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  1. Bmamb12

    I have fallen

    I have been able to keep a few months off my PMO habit. Everything was great. Travelling across latin america on backpack with my girlfriend and discovering new places, people, learning a new laguage and quite honestly living the time of my life. Not all days were easy but never did I even feel...
  2. honeycrisp

    I Thought My GF Distracted Me, Turns Out It's Just Me.

    My girlfriend and I are on our second go-around. Meaning, we broke up last year and got back together this year. One of the things I have noticed about her lately is that she is much more attached to me now than before. We have always spent much time together, whether before or after. She used...
  3. onceaking

    Instagram Boyfriend

    Freya India recently wrote about it on Substack. There are times when I wish I was in a relationship, but I would rather be single than be an Instagram boyfriend. I think one big red flag is a woman who has an Instagram profile full of photos of herself as if she's some sort of model. It is a...
  4. K

    Curing PIED - do not overthink

    Hi all, thought I would share ways that have worked for me getting over PIED and what I have observed from people trying to recover. I will start with the below because people are going to ask “but how sever were you?” Or “how long did you PMO?” Or “what type of porn we’re watching?” I am 35...
  5. M

    Is it considered as a relapse?

    Tomorrow I a going to meet my gf after like 3-4 months. So we would be having our private time together. So I wanted to know would if it is considered as a relapse and will slow down my progress in this journey or is it fine to be intimate with my gf and see how it goes for me. I don't think I...
  6. TimeToQuitNow

    After years of trying, I finally reached 90 days!

    Hi Everyone, I'm expecting this to be a long post so I'll leave a tl;dr at the bottom. I never thought I'd see the day. I am no longer gripped by the addiction of porn and masturbation. I don't have any urge to look and I am happy with my life. I will briefly talk about my story and maybe some...
  7. M

    My relationship is about to end and I don’t know what to do.

    So recently I just got to know that I have PIED. I have been consuming porn since 14-15 years of age and now I’m 24. I have a gf from like 3 years. I love her immensely and she’s the kindest soul I’ve ever come across. So I have told her that I’m dealing with this issue and she’s very...
  8. Time for tea

    My girlfriend was looking through a forum on here by partners of nofap members..

    It didn’t go well. She’s pretty anxious about it. She’s saying it was post after post of people saying how they wish they’d never started the relationship with them etc. but she does say that probably the people who are now ok won’t be posting anyway…. She also mentioned she saw research that...
  9. N

    220 days in..HELP

    Hey guys I’m on day 220 of no PMO since 17 days I’m in a flatline (no MW, not working out etc) 35-40 days ago I realised I have puffy nipples(stage 1 gyno) even though I’m lean I just increased my body weight by 3% ( now on 15% body fat) I want to rewire my brain to sex with real women instead...
  10. D

    3 months in, found love of my life

    As the title says I’m 3 months in past my 90 days. I set out to quit internet porn and that’s what I’ve done. I met a girl and she told me she didn’t want me watching that, I never had anyone tell me that so I figured hey I’ll give it a shot. 1 month In I could tell I was very attracted to her...
  11. R

    Girlfriend's legs

    I'm a big fan of skinny legs. My gf's legs are skinny but they could be skinnier. I want them to be skinnier. When I look at my gf's legs directly from the front or back they look great. But from the side legs always look thicker. I don't like that. I'm not 100% sure but sometimes I wonder if...
  12. R

    Got a GF, but still fapping

    Now that me and my gf are both working again and only see each other in the weekends, I find myself fapping (again). I prefer to 'save myself up' for some weekend action but now I find myself looking at P and doing the whole thing start to end. Anyone got any tips? I really only see her in...
  13. M

    A Journey into a new life

    Hello all. I posted on here last in 2021. I made a post about how I wanted to get clean of this for good. I took a lot of steps in the right direction, but it just wasn't enough. In that same post, I talked about the girl of my dreams and how I would be with her when she came back. Well, she...
  14. onceaking

    What if your girlfriend was abusive?

    I recently watched this documentary about a man who was violently abused by his girlfriend. It's a reminder that sometimes it's better to be single and alone than be in a relationship with someone who makes your life miserable. The documentary is worth watching because it shows the signs that an...
  15. T

    Day 91. Here's how and why I got here.

