fetishes

hey i tried stopping for a half year now and it still getting better. however i relapse every time with one question im not sure about. i have al lot of fetishes, and do the go away after a while or are those fetishes a piece of who i am? it are fetishes like femdom feminizing and that stuff but...

I searched up two things on google. I didnt click on images, I didnt click on videos, I didn’t click on any of the search results, I didn’t see any porn, and I didnt masturbate. But it was definitely risky behaviour which doesn’t help me in any way. I felt the porn wiring being fired up, the...

Does anybody have any experience with more "progressive" fetishes like weight gain, bimbofication, etc.? I have a wg fetish myself, and I do think it's pretty natural but I'm married and I don't want my wife to participate in it. I think the thing that makes it so difficult for me is knowing...

i find it weird how i got trapped into porn and the paths it has taken me to. i had started watching porn because of the loneliness i used to feel post my breakup. it used to help me FEEL better(only initially ofc) and i kept on doing the deed of pmo till one fine day i realized that could not...

I'd like to state that this is my first time ever posting to the forums here on NoFap. I have tried this program out before, but I had little to no success. The longest I had previously lasted without masturbating was three days. However, I didn't mind given that it had no clear negative effect...

hey all, so like the title states, today I talked with my doctor about pmo. he's an experienced urologist and sexologist (might be the only one in my country). I told him about my pmo addiction etc. and he just said yeah, you gotta stop watching porn. first of all masturbation is selfish...

Hi all, I'm just getting started here -- I'm a 40-something male and I admit I'm definitely am a porn addict (have been practically my entire life) but I'm finally trying to stop. I'm currently on day 18 of my first-ever attempt at a reboot and so far I have (with great difficulty) avoided any...

Hey guys and girls. I had an idea about opening up to one another about struggles regarding porn addiction and masturbation. So instead of an face to face group meeting we could have an online one. I’ll post something like this maybe every other week and people can share their struggles and...

ive never had a girlfriend before and im 25. im more interested in a relationship instead of casual sex despite covid still happening but the good thing is that restrictions are being lifted in my country i dont have a job at the moment, i still live at home with my mom because the pandemic has...

Hi guys, 30, black, from UK! i have a fat belly fetish on women and i want it to go away! Started fapping to youtube and porn videos of women playing with and jiggling their bellies at the age of 18 and its been going on for 12 goddammn years and it needs to end! (CAUSES: loneliness, childhood...

I've always been terribly shy around women never really had a girlfriend never had sex. I want to become a Catholic as a way to spiritually commit to God but I have some pretty ungodly desires, I want to one day have kids with my own with a woman but I feel as if my shyness and sexual desires...

I feel like I tried everything in my power to get rid of my foot fetish. I've been having an "interest" for ladies' feet since I was a young boy and I have no idea why. I'm trying to become more spiritual and religious but I feel like my foot fetish is holding me back. I also have an attraction...

How it went? How much of a problem it was?

it's a baby step kind of.. well, before this I also had a 30 day streak, before that some minor ones. 1 more ~30 days streak. also my record is 45 days. all those streaks have been my attempts at nofap on and off for the past year and a half. once I got freed of my weed addiction I realised...

feel better about yourself now??? cause if you think you are a wreck, i'd wish i was you cause i dont know what i am... there's more to the list, I have morphed some of my female friends photos and wanked off to it (and deleted it on spot), Watched bestiality and wanked to it, and the only thing...

Peace, I should think that the title explains much of what I should seek in this thread, but let me make a few clarifications: 1. This thread is looking to amass a collection of coping mechanisms to effectively curb unwanted fetishes. 2. This thread is hoping to be highly sensitive to any and...

While rebooting, can I practice this fetish with her? I've had this fetish since I was a little kid, even before starting with PMO. I feel like when I do this with her I am not thinking about porn. Thanks in advance. I don't wanna ruin my reboot. Can I practice foot fetish with my Girlfriend...

Because, there have been already 5 months, but I only feel that they just get stronger. Please, anyone who experienced their reducing, give advice.

Hi guys! So I have had a foot fetish since I was 5 not sure how I got it. I discovered pmo at 12 yo and started understanding my fetish when I was about 14. I would watch normal and feet fetish porn ( footjobs and foot worship while sex type shit or just normal oral sex porn ). I am currently 16...

Hi, new comer here I am confused if one of my fetishes could be considered a reset or relapse. I am into sounding, (sticking things in ur urethra). I like just sticking a plug in my urethra and leaving it there and going about my day as normal. Would u guys consider this a relapse or reset. I...

hello, I'm 18, 2 years ago i started having hocd but never before did i think about men, before my hocd i was fapping for like 4 to 5 times a day, with hocd it went even higher because i needed constant reassurance. Last july a weirdo on discord sented me a trap hentai, i think i got turned on...

hello, I'm 18, 2 years ago i started having hocd but never before did i think about men, before my hocd i was fapping for like 4 to 5 times a day, with hocd it went even higher because i needed constant reassurance. Last july a weirdo on discord sented me a trap hentai, i think i got turned on...

