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  1. BrighterFuture

    Lonely in a world full of screens

    having a low point in my life, maybe it's part of growing up as an adult where everyone gets busy and moves on, why couldn't I find a friend, who calls and talks back? I'm starting to self-doubt, I've isolated myself because of this, I don't expect much we text to call, or play something on a...
  2. T

    Logans introduction

    Hello! My name is logan. Ive been on porn for ai dont really wanna admit but 8 years? Around there. I never realized I was addicted until a year ago. I keep trying to quit and it keeps coming back. Sometimes I can go a week. Sometimes only a day or two before I relapse. I keep trying and...
  3. trevormicheal

    Looking My Friend's Whatsapp Status is Relapse?Or Trigger?Or I Hard My Self?

    Today I Normally Looking My Whatsapp Contact's Status. My One Of The Friend Put Love Status With Girl in Bridal Clothes With Revealing Hips And Half Breast Only. I Looked That Status 5 or 6 Times But I Didn't Fap I Didn't Watch Porn. It is Relapse?Or Trigger? Or I Hard My Self?Am I Fine? Please...
  4. ice9

    New Here

    Hi, I’m ice9. At 11 pm 10/2/2022 I’ll have made it to 1 full day of NoFap. This isn’t a huge achievement- but being here among fellow practitioners makes it feel significant. I’d like to start a small accountability group sometime during this week- hopefully with dudes my age (~21 yr). Feel...
  5. M

    I don't have any friends.

    I don't know what I'm supposed to do. I don't have any friends and no ability to make them. I just work and try to read the bible. Lately I have been watching porn instead. I need friends to text or if you're in Massachusetts possibly hang out with.
  6. Tan Korrey

    Looing for a messaging partner

    I'm a 28 yo guy with a girlfriend, and a long-term relationship with P and M. It's my 4th day without it and I think talking to someone who is in a similar situation (via PM's) can really help me out, and also give me the opportunity to help someone else at the same time. Is anyone interested?
  7. modern milarepa

    My first non sexual date ever

    All my dates usually ended up in sex or with a lot kissing and touching. Even first dates. I had an argument with my girlfriend two months ago and we didn't talk since then. Until last sunday we started talking again. Yesterday I saw her, I knew she was tired from work and busy but made...
  8. modern milarepa

    Can a boy and a girl be just friends?

    I personally believe it's not possible, there's always some type of sexual tension and one of the two wants to have sex with the other. What do you think?
  9. D

    Gotta Keep the Flame Burning

    As of today, I am back on square one. Broke my 10-day streak last night. I know, 10 days is nothing to brag about. But this particular streak is different. This particular exist is able to exist thanks to all of these external forces coming together within the same time period to provide me with...
  10. Telos

    Commitment: A New Start

    Hi there, I am 22 year old male and am an undergraduate engineer from Britain I have been trying to give up masturbating on and off now for a good two and a bit years. I have made some progress sometimes (never more than a month), feel as though I am benefiting myself, but then ultimately...
  11. REDLIPSTICKPOP

    I feel so trapped...

    So, I don't want anything really, but to just be around people again? I feel like I've lost all my social skills during this pandemic. For context, I live with an immuno-compromised family member, and basically if they were to get COVID-19, that would be pretty scary and very life-threatening...
  12. A

    What would you do if you get a suicidal note like this??

    I got to struct in my relapse cycle Buddy please I beg Ur feet brother this addiction is killing me day by day please help me out nor there is work I'm still college student due to lockdown I'm unable to go college and I'm all day inside home please buddy only u can understand my pain I have no...
  13. D

    An e-mail to a friend - tactics and strategy

    I first posted this on an accountability group/sub-forum, sharing my experience with NoFap. Then later I sent this to a few friends of mine who are hoping to overcome PMO. But I thought it would be best to post it here as I feel it would benefit many more fapstronauts. Please ignore the...
  14. D

    How to not get attached to people?

