karezza

  1. drmr

    'Karezza fantasies' seems to feel better and cause less trouble

    TLDR, 'Karezza fantasies feels good in a different way (like it's not just dopamine ) and less likely to cause me to orgasim or harm myself with death grip, also it pushes away fetish/kinky/porn fantasies. what are your opinions/advice/experience with this? While reading the NoFap rebooting...
  2. S

    deeper understanding of what causes nightfall

    Currently my streak of no pmo is 112 this isn't my longest day streak but it's one that I've taken everything I've learnt from all my failure streaks and I really believe I am on the life long path of retention now. about 4 times I've experienced nightfall during this current streak. not the...
  3. SteadfastEndurance

    Semen retention (hard mode) and married life, need your help!!!!

    Hello amazing community!!! I really need your input on this subject!!! I am very much undecided whether to go no PMO or just no PM. I started NoFap with an objective of 100 days till our anniversary. Initially it was meant to be hard mode. Then we tried Karezza, well we started off with...
  4. SSS Vision

    Compilation of Research and Resource Links

    This thread is intended to be a place to post links to scientific findings, serious books and websites, and verifiable resources on the following topics: Semen retention (including abstinence, continence, and avoidance of masturbation, ejaculation in sex, and orgasm in general) Karezza...
  5. +TenPercent

    Girlfriend knows of my c*ckold fantasy. Should I be worried?

    ***Trigger Warning for anyone triggered by cuckold fantasies or infidelity in real life*** So, when I first started dating my girlfriend in 2019, I told her that I was recovering from sex addiction - which, of course, raises a lot of questions and concerns. I assured her that I'm not a big...
  6. blacklabel92

    meditation advice

    any meditators here that can give ya boy some tips? im juss starting out. my main process right now is light sage start timer for 5 to 10 mins, start meditation, recite my gratitude (what im grateful for, recite my 2 mantras, then finish off with my breath count from 1 to 10 then repeat till...
  7. blacklabel92

    to all u edgers

    if your edging as a means to recover from pmo. stop. its hurting u more than u know. its unnatural and unhealthy for your prostate and overall sexual condition. your also training your brain to seek out ejaculation which depletes ur life force when out of context of making a new life. you should...
  8. BreakingDawn

    Karezza After Kids?

    As I'm approaching the end of my 90-day hard-mode reboot, I'm faced with a conundrum: a) I would like to reconnect sexually with my wife again and learn to enjoy the fullness of our marriage, but ... b) I'm sensitive now to how addictively chasing after orgasms has caused me more trouble than...
  9. R

    Karezza - Help Me Understand

    I see a lot about this on certain NoFap threads but am posting on this one as it seems to be most equally visited by men and women. I'm sure there are FAQ posted on the web but I'd like to hear from personal experiences. POSSIBLE TRIGGERS as I will be using some graphic language following: -...
  10. Playmaker97

    Looking for Rewiring Advice on +120 days

    -Heavy addiction since 9/10 years old currently 23 years old -I have been reading that in my cases real recovery could mean up to 2 years of no PMO -After 180 days of no PMO had a gf , experienced PE the first few times, then PIED which was getting better each time, then we broke up because of...
  11. Moon Shard

    Karezza, ejaculated but no orgasm

    So it’s about day 21 in my partners NoFap journey. He is doing no PMO mode. We have been doing karezza for a few days but my partner thinks that he ejaculated a little by accident earlier, but didn’t orgasm. Is ejaculation a relapse for him? He’s been in flatline and he feels like he is still...
  12. D

    Karezza is the monk mode of semen retention

    I was wondering, what is the difference of these different approaches of ultimate abstinence? Sure, for most guys orgasm and ejaculation always come together. But, as we know, it's possible to learn to have only orgasm without the ejaculation. For someone who practices semen retention as a...
  13. +TenPercent

    New relationship: Love vs. Cuckold / Sissy / Femdom fantasies

    Hello, I am in a new relationship after a few years of NoFap and practicing semen retention. In these first few months, partly in response to the insistence of my gf, I have had a handful of orgasms during sex. Even thought I am having O's with her and not with porn and fantasy, it seems to...
  14. EnterTheMatrix

    Same effect

    I have just had a dry orgasm after practice of a multiple orgasms as i learned it yesterday. Yesterday and today both days. But i had a question in my mind that does dry orgasm or having a multiple orgasms will still give you same effect as we used to when we ejaculate full ? Like prolactin...
  15. H

    Karezza/Ejaculation no orgasm?

    So my wife and I have been experimenting with karezza. We both really enjoy it but I’m not sure I can do it anymore. I keep my pleasure at about a five but have suddenly ejaculated out of no where with no orgasm. Did this totally screw up my reboot? I hate to restart because our ninety days...
  16. W

    44 years old Starting My Journey

    Hey there, I have recently acknowledged that I have PIED and I have a wonderful girlfriend. Porn and masturbation have impacted the relationship significantly in ways that I have only recently begun to fully see and own. If I am successful we have a real chance and if I am unsuccessful we won't...
  17. Hugh Jampton

    Is this the answer?

