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This weekend I gave in to my lustful desires for Asian massage girls. I was triggered and highly upset about being fooled by this single mom I was dating. So I drop her off & go to the closest massage place- it was an awful experience at a place that gives HJs. The lady said she was quitting...

"love the people, hate the sin" in this thread i'm planning to gather all the reasons to hate porn. i learned that the problem we still attached to porn is not because of loneliness and stress and other excuses. i know it happens. i felt those too. but so does all free people. so the...

If you sometimes feel like this, please comment Have you ever thought about the shamelessness of women who work in porn or women who publish erotic pictures and videos of themselves, and this thought makes you sad and lustful at the same time? At this time, I try to remind myself that there are...

i have been turning to chatting apps and sexually active chatting places just to get in touch with people(women especially-random women) so as to cure my lust which i now realize is fueled by my porn addiction. I feel a bit lonely without porn. dirty chats and sex chats don't have the exact same...

I can’t believe I’m able to write down that it’s been 36 days since I’ve last PM. I’m married so I’ve been able to be blessed with a few Os over the last month. But man, it’s been insanely up and down. I was in a dark hole of P.… Cuck, sissy, sharing wife’s pics… I confessed to my wife I was...

Hi all, I'm currently trying to focus on my work, but lustful thoughts keep popping into my mind whilst trying to concentrate. Any tips? Thanks

I just wanted to see if anyone had any advice on how to stop objecting women. I have always had this issue for as long as I can remember. I would catch myself staring or actively being a creep just to sneak a glance. I'm the guy at the gym that stares and I don't like that. It never used to...

New to NOFAP, not new to struggles. I'm 64 and have been into P&M since puberty. I quit for 90 days once and I guess I thought that the clouds would part but they didn't and so I returned. I've been a long-time recovered member of AA. Lately, I've been trying to apply what I've learned there to...

I decided to investigate this site. Been struggling with P&M since puberty. I've been a recovered alcoholic in AA for many years. Trying to apply what I learned in AA to P&M addiction. I quit once for 90 days. Thought the clouds would part but they didn't and so I gave in. Coming to the end of...

Inside Me: I am suffering with my mental issue. The concern is I am losing my ability to focus, commemorate, ability to do critical things. Ability to plan long term goals and execution of short term goal in real time. I am losing my ability to socialize, I am being negative and thinking that I...

Hi ! Skip video to 0:48, if you are in hurry. Saw this long time ago when I tried to find something that would help me to stop staring, lusting, objectifying and fantasizing about women, and watching it still helps me a LOT. Its simple and still very effective. Thought it would be nice to...

Current streak: 476 days no PMO, semen retention This is an advice that my father a real tantric master told me yesterday “First of all recognize the illusion of this world, the materiality and mundanity of women in general, you need to have clear concepts about the deceit of the material...

I'm battling with a porn and masturbation addiction. I'm making progress, but my mind is messed up. It wasn't like this before watching porn, but now I think about sex and women almost every time. If a woman or girl walks past me, I have to stare at her body and fantasize. I can also just start...

Hey. 30yo married male. I feel that I'm stuck in this loop: (1) Seeing and beeing triggered by other women everywhere (street, gym, internet, etc). (2) Desire for other women other than my wife. (3) Feeling "a miss" that I don't try to hook-up with other women. (4) PMO and questions about my...

How do you overcome all of the lust that got reinforced through years of PMO? I have seen a few people say that once your heart begins to change the lust loses power and you can look at something you used to lust over and it won't make you react anymore. How do you begin to make this...

if your edging as a means to recover from pmo. stop. its hurting u more than u know. its unnatural and unhealthy for your prostate and overall sexual condition. your also training your brain to seek out ejaculation which depletes ur life force when out of context of making a new life. you should...

As fire testeth iron, so doth temptation the upright man. Oftentimes we know not what strength we have; but temptation revealeth to us what we are. Nevertheless, we must watch, especially in the beginnings of temptation; for then is the foe the more easily mastered, when he is not suffered to...

We're all familiar with the every day triggers, but this strategy is specifically a way to fight off luat attacks. In my experience, these show up maybe once in a month on hard mode, and may even continue for a few days. Seemingly I was doing great and then, a whole nother breed of of lasting...