Hey guys, understand this. Covering the following issues: 1. Dealing with performance anxiety. 2. Dealing with fetishes. 3. Dealing with PIED. 4. Feeling depressed. Solution guide step by step: It's all in the head, every single problem exists in your mind. It got there because of certain...

Ok so I have multiple fetishes all of which revolve around women. I'm hoping find a woman someday and I don't want these fetishes hindering my progress. Fetish #1, PVC clothing. Fetish #2 Bondage. Fetish #3 Tickling (but in a fun playful manner not torture). Fetish #4 Feet. Fetish #5 Hair...

I don't know if this is the right place to post this topic. If not, I'm sorry. I'm curious if you people feel the same way as I or is it just me. I feel like, if I go without O for a longer period of time, and eventually I relapse, I relapse to more risky materials. Thus, worsening my...

Hello all. I've been on and off nofap for a couple years, not very successfully. My addiction, and subsequent sexual problems including unwanted fetishes and sexual anxiety (along with everything else unpleasant that comes with this territory) were caused by a porn overload when i was in my...

When I first discovered edging, I thought that here was an escape from my depression. I thought at that time, after all, that depression and anxiety caused by PMO were linked mainly to the "O". And at first, it seemed I had in fact stumbled on something almost miraculous. I would edge while my...

I'm in such a deep hole right now I've no clue where to turn. I've recognized that I have a problem. I am addicted to porn and masturbation, but previous solo attempts at nofap have not yielded success. Just recently, after some bad experiences trying to get into the dating game, I've fallen...

Hey guys! So I wanted to make a quick question/poll. I know that escalating fetishes and continuous PMO is bad for you. But is having a fetish and exploring it with a partner bad as well? Or can it still be practiced?

After 3 days of no porn I failed and did PMO. But what I have noticed is that when I did, I was not interested in as extreme stuff as usually. Like if 3 days were enough to get rid of unwanted fetishes. Now I am starting again to count days. I want to get rid of all porn of course. But even if I...

Im looking for someone educated on the subject of fetishes and how they come about. Also the psychology behind it. Looking for a pm discussion on the matter to help me better understand it for my own personal reasons. Any help is greatly appreciated.

I’ll give a shortened backstory first. During my mid mid teens I met a girl. I was into her and she was into me. Only problem was she had a boyfriend and was sexually active. It should have ended at that but it didn’t. She would talk about what they did and I found it excruciating and the...

Hey all, I'm a 17 year old boy and i have a few concerns... 1) I have been watching porn since 12 2) I have porn induced fetishes since 13 3) I have been facing a lot of problems getting erect and obtaining actual pleasure from masturbation these days 4) I still fap everyday without pleasure...

sometimes I had situations, for example watching a movie or playing game something excited me in sexual way. For example I played a game and there was a scene in which the man was aiming from a gun at the kneeling woman. It caused me excited. I wonder if such situations cause some relapse or...

Hi all, I'm new here looking for some support as I get started on this journey. I know that reading up on others fetishes or addictions stories give me temptations, so I will post mine under the following line. If reading about my problems will give you temptations, stop reading here. (Sorry...

Hi guys, I wanted to ask if anybody knows a way to deal with fetishes. I have a pissing fetish and I am haunted by homosexual thoughts. I think the major cause is porn which is why I'm doing my best to abstain. The problem is that every time I try to do so the forementioned thoughts lead me to a...

To cut a long story short, for as long as I could remember vanilla things never turned me on. When I was growing up, the sight of breasts or other things that would typically arouse a pubescent boy never did anything for me. The only things that got me going were femdom and lesbians. This was...

Hey, I haven’t posted here in a long time, 3 months, since then I had my ups and downs, I think I said in my last post that I got aroused by gay porn, what I mean by that I mean a groinal response a sweilling sensation and a lot of anxiety, I almost got aroused once but I really have to push...

Hi guys! I recently found NoFap and I am now on my 11th day. I am trying to do a hard reboot for at least around 60 days. But I feel my situation is kind of weird and wanted some advice on what might be best for me. I have tried to describe my situation below as succinctly as possible. Ever...

Fellow fapstronauts, in my many years of watching porn, my sexual preferences have transitioned from vanilla sex, to an array of extreme fetishes. Honestly, I am ashamed to even think of some of these fetishes because they are that disturbing. A little over a year ago, I started dating my first...

I am going to come out clean and say that I have this massive fetish with drawstrings and knots. I don't know what it is, but every time, I see a girl wearing pants with her drawstrings out. I just mentally, take a picture in my head and imagine it until I get time to jerk off. How do I get rid...

Hello! My story: I discovered M when i was 11 yo. Started watching soft-core porn (adult magazines, late night sexy films in TV, etc.) at 12yo. At first I was quite amazed with my new discovery and started fapping to soft-core porn everyday. With time I developed addiction and...

I need some help in learning about the psychology of sexual fetishes. From what I have read and studied it would seem that sexual fetishes are not natural. They do not occur at birth. To my knowledge they are primarily the result of early childhood sexual imprinting due to various circumstances...

