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I used to go to elementary school with one girl. We were good friends, but our relationship ended at school. When we went to high school we didn't talk to each other, until now. About a month and a half ago we met at the gym and I decided to talk to her. I invited her for coffee and since that...

Hello, I'm new to this website expecting a change in me. I've been fapping since last 10years and ofcourse I've now suffered the drawbacks such as greying of hair, inappropriate bowel moments, blurr vision, weakness, sleepy lazy body, no confidence, no energy left, I was doing 70pushup in a...

TL;DR: I take up too many hobbies, and would like some resources on the matter that may help me overcome this So i was binging the YouTube Cobra Kai series with my younger sister while I started to want to go to Karate classes again. Whats the problem with that you say, whats wrong with...

As a result of my recent Relapse, I've come to realize somethings: •I have anxiety and I didn't know, the reason i'm saying that is because im exoeriencing shortness of breath, and when im distracted doing something or FAPPING, I breath normaly without any liabiliy •I became used to relapsing as...

Hello, im 18 and i am a straight male. Ive been fapping for around 6 years and the last 3-4 years for like 5 times a day to porn. Last year i got a problem with traps and transwomen. They arouse me yet i dont want them to arouse them but i havent actually tried legit nofap yet to get rid of them...

It's been more than 10 days of NOFAP. I am controlling myself. I started sleeping early and wake up around 5 or 6 in morning. Then I try to start work but the problem is, I spent many hours literally sitting idle staring at books. I don't feel like reading book for study or to do any work. I...

I have been working on personal growth for a little over a year now and it has brought me out of a spiral of negativity that had lasted for years and given me a purpose to do things. You could also say that it brought me to nofap. The more that I worked on my passions that I have always wanted...

I don't know much about flatlineing but I'm going to assume it's what I feel right now. Feeling like anything and everything in your life is not interesting, feeling like all your energy is drained and you're just a husk, in the meantime your brain just wants to go back to porn or at the very...

I've been away from porno for 11 days, it's great right? well, kind of. You see, the problem I'm having is that I have two voices telling me to do the opposite of what the other one is saying, one says "go" and the other says "stop" and both of them are equally convincing. Sometimes one seems...

So i see a lot of people holding stuff in their minds and that kills them from the inside. I recently lost someone in my family due to the this thing. He kept to himself and one day he is gone. Just like that! So i am starting this thread. JUST WANT YOU TO CONFESS IF SOMETHING IS BOTHERING YOU...

Hey guys. This is kind of long. But recently I've been getting to know this woman at work and we are just casual co workers and we don't have each others number's yet or anything. I haven't been to chatty with her in the past because I knew she already had a boyfriend. I was cool with it and I...

So here i am guys, Sick and tired of porn and mastrubation starting my new journey now with hope without failing as i have done many times before. My porn addiction has been there for years and i have even been aware of it for the last two years. it started from the beginning slowly when i was...

Hello everyone I am in my 3rd month of NoFap I am still getting wet dreams about once a week... But the strange rhing is that I am getting anxiety, nervous and dizzy. My sleep is very deep and I don't feel my body as normal for 5 days. I did medical examinations and made sure it is not from...

Hello everyone I am in my 3rd month of NoFap I am still getting wet dreams about once a week... But the strange rhing is that I am getting anxiety, nervous and dizzy. My sleep is very deep and I don't feel my body as normal for 5 days. I did medical examinations and made sure it is not from...

I'm entering my 5th day and the head of my thing is swollen idk this has happened 3 times in the last 3 days, but why could this be? I thought it might be because I've been getting erections more and obv I've been abstaining, there is some pain because it feels a lot like inflammation Any ideas?

So since the age of 10 I have liked this girl for 7 years (I’m 17) the first time I asked her out I was 10 and got rejected with one long paragraph and this was my first rejection ever. (which impacts the tension between me and her for the rest of the story) (Middle school) Couple years go by...

today I decided to make out with a girl, we got freaky and it was time to insert. I pulled my pants she pulled hers and I inserted, immediately my stuff gushed out I would've sworn it hasn't entered but I think it did. I felt embarrassed I waited few minutes it stood but not like b4 and once I...

Yesterday I started university (I'm on the 1st year) after a long recess of one month. The tests are coming along like a thousand arrows upon myself (I didn't touch any book in the recess), but I'm quiet... I don't know If I'm gonna left a subject to the end of this year, but I don't care, I'm...

Hello, I am KuzTekken or Kuz for short. I have been masturbating since the age of 13 when I first discovered porn and I've had a back and forth battle withm masturbating and it has diminished my chances of reaching a higher level of myself that I wish to achieve. I am also. very slim somewhat...

Hello there i just started here on this website i have been trying to stop masturbation for 2 months now but I couldn't stop for too long my longest streak was 2 weeks and 3 days you ask my what is the reason ? I am a night owl but that isn't the reason yet the reason is since I am a night owl i...

Hello all, I am Prakash from India. I have tried quitting masturbation multiple times before. But it was so damn hard, I couldn't refrain. Masturbation had affected almost my entire teen and adult life. I have grown low on confidence, introvert, uncomfortable in social scenarios, cannot talk to...

Hi All, I am at my 18th day. I am feeling burninh sensation while peeing every mid night. Butning sensation is at level 9 out of 10. It takes my sleep away and spoil my next day at work. It is happening for last 2-3 days. I took plenty of water everyday. Thanks

I feel so depressed..... It was first day and i relapsed. :( The reason for trigger was the posts in my g+ feed. Should i quit g+ ?? Actually i have a large number of followers over there so i was hesitating to quit it. But i have came to conclusion that the reason for most of my relapses are my...

I've never liked him. Actually, I've never met someone who has. Ever. Ever since I was born my family and I have been literally on edge, everyday feels like we're walking on eggshells. Every morning I awake to him calling my grandma and uncle retards over the smallest irrelevant things. It hurts...

First off I want to say for anyone viewing this and takes offense, I do not directly and am no longer affiliated with any association pertaining to street cliques, not do I condone or tolerate and senseless violence, threats or anything of the sort. THIS IS FOR INTELLECTUAL AND EXPERIMENTAL...

Yo! I relapse the most past 20:00 when i'm tired and on my computer. I want to get into reading as something to distract myself as I get tired for bed. The problem is that I am not really a 'reader'. I don't know what books to start on so I was hoping you guys could assist me......... So you...

I am a girl BTW. guy I had for several months told me almost every time after sex "thank you have a good day". No one else ever thanked me for sex. I knew he loved sex with me though Is it something guys say typically to their booty calls or he thanked me like a prostitute or he meant it as a...

So today I relapsed and masturbated 4 times, moving quickly from vanilla porn to extreme every time I did it. After I was done and I was yet again kicking myself for relapsing, I came to the realisation that what I seriously need is a girlfriend to finally and properly clear my mind of these...

Hello, I am new here, I ruined my 3 years doing masturbation. Now I developed nightfall. When ever I feel healthy, then nightfall destroy my hope and body. Also I stopped doing masturbation exact 2 years ago. Almost 4 to 5 times it occurred in month from 2 years. Please anyone can help me. I am...