post daily about how my day went. I never got more than a 14 days streak, even if im trying for +3 years to quit porn. Now i want to get over 30 days, and really make a change and stop these intrusiv thoughts which have being hauntig me...
  12. PhilippB

    Practical methods for healing the unconcious / beating trauma induced submissive fetish

    Hello brothers, I am asking my question in the category „success stories“ on purpose. Has anyone of you, who seriously is free from PMO now and even more important free of a trauma induced submission fetish some practical tips how I can connect with my unconcious and how to heal my broken...
  13. Lassquwuquwuw

    It‘s returning

    I feel like i had a good run the last months, i had very few relapses and my intrusiv thoughts (older uploads) about femdom stuff… But i have this feeling in me which sometimes overwhelmse me completly, my mind goes ape shit. And then relapse. And honestly im scared of again genre escalation...
  14. Too_horny_MF

    I can only get hard by feet and not by vanilla

    I was never really that aroused by vanilla porn by the time I was 11 and only by some feet femdom bullshit I found and It's the only thing I've been masturbating on. I can't seem to get aroused by titties and ass. How do I fix this?
  15. G

    Severe femdom addiction, need advice

    Trigger warning Hey y'all, First things first, pardon my bad English, I'm not a native speaker. I'm an eighteen-year-old freshman and I've been addicted to hardcore femdom porn my entire life. I've never told anyone about it because, understandably, I think it's extremely embarrassing. The thing...
  16. struggle__

    Victory

    Yess, I struggled very much it was worth it. I started nofap three years ago and jumped through hoops however I beat addiction. Everything didn't finish. I need to improve myself more. I don't have fetishes now. I think the reason was lovelessness. But I loved myself and I was able to solve some...
  17. M

    New here, fem/fimdom addict

    Hoping I'm in the right place. I'm 26 years old with a good career, decent circle of friends and a supportive family. However I struggle with intamacy, I've had sex but it hasn't really fulfilled me. I have an increasing addiction to financial domination and general femdom. I recently came out...
  18. Lassquwuquwuw

    Relapsed again

    Just relapsed for the third time this week. The first two times i stopped mid-way. But now i just binged porn for 2 Hours or so. I feel like throwing up with all these intrusiv thoughts. Pretty anxious of it getting even worse. (Going back to these fucked up categories) I feel like it’s...
  19. D

    Partner watches sissy Hypno porn, Advice Needed

    So I recently found out that my partner has been watching sissy Hypno for a long time (+10 years) and I don't know how to take it... Everything I've been reading says it can be really damaging, if anyone knows anything more about this/has any advice, I'd be really appreciative! Warning ⚠️...
  20. Lassquwuquwuw

    Femdom/ts/humiliation Recovery

    I just turned 18, and just felt like posting my Journay. Started like everyone very young (12/13) a „friend“ showed me to it and jerked toghter, which he afterwards wanted to do it again. I luckily declined because (im 90% sure of how he acted, he wanted more). Then i started to Jerk daily...
  21. fleurfindomaddict

    A french girl porn addict

    Hi, as i said in the last post, I am a 29 year old French woman and I have been addicted to porn for 2 years. I'm a little special : I have a boyfriend and i'm a libertine that is to say that I like to exchange sexual partners. I can't get out of this addiction to porn and now also money as...
  22. fleurfindomaddict

    Need help - Porn addiction and femdom/findom addiction

    I am a 29 year old French woman and I have been addicted to porn for 2 years. I can't get out of this addiction to porn. I have a collection of about ten sex toys and I touch them at least once every two days, if not every day. For information, I am also a libertine. I like to swap partners...
  23. D

    How to quit a findom addiction for good

    So I’m just going to say it I’ve literally got a Findom addition and I know it’s starting to effect my life more now than ever before. I started about three years ago but it was just giving small amounts never above the £50 mark. When I first started I felt good because I was getting attention...
  24. F

    Femdom Getting Worse Please Help me !

    Help me ! I started from foot fetish from my 16 (i always like girls feet even i first masturbated to this type of video), slowly in my 18s i got into femdom, I hate this, but idk why i get aroused by this fucking shit. I don't have real sex till now. I am good in studies, kinda cute(as said by...
  25. Vita Vi Reparatio

    Femdom Addiction; Help Needed.

