obsession

Been having this fetish for muscular girls and female athletes bodybuilders for almost 3 years. Which turned into a compulsive sexual behavior and into a very unhealthy obsession. Which lead me to mastrubate some days 5 times a day to instagram female bodybuilders It took over my whole life i...

THIS GONNA BE A VERY LONG MESSAGE SO PLEASE DON’T IGNORE I NEED HELP. I been struggling with a unhealthy obsession over a certain type of women i’m attracted to which leads to a unhealthy amount of mastrubation And been experiencing alot of desensitization lately and it keeps getting worse...

I feel like NoFap has become more difficult for me in the last 6 months. I have become so fixed on it that I got upset with myself over small mistakes. Paradoxically it means that I now need to learn to not fixate on my mistakes in order to get back on my path. NoFap was easier before I realized...

Don't waste as much time as I did. Life is short and we need our sex energy: 1. Porn does major damage, but we CAN have something better 2. Relapse with "wholesome" regular masturbation is much less destructive than porn- but can provoke porn urges if one is not prepared, and it can easily be...

...that keeps making me crazy. Hi there, I need to adress a certain topic with you, because I'm feeling very odd about this situation. You see, when I was 11 Years old I found a Porn Clip, which has stayed with me for over 10 years. You could even say it is somehow a part of me... which is...

I need advice because I do not know what to do. My boyfriend has an issue with edging (http://spaa-recovery.org/wp-content/uploads/What-is-Edging.pdf) and we both want to work towards sobriety. A few days ago he requested some videos/photos of me and I happily obliged, but he has told me that he...

I need advice because I do not know what to do. My boyfriend has an issue with edging (http://spaa-recovery.org/wp-content/uploads/What-is-Edging.pdf) and we both want to work towards sobriety. A few days ago he requested some videos/photos of me and I happily obliged, but he has told me that he...

Hello my name is OBY. I am a porn addict. I remember the first time I tried "NoFap" I didn't even think I was addicted it was more towards trying to get rid of a bad habit while enjoying the "NoFap Benefits" people talked about. My first time trying NoFap ever was 2.5 years ago. I was able to...

Hello, I don't know if this is right posted here, but anyways. This is long, so I would understand if you guys don't want to read it all. In Octuber 2018 I realized that I was having porn addiction problems when I was having 300gb of HD porn and cutting parts to save space, which took me hours...

Summary: Boyfriend quit PM but still has a very strong (daily) obsession with BJs that he seems unwilling to give up, which puts pressure on me and the relationship. How can I motivate him to see the harm in this and motivate/help/support him to overcome it? Dear valued NoFap Members, First of...

I 've seen a lot of people falling in this self -destructive mentality when being porn free is everything in their life.I see people like hitting 200 days their life is in order and they start doing big things but something happens they slip they start watching and that's it they sweep away...

I've started pmo 8 days now. And I've urgent gay thoughts, of having sex with a man. I've thoughts of sucking and riding a dick. I hate these urges which i didn't notice their intensity before. I used to watch straight and gay porn. I hope that I didn't get a way of being a gay, from which it's...

Science says that constantly watching many Hours of porn while fapping might not be good for the function of the brain and cognitive functioning. Watching many porn movies distracts clarity of thought and concentration, but I think that's a Problem with Smartphones, Computers, and TV and...

I know I won`t buy any of these drugs for myself without referring to a psychiatrist. I would like to gather some information before having a conversation with the GP. Here are My Problems (Yet not boring!) Listing out each and every activity that are left over in the Do List Feeling like...

Quick background: 10 months ago I saw a woman leaving my workplace and my jaw dropped. Instant attraction. Turns out she had just started working there . . . :) Over the past 10 months I have had other attractions, sure, but she's at the top of my list. It's clear that the attraction is mutual...

Guys im seriously addicted over music.. i used to listen over some south indian musics, pop musics.. but i realized ive been using music as a escapism from the reality.. it really promotes procastination into me... so im going to quite listening to the kind of music that i used to listen...

Hello guys, Ever since i remember my sexual activity i find my self being psychotically obsessed with anal sex. I've been watching A LOT of anal-focused porn since i was 18. I'm 30 now. Almost every time i entered the vagina, especially with a condom i went semi-soft and then totally lost my...

Yesterday i took the "Beck Depression Inventory". It is a self-rating test for depression consisting in 21 items which ask you to evaluate your state of being, thoughts and emotions which occured during the past two weeks. I scored 33, which is in the spectrum of "Severe depression". Even if it...

All...Bemore here hoping to hear some positive responses. Going to keep this short and sweet. For a while now I have been looking for a way to discuss this (with full knowledge of this site) “condition”, I’ll call it, to find a way and cope. Naturally I looked in places only I wanted to find...

Hi all, i decided to go nofap in order to get rid of ED and the inability to orgasm. The problem is that for the past 10 years i had been obsessed with anal sex. It was like i was not aroused by the vagina. I could stay hard inside a girls pussy, but i was able to climax only when i took her...

So this is my very first thread and my story is as similar as the many threads i have already read. A good 15 years wasted watching porn excessively and at some stages with a routine id follow religiously. Ive come to the end of my tether with it, as we all are wanting to better ourselves in one...

Hi ! I’m a 16 year old boy . I’ve been struggling for a long tine with depression . Somehow , I’ve managed to get a 18 year old girlfriend . She’s way smarter than me . The point is that she’s had so much sex since she was 26 , that now she’s kinda bired of it , but she tells me all the time...

I guess we expect in some ways that abstinence re-sensitises not only our genitals but also our brains. I have noticed new bodily obsessions rise in prominence and magnetism after my first ninety days of no porn related orgasms. The height of this fascination and sensitivity seems to come after...