paraphilia

Hi, I'll try to be concise, ever since I remember, from being at school until the present day, I was always extremely easily distracted by girl's/women's feet. At school I sometimes used to go under the table and pretend to be picking something up or finding something, but in reality I was...

Hi there everyone… For privacy reasons I will not disclose my age unless I am asked privately and it is relevant… Anyways I have to explain myself here because I need answers… Also I have Aspergers and OCD so keep that in mind… For a long time I have been watching porn… I have developed HOCD...

This is a thread for people living with a paraphilia. Advice can be shared with PMO addiction, how to live, who to tell, etc. I personally am a zoophile, but other paraphilias are welcome. You can share your experiences as a paraphiliac as well.

I have watched femdom video since a lot of years and vanilla things never turned me on since i was a child i had a foot fetish and at the time i was in puberty i found femdom videos and they were so appealing to me i masturbated the first time with a femdom video and things got even further...

Ok, Lets get started i come from argentina so dont bully my english. I found this site recently because i have some doubts about my PMO and i think the frequency with wich i see P causes me dysfunction (in my first and only time happened to me). Im going to try only 6 days of NoFap beacuse...

So lately I’ve been doing lots of research and reading through books, YouTube, podcasts, etc, on how toxic porn is to the human brain. Porn will ONLY cause negative effects for men in the long run. A lot of this information I’m coming across has only come out in the past couple years, so I can’t...

Note: I have a bizzare fetish paraphilia: h0rny when i see girls/young women wearing sarong. I've asked my wife-to-be for send her picture when she wears sarong, but she refuses to do it. Until a moment, we have a photo exchange: i sent my photos but she must sent her photos when she wearing...

So there's a part of my journey that I've been struggling to come to terms with in my head, and I wondered if anyone had any opinions... For some context, my fetish was something that was of interest to me (in a non-sexual setting) from a very young age and developed into a sexual fetish later...

So I'm having intrusive thoughts that have arousal attached to them, for reasons that are beyond the scope of the this post. My first question is this: in my abstinence, sexual coloring seems to be accumulating on the objects of my paraphilia *much faster* than my old, conventional preferences...

Edit: After due consideration, I have corrected the main theory of this thread as well as some other secundary ideas during the thread. Here are the updates and clarifications: 1) It is my suggestion that we should not use a word for defyning the attraction male-female because is something...