responsibility

I've seen some guys here, spreading their toxic incel ideology. Please question for yourself thoroughly their beliefs. It is a conspiracy theory at its finest: Some people (in their case woman) are evil. Note: Making other people responsible of your suffer and dwelling in self-pity is the...

Hello brothers, I hope you have had a good start into the new year! So I feel deeply into my sexchat and porn addiction again with very extreme content (sissy, extremely submissive, trans, interracial, etc) and it does feel really bad. I always humiliate myself with the women online. This...

It has been almost 3 weeks in my new job. My roles and responsibilities have increased in the new organization. For the first time, I will be leading a team. I am excited to start this new journey which is paying better than what I was getting in my last organization. I have actually turned 31...

I've promised myself that if I relapse this November, I'll need to think differently on this whole NoFap thing. I've been trying to reach 90 days for one year and eight months now, yet couldn't pass one month clean. I've asked myself how come? I meditate, try to keep myself busy, seeing a...

Morning nofappers! Hope all is well! Alright how many of you seem like you are stuck in this never ending cycle of relapsing? Like you are so damn desperate to figure out how to get out of this funk you have gotten yourself in? Well let me tell you that 5 days ago I was in that very position...

Alright so I realized something this past weekend. Well actually a couple of things but we are going to stay on topic today hahaha. I cant fucking play this game anymore. You know the one where you build this really good streak all for it to get crushed and you end up back in the cycle of...

I am talking about my experiences, so i am not attacking someone. I want to take you out of the victim mentality. But from all the posts that I have read and the people that I have met in rehab/12-step program etc., I came to see that relapse is a choice. I am free of it now for a long time...

If you don't take responsibility for your life, you won't be able to change it. I see so many people saying things like "I feel this way because she did blah..." or "My friend showed me this video, so I got horny and relapsed later". Wording like this paints you to be the victim, the subject...

Hi guys, my name is Christian. I am all about self improvement. I work my ass off to get better everyday. I just spent the last year living in Peru in isolation in the jungle loving off just rice, potatoes and chicken. I managed to go 3 months NoFap while there, and didn't use porn at all the...

Learn how people react Plans should be adaptable according to circumstance Before you make a decision, carefully deliberate When you retreat, all the losses are on you Have humility: ask 'Am I ready?', 'Can I handle this? If not, how can I prepare?' Check yourself Where applicable, have...

This was a shorter podcast than the norm for Jocko Podcast, so what I took away from it that was relevant was a lot less than usual. Nevertheless, for consistency, I will post what I feel is helpful to any small degree below. Choose to be a fighter Humility is the most important character...

Hello guys. Please let me tell you my short story: I am 25, and have been an addict for 15 years. At the beginning I would watch just some very basic porn. But curiosity led me further and further. Later curiosity turned into a need. When wanking 3 times a day, basic lesbian stuff wasn't...