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  1. JustALearner

    Wet Dream Recovery Guide (Full Protocol)

    Recovering from a nocturnal release during semen retention requires a combination of physical, mental, and emotional strategies to restore balance and refocus your energy. Here’s a comprehensive guide: 1. Physical Recovery a. Hydration: • Importance: After a nocturnal release, your...
  2. tawwab1

    Sexually uptight women

    I want to discuss the issue of uptight women. I see this problem a lot in these journals and I don't find this topic discussed openly, so here we go. It's important for a recovering porn addicted man to choose wisely the woman he will be with. Because what then, if you choose someone who can't...
  3. T

    Addicted from last 4 years ,want to reboot

    i am 25 year old man, still studying for masters in technology in computer science engineering . Now in 2023 i am still addicted to watch porn and unable to overcome from it since 2019 because of this habit i was unable to focus on my carrier it was deviating from reading , i am unable to...
  4. modern milarepa

    Differences between men and women

    What biological, psychological, behavioral, emotional, mental differences are between men and women. Write you analysis on any subject regarding this. Open thread. Ps: There's no feminism or machismo behind the thread
  5. D

    21st Century men - Discord server invite!

    https://discord.gg/aBBdT3jf Welcome to 21st Century men! This server is dedicated to exploring and building a healthy masculinity together in the 21st century. This is my first server so it will improve over time. Please be patient. I'll try to keep it as minimalist as possible so we could focus...
  6. A

    Grindr app addiction

    im a bisexual guy , i used to enjoy having sex with men and woman , i met a girl , she's the love of my life , we got married a year and a half ago , after that i unfortunately started using grindr , i had few months without a job due to covid crisis so had a lot of home alone time , i was on...
  7. Slimjimjones

    Nature's Past and Hell's Future--Motivational Declaration

    Gentlemen we were born into a world not of our own creation, thrusted into an arbitrary collection of morals, beauty, and suffering. We have not a war to provide us meaning and we are losing our home and nation to a house divided. Are we cursed to forever pale in comparison to the heroes long...
  8. F

    The REAL MAN Challenge

    Welcome to the REAL MAN Challenge You watch porn because you are a SIMP. Let me repeat, you watch porn because you are a SIMP. Guys, this is it. It is time to join the Real Man Brotherhood. It is time to let go the simp mentality. Even Phoebe is telling you What is REALLY happening when...
  9. blacklabel92

    Standing vs sitting while peeing

    I just realized why womens brs are more pleasant and sanitary than ours.. Cause even when were hitting the middle of the bowl in water little pee dropletts are still bouncing out and around the toilet vicinity.. Not to mention the pubes that fall on the rim while were standing. Wonder why it...
  10. D

    Masculinity

    Screw all the bad rap about masculinity - like “toxic masculinity “! What does masculinity mean to you???
  11. D

    Any good Self Improvement site for men?

    Are there any good sites for self improvement for men that you can recommend. Along with NoFap I'm seeking websites that I can use to build up my character and improve myself. At the moment I'm frequenting Return of Kings and the Art of Manliness. Also using lots of youtube videos. I'm not a...
  12. stevejohnson

    Day 2, Normal Stage

    Usually Normal all. Because this is 2nd Day of NoFap. * Relaxed and Stay busy every time. * Schedule working. * Watching TV rather than using Smartphone. *Writing Dairy for Writing Skills. *Many Habits. Perhaps this habits make me NoFap. What's your opinion??.
  13. D

    Phones and woman/Guy's?

    Hey everyone I have an off topic discussion that is kind rattling my mind lately. Recently there is this woman at work that I find very attractive and she is kind of a bigger woman.. Every so often she changes her hair color and style and I want to give her compliments or something. She has an...
  14. Batty Belfry

    The Male Gaze and What To Do About It

    I've found myself admiring women, especially my age, that are more tasteful, not narcissistic, and not reserved necessarily, who enjoy having another intellect to speak with. Though this intelligence is not the end-all-be-all. Sexuality is important and a healthy amount of attention and...
  15. S

    High Ideals, life threatening tendencies. I need support.

