rules

  1. onceaking

    Louise Perry's rules for sex and relationships

    The rules are taken from her book The Case Against the Sexual Revolution. What do think of them? Would you apply any of the rules to your life? • Distrust any person or ideology that puts pressure on you to ignore your moral intuition. • Chivalry is actually a good thing. We all have to...
  2. T

    Curious about sexting within a relationship

    My girlfriend sent me spicy text today. It caused me to think about this. I mean I think it has to do with the definition of porn in this community. If someone's in a relationship, do y'all think that pictures of the people there in a relationship with count? I'm personally not on a hard mode so...
  3. P

    I need clarification on this

    So yesterday, I was in a pmo binge. I need to get out of it so I could continue and get on with abstaining and improving. I binged for 3 days and it causes a lot of anxiety. Last night, my last relapse was around 5 pm. I was going to do it again later after that, so I wasn’t really careful...
  4. 96JuanUuuU

    I have a few questions for hardmode

    Zor mod için soruları yazacağım 1- Hayal etmek bozulur mu? 2- Bakmanın kuralı kaç saniyedir 3- Ben çok takıntılı bir insanım, her zaman şımarttığımı düşünüyorum, görmezden gelmeli ve devam etmeli miyim ( Yani ince detaylara bağlı kalmalıyım) 4- Neyin bozulup neyin bozulmadığı üzerine yazılmış...
  5. darkknight33

    FOLLOW THE DAMM RULES.

    This is my Day 1 , this one is a general post on some rules that have to be followed to get success in nofap. (1) Keep yourself busy( plan your next day, you have to think what you will do tomorrow). (2) Quit social media. (3) Find your triggers and stay away from them. (4) Keep writing on...
  6. D

    14 day review

    It all started slow. It wasn't kind of hard at first. I occupied my mind with books and work. About a week in, i felt like anything was possible, like i could do anything. I was able to do my work faster and better. I was motivated to read more books, and eat better. Now i eat only whole foods...
  7. P

    OCD talk. Solving problems [Recovery Related]

    Man, I have ocd about everything. I have perfectionist ocd, meaning my streak must be perfect. Im trying to get over this. I just got over a big problem with my ocd. It’s like I know just thinking about relapse is not a relapse. It’s pretty clear. But my mind comes up with a million...
  8. P

    I have a couple questions to clarify things

    So while on nofap, let’s say your walking around and you feel pleasure from it hitting your leg but you aren’t trying to feel it, will that reset benefits? Also, let’s say your family members watch tv and you hear women with attractive voices on it but you can’t control what’s on the tv...
  9. VictimOfPorn

    Little update from my challenge !

    Hey Guys, here's a little updata from my 14 day without PMO challenge. I don't really have rules. They are voluntaryly. I know, that's not the best method, but I'm making something. My rules are not to Fap to porn videos or you know Instagram Porn or erotica films or series. If I want to watch...
  10. BreakingShadows

    Cell Phones

    New device new rules I recently got a new phone and decided that it would never display any P ever! This has been a good motivator for me to stay off P on my mobile device. I've had my new phone for almost two months now and it still has never displayed any P at all. If anyone else struggles...
  11. D

    STOP OVERTHINKING, FIND YOUR OWN WAY & FREE YOURSELF

    *READ THIS IF YOU'RE OVERTHINKING Hello everyone, I hope you're all doing well! I'll quickly introduce myself and then throw my opinion on NoFap into the mix. I've been aware of this community for years now, and have found it to be (mostly) a well intentioned place. I'm 23 years old, and...
  12. T

    Concerning the PMO Slider, and other questions.

    Hi, I'm new to Nofap, and I started the challenge half as a bet and half just to see if I could actually do it. I'm a week into it without M or O, but when I signed up for the site, I noticed the slider didn't have an option without P, and I just looked at some porn today (but didn't stroke it)...
  13. Playmaker97

    Things I learned to AVOID relapse.

    Just a few things I learned after my first run, that people might find useful to help avoid RELAPSE. Background: After a 10 year addiction, 68 DAYS HARD MODE- careless somewhat O relapse, but still no P for 75 days so far. Things to look out for: 1. Social media/Internet - Instagram...
  14. SelfControlIsTheGoal

    Making rules

    rule one- I will not, under any circumstances bring my phone into the bathroom with me. Rule 2- I will immediately close any tab with a trigger on it when I see it and never linger and look at it. What rules have you made for yourself?
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