    Hi, yeah, I'm new to all this. I'm on day 5 PMO, and never tried this before. Though always thought that abstinence might be the doorway to enlightenment and happiness. Well, maybe. I'm married for over 15 years, and I think, in retrospect, that porn has probably always been a barrier to decent...
  18. T

    Karezza / NoNut > NoFap

    So last July/August I started what was intended to be NoFap streak. I went for about a month until I got laid -- with this girl R who I thought was super attractive (busty, cute face, big ass, in shape) I was kinda drunk, didn't finish, but somehow the NoFap mindset made the not-finishing...
  19. K

    Tried Neo After 60 Days Of NoFap But Failed :(

    Hello I have not masturbated for 60 days. I read about the "NEO" Technique I practiced my muscle for about a week and decided to try to stop ejacuking by masturbating first. Unfortunately, the stream was so strong, not that I could stop it, so quite a lot went out. Does one masturbation reset...
  20. D

    Gay male Karezza, Karezza with two guys

    Hey folks, Just posting to ask if anyone here has had any experience with Karezza between two guys. I understand that Karezza (slow, gentle, habitual, nonorgasmic, spiritual intimacy between partners) is such a niche subject already, so to find information for gay men is even harder. Even...
  21. STAR DUST

    SEXUAL BANK ACCOUNT

    Our sexual capcity is a sequence of withdrawals, deposits, and the very currancy itself. We would love to think that our sexuality is infinate, however the opposite couldn’t be more true. We have been taught in the West that it is okay to masturbate, and have sex as much as you want to. The...
  22. EXPONENTIALLY

    VIRGINITY UNTIL MARRIAGE OR JUST FOR THE BLISS (NO "kisses", NO inapropriate touches)

    I think it's good and healthy to be virgin, so if you want to stay virgin for any particular reason, feel free to contribute to this thread. Those who aren't virgin but would like to participate are invited to share their own perspective or experience, as long as it encourages the 'challenge'...
  23. STAR DUST

    SCORE!

    I AM FEELING GOOD TODAY. MY WIFE AND I PRACTICED KAREZZA TWICE YESTERDAY. I ALMOST HAD AN O THE FIRST TIME. AFTER THAT WE WENT TO RUN SOME ARRANDS, WHEN WE GOT BACK HOME SHE DID SOME HOME WORK. AT THIS TIME I WAS EXPERIENCING AN UNNATURAL ENERGY SURGE FROM THE PRESERVATION OF THE FIRST ROUND...
  24. STAR DUST

    WOMEN CAN SENSE IT.

    I believe that women can sense that there is something violently wrong with PMO. It is well noted that porn is highly unfavorable among wives, and girlfriends. We have all heard the stories of wives, or girlfriends finding out about the pornographic use of their spouses, or boyfriends...
  25. STAR DUST

    LEVELS OF SEMEN RETENTION AND ORGASM FREQUENCY

    LEVEL 1: GOLD 30 DAY FREQUENCY LEVEL 2: PLATINUM 60 DAY FREQUENCY LEVEL 3: DIAMOND 90 DAY FREQUENCY LEVEL 4: GOD MODE 3 OR FEWER RELEASES PER YEAR ARE YOU IN THE GOLDEN LEAGUE, PLATINUM LEAGUE, DIAMOND LEAGUE, OR THE LEAGUE OF THE GODS?
  26. T

    Content Advisory--Potentially Triggering: Two women rebooting together (Karezza Sex)

    Hi guys, i know that most of the members on this forum are men so I think it may be interesting/helpful to share some experience from women's perspective. Long story short, my partner and I were both regular viewers of internet porn before we moved in together. Both being single moms with the...
  27. SpouseofPA

    is this common?

    Does having a problem with p, ever make you want to M to other women, and M while thinking about doing things with them, (say women you see everyday, like at work or if they eat at some place everyday) even if you have a girlfriend or wife? (not that you want to replace your significant other...
  28. P

    karezza

    is O while having sex is so bad as PM? I am trying karezza with my wife, but after 30-45 mins ejaculation happens.. I will try to take it more slowly next time, but how much longer can it go? thanks in advance.
  29. SageHam333

    Mind-Blowing book with fascinating insight

    Hey guys, So I found out about this book from a You-Tuber who suggested it in one of his NoFap videos. He said the book was a turning point in his recovery and he hadn't PMO'd since finishing reading it. I just got it and started reading it with my wife, and it is very very interesting and...
  30. D

    Does anyone know where I can find SFW Karezza guides/articles?

    When I mean SFW I mean visually safe. Because a lot of the websites I visit about Karezza have a lot of triggering pictures in their article. I'm too worried that if I spend too much time searching for a proper one I'd eventually end up looking at too much triggering material. Thanks
  31. D

    Need advice on making an impression (Dating) + Rewiring.

    Backstory: I have PIED. I failed countless times trying to reboot, and I'm now currently on my highest streak and have no intention to fall back into the trap that pornography is. I would now like to approach and meet women in hopes of finding a long-term partner. Unlike most of the men here, I...
  32. N

    Karezza question

    Is karezza the same as edging? Is it totally different? I'm interested in some different points of view
  33. K

    If I can do this so can you 100 percent rebooted.

    I had attempted reboots several times and have failed many times because I went about it the wrong time. Marking Xs on your calendar day by day and waiting for your penis to return to glory is not a roadmap to success. Honestly, who gives a shit about some dumb 90 day milestone. Gentleman...
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