    Hey Everyone I call myself the ShwingBreathMan here. I am passionate about the power of breath and energy. Coupled with a pretty fucked up childhood and early Victoria secret/video(porn, masturbation, orgasm) addiction that carried into my 20s and early 30s I am now battling the tendency to...
  16. Steffo Shambo

    Dear brothers, don't isolate yourself. It takes courage to reach out for help!

    The rate of suicide is highest in middle age white men. Men are 3 times more likely to commit suicide then women. The reason being that they have less social circles to reach out for support... ....and for having someone to listen and care. That's why it is important to surround yourself...
  17. D

    Man's/Woman's Essence?

    Hey everyone. This post has kind of to do with the charisma I guess or Essence of a Man/Woman? My question is does porn deplete the Essence of a Man/Woman. I've felt that allot of the reason's why Men/Woman are attracted to each other is because of there distinct characteristics. Doesn't...
  18. SirWanksalot

    Why sleeping next to a campfire in the mountains helped me with my loneliness more than anything els

    There are actually only few things in life that leave a lasting mark on you. That you remember long after they happened. But they still feel like they just happened yesterday. And there is a quote I once read that perfectly encapsulates one of these moments for me. And it still moves me every...
  19. iaj

    Why a woman approached me for the first time in my life.

    Women have approached me before, but this was different. I'm certain that this particular type of scenario was the first time it's happened to me. It was a touching and memorable moment which I partly credit to NoFap. I was out at a restaurant with a friend of mine and one of his friends. As we...
  20. A

    I'm ready to change.

    I remember first looking at porn when I was in middle school. My parents did not go out of their way to give me a sex ed talk, so I, an afraid, insecure middle schooler, did not want to go ask them about it. So I asked the internet instead. There I was for the first time exposed to the world...
  21. D

    New to the site. Bi curious and addicted

    Hey guys, I could use some support. I’m BI and travel each week for business. It’s so easy to watch porn in the hotel rooms and jack off. Anyone else have this struggle? Any fellow business travelers or road warriors? I could use some fellow friends that understand this challenge. Feel free to...
  22. D

    Men are offended when...

    women apply make-up when on a train... Well, some men are. One man said: 'I think once or twice I just stared at the person thinking that they would eventually notice and feel embarrassed. That never happened, it's something for someone's private space - their bedroom or bathroom. So to find...
  23. ClaudeDuval

    Male emotions

    Disclaimer: I am not saying my opinions and ideas are true for every single persons case, this is based on myself and other men I have interacted with in my life. There is this idea that men are sort of cold creatures who have no emotions. This is untrue, men are only selective when it comes to...
  24. anthony stark

    first time rebooting..

    hello i'm anthony, i'n 21 years old and i realized i have a problem. for years i never thought of it as a problem ,just a way to pastime and nothing more but lately i've come to the realization that it started to interfiere with my life ,my routine is usually to look at porn 2 and on lazy days...
  25. D

    Real Men Do Hit Women

    The prospect that the problem of gendered violence can be resolved by a return to ‘real masculinity’ has wide appeal. But who is a real man and who isn’t? And if real men don’t hit women, then who does? https://meanjin.com.au/essays/real-men-do-hit-women/ This quote from Martin Luther King Jr...
  26. M

    M46 New To NoFap

    Hello guys! I am new to NoFap. I joined because I am looking to get in touch with other guys to share our expriences, to keep up our motivation and to enjoy the time together. I have decided to try NoFap, because I spend too much time and energy with P and M. I have just started (it's day 6...
  27. duha

    What does a woman truely want from a man?

    Well, I have heard in many places that the expectations of men from women are more straightforward than that of women from men. I am thinking on what I expect but I can not look into the hearts of others. And I think any relationship be as mundane as employer-employee or the warm friendship or...
  28. Peace467

    Thoughts on: What does it mean to be a man?