    So I haven't posted yet, this is actually my first post. And I'm so proud that it is. So this is also an intro post, so buckle in, it's a long one. Background: 27 y/o, in a committed 3 year relationship, and kinky individual having dabbled in nonmonogamy prior to. I am one of those who has gone...
  16. Sondae

    Improved Performance, But Not Enough

    My primary motivation in starting NoFap is to better myself for the sake of my girlfriend. With that being said, I have had mixed sexual experiences with her. We have tried a few things several times, and most of the times I end up going soft on her very quickly. I was fortunately able to...
  17. FaithWithGod

    What do you even do when you like someone?

    So there's this girl that I really like, she's from my college. I've never been on a date before nor ever had a girlfriend. One of the problems I have right now is not knowing what to do when you like someone. Do I straight up tell them I like them, ask them out or just wait for them etc.. So...
  18. Sondae

    My First Sexual Encounter Since Starting NoFap

    It has been a little under two weeks since I started my NoFap journey. Since then, I have had two streaks that both lasted four days before leading to a reset. My primary motivation in starting NoFap was to better myself for the sake of my girlfriend, who I love very much. I had noticed a loss...
  19. Sondae

    I Want to Desire My Girlfriend Again

    I've always had a problem with porn addiction. I've always had a problem with getting around a little bit. Now, it's affecting how I perceive my girlfriend. Let me start by saying my girlfriend is beautiful. I love her brown eyes, her curly hair. She has an amazing figure. I admire everything...
  20. Sondae

    A Brief Introduction

    Hello, everyone! I'm glad to be joining this community. You can call me Sondae. A few things about me: Before anything, I'm a human. I make mistakes. I give into my vices. I'm here to improve myself for my own sake and for the sake of the women in my life. I'm also an early college student...
  21. F

    I told my partner and I’m scared for our future

    Had to get this out somewhere. Never shared anything on a forum like this. I’ll spark notes where I’m at: started watching P and M in middle school; in the early days of forming my addiction I also had a lot of catholic guilt, which contributed to even more anxiety and, in turn, more dopamine...
  22. JusteArthur

    How do you announce to your GF that you want to PMO for months ?

    Hey guys, I'm beginning a PMO reboot for 90 days, which includes not having sex with my girlfriend. She's aware of my porn addiction, she is also suffering a lot from it which is one of the reasons why I'm trying to do this. However other than the fact that every human being simply has...
  23. D

    I accidentally came

    Hello I have been NoFap for a straight month now. Today was my 28th day. I used very very minimum porn because unfortunately on social media you cant escape every source of porn. Max 10 mins of view time on Last month. While talking with my gf I was edging my thing and accidentally came...
  24. Antilazy

    I've lost control again and seek for help

    Good day, (Sorry for my bad english, it's not my main language) About 3 years ago I heard about NoFap and started to question my bad habit. I started to fight against my addiction to porn but failed all the time. As I grew older, my addiction got stronger (I am 18 now and started with 12)...
  25. adslo

    NoFap alone is not ENOUGH ! YOU should read this ! Very IMPORTANT !

    I started practicing NoFap for about 5 years, so I want to share with you some things you can do to speed up the process, The first point is that No PMO is not enough in the long run but you need to do the following: You have to cut off listening to the music because it triggers your emotions...
  26. D

    IMAGINATION WORKIN OVERTIME

    Alright so tell me if this may seem like a scenario you may have been in. So you meet this girl you guys start talking and trying to hang out and before anything even happens your brain says OMG THIS IS IT. This is finally going to be it Im gonna have the nasty and we gonna be a thing. Then once...
  27. meditateelevate420

    When should I start having Sex again?

    Hey, this is day 30 of my reboot, and I feel kick-ass! It's been a rough ride, with a couple weeks of flatline which I still have not got over. But I have been destroying temptation, and really improving myself. Here's the thing though, I am in a relationship, and things aren't going great as...
  28. P

    Any advice for girlfriends ?