We're all familiar with the every day triggers, but this strategy is specifically a way to fight off luat attacks. In my experience, these show up maybe once in a month on hard mode, and may even continue for a few days. Seemingly I was doing great and then, a whole nother breed of of lasting...

I am further along in my recovery than I ever have being, never did I think I would be able to get to this point, I imagined all of the benefits that I would feel, happiness, calm, and ability to concentrate, and I have felt these, but let me tell you now to anyone new coming into this, its not...

So here I am at 7.53 am in England writing this about how still after now over 4 months of nofap my libido hasn't truly returned. I wanted to mainly write this so that newcomers and long time no flappers alike see how long this process can be, for I have had many times in the past left porn...

Hello everybody. I am an aspiring Orthodox Christian, awaiting the day that I may be baptized into the Holy Church. The greatest sin in my life, and the source of my mental anguish and spiritual struggle, has been addiction to pornography and masturbation. I became hooked on it when I was a...

There is this one girl always chat with me on whatsapp. She is in love with I can truly say that. She also said I love many times . But didn't say. Because my problem is that I just need a kiss and sex from her , that's the only need I am getting. And i am not in love her I can say that. Also I...

Hello brothers, this is my first post here. I am soon to be 23 yo guy that had some nasty porn and fetishes past as many of you. I have heard about the idea of nofap some 2-3 years ago and bought into it quite quickly, not with all my will though - say I was masturbating 2-3 times a week on...

Hi guys I'm on 48th day and unfortunately about 2 hours ago I watched some sexy and erotic seances (some included full frontal naked dancing girl intentionally):( and there was a porngraphic picture this picture was accidentally but all of the other was intentionally I watched for about an hour...

So, This is my first post. I'm old 34 yrs, started in my teens. Heavy on porn. It is/was rhythmic. I had to masturbate morning then at night, it was a routine and i needed to stick to it. i was also a smoker for 10 years but cleared that years back. I would combine both for the ultimate...

Hello, I'm a singer, songwriter, husband, father and most importantly friend of god. My journey in musicianship has had its sucessses and failures but the biggest for me is the way I view certain people I know i'm called to help. It never has manifested into a bad situation but internally I know...

I am a teen ...just like others ....i just tried discovering myself ... i went on deep ...and all that internet stuff , but got addicted... its been nearly 4 years of trying , i have experienced decrease in hair quality , weaker and appearances of vessels in my genital, i am lacking the swift...

Hi all, I just wanted to post this topic here so that anyone who has reset can perhaps think about what they ate during that day. In my personal experiance there is a strong correlation between overeating (or eating certain foods like meat / junk food like cakes, chocolate etc) and the...

Hi all, So some of you may know my story. I completed 90 days hard mode. Why start? I took this test that said I was addicted to porn and read nofap book which made it clear I needed this resource. What promoted seeking help with porn? (This time at least) Well honestly two things, my wife and...

I think this dilemma can be best analyzed through addiction to porn. Porn in and of itself is not a bad thing (two people procreating is essential for humans to continue to exist). But the issue happens when we obsess over the process of procreation and try to capture it into a neat video...

Where's the (thin) line between having a high sex drive and not getting enough sex? I ask this because I've been going through some relationship issues with my SO (significant other). In fact, last week we took some "space" which then led to breaking up, just yesterday. A friend of mine said...

One Fapstronaut on this forum asked me kindly to create another thread that discusses some productive and stimulating actions and hobbies you can pursue in order to fight urges and fill in the emerging gap/void that will appear after leaving PMO behind. It is of course hard to come up with...

Hey there dear Fapstronaut, Are you feeling the urge to fap, or having a blue pedal? Would you wish you could be able to give it away? Meisterkatze can help! If you wish, then my evil counterpart Katzenmeister would enjoy to take your sinful desire and cleanse you. You can also confess to me...

I've stopped masturbation for a long long time, but wet dreams still occur. Even if they aren't mostly as worst as real relapses, i still get the impression, that they drain my energy and cause a bit brain fog. Semen retention is actually the important part of NoFap for me. I don't think that...

i am doing ok resisting internet porn and masturbating to it. My question is whether people have moved on to apply same principles and had success resisting the temptation to lust after attractive women. I find this is often precursor to desire to seek porn and masturbate. Also it sours my...