    I have been addicted to Femdom for about 7-8 years now: It has been about 80% of the porn I have watched. I always find myself relapsing and coming back to this after awhile, and can not seem to quit it. I have spent quite a bit of cash on clips, and even paying some to degrade me because I am...
  26. S

    Question here! Femdom related

    So i'm 18 turning 19 in 2 months, i've been watching femdom since i was about 11. The thing is that i can maturbate to normal vanilla porn, i can even masturbate to my imagination based on normal sex. But i just can't quit femdom, and the bigger problem is that i can't get hard while watching...
  27. Vita Vi Reparatio

    Addiction to Femdom/Findom, need help.

    Hey everyone, I am a new member, though I have been doing the NoFap challenge for about five or so years now. For about the past six-seven years, about 90% of the porn which I have been viewing has been femdom in some way. The other 10% would be a few other genres like lesbian, Blowjob POV etc...
  28. creatorofmyowndestiny

    FEMDOM ADDICTION

    Hey everyone, I am from india and my main language is hindi so i don't speak english so good but anyways let's start.I am here to tell you guys about my femdom addiction and how i am suffering from it... I am 20 years old.i have a foot fetish from when i was 13-14 years old.The first thing...
  29. S

    Unwanted fetish

    Hey guys, After 3 years of porn use since the age of 14 I’ve decided to join nofap in a desperate attempt to shake not only my porn addiction but my disgusting unwanted fetish. So basically, I find pleasure in watching woman dominate men, especially through farting and even scat videos. This...
  30. N

    Seeking help and advice after 7 days of no PMO due some troubles

    iam 20 and I started researching about nofap, retention, no pmo and about brain on porn last year and i started several times without proper knowledge so i relapse several times due to no reason. its just a try but i started again last week with proper knowledge about how to do it because i...
  31. A

    Addiction to gay erotica, no attraction to men outside of porn settings.

    Now this story is gonna be a long one, so please bare with me. I've always been a sexual person, since I was VERY young. The first time I ever jerked off was probably when I was around 5 or 6, back then when I first discovered this I used to come back from school, strip naked in my room and just...
  32. T

    has Anyone ever succeed?

    Hello, i Am 17 year Old,I started Nofap Like 3 months ago, but i failed over and over, my longest streak was 19 days, Now im day 17 And im getting serious about it. i am addicted to porn like for 3 years. FEMDOM/BDSM/CUCKOLD/FOOT FETISH(foot fetish i dont mind tho, but yeah) im seeing...
  33. T

    Should i see Vanila Sex? Help Pls!!

    Hello, i have been on nofap 3 months , my longest Streak is 19 days, and i failed too many times, but now im really focusing And im on day 13. im into BDSM/CUCKOLD/FOOT FETISH/FEMDOM. I dont mind foot fetish tho. Anyway, i never was into vanilla sex, but now i dont know why but when i think...
  34. N

    Femdom Addiction Huge

    Hello guys, i'm 18 year Old guy. i started to watching porn since 13 year old. i started watching vanilla sex but i had no erection. Some day somehow i saw A femdom video. and then my foot fetish started, Then i had erection all the time, but the worst thing i did was i went Deep into femdom. so...
  35. D

    Advice please going in circles

    Hi all, I’ve had a masturbation addiction for as long as I can remember. First exposure to porn was when I was 10 years old. At first it was not necessarily porn although it later became porn. My year when I got addicted to porn was 2014 and 2015, it subsided in 2016 and then in the middle of...
  36. F

    One and a half years working on this addiction

    Hey I'm a young healthy fit male. I first started to realize I had a problem when I was having erectile dysfunction. I started going to therapy with a sex addiction specialist who helped me to look deeper into my problems, as well as why I may be using this coping mechanism. I have been...
  37. K

    Workout and Relapsing

    First time user here, idk exactly where I should post this so I did here. I had a femdom addiction which i did manage to practically get rid of completely with workouts and meditation. But, there are certain exercises which cause me to O and EJ. Is this considered a relapse? Should I avoid these...
  38. D

    My experience so far

    Hello to everyone, I am 16 years old and I have been doing NoFap since May 17th completely avoiding porn and masturbation. I decided to start the rebooting when I realized that my addiction to edging was the main cause of the depressive state I was in. The trigger to start the challenge was...
  39. R

    18 Year Old Male looking to gain self control and more will power

    Hi! I'm an 18-year-old heterosexual male from India. I am looking to gain control over my kink and fetish for femdom porn. I have been on no PMO mode for 10 days now. My purpose of abstaining from porn: I have grown a fantasy for tease and denial as well as for chastity porn. This got...
  40. D