    Hi, Im rebooting and the reboot process and the fact that my brain is craving to see sexy women or porn and fapping is hurting my girlfriend. She is having really hard time handling all the feelings about this and I feel so bad about this. She knows that Im better everyday and that I really...
  29. N

    Losing attraction to my girlfriend

    About 20 days ago, I started my latest attempt on abstaining from porn and its going great so far. In the past months, my addiction started to become a real threat to the relationship with my current girlfriend of 9 months. I confessed everything to her and she is very supportive about it, which...
  30. WildPig13

    Tried to post it on the Reddit community but it wouldn't let me for some reason, so here it goes:

    So, the other day I read somewhere over here the case of a guy who relapsed because of having been sexting with his gf back and forth and that got me thinking... For some reason I can't even get my "significant other" (not quite sure of calling her my gf, although I know for sure that she's not...
  31. P

    (Please Help - Serious Question) Can I practice foot fetish with my Girlfriend?

    While rebooting, can I practice this fetish with her? I've had this fetish since I was a little kid, even before starting with PMO. I feel like when I do this with her I am not thinking about porn. Thanks in advance. I don't wanna ruin my reboot. Can I practice foot fetish with my Girlfriend...
  32. D

    Streak lost? LDR - Phone sex

    Yesterday, my girlfriend(whom I haven't seen in more than a month) and I spoke on the phone. Basically, seeing how much she enjoyed me describing what I'd to to her, I became super horny. HOWEVER, I did not masturbate at all, despite having a massive boner. Unfortunately, this didn't prevent me...
  33. Second_chance

    The Need to Feel Miserable (A never ending cycle)

    I've struggling with porn for years now since i've met NoFap. I sometimes feel like this is a loss battle i keep relapsing, now that i broke up with my gf (we've been 3 years) i find really hard to release all that urges in a healthy way. How do you manage it? It's like i am good for a...
  34. D

    First ejaculation after Reboot

    Hello, I am currently abstaining from PMO and I plan to get a streak of a little more than 2 months before I have sex with my girfriend (we are currently far from each other). Should I break my streak with her or by myself beforehand? Also, I read somewhere that the first ejaculation doesn't...
  35. D

    I've never felt so ashmed of myself - trading nude photos

    This is a long post and with me being new here I’m not sure if it’s inappropriately long. Please forgive me if so, I just desperately need to talk to someone. I did something Monday night and have been riddled with guilt ever since. I've been having difficulty sleeping and my heart constantly...
  36. B

    PMO with Girlfriend

    Currently im on PMO for 4 days. My objective is to reach 90 days. The issue is i have a girlfriend and sometimes at night we will video call each other. When i saw her kissing me through the phone it makes me hard and she trying to seduce me i got an erection. Is it okay while im PMO? im tryin...
  37. B

    will it end ? am i normal ? why am i obsessed with these thoughts?

    hi guys , today is the 6th day or 7th day of my reboot, a while ago my family suggested girls for 2 times to propose to and in both time i felt that i can't complete my life with these girl and before sending my massage of breaking up i find them send massage says the same :D which makes my...
  38. G

    Everyday is getting harder :(

    Hello everyone! i just found about semen retention like a month ago,i did some research and wanted to try it,currently i'm on day 8 but i've been edging for the last 3 days :( First day i started SR my gf came to my house and gave me a blowjob but i didn't nut and try to be calm,the days after...
  39. R

    Online Dating Apps - Should I delete them?

    During no PMO, I am having a hard time to focus on the tasks at hand as I am still on a few dating apps and every now and then it'll pop up. I'll then keep on going back and forth on it even though, during this quarantine, these girls are not going to meet up (or at least not most of them will)...
  40. M

    Questions About Reboot

    Hi guys, first of all sorry if there is already thread like this. I’m 22 years old guy. I had only one sex one year ago. I had blowjob a lot of times but sex only once. My problem is that I’m experiencing erectile dysfunction because of porn. I was watching porn and jerking almost every day...
  41. M

    HOCD and hoping it is HOCD

    First I would like to mention I know I am straight but its getting harder, HOCD hits me more and more and becomes more convincing, its not just sexual now, images of my doing something in the kitchen with a husband/boyfriend watching tv hit me hard today. I would never be with a man. I am with a...
  42. Aléxandros

    Would like a girlfriend so bad, help me

    After over 200 days on Nofap, I can't handle it anymore. I want a girlfriend, someone to hang out with. Without a girl, it is worse than I expected. I know that there is a quarantine right now, but I don't know if I will ever found my woman. I am trying so hard to regain my masculinity, to stop...
  43. M

    HOCD in a relationship

    When I was about 12 years old i started watching porn, usually just lesbian and sometimes straight but never any gay ever. Im now 15 and have developed some kind of HOCD. It started around my 15th birthday and lasted a couple weeks. I realised porn was trapping me so i stopped for a while. Then...
  44. Dcmaster

    I need help...

