flirting

  1. sohardrn

    Opening yourself up to girls without approaching them.

    @Dares Greeneye replied on a thread in the “Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation” section titled “ Shut out/down a girl at the gym...” on May 12th, 2022. He was talking about staying on semen retention and not engaging with women for the sake of ogling them, but instead making 2...
  2. P

    Real life vs Tinder

    Why does people prefer use Tinder than flirt on real life nowadays? You're showing to the others an unreal life, selecting your best pictures, your "happiness"... but the moment you meet, the other person can see if you're really like on your pics or not and viceversa. I bet for flirting on...
  3. Vendettana

    Straight guys: Do gays hit on you?

    Recently I realized how often I was approached by gays in my life. When I was 17 it began with a guy who was really interested and was observing me like a pop star. Since then, it happens quite regularly that gays try to engage with me. Once I thought a guy just wanted to make friends and go...
  4. ForeverChanges

    The story of a dramatic change in 31 days

    Dear brothers, It is becoming really necessary to me to tell what it has been happening during the las 30 days. Probably the most intense 30 days in my whole existence. When l used to think about a short period of time in the past l was quite oblivious about the events and facts, everything was...
  5. need4realchg

    Pickup lines, that work

    Let me share with the nofap bros: Today I was at the gym and I used a pickup line. She was in the yoga pants and midriff. She was on other machines then she came next to me to work out. I was watching the fifa women’s game. I figured she totally thought I was staring at her. so I said: I...
  6. Kai101

    Attractiveness and Loneliness

    I'm writing this to vent to someone. I've never had a girlfriend and Im 17. I've never kissed a girl, nothing. I've been told SO many times that I am super attractive etc. People are always surprised to find out I'm not some stud with the ladies. Yet I have never had anything close to a...
  7. green lion eating the sun

    Is he flirting with me?

    First of all I am a girl. a guy I work with often I was not sure he was straight or not(sometimes he didn't look straight :emoji_joy:). once I touched him playfully and he told me to not touch him. the other day he smiled to me in a way that he doesn't with the other female colleagues. it feels...
  8. D

    Can't understand the rules

    So, I'm that 21 y/o guy addicted to porn for many years... This thing has caused me frustration and defeats in many aspects of my life, or at least that's what I want to believe... What was a slight shyness escalated to a social anxiety that makes it difficult for me to relate with others. Ofc...
  9. R

    I suck at flirting

    Just got back from a date with a really nice girl who, understandably, wasn't really interested in coming back to my flat. I got a "maybe next time" but I think it's a "no", I'm not gonna push it, we're still cool. Asking girls out, engaging in conversation, listening with genuine interest...
  10. muted

    About girls, infatuation, flirting etc.

    I have an untypical question for you, guys. Did anyone felt more frequent and stronger infatuation during the reboot? Recently at work I met a really nice and pretty girl. I was surprised that something attracted me so much that I thought about her while working and I’m home. I have not felt...
  11. Pastoress

    Arousal while Talking/Texting

    What are your thoughts on being aroused while chatting with someone attractive? I find it’s easy for me to be aroused when I get attention from someone I’m interested in. One implication of that is that the other party could also be aroused by said attention. Is it prude-ish to be cautious...
  12. Kai101

    Girl gave me her # but isn't responding. What should I say/do?

    Let me give you guys some background info. I'm 16, never had a girlfriend and don't have much experience with flirting or dating or any of that type of stuff. I was at Skate City with my friend Friday night, and this girl who used to go to my high school came up and said I looked familiar. So we...
  13. G

    Will the joy of being around women, flirting with them, etc.. return with reboot?

    I remember back when just going out with a girl made me so excited. The rush of holding her hand, getting to kiss her, dancing with her.. that slowly disappeared as I got into porn over the last couple of years. I always thought it was because I was just getting bored of women.. but im only 24...
  14. Abird

    A girl and the need for an answer if i wasted my chance?

    There is a girl I see twice a day mostly on Monday and Tuesday, but sometimes on Wednesday and once on Thursday. On those days I see her like 1-5 min. This started like 3 months ago. First I had some approach anixiety but I read alot about it. And it seems that Flirting and body language helps...
  15. Abird

    What's the way you flirt?

    I'm doing some research on how people flirt. I already have read a lot of articles, papers, books, etc. I'm also observing people mostly couples as its pretty easy to see how they flirt.I'm gonna publish all my findings soon in this section to help and inspire people with flirting. But what is...
  16. D

    Girls stare

    I am a fairly good looking guy. And girls stare at me a lot. I don't know whether its because of nofap or what but I get annoyed when people stare at me continuously. Like how the hell am I suppose to understand the vicious principles of Thermodynamics when a hottie from the first row turns...
  17. HopeThisWorks111

    Field Report (Dating during reboot, tips, flirting) ~ HopeT

    Day 8 of reboot, technically day 11 because I started when I hadn't masturbated/looked at porn for 3 days. Flirting is too easy now with reboot working. All you need to do is catch eyes, smile, and talk a bit. Seriously this thing should come with a "use with care" label, because I feel almost...
  18. L

    Should I ask her out or not?

    ok, so there was this girl that I was talking to in person cuz she was giving me a ride home from the movies we went to with friends. and later that day i text her saying "we should do something like we did today again, it was super fun" She responds with "Yeah I had fun, we need to continue...
  19. J

    Men are not as driven towards getting a woman as they were in the 60's-90's? Thoughts?

    So this is a just a theory that I have gathered through some input from my father, his friends (of the same general age - 72 years old) and also just my observations while out in the dating world. While out in clubs, bars, social gatherings etc. As well as input from many of my female friends...
  20. E

    How do I talk to this girl?

    I'm 19 and there's this beautiful girl that works at my gym and for the last year I've been trying to convince myself to go talk to her. I have to talk to her when I pay every month but it's always difficult since I've seen her busy. She has been really nice to me and I've found her staring at...
  21. T

    Flirting, is this a backwards step?

    18 days no PMO and 39 days P free. But today was weird. A female work collegaue, who I have never really took notice of, we started flirting over email across the office floor. Just banter really. But tried my hardest to look away from her. I found her beautiful to look at. It was fun and nice...
  22. aps1991

    Question For Ladies - Best Flirting You've Received

    Hi, Ladies - do you have any examples you can give me of the best flirting you've received from a guy? Today I've realised that I'm not actually 100% clear on how best to flirt with women. I'm not sure how to tread that fine line between flirting and being vulgar/inappropriate. I want to flirt...
  23. The Consigliere

    Flirting???

    Hey, guys! So I'm in a bit of a dilemma here. So a few weeks ago a friend of mine who is a girl went through a breakup. We've always talked as friends, but recently it's taken a bit of a different route. Another friend of mine called me out for flirting with my friend and to chill out since she...
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