identity

Day 101 So I've reached my first triple digit streak ever. And it's been a journey to say the least. First of all, I decided that I would stop directing my energy towards fantasising and essentially cleanse my mind of any residual images and content that have been floating there since I...

I’m sharing this to see if anyone who lives with psychosis can relate to the struggles with identity that I have. I’ve explained this to my therapist, although I feel there may be others out there who could more closely relate through their own experiences. General Identity: It’s hard to...

Hey guys. I want to talk about something that I've been conflicted about for a long time struggling with porn. When it comes to PMOing, I always blamed it for any insecurities/ and flaws I had. However, as I continue grow as a person naturally, I see that it's not always to blame. The reason I...

Like most of us here I am a porn addict. And yet the last time I looked at porn was October 2016, more than 1,000 days ago. So is it still useful for me to describe myself (and think of myself) as an addict? Do you see yourself carrying that label forever, or is it something you plan to cast...

"Every moralist is a pornographer", wrote Brazilian play-writer Nelson Rodrigues. It is correct to afirm that our "hypersexualised" society is not getting laid. At the same time, the world is becoming more conservative and less humane. In reality, the visible increasing of porn addiction, as we...

We all know that appreciation can get you the satisfaction you're craving. But what if there's no real feeling of appreciation because you hate your life? And that moment when you think you can't appreciate your life because you don't like the way it is right now is when you should read this...

Hey everybody! Being that I am at odds with my masturbatory skills, I've discovered different images/items/observations that make me think about want to use porn. Being that we are addicts, I noticed a number of people using the word "trigger" to reference their thoughts on this. I find this...

Warriors against porn and degeneracy! In this thread, tell us how you are waging war against this great evil to ascend to your highest potential. What specific actions have you taken? Help your brethren out! Research has shown that drug addicts who were successful in recovering fully were the...

This is my second attempt at NoFap. Last year, I lasted 90 days but was still flatlined. I was discouraged and still felt unconfident because I never saw a change. So guess what I did? Went pack to PMO. Drifted more and more away from the life I want. This time, it's going to be different. I'm...

I watched all types of porn (esp transwoman) since the age of 12 and had ED my whole sex life and I didn't know how.I had an identity crisis also but through Reddit I found out that 95% of straight males are attracted to transwomen because of "erotic illusion" I ruin 15 years of my lives suffering...

Hello all, It's Day 35 of my recovery and for years I've been trying to overcome my addiction to pmo. If you were to go back into my profile, you'd find my history of escalation with normal pornography to transgender content and crossdressing. This last bit has caused me a lot of distress and...