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Hello all, You can call me Jerry. I'm a 26 year old male. I started masterbating around 12 years old, started watching porn around the same time. This is my story: Around the age of 15, I noticed a serious decline in libido, and I was no longer getting erections, unless I was watching porn...

Hi, I’m new here. My husband and I have been together for 10 years almost. I first found his hard drives full of porn and computer history and everything else that it made me spiral into once I was triggered into investigation mode about 9 years ago. It’s been about 7 years since I first asked...

I am an ex-spouse of a sex addict. I've read many, many posts on this forum and others. Most of the time, or maybe even all of the time, I read over and over again that the women (usually spouse) has been lied to over and over, gaslit, made to feel controlling and told that the problem is her by...

I talk mostly about men here. Because most of the time porn users/addicts are men. I am also talking about my experience. I was for the most of my life just an dishonest man. I lied a lot. I wanted to hide my porn use for everybody. Luckily, I didn’t had a relationship when I used porn, so I...

I'll repeat some of my intro stuff here, just for context (see here). 32yo, Male, Christian, Married-with-kids. After 10 years of marriage, I'm realizing that my growing discontentment with our sex life lays mostly, if not fully, on my shoulders. My addiction to PMO has damaged my...

I suspected my partner had a porn addiction but couldn't be sure. About 3 months ago I saw it in our computer history. He wasn't just watching porn now and again, it was every day, often multiple times a day, lots and lots of sites. I asked him if he watched much porn, and he lied and said no...

Hey everyone! I really need your help/advice regarding a recent incident that happened in my life. So a while back I made this post: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/almost-had-sex-but.228945/ What i was asking in that post is relationship advice regarding a religious girl that i...

I am new here and found this forum after hours of searching the internet in the attempt to understand my boyfriends addiction, dishonesty and behavior. I will describe the situation and problems and would greatly appreciate any feedback. I have been with my boyfriend for only 9 months, he is 47...

I am wondering if anyone else has run out of consequences for when their partner disrespects the boundaries? He already sleeps on the couch (been 3mths now), there is no physical touch at all, we dont do things together anymore unlesd it involves the baby......and none of this seems to bother...

My boyfriend and i have been together for about 3 years now. He had had a PA since he started puberty. it was around the 2 year mark that i let him know how the P made me feel and that things needed to change. at first he claimed it was not a big issue, but eventually he agreed to change his...

Just a quick few bullet points from an article I thought I’d share. I encourage others to read these bullet points and just try to think about them without judging yourself (bad or good). Really try to see them and see who you are behind these images or conditions you’ve put yourself in...

Lots to read! I’ve always been open and understanding but now it’s becoming to much. I met him and found out he needed viagara (I was 24 and he was 34) although it was a young age, I accepted. Now four years on and married viagara doesn’t work anymore. When I met him he said he would watch and...

I have always been highly sexual, and fairly proud to be. A lot of intellectuals and successful people are highly sexual people, my thought being that I may belong among them. This has rarely been a problem, I am fairly successful, although who couldn't be more successful if they managed to rid...

"You're Only As Sick As Your Secrets" This amazing phrase comes out of The 12 Step tradition. Although I have not gone through D&A addiction issues...we all know that porn addiction can be just as bad, if not worse. Like with gambling, we become addicted to the "high" that our own brains...

Hey everyone. I didn't bother with an intro post because my situation is quite urgent. Please understand, I found you guys today and I am so relieved to be able to gain some insight on what has been an eroding of my trust with who I beleive to be my soul mate for the last 2 years. It all...

Hi everyone. I'm so glad that I found this forum. It makes me feel a little less alone. Everyday my heart breaks a little bit more. I don't know what to do. If anyone can offer me any advice (especially the men) I'd really appreciate it. It's a bit of a long story.. but I will try and keep it...

I'm ready to start a new challenge, after reading the post of @aarondf that we should not swear or lie. According to my and many other peoples' moral principles, it's bad to lie or cuss. I posted yesterday the question if I should do a digital detox, and I am ready to begin with it starting...

So I dont know if I consider what I do as fapping but I will call it fap cause there is ejaculation. I am dealing with two problems currently. 1) So when me and my friends are talking I always lie to them and I say that I have never fapped before but its not true. I crossdress and get aroused by...

I found out last night that my boyfriend of a year is addicted to porn. I was on his laptop and found that he had been looking at pictures of naked girls and amateur porn despite telling me numerous times that he doesn't watch porn and doesn't feel the need to because I send him pictures often...