    My terrifying Femdom Addiction

    Hi everyone, this is my first post and new to Nofap The reason I came to seek help to this website was because I have been PMO since I was around 13-14 years. It all started as vanilla and normal sex porn. Eventually, my interests/kinks/fetishes started escalating into joi, face-sitting, cei...
  41. 1

    NoFap and fetishes

    Hi so I have been addicted to porn for about 6 months to a year and I am going to talk about my fetishes and my sexual experiences and if anybody could weigh in on some advice towards overcoming these with NoFap itd help. so ive always been attracted to regular porn, I have a gf and I think...
  42. S

    3rd Day Today

    Hi all, Thought I'd just introduce myself and perhaps gain some insight. I'm 21 and almost a year deep into my first proper relationship. Before this, I was very lonely and I would deal with this loneliness through the use of porn and also through using apps where I could speak to strangers and...
  43. T

    Femdom/sissy/cuckhold/kinky/fetish recovery in 18 DAYS!!!!!!

    When I say NoFap work IT WORKS, I was addicted to femdom sissy submissive porn for 2 years, I recently got a gf and I was having trouble and I got very concerned it got to the point idk loose my erection if there even was one to begin with I started NoFap 18 days ago and the result came about...
  44. T

    18 days off Femdom sissy porn

    I’ve made it 18 days off sissy Femdom porn, my erections are getting better with my girlfriend but sometimes I get performance anxiety with her and loose my boner, I find her pussy surprisingly more attractive since NoFap any got advice on anxiety before sex with a girl I always start thinking...
  45. T

    Addiction to femdom/sissy porn trying to have normal sex for the first time

    Hi, I’m 19 with my first relationship with a girl and I’m trying to have sex with . I’ve watched femdom,sissy,joi humiliation,worship mistress, even some sissy cuck cocksucking nasty shit at one point I’m 13 days into NoFap hard mode and it’s never been harder to do I wake up and go to sleep...
  46. T

    Femdom Addiction

    Hi guys, so I know this topic probably comes up quite often on here, as I've seen a few threads describing the same issue, but I wanted to tell my story and maybe help myself stay accountable on the journey to recovery. I'm new to this website, but I am giving a light trigger warning because...
  47. S

    Choosing the best things.

    Hello everyone, I'm a member of the NoFap community for a little over 3 days now. I just wanted to say that it's all about the choices we make. Every emotion is inside us. It's just that, what emotion do we decide to act upon. So, take the responsibility, choose what's best for you. And while...
  48. R

    foot fetish Hypnosis addiction porn

    I'm 21 years old and just started using this website. I'm 3 classes away from getting my associate degree for computer science and transferring to a four-year college while working for a job that accepts the associate degree. I tried to get out of that foot fetish slave mindset with hypnosis...
  49. H

    I am recovering

    Hi, i am very new to this site. I was a porn edict a for more than 10 years. I was watching videos of feet fetishism and femdom domination. I tried a lot of ways to come out of it but i couldn’t. All the ways I tried worked only for a couple of days or a week. Finally i saw a YouTube video about...
  50. C

    New to this and really in the rabbit hole

    Hey guys, I am a 26 year old man who has struggled with this branch of sex addiction for a while now. As of late my obsessions and urges are more and more prevalent. I’m in therapy right now to gather why I’m in so deep but I have some guesses. Lately I’ve been hooked on this online financial...
  51. J

    New to NoFap seeking advice !!

    Wassup guys, I am new to Nofap and I'm seeking advice. I read about the reboot process and seen the forum thought but was debating on joining. Im 28, I have a fetish for facesitting and eating pussy. This went on for a few years then I started watching the femdom facesitting. From there I been...
  52. W

    20+ years of Femdom addiction

    Well, I'm here at last. Over 20 years ago I discovered femdom porn, firstly in magazines and then progressed to internet stills and in more recent years porn tube sites. This soon fuelled the need to pay for visits to professional dominatrixes, and I dread to think how much money I have spent on...
  53. K

    Foot Fetish Fight (Project 365 days)

    Hello everyone, this is my story: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/foot-fetish-addict-need-help.206735/ I have just relapsed yet again. But, enough is enough. It's really difficult to give up a foot fetish. Am gonna write here about my progress and recovery. Day 0 was an absolute...
  54. K

    Foot Fetish Addict -NEED HELP

    Hello everyone, I have had a foot fetish since i was 9 years old. Am a virgin and have never dated any girls Am now 21 and have always masturbated to feet porn. It's not necessary feet porn, but i also masturbate watching girls' feet on social media like facebook and even instagram. I love the...
  55. V

    Total destruction

    Hi guys, i don't even know where to start. What im taught, it's best to start with introducing yourself. Hi, im Victor, im 19 years old univestity student from Europe. I have a sexual disorder which i can't yet define. All i know is that i need help. So... My problems started about 2 years ago...
  56. F

    Will vanilla ever satisfy me?

