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  1. A

    Confusion over Girl

    For a week ive been texting this girl and since she showed some good interest and wanted to know some stuff about me i asked her out but she indirectly declined, but sayed next week she will be in my town and may text me, what is this about? Confused why she didnt accepted right away but showed...
  2. A

    Should i dont look on girls gor a while? Or its just need a time?

    Questions about symptoms.. Hi guys..i have a question about symptoms in reboot.. i have been going from ane circle to another but with the same symptoms which are going one into another..i mean when i realized that my fantasies is giving me only bad things for my brain i stoped do it that.. and...
  3. Kar0lu

    I think I'm in love

    I used to go to elementary school with one girl. We were good friends, but our relationship ended at school. When we went to high school we didn't talk to each other, until now. About a month and a half ago we met at the gym and I decided to talk to her. I invited her for coffee and since that...
  4. Follower of God❤️

    (BOYS ONLY) MISTAKE THAT IS STOPPING YOU.

    Q: means Question A: means Answer Q: Why you should trust me? A: Well just to let you know if you are going to doubt information given by me. I am pretty close to day 500 so that makes me eligible to answer. ---‐----------------------------------------- Q: What Mistake are We Making? (Boys...
  5. R

    Masterbating problem

    I’m 19 with a porn/masterbating addiction, I have a boyfriend who has has the same problem as well and he had just came clean to me about it. It upset me not gonna lie, it hurt me bad. Because I didn’t feel good enough But I can I really be too upset if I too struggle with the same thing? I...
  6. modern milarepa

    The craziest girl you ever dated

    I always avoided crazy chicks even do some are very beautiful. The only strange thing that happened to me was this girl I broke up and then one month or so later sent me an ultrasound video showing her being pregnant, I saw the video carefully and the weeks didn't add up, also I had her...
  7. AdamTheJensen

    Why are we so attracted to female boobs and their vulva?

    It's a weird question. I would like to know your thoughts about it. Is it just a evolutionary thing or the new age of the revolutionary world wide web...? ....or even other reasons. if we see this just rational, it's just body parts like a hand a leg or something else.
  8. theshifter

    Vicious Cycle

    Hi, Any of you ever feel like you're in a position where you want a relationship to happen, but it never happens? And when something does spark somehow somewhere with a girl, she ends up being just friends because you don't seem to get any obvious signals from her? I'm 26 this year, and...
  9. Felipe_

    Almost 2 years on NoFap, but there's something...

    Hey, so my name is Felipe, and It's almost two years since I started NoFap. Not gonna lie; I remember the day it all started. It was amazing, and my life finally contained a purpose to fight myself that I had to accomplish no matters what. I had this fire inside me who wanted to destroy and give...
  10. D

    I met a girl. Should I go for it?

    So I met a girl the other day. She seems pretty cool. I've seen her before and thought she was cute but never acted on it. Yesterday I went out with some friends to a drive in movie and she work makeup and regular clothes for the first time and she looked drop-dead gorgeous. Like, no joke boys...
  11. FHDH

    Create an action plan to meet a great girl ?

    Hi folks ! I hope you're doing well in your nofap strike. I'm seriously thinking of implementing in my life a series of things to be able to find a girl that I really like. True connection, intimacy, shared interest, and great sex. As for now truly I live in a scarcity mindset with girls, don’t...
  12. R

    The Best Accountability Partner You Can Ever Have - YOU HAVE TO DO IT FOR HIGHEST PURPOSE

    Your Ideal Self. That's it. That is the best accountability partner you will ever have. Please read on to understand what exactly I am saying and exactly how to go about your NoFap journey with this new-found motivational insight - an insight that has allowed me to reach my streak that you see...
  13. embodiment of luck

    Where to take the girl on the first date?

    I was thinking in normal circumstances where would you take someone you like When this epidemic ends we will have more option to go, but in general is there some place that is great for that kind of stuff? Today I was thinking about it and one good idea came to me that could work nicely, take...
  14. ELITE2BE

    In a huge dilemma, please advice.

    My fellow fapstronauts, I am 26 years old. I have been plagued by the malignancy of PMO for almost half of my life. I am very keen on improving myself and seek ascension. Today I am on my 140th day of no PMO, which, by far, is my longest streak (I had several streaks before, 120 days being the...
  15. stevejohnson

    No Friends Why?