The title isn't that accurate, I don't know how to describe it in a single sentence. You know, that theres loads of porn and sexual content on the internet.You can watch/listen/see everything you want, a teenage boy has most likely seen more private parts of a women in one week than his grandpa...

Hello, I haven't posted in a while, I'm often on social media but barely ever on forums as I never quite got used to this form of interaction. I post on the subreddit occasionnally as well under another username. The topic may have been talked about already and I apologise for that, but I...

Can you look at a woman's body without lusting? Is it possible to admire it like a fascinating piece of art or a beautiful scenery?

Hey guys I know I have been gone for a couple of months, but I wanted to let you guys know how I`ve been doing. I`ve graduated with a bachelors in psychology, im now 30, and im going to church. I`m entering into christian counseling to help me with my faith and my porn addiction. I have banned...

Hello all, First of all, I want to say thank you for creating an environment like this. I was introduced to porn when I was in the 3rd grade from a friend. Around 5th grade I figured out what masturbation was. I am now a sophomore in college, and my life has ever since been full of lust and...

Hello all, I am a new guy to NoFap. I have used porn / cybersex at various intensities since I was 12 or so; I am now 60. Dec 28 2017 my wife discovered this, and I disclosed everything. It was very painful for her and I. Since then I have been working hard on my recovery, easing her betrayal...

I dont know if porn has created this or it is just me , i have been in a relationship for 6 years now and basically right from the start i have always lusted other women. I thought that giving up the porn which i have now for around stints of 30 to 100 days being my best , right now i am...

So these urges are really getting on my nerves. Is there a good way to prevent the lust for porn from going to your head so you won't begin to fap? Because as soon as you do, it hits your brain HARD.

Hello NoFap, I just joined the platform and am hoping that this place has something to help me get rid of this addiction. I am a deeply Christian 17 year old man(as you hopefully can tell by my name) and I see pornography and lust as sinful things. I would appreciate if anyone could tell me...

I find myself struggling at the 20th day in PMO. Everyday , I get that arg to just do the things man needs to do (even to an extreme levels). My sheer thoughts invoke erections while I try to sleep at night. Especially, when I don't have a girlfriend or friends to blow some steam (most of them...

This is my first post on this site. I'm 22 years old. two years ago, I tried pick-up , and it didn't go well. In addition to that , I started getting social anxiety around girls I wanted to start with. A year has passed , and I started going to collage for programming. I wanted to try again. So...

Hey guys I'm new to this site a friend told me about the site and I just have a serious porn and masterbation addiction and enough is enough all it's doing is messing with my mom mind and physical health I started around I would say 12 and I'm done with this I just need. Your guys help right now

So I've been seeing this girl, going on 3 weeks now. I'm not really sure what to call us. we aren't really dating but when ever we're together we do couple things like hold hands and make out and stuff. The biggest problem here is that she was my best-friends ex. They only broke it off like 3...

The question sums it all up. Today I was waiting for the train on the platform and saw a very attractive woman passing me by. I won't go into details lest I make anyone on here relapse, but I couldn't get my eyes off her, I was literally standing there watching her as all kinds of...

Well, porn sure did me in. I watched so many gangbangs and MFM videos that I actually talked my girlfriend into trying this stuff.. Originally when we met our relationship was based on sex, we banged like rabbits everyday. fast forward 3.5 years into the relationship I guess we were both bored...

I recognize that Life is the most precious gift by GOD to us. Dont we get wasted by getting ourselves in useless things specially KAAM (LUST). Life is meant to do something great for humanity and return to abode of GOD After death in HINDUISM Its known as MOKSHA. Life is a BOON. Utilize it...

Basics 23/F Christian Struggling with: Sexual Fantasies (all day, every day) which often leads to masturbation. Last fap(s) I used porn. I don't use porn often but even a little is too much. I'm repenting. I can get aroused by anything sexual even if just in books (so taking a break from Bad...

Greetings fellow fapstronauts! Let me first say that it is an honour to be welcomed into a community that seeks to attain virtue, a quest which is all to often underrated in our contemporary culture. Let me tell you the story of my addiction. When I was 14 years old, I came back from a summer...