    To cut a long story short, for as long as I could remember vanilla things never turned me on. When I was growing up, the sight of breasts or other things that would typically arouse a pubescent boy never did anything for me. The only things that got me going were femdom and lesbians. This was...
  57. S

    Femdom fetish, wanting to reduce this...

    So basically ever since I was young I’ve had a foot fetish, that’s for certain. I remember biting my aunts foot when I was on the floor and I guess it’s developed from that. What I did not have was a femdom fetish, which only developed after searching to crave my foot fetish. I’m at a point...
  58. balkanic_falcon

    365 DAYS - ONE YEAR OF STRUGGLE - VICTORY

    Okay ladies and gentlemen... That's my story... https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/femdom-addiction-for-7-years-please-help.94640/ Yes, it was my story when i was helpless and when i was so weak to do anything to help myself. But then i discover this wonderful forum which give me...
  59. Neverchase

    A hero´s journey

    What’s up guys! I’ve been trying to overcome this addiction for 4 years, with no success. It’s time to do something different, and I figured I might need to reach out to this forum for help and support. I´ve never really believed it would make a difference, but I’m willing to give it a try. I’m...
  60. L

    Solution on How to get rid out of FEMDOM or SISSY Hypnosis.

    Here is something from my dairy When we say hypnosis it's a game of brain. in life everyone want control, superiority and money for this they use what they have and use other for their object. Let's understand HOW IT WORKS ? Then we will find solution together as per psychology anxiety or fear...
  61. D

    Reading threads makes me RELAPSE

    I'm addicted to FEMDOM porn and trying to overcome and had reached day 2 in hard mode. I was searching about femdom addiction and got some posts and thread there they were discussing and describing about their intimate relationship with their ex and I got aroused and I fapped. Although there...
  62. C

    FOMO and Pornstars

    So I figured out why our p-brains always want to go back and look at images, websites, and videos, even when we aren't horny. Ever heard of the fear of missing out? It's why I want to keep looking at twitter accounts about So's so's feet. Or new foot videos. Or them talking about something while...
  63. kevinharms138

    Femdom Porn

    I’m doing better with my findom addiction, I’ve deleted all contacts with that. Now, it’s becoming a femdom porn addiction and I’m worried about this. I’m also in a relationship and I need some help overcoming. I’m relapsing and I don’t know why or what to do.
  64. D

    Femdom addiction with dirty fetish: A CRY FOR HELP

    Age 19 male I have been mastrubating to porn since March 2012 when I was in class 9th. From the beginning I mastrubated heavly 2-3 times a day sometime even 5 times a day due to feeling depressed and lonely. In 2015 I was admitted to mental Hospital and I was dignosed with bipolar disorder...
  65. D

    Determinated to quit femdom porn

    Hi dear community! I have started using this forum to get rid of my femdom porn habit. I would like to share with you my history. I am not sure but maybe there is some spoiler. I would try to announce it. The first memory I have doing kinky stuff was when I was very young. All these...
  66. balkanic_falcon

    90 days!

    I just want to say that i am 90 days without PMO, with power of the will, now i am proud soldier who serve my fatherland, and i am not anymore just hopeless fap addict! 90 days is not enough, of course... Struggle continues! This was my story -...
  67. green doll

    Just want to share who really i am

    Maybe I need some help.. I always be silent reader and in the outside world people think i am a good person until now i think i must to share who really i am to people.. (there are no 'wow story' in here) Intro : For the start, i already fap maybe about 10 years. I declare war to fapping since...
  68. balkanic_falcon

    Femdom addiction for 7 years, please help!

    TRIGGER WARNING Hello everyone! First of all, sorry for my bad english, because my native language is serbo-croatian. It's great to see that site like this exists, and i'm very thankful to moderator of this site, i hope this will help me... because i never "opened my soul" to anyone, and never...
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