romance

A woman I recently befriended in school just messaged me. My last couple of texts to her weren't read or ignored so it's a pleasant surprise that she messaged me. For now, I want to be just friends. She's 25 and I'm about to turn 35 next month. So the age gap is significant. However, when I talk...

I've finally started talking to a girl I've cared a lot about for 4 years. Between both of us being in different relationships or moving at different times, things have finally lined up romantically. I am horrified though because 5 days before this alignment, I started NoFap after many years of...

Note – I removed cuss words thinking it blocked my post on reddit nofap, still didn't work, so I posted here instead. Post is a bit long but is very emotional, 1500 words, bear with me. It is all over the place and I talk about seduction as my personal goal here btw, so if you hate that maybe...

I`ve started nofap and abstain over other similar activities (involves sexual contact, explicit eroticism and so on), not just to overcome addiction or cease back my attention on work. Renouncing such activities helping me a lot to perform better in my work and on various aspects of personal...

Hi there, This is going to be a confessional and rambling post. I'll try not to tell my whole life story but it could get there! I'm 22 years old and recently started a challenging job as a teacher in the United Kingdfom. I can't be more specific. I am I suppose technically a virgin - more on...

Due to many deep personal issues, I refrained from dating for all of my teens and honestly regret it a little but not in a major way. Like a slow poison of sorts working its way and festering in my mind to the point where I feel I can't ignore it anymore. I will be 22 in a few months, when I'm...

I just had to share this with you guys. I hope you read through this so you can get inspired yourself and grasp just how life changing quitting PMO is. Yesterday, Thursday night. Long day: school, gym, and errands all around town. Day 4 of current streak, starting to drift into PMO'ing. Started...

Hey, all. I've been out of the dating arena for a long while, and I thought I might try it out now that I'm more grounded in who I am and what I want. So, I need to know some high level, professional dating advice.... When do I deploy the winky face to a girl? Disclaimer: We've been on two...

WARNING: rant is ranty. I feel like most people in this day and age are striving for a monogamous relationship (possibly marriage) to death do us part and the whole shabang. I don't think there is anything inherently wrong with being monogamous or in a relationship (sexual and/or romantically...

women, romance and sex. I don't know where it comes from. I just get in a mood where I hate everything to do with dating. Sometimes I want to date a girl so I can break her heart. Sometimes I think hurting a woman is more better than loving a woman. Sometimes I just look through the dating...

The old thread name had one pageful of discussion about the name. So this one is this thread is about broadening our social skills particularly with the ladies, in a respectful way (by Reborn16). In late 2020 we created discord server on dating, nofap and personal growth.join us...

Hi everyone...I'm an Indian guy who has recently moved to Australia. I'm 33 and I have never had a romance with any girl til now Indian or Aussie. Now that I'm here I'm more interested in dating an Aussie girl. The only girl who was interested in me all my life was a lebanese girl who was...

my feelings about sex are getting more comfortable

Hey everyone i wanted to ask about sleep. So I've been addicted to porn and masturbating since i was 8. So one way this has manifested is when i sleep i fantisize until i either masturbate or watch porn. I'm on my first full day of rebooting but last night i woke up horney as heck. My other...

If only I could go back in time, and stop myself from getting addicted to pornography. If I could go back, would I listen? Most likely not, because we all have to reach that life changing decision on are own. We however, are the lucky ones, because we want to change, and know we must, if we ever...