    Hello everyone, This is my first post so bare with me.. About a year/ year and a half ago my girlfriend and I had a huge argument and she made me swear off porn. I really have tried my hardest but I just kept having the worst cravings which led me to having relapses. I had been completely...
  45. redemption7

    A Reset, To Be Sure, But A Welcome One

    I had a reset yesterday. I have rolled back my counter accordingly. One expects their first stumble in the NoFap journey to be a fairly miserable experience, wrought with defeat, regret, and a lingering sense of guilt. I have to say, I did not relapse, and I am quite happy with my reset. Let me...
  46. JohnJohnson1995

    Can i still have sex with my girlfriend during nofap?

    Hi everyone, New user here. Just started my NoFap journey and i am 2 days in without fapping. I have a girlfriend of over a year who i love. There have often been problems around my PIED and premature ejaculation over our relationship. Sometimes we have sex and sometimes we can't because of my...
  47. JohnJohnson1995

    Newbie

    Hi all, I am new to this forum and need help with my severe porn addiction. Ever since i discovered porn at the age of about 14 i have been severely addicted to it, and am now 24 and only now trying to sort this out. I often has watched and masturbated to it in places such as the workplace...
  48. W

    85 days of nofap: i could have sex with a prostitute but not with my girlfriend

    Greetings, I will be as brief as possible. I am a 25 year old man. I have had 4 girlfriends in my life. I do not drink excessively, I do not smoke, I practice pelvic floor exercises (Kegel), I go to the gym 6 days a week since 4 months (I am not overweight). I've seen porn since the age of...
  49. F

    Is it okay, to have sex during reboot?

    Hey, guys Ive got a really big problem. I started with nofap actually in january, and even was completely abstinent from PMO for 30 days, until I came because of my girlfriend. Ive got a really bad case of ED, but for some reason, after 30 days of abstinence it was just getting better, until I...
  50. DarkWarrior98

    A whole year of improvement + 31 Days Streak

    Hi guys This is the first time that I write a successful story. So far this year, has been Amazing! I have improved so many aspects in my life that maybe I don't even recognize myself. The Start of the story: At the end of 2018, I broke up with my ex GF and that left me devastated...
  51. A

    Can i have sex during NoFap?

    Hi, I am new here. But straight up, can i have sex with my long term girlfriend while being on NoFap? I have quite a healthy relationship with my girlfriend and I do not have PIED. The reason why I am on NoFap is because I masturbate on a daily basis and I have come across the benefits of stop...
  52. onceaking

    Like your mother?

    I used to have a good relationship with my mother but now it isn't so great. I hate the idea of having a girlfriend who would be like her. I find myself liking women who have the same hair colour as her and hate myself for it. I don't want to have a girlfriend like my mother and that includes...
  53. tcnumba108

    New...can’t get it hard for my GF but can for hookers/prostitutes

    Hi all, I’m 35 and new to this forum. I am here because I believe I have PIED, I can get hard to porn no problem but cannot get it up when my girlfriend wants to have sex. Also I’ve noticed that I can get it hard when I decide to “test” it out with hookers/prostitutes. Any guidance and help...
  54. C

    New boyfriend, same fears

    Hey guys. It has been a long time. I used to come on here to understand my ex better and attempt to be a more supportive person/partner. Wellp, as mentioned, he is my ex. I moved on after I cut through all his bullshit and his lies and now I am with someone new. Woo! This guy has been totally...
  55. olinsky

    Virgin at 22

    So I study at a university and I always hear these guys talking about what a cure girl they met and went home with etc. And here I stand .. 22 year old guy that is still a virgin. I know that I am pretty shy and I don't have the confidence to talk to girl. I am well aware of that. The problem is...
  56. N

    Let's feel the new experience and a new life

    I'm Nitesh Kumar from India. I am also addicted like normal people of watching porn and masturbating. I have a foreigner girlfriend also from the Philippines, and because of this, I used to masturbate with her on the video call. Morever i'm doing gym but unfortunately im nt able to build muscles...
  57. rebooter121

    1 day and Intro (Journal)