    I haven't any friends because of Loneliness. I have a few but they won't call me or text me why they act like that?. I really hate girls because they are very over acts such as make scene, maybe. But inner guy want a partner what would I do?. Any girls?? Are in NoFap please Contact me if wanna...
  16. N

    New and hopeful, but also tired.

    So this is it. New attempt to try become free. I started during collage and ended up addicted while being lonely. Now it’s like my brain needs it from time to time. Or else I feel forced to do it - when I feel bad. It can be because of stress, loneliness, sadness and also boredom. I’m a female...
  17. Bluehope24

    Fear

    Hi, I'm a girl and I think I started this when I was 15? I can't remember, but I don't want to keep doing this anymore. I want help and have a good life, because rn I can't imagine myself in a relationship, and I think that I'm still in time to stop this
  18. Curtrunner

    Losing the battle, but I’m focused on winning the war. Yeah

    Lately I have been masturbating and watching porn a lot. I also feel like I am losing my friends. I haven’t had much luck with ladies. I don’t know why I have been losing these battles. My friends say I am much more angrier I don’t what it is, I have felt much anger but I have felt distancing...
  19. WhyNotStop

    Never have enough love?

    I'm 50 days in and it's been a hard journey. I've been able to form this beautiful relationship through the help of God. Everything is going well and we tell each other how much we love each other. This has helped rise my will power and now I'm doing and trying new things that I never have...
  20. C

    Sudden, Miracles and More

    Hey fellow fighters! I wanted to share this for the benefit of all. Do take 5 mins of your life to read this fullt, this could change your life... Current status: 45 days of NO M and its working, it really does! Propaganda: It was widely propagated through blogs and videos and programs...
  21. L

    I Really Need Help:(

    This is going to be a long post, but if anyone can help I'd REALLY appreciate it. I feel so lost and depressed I don't know what to do anymore. I am day 48 hardmode, which is my longest streak (last longest being 47 days) and have been sexually inactive since mid 2016, where I was in a...
  22. M

    Addicted to cam girl sites

    Hello, Let me introduce myself, im a elderly man with a wonderful partner and a grandchild and a wonderful supportive family, and for the most part im happy but here is my shame that my partner has endured for many many years, I have tried to give up going to these cam chat sites and each time I...
  23. Vegetto_97

    I feel lonely after thinking about a young woman

    August 2017, I move to a city to study Bachelors Degree in Law and Administration. Next month, I meet this girl at a gym center and I start to train there regularly. No contact were made. I look at her and she is the sex-bomb in the gym, the only hottest girl there, short and petite. She looks...
  24. Kratos_GOW

    Did NoFAP land you a girl?

    I m 22, never had a gf. Just curious if this thing true or not. And if you have a story i would like to hear it.
  25. D

    I’ve figured it’s about time to do this.

    I have looked at this website every now and then for the past few months and I think it would be good for me to finally get involved in this community. So, I guess just to introduce myself: I’m a 17 year old girl and I have struggled with an addiction to PMO since I was about 9 years old. I got...
  26. M

    almost 30 days

    I am 20 y/o and haven't pmo'd now for around 25 days, and im feeling a bit better. I think my anxiety is way less, I don't constantly think about what could happen when i'm around people. Also, i'm talking to my family more, and i sit with them more often. It doesn't really feel completely...
  27. muted

    Women&Reboot

    Hi everyone! ;) I’m on 258 day of my reboot and my libido probably returned completely. I have recently more desire for sex than before. I also noticed much more women interested in me. It happens that I look at the body of a woman, at her legs, buttocks, breasts. Is it something bad? I do not...
  28. S

    Age 29, past 30 day mark: Super stressed...

    Hey guys, Just want to say to the NoFap collective: Thank you. Some of the most intense (and justified) stress I've ever felt in my life is compounding right now....and I still haven't masterbated, watched porn or orgasmed in over a month now. It hasn't been easy, my sleep is erratic, I feel...
  29. abcdofindia

    Virtual/ Online sexual relationships can be addictive & damaging

    2 years ago, a bunch of my girl-friends forced me to join online chatrooms to meet random guys. It started off as a random experience and soon turned into an obsession. What started as a once in a week activity turned into a daily need and then into a regular necessity. In the last 2 years...
  30. M

    ready for change

    Hey everyone, thought i’d introduce myself: F15, been in the PMO cycle for about 4-5 years Thought i’d join NoFap because my close friend recommended it: he did it a few years ago and now has no problems with PMO so i’m hoping it’ll work for me too :) If you’re around my age feel free to dm :)
  31. A

    Thinking of her got my withdrawal back!

