sex addict

  1. J

    New Around Here

    Hello, I’m justagal and well I am a gal that recently realized she has a bad addiction to sex and pornography. It started when I was young (maybe 15) and has gone on and off since then. I’m in my mid twenties still struggling with constant masturbation that is nearly bleeding into my normal...
  2. T

    Massage Parlour

    I've been visiting a massage parlour in my home town, but really its just a brothel in disguise. Anyway I saw this one girl regular and she gave me her number, at first, it was to say "good night" "good morning dear, then she asked me would I pretend to be her partner so she wouldn't get...
  3. S

    New Guy

    Hi guys, I'm new here. I've struggled either constantly masturbation since 11. It's all I ever think about and do, but now after all this time it's progressed into more deviant activities, all while being watched by other deviant men. I am now physically unable to do the things I used to like...
  4. D

    [6+ Years NoFap Veteran] The reason why you need to change your mindset in first place

    I spent a few weeks without accessing NoFap Forum, however, all this time I was studying content to help every NoFap member. Today, I will talk about a book I finished recently and I was surprised about how much good information it brings about how to build a good future and how to not be...
  5. D

    Advice: don't rush the process

    Sometimes I see some guys who get too desperate to fix their sexual and personal problems. They want to heal from the consequences of YEARS of bad habits in 1 or 2 weeks. My advice is to keep cool and ''enjoy'' the process. Many of you are wondering right now: ''how am I supposed to enjoy a...
  6. Andy1517

    Temptation, porn addiction, relapse

    I’ve been very tempted lately been talking to this one chick n all she want to do is have sex but I’m supposed to be on SR and idk what to do then today something happened someone I use to kno text me says she’s horny and my urges been weighing on me also like crazy so she says she wants to come...
  7. S

    I need help

    I was at the lowest point in my life. the situation does not allow me to go to rehab. Porn, masturbation and sex addiction have destroy me as a human. Added drug addiction in the last 5 years. i just want to die. My children still keep me alive. But still, I still haven't been able to stop...
  8. mrjinzo2023

    I dont like my wife anymore but I like my mistress

    Hello, I want to share with you a little bit of myself. I have been watching porn for a very long time. For as long as I can remember. I am 32 years old and I am married for 10 years. All this time I watched porn and masturbated to porn. For the last year I watched porn about 1 - 2 times a...
  9. peintrerobben

    Here a second time (2014), now quitting for good.

    Last time I posted here was back in 2014. I was trying to adress some issues I encountered, read about PIED and quitting porn, made a very detailed post explaining my process. I had a gf back then, she was a medical doctor, went researching by herself and ended up making an account to the forum...
  10. T

    I've tried for years by myself but I need some help

    Hey I'm brand new here. I've been struggling for years with both porn and sex addiction amplified by several substance addictions. I recently learned about how sexual trauma can fuel or cause this sorta thing when I decided to actually admit to myself that maybe I am actually addicted and this...
  11. T

    Addicted from last 4 years ,want to reboot

    i am 25 year old man, still studying for masters in technology in computer science engineering . Now in 2023 i am still addicted to watch porn and unable to overcome from it since 2019 because of this habit i was unable to focus on my carrier it was deviating from reading , i am unable to...
  12. J

    Sharing my story of fighting with compulsive sex addiction

    I am Jeff , 30+ year old male. Today it is my first time registered on NoFap and also mark as my official announcement of challenge on my sex addiction problem. It all started 6 years ago, when I just switched to IT job and moved to a big city by myself... I was renting a small room along...
  13. C

    HERE I AM

    Well here I am, feeling the weight of my addiction slowly pulling me down inside myself until I’m lost again. I came to this place, probably like a lot of you have, running from a shameful moment. I’m grateful for what I’ve found so far as it has grounded me for the moment. I’ve been on my...
  14. A

    New member-old habits

    I’m a 26 year old male, with with a good friend group, have never had a problem getting women. I meet a lot of girls off tinder usually hooking up with them on the first night no questions asked. But I always seem to come back to masturbating, even last night I hooked up with an extremely...
  15. green lion eating the sun

    Famous actor speaks about his s. addiction

    I found myself in many things that this famous actor said about his s. addiction, not everything but wow It is sort of comforting having a reminder from time to time that we are not alone in struggling with p. and s. addiction and these are much more spread issues that we realize sometimes i...
  16. E

    Every time thinking about sex and girls

    Hii there My behavior is out of control and i cannot concentrate. That is also affect my study and other productive work. My mind always thinking about sex and girls whats should i do
  17. 1d3n

    Anybody w/ Experience of Sex Addiction Inpatient Treatment Program(s)?