    So I'm a pretty lonely lad. I've got 1 or 2 friends in real life and a couple online. Thing is with online friendships I often feel attached because I've invested time and effort but most of them always end prematurely. It always ends with the other person not contacting me or ignoring me. I was...
  15. D

    A Long Time Friend...Or So I Thought

    I have to get this out of my system and maybe someone out there has something interesting to say about this. So I have, or had, or I don't know, friend whom I have known for 12 years, which is a long time for my age. The problem is that our ways should probably part but I have so much memories...
  16. CadeteRyvn

    New Here! I have a question.

    Hi guys! My name is Ryan and I'm 17 years old. I recently managed to hit a 50-day goal without M and unfortunately I ended up breaking this cycle due to my sleepwalking. I came back two days ago and I'm still going, but a friend of mine sent me a hentai video and I watched for a few seconds and...
  17. The Friendly homie

    Looking for a friend to help me with this

    Hi there! I’m 16 and this is my 39th day of NoFap and I’ve been feeling very lonely lately. It’s not like I have no friends in real life but I don’t have anyone supporting me doing this. I told a couple of friends but they don’t really understand why I’m doing NoFap and my girlfriend (who I...
  18. D

    Got a boner after seeing my friend's dick

    Hey bloggers, yesterday I was triggered by a friend of mine. After one hour of chat, and call. He made me aroused. but in the end I turned the video call off and stopped all this excitation. This was the results of 19 days of PMO. In the end, I didn't masturbate yesterday. -Do you recommend...
  19. The_Champion

    Hard day

    yesterday and today was a really hard day for me. one of my good friends (she is a girl) said to me that because she finds a boyfriend she can not chat with me anymore and she also deleted all of our chat history and that really broke my heart. I thought she was a good friend and I was...
  20. stevejohnson

    Day 5, Orgasm starting annoying.

    Anyone there who get nipple orgasm?. I really don't know why male got nipple orgasm??. I identified some is that i really not want porn, But while watching some TV shows, movies, etc it will comes infront of me and i get orgasam then watching porn and do fap. This is very distracting me to do...
  21. Curtrunner

    Losing the battle, but I’m focused on winning the war. Yeah

    Lately I have been masturbating and watching porn a lot. I also feel like I am losing my friends. I haven’t had much luck with ladies. I don’t know why I have been losing these battles. My friends say I am much more angrier I don’t what it is, I have felt much anger but I have felt distancing...
  22. Souhail

    Chatting

    So guys I have started this challenge and I want you guys to join me In order to reduce my social anxiety and improve my social skills I decided to do this challenge : Talk to a new stranger everyday whether online or offline and by talking I mean deap conversations not small talks if anyone...
  23. Hank Moody 99

    Ashamed

    First off I am trying to leave porn behind for almost 2 years.I told two of my friends about my struggle. One of them started telling other people ( which are my friends too but I am not so close to them). So anyway I found out when one of friend told me that people know I am addicted to...
  24. SirWanksalot

    What would your own gaming group do for your loneliness?

    Hey, A friend of mine and me are building a group of guys with whom we can regularly play some video games together, have some fun but also keep each other accountable and support each other when things (inevitably) get tough. We have been free from porn 2 and 5 years respectively and been...
  25. D

    I want to stop thinking about girls but I feel so lonely.

    Hi, I don't Natively speak English and I don't write often but please don't skip. I need advice. I just turned 19 yesterday, I'm still in school for a good 2 years finishing my 12th grade. (Had to drop out due to severe depression when I was around 15yo-16yo. Last year I saw all my friends...
  26. A

    Lonliness, Friendships, and NoFap

    I just watched an interesting TED talk (link below) about the nature of addiction. The speaker states that addictions form not out of exposure to a drug (like PMO), but rather by lacking significant relationships in ones life. Looking at my own relationships right now, I realize I have no...
  27. D

    How do your friends/relatives react to Nofap?

    Read this post and then put your vote, also tell your story (please, I don't want to feel alone with this problem). The roll's question: Are all women like my mom, because if they are, I will prefer die as a virgin MY MOM My mom, by the way don't understand the...
  28. Duawan

    im trash

    Hello friends let me share my feel. im indonesian 22 and now im unemployed. more than 15mouth im jobless. i dont have friend to share my problem dont have friend to talk and laugh together, i feel my life is trash so lonely. i dont have a job, no money, no girlfriend, no friend and im addict...
  29. L

    Tired of fapping for nearly a decade. Need some one to talk to when there is urge.