    Hi guys, Everytime i think of the girl i like sexually or non sexual & get hard on her i get some of the withdrawal symptoms back , why is that? Isn't suppose to be a healthy thing to get hard & wet on real girls!
  32. C

    Did She Reset My Counter?

    Fapstronaut I just went on a date with a girl last nigbt & she gave me a foot job after we hooked up. Should I restart from 0, or is it ok since I connected with a real person?
  33. muted

    About girls, infatuation, flirting etc.

    I have an untypical question for you, guys. Did anyone felt more frequent and stronger infatuation during the reboot? Recently at work I met a really nice and pretty girl. I was surprised that something attracted me so much that I thought about her while working and I’m home. I have not felt...
  34. K

    Just started NoFap and dating

    Hi, Just recently I discovered that I have PIED. I discovered it because I started dating. I'm going out with this girl for more then two weeks now, and there have been two moments in which we touched each other and where an erection really should appear, but nothing happens. I've had this...
  35. H

    Helppp I new and need help

    I'll sum up my story . My older sibling introduced me to hentai when I was small. It was funny to see girls do those things . I didn't understand . Later I became addicted and understood. Then I left it . For many years I didnt even think about it. One day I remembered and I started watching , I...
  36. D

    Getting romantic

    Hello guys! I'm on day 15 and i felt some changes with no PMO. - Urges has passed - No relapse or wet dreams. - More confident - Want to work more - More energy - Staying positive. - And when a pop-up add shows a random naked girl, i immediatly turn off the screen. But i had felt something...
  37. Kai101

    Girl gave me her # but isn't responding. What should I say/do?

    Let me give you guys some background info. I'm 16, never had a girlfriend and don't have much experience with flirting or dating or any of that type of stuff. I was at Skate City with my friend Friday night, and this girl who used to go to my high school came up and said I looked familiar. So we...
  38. Jacky198

    Relapsed and had a awsome dream

    So I recently relapsed to porn and binged. I was on a 7 Day streak. Yes I actually feel really bad about this. BUT. I had a really awsome dream I was talking to this girl that I knew and she told me I had an addiction. And it was PMO. I said yes and I she told me in a Month that I needed to be...
  39. realsawyer

    I don't know if I can really love any more

    Hello guys. Please let me tell you my short story: I am 25, and have been an addict for 15 years. At the beginning I would watch just some very basic porn. But curiosity led me further and further. Later curiosity turned into a need. When wanking 3 times a day, basic lesbian stuff wasn't...
  40. R

    Meeting girls during rebooting

    Hi all. I am in nofapforever mode (3 weeks now). To not lose my social skills I use some social dating apps. Is it ok to meet girls during the reboot process (which as i gave promise to myself - will never end)? I really don't want to sit at home and try not to think about masturbation for the...
  41. X

    I've talked to her for a year and i'm feeling something, should i ask her??

    I've talked to this girl for a long time now and I've really understood her and noticed that we have a lot of shit in common. Unfortunately she lives far(she's also a year younger) so we can't meet up or shit. Do you think I should ask her how she feels about me? I'm just curious to be honest...
  42. D

    Help!! Girl wants me to do her n im on reboot.

    So , my weak erections and low libido happend as a side effect of Minoxidil. And i didnt know abt nofap and i kept fappin with weak erections nd no urges for almost 7 months. So she is my frnd and wants me to do her. I told her abt my problm and also tht m on reboot and she is fine wid it and...
  43. D

    Help! Girl wants me to do her and im on reboot.

    So , my weak erections and low libido happend as a side effect of Minoxidil. And i didnt know abt nofap and i kept fappin with weak erections nd no urges for almost 7 months. So she is my frnd and wants me to do her. I told her abt my problm and also tht m on reboot and she is fine wid it and...
  44. R

    Flaked on by the same girl 4 times now!