    I'm looking for an inpatient program for sex/porn addicts. Does anyone reading this know about any from personal or second hand experience? Post here if you do.
  18. modern milarepa

    Even the strongest men can fall by the power of sex

    Yesterday I visited an old friend he was one of the strongest guys I ever met, big guy and really strong very few people I know could out lift him in the gym in his prime, probably professional open bodybuilders and gold olympic athletes are the few people I've seen in real life that can lift...
  19. modern milarepa

    Orgasm is a metaphysical need to feel we are one with everything.

    Current streak: 400 days no PMO, semen retention. Orgasm is a way to feel alive to connect to the universe to feel one with everything at least that few seconds everything becomes one single feeling. But just like the heroin addict, constant ejaculation messes your body, energy and mind, it’s...
  20. modern milarepa

    The womanizer dream

    I have not met a womanizer that is not crazy and paranoic. Dating and having sex with multiple girls at the same time is a living hell, these guys have no peace of mind, always paranoic and afraid of getting caught. They are so paranoic, for example if one of the girls doesn't answer fast one...
  21. 4:30am

    Too much focus on crazy sex?

    Hi everyone, I have been going very well and last week I met this girl, a really pretty and good natured girl. She has never actually seen porn and though she's had sex before, she talked about it with the typical dissapointment and droll you often hear. I decided to tell her about the effects...
  22. modern milarepa

    Attracting 10/10 and quality girls. 350 days no PMO streak

    Counter: 350 days no PMO, semen retention These days I’ve encounter some girls and they have been interested in me, they even start the conversation. Most of them have really good energy, very beautiful, are 13-15 years younger than me, some never had or maybe 1-2 boyfriends, virgins. Also, I...
  23. modern milarepa

    Dating is sex

    For me it is, dating means I'm expressing my sexuality in some way or the other to the other person. It can be my trough my words joking, touching the girl or just listening to her. But they all involve a control or an expression of my sex impulse. If I'm not in control of it I become tense...
  24. J

    Bad Porn addiction

    i started watching Porn when i was in Primary school at start of High School the habit go worse sleeping late at night 3-4hrs watching porn all this affecting my academic performance on joining University i used to dodge lectures because i was preoccupied with my worsen vice with no experience...
  25. M

    porn, sex chat, escort

    I had been with this man for 5 years. Since I have known him, he had always been battling with depression. But last year, that's when it got pretty dark. To a point that it also led me into depression as well. We got into a nasty argument and he left the house for a week. Wanting to work things...
  26. BEPSY97

    prostitution addict..

    Hello, Last year I went 30 times to prostitutes after my relationship with my ex was broken. It was very stupid and quickly I realised that I was addicted to it.. because if girls didnt like me fine I went to the P's.... Now I live in Ghent alone and the urges are insane, i'm constantly...
  27. IK070

    Relapsing Matters!

    Guys, I have a question... Is it possible to relapse after day 30? You know what, I'm 100% I won't relapse coz I'm satisfied with my current life, why would I relapse? I think only those will relapse after Day 30, who are getting urges even in first days of NoFap, And I guess who crosses Day 30...
  28. IK070

    NoFap seems Impossible!

    Few months ago, I did believe that NoFap can work. I really believed nothing about NoFap, I thought it's a fake. But today I'm a man who can guarantee you 100% Nofap works! I wanna welcome all new members and wanna say that, stay tune to me for further updates. Right now I'm on Day 27. And I...
  29. IK070

    Far bad than loneliness

    Guys, I'm on Day 24, and I guess many people did not experience a flatline! I'm very disturbed emotionally, I just hate everyone, everything. I can't explain my situation in words. I still stay strong and wanna motivate you guys that, still having zero urges towards porn and masturbation but the...
  30. IK070

    What your wife will feel when she knows you are addicted!

