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Hello together, so since like 2 months ago I am in a new relationship. She is really understanding, not pushing and everything seems fine. But somehow my addiction has become severely worse.. Before starting the relationship like when we dated a while or before her, my addiction was ok - I...

So my partner and I are long distance and I am having trouble in being sexually involved with her online. I stropped jerking off two years ago and have no plans on doing so again. She likes ass play on the other hand and would like me to sext her in regard to that. So what I’m saying is would it...

I'm just tired. It's been ten years of PMO (I started at 11yo). I've been trying to quit by 16, but no real success up until now. Managed to start dating my gf (formerly my childhood best friend) and she knows about the PMO too - suffers a lot from it, as she has problems with her own body and...

Does anyone who's single ever feel bitter and resentful of people in a relationship? I sometimes feel this way. A friend on Facebook who's around the same age as me recently celebrated his 15th wedding anniversary and I refused to congratulate him. There are people I know who've gotten married...

The rules are taken from her book The Case Against the Sexual Revolution. What do think of them? Would you apply any of the rules to your life? • Distrust any person or ideology that puts pressure on you to ignore your moral intuition. • Chivalry is actually a good thing. We all have to...

Today something strange happened at my local mall that lead me to recurring thoughts about porn. But before I get into the situation I quickly want to tell you how my addiction to porn started. I started watching Internet porn on the age of 15. It went from vanilla to an*l to degrading porn...

I've finally started talking to a girl I've cared a lot about for 4 years. Between both of us being in different relationships or moving at different times, things have finally lined up romantically. I am horrified though because 5 days before this alignment, I started NoFap after many years of...

This time last year, I was a legitimate loser who hated him self every day he woke up. Was roughly 230 pounds, ate like shit never worked out etc… no girlfriend, kissless, at 19 lol. But december of said year (2020) it finally hit me to make the changes I needed albeit slowly. First was quitting...

Hi everyone I need advice! Note: I am so sorry for writing so much but please take a look and give advice it would mean the world :). My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We are each other's best friend and to be honest.. We considerably have the "perfect relationship"...

I feel like I tried everything in my power to get rid of my foot fetish. I've been having an "interest" for ladies' feet since I was a young boy and I have no idea why. I'm trying to become more spiritual and religious but I feel like my foot fetish is holding me back. I also have an attraction...

A little while back I wanted help with my attraction to fat women but now I can't take it anymore and I just want to spend my time with one. BBW, SSBBW honestly couldn't care less all I know is that I want a big plump woman. I want to become Roman-Catholic but I also want a fat woman so I'm...

I'm risking losing my amazing fiancée, funds, business deals, education, social circle life and more for this addiction... I am desperate, I've never told anyone about this... this is the first time I open up about this hellish knightmare that I am living and I don't know who I can talk to...

I asked my girlfriend yesterday if there was anything that would keep her from marrying me. She said, "If you were addicted to porn". I didn't have a chance to comprehend it correctly to know whether she was joking or my mind literally played a trick on me. I greatly fear if I tell her about my...

I've thought that I could beat this addiction on my own. I was wrong. I stopped coming on the site for some time now (I'd say half a month to a month) and I had the stupid mentality that oh maybe if I step away from NoFap the guilt will go away and I'll quit the addiction quicker haha. This has...

Hello fellow fapstranaouts I wanted to get the communities insight as to how you have managed to get woman to have sex with you and or get interested in a relationship with you of the emotional or sexual manner. I find a mixed bag of people that have multiple sexual partners and those that just...

There will be people in life who will reject you.⁠ You won't like it.⁠ You'll feel hurt or embarrassed or angry.⁠ It's ok.⁠ It's natural and healthy to feel this way.⁠ But it's worth it to risk the rejection anyway.⁠ Risking "not being liked" is necessary to have the life you'll want.⁠ It's...

So today I relapsed, not to PMO but it to MO, the relapse is so embarrassing I don’t want to talk about it. :( However, every time I relapse lots of thoughts go through my mind. One of them is the thought “You are not ready for a relationship”, but a part me knows that it would help a lot. But...

I’m dating this great girl who I can tell really cares about me and I care about her. Recently I’ve been feeling more apathetic towards our relationship (tho my brain knows I want to be with her my emotions are feeling less). I’ve decided to start this whole thing so I can be a better boyfriend...

Hello everyone, I don’t normally post but nothing seems to help get my mind off of porn. I’m a 24 year old man living in Canada, I started watching porn at the age of 12 (somewhere around that time). I roughly mastubate about once a day, some days are worse than others. I was a very shy and...

Hey guys. First time thread post - I wanted to ask those of you with partners have a particular rational to handling arguments with your partner so you don't feel so drained and frustrated that porn becomes the answer to make you feel better. I relapse around the holiday period as work continues...