    Hey fellow fapstronauts, So I have been texting this girl over Insta since late-December last year. This girl is extremely cute and has a great sense of humour (at least over text). Now this girl would engage in conversation with me, laugh at my jokes, and make plans with me to hang out, and...
  45. duha

    What does a woman truely want from a man?

    Well, I have heard in many places that the expectations of men from women are more straightforward than that of women from men. I am thinking on what I expect but I can not look into the hearts of others. And I think any relationship be as mundane as employer-employee or the warm friendship or...
  46. green lion eating the sun

    How to make sure kiss without bad breath with alcohol?

    I am going on my first date after a year (1 year without s. and last time I kissed was July 2016) I am excited about this date (I am a girl btw and I am 26). fully rebooted and in March I will celebrate 1 year PMO free :emoji_birthday: I will grab a drink with this guy tomorrow night and I am...
  47. L

    Does it mean she actually likes me?

    So I asked out a girl I am super interested in and she couldn't do it this weekend but we have it scheduled for next weekend because she was super busy this weekend which I completely understand. (IM SO HAPPY THOUGH :D)but the question is, does this mean she likes me though??
  48. Rocky11234

    Semen Leakage or precum

    Whenever i chat with mostly any girl, semen gets leaked or precum gets leaked. How to cure this? Somewhere i read : "It could be that on a subconcious level, your talks with her are arousing, thus triggering this kind of response for your body. Loving and affectionate talk could have a reaction...
  49. D

    Question: Being in love feels like a drug

    Yow everyone! I have a crush on someone in my class, she is pretty fucking amazing. Anyway I know nothing will come out of it because I already asked her out 8 times over the course of 4 months. (never give up!) And nothing has come out of it. She likes me but I don't think a relationship /...
  50. sweetnyc

    A girl in recovery, day one

    Hi! I guess now that I'm here it's time for me to admit to myself that I have an addiction. I've struggled with my sexual proclivities for a long time — it's very hard to be sex-positive and open-minded and be able to draw the line where kinky and fun becomes unacceptable and unhealthy. I've...
  51. D

    HELP ME PLEASE!! WHAT CAN I DO??

    Okay, I am currently on Day 6, but I have been getting so many urges that it is getting unbearable. These urges are mainly because of this stunning girl that I've seen at school today. Being a teenage boy with hormones, I instantly looked at her body... I feel terrible for sexualizing her, I...
  52. Prodigal Warrior

    Would finding "The one" help defeat the struggle of porn addiction?

    Not in a sense of "I'll have sex with her, so I wont need porn" but as in, could me being lonely encourage my addiction? I'm Christian, and even Christianity aside I still believe it be more moral to be absent until marriage. I've been thinking for a while now, my loneliness might be making my...
  53. GoldenChild

    I've been here before

    Hello! I've used this before but I did not fully succeed. I was able to stay away for a long time with the help of my friends from church but recently it became frequent again. I know I can refrain from it but I can't help but fall to PMO again. I want to be free from it 100%! Help. -_-
  54. T

    my girl rarely wants sex

    Hi guys, i was doing the nofap thing for a while and i stopped. but i startet again 1 month ago. i have a girlfriend since 6 years now. since 2 weeks i feel horny as fuck but she doesn't feel like me at all. i am so pissed of it that i started looking for other girls to date in the internet. i...
  55. O

    Started talking to a girl for the very first time, but I think I am in a flatline

    So yesterday, i built up the courage to approach a girl I was really interested in, for the first time ever at the age of 17. I found her very attractive around a week ago, but now after I have talked to her, I don't feel sexual energy, or feel aroused by her. I think im in a flatline, of course...
  56. Chris Darga

    Dates...Searching...Searching...

    Since I've rebooted I've gotten a lot of my mojo back, but I'm not sure where to put it. Please, fellow Fapstronauts, tell me where the dating scenes are. I'm going to do some salsa dance classes, which will help, but besides the loud, expensive, grimy bar scene and the equally shitty online...
  57. DrAwesome04

    Need Help with my Crush....