    I just joined after doing PMO an hour ago. My biggest trigger is loneliness. Glad to find people from around the world. I'm looking fir some one to whom I can talk when I get the urge.
  30. Youssif

    I Need Friends

    I'm a 20 year old guy and I am desperate for a friend, male or female. I'm a nice guy
  31. Kai101

    Extreme anxiety about going back to school

    Hey guys. As the title says, I'm extremely nervous about going back to school. I'm returning in 6 days and I'll be in 11th grade. I've always been extremely nervous about going back to school after any break, even the weekends. This is because I have an extreme social phobia. I want to go to a...
  32. Youssif

    The Anchor app

    I've found an app called anchor for smartphones... Basically a podcasts app that let you record a podcast with anyone who uses the app.... You can record a podcast with anyone about any topic... I like the idea. I started a series talking about technology and gaming. There are also some people...
  33. T

    Hot Facebook female friends

    I have hot Facebook female friend from my school years. Now is been years since school was finished. Should i unfriend them as i do not talk to them and have temptation to looks at they photos. Or just no do anything. ANYONE EXPERIENCED THIS?
  34. S

    21st century Part I

    Hello guys.Im a member since quite some time and i love this community and i want to thank all of you helping me go through this.I basically experimented with myself and yes, it did change my life. See what happens with the brain is that it changes its pleasure source from pornography to the...
  35. V

    new member

    HI, I've been addicting to porn since 7th grade . now i'm 23 let me tell you what i'm facing - 1. lack of confidence 2.i watch 1 hr porn daily. 3.i quit everything that i think to start , to do 4. weakness 5.i'm not social anymore 6.i feels like everyone is looking at me 7.not a good student...
  36. Kman20

    Flirting ?

    I have an online female friend that I met a long time ago and we’ve gotten really close. We always send pics and videos (not sexual, our everyday life stuff) to each like everyday and I’d say she’s one of my closest friends now. The other day though we started flirting through text(wasn’t...
  37. Kman20

    Being a jealous friend

    Since quitting pmo I’ve made a few really great friends ! People I look forward to talking to and hanging with everyday. I hate to admit this but I’ve noticed though that I get jealous when I see that they’re having fun with their other friends and laughing and having a good time. How do I kee...
  38. BettaM32

    helping a friend with alcohol problems

    I figured since this topic to related to addiction, I could ask here. My best friend has been struggling for a long time with over drinking and he is currently on several perscription drugs for health issues and depressions. I know if I question him too much on his drinking problem he's gonna...
  39. Mr.iwantsleep

    Words of Wisdom for a Friend

    In my years as an addict to PMO, I struggled a lot with seeking help from people like my family, friends, and community. However I found that other people are a invaluable source for your self improvement, and I wanted to share something that one man in particular told me amidst my struggles...
  40. Becks Riviera

    Friend communication not going so good lately, some advice please ??!!

    I have some problem lately with my friends, i am feeling they are 3 of them and talking things behind my back because i think lately i havent been so friendly and close with them, this was lately i had some problems with my life and wasent happy about that, i was a little busy improving my selfe...
  41. E

    Want to stop fapping

    Hello my name is Edward, I'm from Indonesia, i wanted to stop fapping, first time i discovered fapping, probably about 10/12 years ago, I'm 22. Last year i discovered nofap, and i realized now why i feel social anxiety, hard to close to girls, and other bad effects. At that time, i feel...
  42. sullenheart11

    Can't escape forever

    Hello everyone,I am very thankful to be a part of this,thank you for welcoming me. I've been using porn since puberty.I didn't finish school, currently jobless.I live in my parent's house. I spent my time quiet haven't talk to anyone for almost 3 years,it's a rock bottom until this January my...
  43. M

    Lonely, not only no gf, but no bro's, real friends, deep bonds

    Hi guys I have an abusive father that i finally cut contact with. My mom got cancer. Its a tough time, but on top of that, i discovered im almost alone. And this makes me really depressed. Im usually very positive and high energy, always with people around me, friends and family alike. I can...
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