    Hello, I just wanted to introduce myself at the end of my first 24 hour period no PMO. I am 23 years old and have been trying to kick this thing for a while. Grew up with P (since age 11 or 12), but have never been comfortable using it. Partly religious views, partly just something I feel deep...
  58. V

    Can't control urge to masturbate

    Hey, I've been trying to do a 90-day reboot for six months now, but have so far never got beyond four weeks. My problem is not really porn anymore, I'd say I'm rather successful in preventing myself from watching it. But I can't really control my urge to masturbate. On one hand, there's the...
  59. GrowStrong99

    Cant Last one Day without MO or sometimes PMO

    Hi everyone, I‘am a 19 years old heterosexual guy who masturbates to often. I have PIED and cannot „O“ While having Sex with my GF. I Started to MO at the age of 11 while looking at Bikini photos of women or fantasizing about women or girls. At this time i was aroused within seconds and Would...
  60. G

    Never again

    I'm 27 and I have experienced pornography addiction since the age of 14. My first experience of erotica was via a copy of my mum's cosmo magazine, seeing girls in lingerie and reading erotic stories. This steadily progressed to internet pornography images -> videos. I had a hard time talking to...
  61. K

    ED after 90 days????

    I am 20 years old. During the beginning of the year I completed the 90 day challenged and experienced the benefits most people receive on nofap. However, three months ago work and school was very overwhelming. I ended up watching porn and masturbating. Now I am 2-3 months free of porn. However...
  62. freejojo

    Impact of cuddling and making out with your girlfriend

    Does cuddling and making out with your girlfriend impact the urges in the long run? In the short term, of course it does. But I need to know long term effects? I'm at Hard Mode so I can neither have sex nor masturbate.
  63. EnterTheMatrix

    Compulsory?

    Is it compulsory to have a girlfriend that we have stopped PMO to release that energy not on PMO but on Girlfriend. But is it compulsory to have a gf?
  64. M

    Stop watching porn

    Hi, everyone. In the last months I noticed that I was developing porn addiction. I started watching it when I was about 13. Until last year or so I watched it more or less frequently, but it was nothing to care about, but I noticed that the ammount of content that I consumed started to rise, to...
  65. OHHHH LORDY!!! LORD!

    Should I tell her about my PIED?

    I've been back and forth on nofap for close to 5 years now. Its been a constant struggle, my longest streak has been 23 days. I broke up with my GF of 3 years about 3 years ago. Since then ive isolated myself which has only made it harder to fight the addiction, and have managed streaks of 1...
  66. distant_call

    How Has Your Sex Life Improved After Starting NoFap?

    Since 2017 what applies most to you:? -10 is worse because of nofap -3 = not had sex once sine 2017 -2 = have had sex 1 time since 2017 -1 = having sex 1 time per year 0 = having sex 1-2 times per year 1 = having sex once per 3- 6 months 2 = having sex once per month 3 = having sex some times (2...
  67. J

    Romantic days with my girl.

    As my girl came to see me after a two months gap..other than ejaculating we did the other things ...it was fully about me and my girl spending some quality time around visiting some tourist spots, long bike rides, pizzas and much more lot of talking and fun.We had lots of romance and kisses...
  68. R

    Loosing the love of my life.

    Long story short: So basically i have been watching porn on and off my whole life. Not harmful amounts (or at least i dont think) but I would occasionally flick over and do the "business". I have been in a relationship with my partner for 10 years and now things are beginning to get rough...
  69. J

    Hate Myself for Being a Liar

    I've been following the NoFap community for awhile, and I honestly love the whole community and how they help each other with this plague of an addiction. I'm nearly 19, and I've had a lovely girlfriend for a few years now. I had 'M's' and 'O's' prior to our relationship but never had any sort...
  70. BigCatTunski

    Vacation issues

    Just came from vacation with my girlfriend on Tuesday. It was great, we had fun, but one thing that was always on my mind was having sex with her. The second day that we were there, we had sex in our hotel room, and I realized that I couldn’t ejaculate while having sex. After we both got tired...
  71. L

    I need your honest advice.

    Hello guys, I'm having a hard time in my personal life and I feel like it will help me a lot if some of you could just give me some of your time to read my story, thank you :) I'm in a relationship since 3 years ago, even thou we're happy together and we love each other I've been feeling my...
  72. NathanDrake

    Edging not so bad after all?