    Hey guys, Just think that you may have watched porn for years and years and suppose your wife will be clean from all this dirty things, and she comes to know that you are no longer working as a normal man because you may have many problems which might stop you from satisfying your wife. Please...
  31. J

    Does nofap lead to E.D

    i am struggling to quit porn and masturburtion but does this will have any bad impacts on me Because every place on internet it says that wanking is healthy and it is necessary if anyone knows anything then every kind of help is appreciated thanks alot
  32. green lion eating the sun

    Ex guy came back and left started losing control with s., advice from guys

    I am a 28 year old woman. i have been sober since a year and a half (stopped watching p). my first reboot that lasted a year started few months after this ex guy left me 3 years ago. he left me for another girl that started dating at least 2 months before he left me officially. she became a gf...
  33. corylife

    Accountability for All

    First things first, click the "WATCH THREAD" button (to the right), make this your internet homepage, bookmark this web url, add this to your favorites, comment to receive alerts, or something because you're going to be visiting this thread every day for your check up! I'll check up on you, you...
  34. need4realchg

    Are porn addicts sex addicts?

    I have learned so much about this question since joining nofap this year. I have recently joined a a couple SA groups and after attending a few times I am generalizing not judging—but most people in them are porn addicts not sex addicts. When I see comments coming from SO’s here — their...
  35. Amitdawar

    FIRST TIME WHEN I MASTERBURATE

    Thats interesting So , i wanna talk firstly about That first day when i masterburate Ohkkk..thats a night.. When i was sleeping ... And sexy...thoughts..keep floating in my mind... .....then i was becoming toooo horny that time... ...then you can also ..relate that.. Then i become too...
  36. S

    Am I addicted to transsexuals or will this go say after reboot?!

    Hey everyone reading this, I am new to nofap as I just made my account a couple minutes ago. I didn’t think I would ever share this but I really need advice and support maybe from some people dealing with the same problem or understanding people. So I’ll try to make my key points and not give my...
  37. Jdowe187

    I’m new here

    Hi, my name is Joseph and I have struggled with this problem for many years now. This has greatly effected intimacy with my wife and other relationships as well. I’m beginning to wonder how much this has caused a lot of my depression issues and ability to focus on day to day tasks. Anyway, I...
  38. MagicLove9813

    I don't touch my penis

    I tried something, because I had enough of masturbation. Too much ! It was difficult to me to stop. I couldn't sleep without masturbation. And I realised that I didn't want to have good relationship. I had more fun with myself. I started something since a few months. I don't touch my penis...
  39. Eleutheromaniac

    Embarrassingly enough... This is me

    Hi everyone This is my story. So this is the first time for me logging into this site. I mean I've only been on NoFap a few days. And I keep wondering how is it that I didn't know of this site before! So useful! I could've saved myself a few tears and some wasted years on my addiction. But...
  40. P

    Sex Addiction Recovery?

    I've been struggling lately with Porn & Sex Addiction. The addiction is leading me to pursue sex with individuals I would never have pursued if I weren't addicted. The lack of self-control, and the things I've done, have caused me a great deal of shame. I won't go into the details, but if...
  41. Impending Doom

    75 Days - A Reflection

    I don't mean to go into my entire back story (now); that is everything that has lead me to this moment. I am merely writing to give some insight to those of you who are struggling as I did for years to get even a week of sobriety. I also want to preface that 75 days is the most time I have ever...
  42. L

    Replaced by teen girls

    My husband and I have known each other for almost five years and up until recently enjoyed (in my opinion at least) an exceptionally happy marriage. Very early on in our relationship, he confessed to me that he wasn't a very sexual person. Masturbation was something he didn't like, porn...
  43. F

    A little bit about myself

    Hello everyone, I am new to NoFap, and I have already seen some of your posts, and honestly I did find a lot of relief to know that I was not the only one struggling in this matter. So a little a bit about me. I started watching porn when I was 7 years old, and with a friend we managed to fill...
  44. qasim0047

    My Loneliness , Depression is killing me from inside

    I believe it ( PORN + MB) has ruined my life...I have no friends...NO Job.. Its been 2 years I am graduated from my university (also faced great great difficulty in completing my studies)..and unable to secure job. Got scare because of the interviews \ insults... unable to focus on anything...
  45. The prodigal son