    Hi guys, First of all let me give the background , so it may serve you better . I am a medical college undergraduate, in the first year , the college began just 2 weeks ago. The college timings are 4 hrs for now(will increase later). There are a total of 150 students in my batch, divided into 3...
  58. One Strong Girl

    new, desperate and in need of freedom...

    hi everyone, I've been visiting the website on and off to look for ways to stop my addiction (porn+fapping) and I've like the fact that its active .. so Im here ! here is a little background of me : Im a college student , Im a muslim and thats mainly why Im here ,I want to stop forever and free...
  59. J

    I relapsed after 4 days just now at night! Talked to a girl confidently and scared I lost all powers

    Hello everyone I am scared I lost all my powers and confidence! I was acting more aggressive and worked like a machine! I first tine talked to a girl out of confidence! She is shy too! I fapped after day 4 today! I just fapped at night! I don't know what to do! I know I didn't ejaculate a lot...
  60. The Consigliere

    Flirting???

    Hey, guys! So I'm in a bit of a dilemma here. So a few weeks ago a friend of mine who is a girl went through a breakup. We've always talked as friends, but recently it's taken a bit of a different route. Another friend of mine called me out for flirting with my friend and to chill out since she...
  61. pricelesswish

    New and fighting the addiction

    Hi everyone! I'm 18 y/o f and I registered here about a week ago. I realized my porn addiction was getting the way of my life and interfering with too many of my goals, relationships, academics and even my hobbies. I discovered porn when I was 10, disgusted by it I never went back - till I...
  62. akrivane

    First thread - PMO abstraction, 50 days

    Hello there, So I am new to this forum, I have been battling with stopping masturbation for years now. Sadly, I have identified to have the urges to masturbate when I am getting my menstruations. My body just reacts weirdly. Moreover, in those times, I tend to feel sad(mood swings), so it is a...
  63. ayvazf

    Sometimes I just want to destroy the world... Nofappers vs fappers

    Hey my nofap bros. I am at the 23 day of nofap. Today it is a hard day. I am drunk and I know this is a big problem for nofap journey. Today two girls came to our house. We were three male and two female. My flat mate is fucking time to time one of the girl actually now he went to fuck the girl...
  64. D

    Why did you start doing PMO? What made you stop?

    The reason why I'm doing no PMO is because I was addicted to porn and because I realized that orgasm kills my drive to get shit done. I noticed a huge difference after a week of no PMO and so I decided to quit. I want to know why girls/women are doing NoPMO because from what I understand, women...
  65. S

    Slam poem about virginity

    I'm nearly 23 and a virgin. I wrote this shortly after I quit PMO. Based on real events. Through the Wall I shut the door, blocking out the sounds of the city, and as my ears slowly grow accustomed to the silence of the empty apartment, I become aware that even silence is not silence. It's...
  66. B

    Are your friends nudes porn

    Is it porn if my girl friend sends me nudes? I caught myself looking at them today and wondered if this a relapse or not. I don't think so because she's a "real" person and it's more than sex with her. Could use some opinions on this.
  67. ClimberF

    Our affected brains can´t clearly differentiate a porn star and a really beautiful woman

    "I realized that our addicted brain cannot differentiate the difference between a porn star and a really beautiful woman" When we see a really hot woman we stay kind of paralyzed and we just have thoughts about having sex with her and see her completely as a sex object. Of course we can't speak...
  68. Godsaves22

    My life has been a struggle

    My life has always been a struggle because of Pornography. I got into it when I was 14. Even when I gave my life to the Lord I still struggled with it even to this day. I have always been athletic since I've been taking Karate, swimming, and jogging all my life, plus I've been involved in...
  69. Aki

    Aki,22,from Japan

    Hello, I'm Aki. I've started to join the Nofap community. I am female, aged 22, and Japanese college student. Now, I'd like to find someone who encorage me to quit watching porn, or masturbation. I am suffering from sexual addiction for long years, and I want to stop those bad habbits. Feel...
  70. D

    Just Joined NoFap

    Hi everyone. My name is Derrick and I am a 21 year old college student. I have just joined NoFap but have been aware of the community for a year now. Last year I had an awful experience with a nice slim girl where I was able to get her to the bedroom but couldn't get erect. I wasn't sure as to...
  71. Yashar

    Feeling alone and can't stop thinking about a girl because of it.

    Hello everyone It's kind of a long story but I felt that I need to share it. I am 20 years old, heavily interested in Martial Arts and at a changing point in my life. I broke up my apprenticeship 2 years ago because I wanted to live my dream. I started developing an App, not caring whether it...
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