    I'm not sure whether this topic fits this forum, but I couldn't find a better one, so please feel free to correct me and I'll post this elsewhere! In my personal introduction on NoFap I wrote about me edging and training my stamina because I was only focussed on the O when PM and I ejaculated...
  73. P

    Should I stay with him?. UPDATE 6/26/19

    so I’m 23 and my boyfriend is almost 24. We’ve been together for almost a year and I initially thought he was amazing but he started criticizing my appearance even though I’m fairly attractive, comparing my body to other women he’s slept with/ seen even though he knows I have an eating disorder...
  74. Kratos_GOW

    Did NoFAP land you a girl?

    I m 22, never had a gf. Just curious if this thing true or not. And if you have a story i would like to hear it.
  75. V

    NoFap and Threesome w/ my GF and her friend

    Guys, I want to take a question with you. First of all, I want to apologize for my English, that's not my native language. I'm starting NoFap now, actually, I've been there for 7 days without PMO, and I wanted to know the impacts of the real sex with my girlfriend to the goals of NoFap. In...
  76. nitsua440

    Nofap with a long term girlfriend?

    A little background then, I am 24 and have been addicted to PMO since I can remember, probably started age 10+, I got my first handjob and ever since then I loved the feeling. Growing up I used to fap to anything I could get my hands on (magazine wise) because the internet wasn't really big...
  77. Brokenstrings

    This time, it's personal

    I am in a pretty serious long distance relationship with a girl I met while at college. She's two years younger than me and has about one year of school left. I've been working since graduation about 7 hrs away. Long distance is difficult, and really tough on her as she's constantly surrounded...
  78. I

    Make own porn with my gf?

    Hi everyone. In the beginning of the year i made my reboot with abstaining from p in order to improve my sex life with my so. I succeeded after about 2 months. I beat my de, pe (at least in every other "round" than the first) and any other issue (i already made a detailed success story about...
  79. N

    (first ever post)Blue balls, premature ejaculation?

    Good evening guys this is my first ever post so i hope i get some support. I've just decided to stop masturbating and this is something i've been struggling with for almost 7 years. i've been a daily masterbater ever since i was young but thankfully it became less recently by it being between...
  80. Clever Idiot

    Hey There Please Help Me. I'm In A Serious Problem

    Hey There. Not Taking Much Of Your Time. I Just Want To Say That I've Been In A Relationship With A Girl For Over 1.5 Years Now. I Told Her My PMO Problem In The First 2 Months Of Our Relationship. Till Yesterday, I K new She Loves Me, And She Is So Honest And She Knows Nothings About These...
  81. gordonsmallwood

    Quiting because of girlfriend

    Just started day one, I was masturbating and watching porn when I was bored, then it affected badly my enthusiasm when I was with my gf. She doesn't know about me watching porn, but she would find out. Also it feels like cheating on her (which it basically is) when watching porn. Pray for me.
  82. S

    GF needing advice.

    My bf has been nearly 40 days PM free! I am so proud of him. I am currently trying to educate myself more on NoFap so I can continue to understand his reboot and what comes with it. He is pretty good about communication for the most part. We are not doing hard mode, and we are having sex as...
  83. nufc9107

    After 4 years of failing, its time to shake off this poisonous addiction!

    after hundreds of failed attempts over the last 3/4 years using nothing but willpower and and countless website blockers, i have decided to sign up to this site to gain almighty wisdom and support on this journey, as well as support anybody else also struggling! im 27 and have been fapping...
  84. R

    My girlfriend broke up with me and now im lost

    Yesterday my girlfriend of 3 and half years broke up with me. I told her about my PMOing back in August when I noticed it began to affect my relationship in a variety of ways. After PMOing everyday 2-3 times a day (sometimes more) around last July I started to become less physically and...
  85. U

    Long Distance Reboot & ED

    Okay quickly I need to provide some background info on my situation. I've been emotionally invested in this girl who lives across the US and I have never met her in person (we webcam and etc). When time came, we finally met in person and we had 5 days and 4 nights to spend with one another...
  86. Benl734

    The Missing Links - Habit Replacement & Accountability

    Before I'd even heard of the NoFap, or stopped to think about others having similar issues with excessive porn use, I'd tried to quit a few times. I think I managed a couple of weeks at the most but as soon as I reached a point of weakness in my life (hangover / long period without...
  87. P

