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I want to tell my girlfriend about my addiction because she deserves to know and I like to keep everything 100% transparent. The problem is she views porn as cheating, once we got into this fight and she said she’d leave me if she found out I did it again. I lied to her and told her I wasn’t...

So it’s been around 10 days that I’ve started to abstain and before this I have tried to abstain multiple times but I failed miserably in that. But this time I’m feeling a lot better than my previous tries and my urges are very low this time. Now I don’t know what’s happening me to me, but I’m...

So I went to meet my gf yesterday and we got intimate. So I have a history of 10 years PMO and PIED. So last two times when I tried to have sex with her, it got failed because of my weak erection due to PIED. So I decided to abstain many times but failed miserably. But recently I started...

Triggers and all that stuff so be careful! I wanna start with saying that I admire all of you, your will to fight and become better people. The fact that you want to change yourself is amazing and you will surely succeed. I am gonna go to the root of it. After practicing NoFap for almost a...

I do plenty of exercise and aren't too subhuman looking irl. What are some good places to meet women?

Is it possible to have a girlfriend without having sex with her? Im seeing various posts of people in relationships while doing nofap but am wondering how is this a thing? Is it not the sex that differentiates a boyfriend girlfriend dynamic from a male female friendship?

hi guys and girls i'm 26 years old (single, good job, and not ugly;) and was watching porn since i can remember. i had several relationships in my life. my longest relationship was over 5 years long and fantastic. sex was awesome, but then came porn. i was watching too much of it, and i lost...

I’m dating this great girl who I can tell really cares about me and I care about her. Recently I’ve been feeling more apathetic towards our relationship (tho my brain knows I want to be with her my emotions are feeling less). I’ve decided to start this whole thing so I can be a better boyfriend...

Let me first start by saying that I am a healthy 25 year old man, work out and eat right, I’m not over weight, I don’t smoke, don’t do drugs and don’t drink. However, I have used ever since I started masturbating at age 11 or so. I masturbated a lot to porn growing up. Not always to hardcore...

Hello there, earlier today I was cuddling with my girlfriend when we started to mess around a little. No sexual things happend at all but after we left my room to go watch a movie I realized that I pre came during that cuddle. It’s wasn’t much but just a little and I did not orgasm or something...

I am on my 4th day rebooting from PMO (doing the 100 days Spartan Challenge, Super Saiyan Challenge, Lord of the Ring Challenge and No Nut November) Basically I cannot watch porn, masturbate, have sex nor having fantasies while being with my GF. This created a tense atmosphere bc she has a high...

Currently on my longest streak without porn and was finally able to O with my girlfriend. I'm not going to be able to see her for a few weeks and until then I really want to avoid a relapse. I just looked up some Instagram pages of models and didn't pursue it further but I worry that this might...

Does seeing your girlfriend naked during a video call count as watching porn?

I’ve been having dreams of having a girlfriend only to wake up and feel further and further away from that. Sometimes the dreams feel so real, which makes it very hard to even get out of bed and face my real life. I’m 26 and I’ve never had a girlfriend, my family continues to ask me when I’m...

Hello everyone, I just managed 16 days after learning about nofap and reading some info about it. Honestly during that time of no porn, masturbation or orgasm I noticed dramatic changes that I never expected for example: - Morning erections (not seen since puberty) - Increased concentration...

I am asking this because lately I have been feeling less commitment to my partner/girlfriend of 3 years. I am curious if anyone else here as experienced this and if so how did you deal with it. I am also wondering if these feelings went away after successfully going through a reboot.

My first exposure to online porn was at the age of 9 while staying after school for tutoring, needless to say at this age I found it by accident. It was a naked woman in a sexy pose, thankfully nothing more extreme. I find it ironic that just after 10 years after that day, I would loose my...

hey guys so I’m male 19 y.o and I hve been doing MP since I was like 13 y.o. I moved to a new city a year ago and everything changed in my life. Always focusing on my career but it’s been difficult to do activities (friends have told me to start working here and I sent some resumes) buT nothing...

So, I've actually been here before, or rather, the reddit website. But nothing seemed to work, so here I am. First of all, I'm pretty impressed at the level of research. Second of all, and more importantly, I want a girlfriend. At some point I abstained from porn for a week (pretty hard at the...

Hello everyone. This is only my 2nd post in this community so i'm still new. Around 2 months ago I started to realize porn was having a negative impact on my life. So I decided to quit. Since than I have relapsed so many times but now, I feel much more confident in being able to stay on nofap...

Hello guys, I need some advice, I am currently on day 1 of 90 of no PM, but here is the thing I mainly started this for my girlfriend, cause whenever we make out I have a boner and sometimes even jizz, but we havent had sex ever, so when I leave her place I directly go and PMO cause I sort of...

I am a porn addict, like many others who are reading this thread. Actually, I stopped watching it for 2 years, from when I was 15 until 17, and now I relapsed for almost a year. Last year, I have been watching it once or twice a week, I felt I wasted a lot of time...but the impulse is difficult...

Hi guys, i have to say that this is real, the benefits of abstaining from PMO, and regaining control of the body and mind are incredible. I have been doing PMO regularely for the last 6 years, even if i was always in a relationship. In my first one there was no PIED so i never tought about it...

I am just starting with this. I know porn and masturbating changes my normal sexual cycle (so to say). I masturbate 4 or 5 times a week. Plus, I have a girlfriend and we have an active sexual life. This is whenever we can: from 2 to 6 or 8 times a month. But some months ago we started having...

I always feel lonely. No real friends to hang out with me nor friends to share thoughts with. It's very hard to find male friends(I'm male). is having a gf can end my loneliness or it will be boring?

hi everyone. I am a 27 year old. I have a gf and we been dating for about a yea and a half. This is my first time going on a website system to help me stop my addiction to porn. I did not think my porn addiction was bad until I got a gf and I realized that I could not climax while having sec...

I had something like PIED that nothing other than porn could arouse me and makes me hard. Watching porn used to make me drip just instantly and PO was euphoric. The day reached when I reached the limit and couldn't get erection on normal porn but needed even more hardcore stuff and all the other...

I am a 22yo M new to NoFap community but not it's knowledge. I had been developing my meditation techniques to get rid of harmful habits in my life and was doing well. I was focusing on what matters like school, not masturbating constantly, spending quality time with my SO and having a healthy...

Dear fapstronauts, i have a question, i'm dating a hot girl for a month and a half.. We've been a little naughty last night and she tried jerking me off, but she was bad at it and i practicly here and there masturbated with her hand holding my penis with some of her help.. i nutted like crazy...

So I asked out a girl I am super interested in and she couldn't do it this weekend but we have it scheduled for next weekend because she was super busy this weekend which I completely understand. (IM SO HAPPY THOUGH :D)but the question is, does this mean she likes me though??

This is a question that occurred to me recently. It won't be an issue for me for a while yet for me, but long-term, I'd be interested to hear other people's opinions. My question is: Do people think it's okay to 'use' (ie. view, get aroused by, and potentially masturbate to) nude photos of your...