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Hello, I’m new and and wanted to give a bit of an intro. About five years ago, I converted to Catholicism. Before then, I firmly believed that porn and masturbation were normal and great. But after understanding how my obsession with it affected the way I looked at people, I’ve gradually come...

Hey there, I'going for my final reboot, I'm more motivated than ever. The longest streak in the past were 155 days. But this time it's different because my wife knows about and want to support me. I wonder what experiences you guys have made with supporting partners. Maybe you have some useful...

As I'm approaching the end of my 90-day hard-mode reboot, I'm faced with a conundrum: a) I would like to reconnect sexually with my wife again and learn to enjoy the fullness of our marriage, but ... b) I'm sensitive now to how addictively chasing after orgasms has caused me more trouble than...

I'll repeat some of my intro stuff here, just for context (see here). 32yo, Male, Christian, Married-with-kids. After 10 years of marriage, I'm realizing that my growing discontentment with our sex life lays mostly, if not fully, on my shoulders. My addiction to PMO has damaged my...

Hello All, Hope you are having a good weekend. I would like to join you all in the journey to NoFap, No PMO and ultimately to freedom. I am in my early 30s, married with kids. I started off with masturbation around the age of 16 and sort of went on and off until today. I have done NoFap...

Why am I here? Easy answer is because I want to quit. My story is the same as so many, so I’ll make it short. I’m a married man with children. Ive had long stretches of sobriety, but have been currently back to a once a week slip. I have been messing with Covenant Eyes for years, and...

After having read several posts here on NoFap about how sex ed and porn can be related, I felt like I should do a post specifically on this topic. For any parents out there, please do your kids a favor, and teach them about what porn can do as part of sex ed. Although my parents did give me sex...

Hey all, Im 33 married with 3 kids and i have been addicted to porn since i was 12-14. In 2015-2016 i had several affairs. I was discovered at the end of 2016. My wife and i have been in recovery for 2ish years and we are learning a ton about what it means to be in healthy relationship. We...

Whether you're a PA or SO would you want your kids to read your journal? Does it scare you that they might come across it someday? How would you react if they told you they read it?

3 days removed from dday. Every day has been hard for me and my wife. Not from any PMO urges, just the damage I have done. She is mad at me this morning because I didn't wake up when she got out of bed with the kids. I feel like I'm trying to learn about my addiction to PMO to give me the...

For me it was Hook. I found everything about it terrifying. Last night I watched clips of it on YouTube and I still found it somewhat scary.

So I am going good with no P. But I am not seeing the benefits so many describe as yet just over 30 odd days in. I am not sure how much it us the cloud of the pain of separation from my wife. I have moved into a room near the family home in the home of being close to and seeing the kids. Tonight...

I touched on this issue on the intercourse thread but I thought I'd have a thread dedicated to this issue. How does having a PA parent affect the kids? If you look at porn as a parent do you fear your kids will find out? Have you thought about how you would explain it if your kids saw you...

29 year old. Been watching porn since 12. Struggling with pmo since 7 years, cured from it and recently experiencing pe.. I have been clear of porn for two years (24-26), but since 1,5 year I can't get a steak longer than a week. I'm devastated.. I have two kids and a third underway. My so...

Whew. It has been a long time nofap. When I first found you I thought I was on my way. Instead I found about "edging" and in doing so my quest to quit porn became the gateway towards an addiction that has consumed an endless amount of time. Time I could have spent being productive. Time with...