    First time poster

    Hi So I've been porn free for almost 12 months. However still having issues reconnecting with my sexuality and mypartner. Would love to hear other peoples experiences with this. Most of the info and stories I can are usually from singles Thanks Pete
  88. D

    15 Years in the making

    Hey everyone! I'm 23 years old, male, and I've been addicted to porn and masturbation since 8 years old. I had access to a computer, and before I knew it, I was hooked. Growing up, I didn't entirely understand what it was, but I knew it brought a form of pleasure that nothing else provided. I...
  89. C

    Any input on rebooting during relationships?

    So I've been with this girl for awhile now and things are starting to get sexual. I'm in my early stages of a reboot from PMO and I am wondering how to handle this situation. One of my biggest problems at the moment is that when we hangout, I get blue balls pretty bad due to all the fooling...
  90. S

    tight pelvic floor, PE, PIED, hard flaccid, urination problems; hard mode?

    i have a chronically tight pelvic floor due to poor masturbation techniques over the years (constant kegeling to reach orgasm ASAP). i have problems with pe, pied, and urination. i do however have a gf who makes me O almost every day, which leads me to ask: should i switch to hard mode to...
  91. Zillion

    Is it demotivating to count on NoFap days??

    Ive heard somewhere that when we pay attention for counting days on NoFap.. we might eventually giveup and relapse on PMO.. so is that better to not count days or do i get some motivation through keeping track record on NOFAP journey?? please help me out guys, im expecting for serious and...
  92. R

    DE - Sabotaging my reboot?

    Hi guys, I've been following the forum for a while and have hit a bit of a wall in my current streak of 46 days. Basically I've had success before with this, relapsed and now my current streak has seemingly been complicated by the fact I've been hooking up regularly with an amazing girl from the...
  93. ReclaimedLife

    NoFap alone, with girlfriend/wife, with being able to have sex in general

    Welcome NoFap fam, I didn't know which section this is supposed to be in so i'll put it in here for now but the mods are wellcome to move it to a more fitting section if they want to. So my question is, since we have so many different people here who are all in different situations in their...
  94. S

    role of a girlfriend in recovering

    i relapsed last night after 74 days... today i am going to break up with my girlfriend who has been constantly talking dirty to me and seducing me for the last 3 years but has never had sex with me. i think she is impeding my recovery. do i think wrong?
  95. biokat

    Would own girlfriend / wife's pics be considered as pornography?

    Hello Fapstronauts, Today was my fourth day without PM and my brain played a big trick with me saying me that my girlfriend's photos would not be considered as pornography. I agreed with my brain in the beginning but then realized it is a trick and visuals / images even of my own girlfriend...
  96. Journey2therealme

    I need help! My girlfriend feels abandoned and alone

    I am new to admitting I have a problem with PM to my girlfriend. It has caused PIED for me since college days. I’m now 37, and the build up of shame about my porn habit has eaten me up inside. My girlfriend doesn’t want to have sex with me because she finds porn to be “disgusting...degrading to...
  97. I

    Hi Im Alex

    First time trying NoFap out, I’ve heard many good things about it, and decided to finally give it ago. I have always watched porn since I was thirteen, and during boarding school I started a porn collection on my harddrive. Porn was quite hard to come by back in school then (by then I mean...
  98. H

    Weak Erection

    Hey I am 18 years old and I have a weak erection. When me and my girlfriend try to have sex I can't get it in because I have to hold my penis up. Its only a little hard but nowhere close to being 100% hard. When she wants to give me a hand/blowjob I need to stroke it a bit to get it ready but...
  99. DaveyCrockett

    What's the point in having a girlfriend?

    I am currently 20 years old living in the USA. I moved to a new state one year ago with my parents, and I still don't have any friends. Yet since around February/March of this year, I have decided to take on NoFap, which of course means no PMO* (the "O" part is what I'm concerned about). I...
  100. SeavirMcKenna

    Newbie: A long road ahead

    Hey all, So I'm a 30-year old male (from Belgium, so sorry if my English isn't 100%) and discovered NoFap about a year ago. I tried to quit a couple of times but always relapsed some time after I had sex with my girlfriend (VERY strong chaser affect). Despite that - but I'm not really sure if...
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