I started my porn addiction when i was 12. Im 16 years old now and my addiction is becoming worse day by day. It all started with normal porn but in the last 2 years i became addicted towards loli hentai and i grew some fucked up fetishes thanks to hentai. I hate myself to the core for those...

Hi there I suppose it's of the custom here to introduce oneself so a little sth about me: My addiction to porn started when I got bored with fantasising about other girls and checking out not-so-porn sites with sexuall content. As an artist I am truly fascinated with human body both male and...

Hi,I'm 17 years old now and....I have been fapping to porn for almost 3-4 years now.I've hated myself for this period in its entirety.But one thing I have observed in this period of time ,was that my sexual tastes changed from time to time.I first started of with softcore then leading into more...

Hey everyone, I guess I should give my background story. I am 38 years old and have never had a girlfriend, nor have I had any serious sexual relations. When I was a child, I was always a loner. I never had many friends. I would talk to people at school, but would never do anything with...

Hello! I have many fetishes. I usually break my reboot Becoz I used to give up on my flashbacks. Even the real women tend to look like pornstars to me. Japanese and British porn were so much stimulated to me mostly and whenever any women of this two countries come on tv, I get tempted. Real...

Hey guys. As you can see from my counter I'm around 45 days PMO free, and for the most part it's going great. I feel better, have more energy, and have real hope that I can overcome this problem and end up healthier and happier for it, both in my relationship/sex life and in general. However...

Hi Guys, Im new to noFap, im 20 years old and addicted to Femdom Porn since I'm 12. I love Toilet Slavery,Cuckolding,FootFetish,AlphaCouples,...etc. but when im not horny I'm really sad,because I want a normal sexuality and I spend so much money on fetish porn and I have no friends anymore...

Hey ya'll fellow brothers and sisters, Be warned that this may trigger some of you guys, do not read if you feel that you're about to loose your streak. I have a major concern I am extremely aroused by girls in short shorts/skirts MUCH more than actual porn. (ironic isn't it?) I go to school...

Hello I'm a sex addict my fetish is deep throat, the rough type that plagues pornsites and my mind, I feel that I need to admit this to be able to move on, I feel so ashamed of myself after I watch these scenes and I'm very happy that I haven't binged with porn for well over a year now, even...

Okay, so where do I start? I'm a guy, age 24 and currently still a virgin, however I plan to change that within the next month. I feel like when I masturbate my dick is not fully hard and still somewhat flexible. I don't think it's supposed to work like that. I'm a masochist, when I have sex I...

So I've developed some fucked up fetishes, can't seem to stop PMO, I've tried & tried, longest I've gone is around 2 weeks. How can I remove these fetishes and fucked up porn needs?. I mean this shit is so messed up it needs to get the fuck out my life. What can I do to change and get better?

1 month, 1 week and 1 day. That's how long it's been since the last time I saw any porn. That also includes youtube videos and fapping of to sexy music videos. And it's difficult, a fight with myself almost every day. I still masturbate sometimes, but then I just Close my eyes and get i done...

Hallo community, Porn is not my problem, fetish is. Over the years (9) of fetish (almost no watching porn, mostly reading & fantasizing about it) I trained my brain completely away from the visual and tactile stimulus of a female body to get an erection. By reading & thinking about my fetishes...

I m addicted to porn for last nine years in one form or another. I remember in early years, I used to see erotic pictures on net and masturbate. Later i started watching Porn on weekly basis. Now, I m totally addicted. When I look at the opposite gender fetish, My mind started creating fantasies...

What do you think about fetishes that most guys have?

This post is mainly geared torwards HOCD, however I must say that I also beat certain fetishes in a similar fashion, so take whatever information is relevant to you. Hey guys, for those of you who are struggling with HOCD (or fetishes) I've put together this FAQ guide in order to help you...

Hello, I have been addicted for 8 years. I did not notice the effects porn was having on my life until around 4 years ago. Like most people who have suffered from porn addiction, i started of small occasionally watching porn for 10-15 minutes for few days a week. Gradually my tolerance grew and...

I relapsed this time because i wasnt committed to rebooting. Im still on the fence because i feel like a big part or me is invested in this destructive lifestyle. And it is, so much of my time and energy has been spent fueling and building these obsessions. Im having problems letting that part...

i have seen a lot of posts saying it is possible, some saying it isnt. and id like to know what you think about this. ever since i started watching P my preferences gotten more and more extreme, at age 12-13 it was all normal, through the years i developed a need for porn where the male is...

Hi, I'm a teenager with porn induced erectile dysfunction, not particularly severe but no morning glory and for regular sex it takes a minute to get it up. Anyway, I am wanting to cure myself but have some reservations about side effects. I want to enjoy real sex more than my porn induced...

So im new to this. And as part of it, I feel like I need to be open about something thats always filled me with a great deal of shame and embarrassment if its actually going to work. Its the nature of my kink. Its kind of a big step for me because I've only ever revealed it to two of my...