    So this is basically a thred for you to give your opinions on what it means to be a man in todays society. It's something that I have been thinking alot about lately and something that I find interesting as a mans role seems to have changed drastically over the last few decades. So I'm curious...
  29. FormerFapaholic

    Music videos – Watered down porn?

    SINCE quitting PMO, I have started to enjoy and appreciate the simple things in life. Especially what I have right in front of me. Reading books, walking the dog, having a coffee, but music and art are the things I’ve always enjoyed. Especially on the creative and emotional side of it. I’m...
  30. N

    How to deal with her behaviour?

    Hey there, i got a bit of a problem lately. I´ve been seeing this close friend of mine for quiet some time now and when i am with her (at her home or mine) it´s like a relationship. We chill together, have fun in our free time and in bed and are enjoying endearments (thats just a small part and...
  31. Sigma Alpha male

    Unwanted boners

    Is it normal to get a plenty of boners in a day on nofap ??
  32. Sigma Alpha male

    It's just the beginning

    Hello I'm Aman from India...i have been struggling from a long time,i was literally trying everything but in the end nothing was working the way i wanted it was just the feeling of emptiness from inside maybe pmo was the issue not sure though...
  33. P

    Is it ok to compliment girls in the street?

    I have this class in the u, the teachers are feminist and we were talking about gender violence. They say that complimenting a girl in the street is street harassment. I said I see no problem if it is done with respect. I also said if Brad Pitt said to one of them they were pretty they wouldn't...
  34. Dragonnlife

    Sleeping with a women or man

    Day 21: Irony. I couldn't stop thinking about it. I didnt WANT to stop thinking about it. It was all I wanted for so long and NoFap gave me the power to make it happen. *sigh* I slept with that girl last night after having met her the day of. Most of you may be thinking "That's great though! You...
  35. D

    Stopped watching porn, but frequent O's with partner, is that bad?

    My no PMO streak is continuously rising, but is it bad to continuously orgasm with a partner? Would it be harmful to the reboot?
  36. P

    Are women and men the same?

    Hello, I want to share this with you all. I'm currently having a class in U that's something like SE (sexual education). The teachers are feminist and all the classes they tell us how men and women are the same (of course, I think we should have same rights and opportunities), that the...
  37. minionnomore

    The solution to all your porn addictions

    I can't believe this actually works.I was going through some random articles and I happened to find this out.When I saw it I thought it was some troll.I tried it out for a coupla days and it actually freakin works man it freakin works. The answer to all your porn addiction problems...
  38. minionnomore

    The power of choice

    The power of choice is what makes us different from any other living being.A tree can't be anything but a tree why because it doesn't have a choice does it.Us humans have unlimited options we no longer have to follow our instincts like animals do.We human beings are blessed with this unique...
  39. minionnomore

    The truth about masturbation

    We have all heard the myth about masturbation and how it reduces prostate cancer. We all fell for that one right.Well I have proof that masturbation has nothing to do with prostate cancer.I have a video of Noah Church explaining why masturbation has no correlation with prostate cancer Pls sub...
  40. minionnomore

    My views on prostitution

    Recently i have read about many desperate guys using prostitution as a substitute for real sex. Now I know u guys maybe asking me you're only a teen what do u know about loneliness or the shame of being a virgin.Well the truth is I don't know much about all of that but have you taken the time to...
  41. minionnomore

    "Suffer the pain of discipline, or suffer the pain of regret."

    “We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons.” ― Jim Rohn This should be the motto driving us when have a desire or an urge to give into temptations. I know some of you guys are...
  42. N

    changing myself

    hi guys!!... currently i m a porn overaddict..... and i m 16 yrs of age only...i started porn 2 yrs ago ... and till this day i m not having any control over my urges..... its just like i have become a robot whose function is to fap 2 times a day... usually...but i just want to stop it.... and...
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