    Pornifying others

    Well it’s Sunday here. Which is usually my go to time for watching porn and fapping away the morning. Going to attempt something different today and write about a behavior I’d like help holding myself accountable for. The act of Pornifying others is something that I do almost every day, at my...
  46. T

    Student

    I am a student . Yeah like all other students I too have big dreams that looks almost impossible to others ... But it's me that beleiv on those dreams . But in the age of 14 while seeing some pics of hot actresses I was just rubbing my penis in my bed and after a while something white just came...
  47. C

    Introduction- My Story on PMO and NSFL activities

    I was introduced to PMO at a very young age, when I was 5 years old and at this point when I'm writing this article I don't know how and where I was introduced but this PMO became a part of me like a deadly symbiote. I started M with a different style (need a cushion and no hands) and this...
  48. B

    Benefits from nofap and current situation

    Hello everyone, I’m 20 years old and new to nofap. My story towards addiction to porn and masturbating is mostly like everybody. I started watching porn and fapping at age 16. At the beginning it felt great but I didn’t knew when it became an addiction. I tried alot to stop doing it but i failed...
  49. D

    Please Save Me from Porn Addiction and Masturbation

    Hello Everyone. Today is my 18th day without porn and masturbation and I am doing quite well. Yesterday night while sleeping, I dream of a girl with me literally having sex, and then the feeling of ejaculation came. I immediately woke up and realised the sticky water all over my body. It is...
  50. S

    Let’s just start from the beginning, it’s easier that way!

    Greetings everyone... I’m a married white male, 36 yrs old, father for three, hard working, career dedicated professional. My wife and I have been talking about the swinger lifestyle for almost 7 yrs now, mainly I who is the sexual freak in the relationship. My wife was a virgin when I married...
  51. L

    It ruined my life

    Hello guys I used to masturbate 3 to 4 times a day My age is 22 I'm masturbating 4rm the age of 13 And now a days used to do it alot A 2 year ago I got gf we used to have call sex or vedio sex I used to masturbate 2 r 3 times a day . A year ago lost my distance relationship And Now a days...
  52. Lovable king

    Store the cum

    Hey women i am winning each and every moment of my life . Last time I abstain 17 day to store my semen in my body . Believe me my body is growing well . And girls are attracting to me . Semen retaintion is too gooooood .
  53. A

    I'm so happy to understand my low energy level.

    Hi Everyone, I am 41, i am definitely a very productive semence guy. When i was 18 i could jerk off 20 times a night on big nights. With Time, i kept doing it , 5 times a day in my thirties, with picks going to 15 on some horny nights. In my Fourties, the Semence production is lower, i m used...
  54. Tomkey

    Is Sexual Repression A Problem?

    Sexual repression is a major issue in our world. It was psychotherapist Sigmund Freud who once declared that sexual repression is the chief psychological problem that we face in society. Erotic dreams. How frequently do you dream about sex and sexuality? If you’re having dreams about sleeping...
  55. Defeatedgirlfriend

    Need Help

    hi guys, So I’ve been talking to my bf today, and for the past 6 years, porn has been a problem in our relationship and his life. I have some questions for you guys to see if my bf’s problems stem from porn addiction. When he was little, he says everyone thought he had adhd. He was a very...
  56. D

    I'm a single M/25. Is getting married a solution to overcome this NOFap? Please Suggest

    Hi Everyone, Hope you'll are doing great. Just Started My Journey of NOFap!!! Man, its so difficult in the beginning Very much wanted to get rid of PMO, Just curious to know as I'm a single M/25. Is getting married a solution to overcome this desire? Feel free to give your suggestions. Thanks
  57. A

    Starting NoFap today. Please Motivate, Support and Share tips!

    After using masturbation as a tool to get away with my emotions and stress, I have now decided to take up the noFap challenge and reverse the changes that excess masturbation has caused to me. I am obese and have difficulty in hanging out with new people and I have sexual thoughts all day. I...
  58. S

    21st century Part I

    Hello guys.Im a member since quite some time and i love this community and i want to thank all of you helping me go through this.I basically experimented with myself and yes, it did change my life. See what happens with the brain is that it changes its pleasure source from pornography to the...
  59. mcpyykkiteline

    45 days PM clean, a porn and sex addict

    Hi all, I'm now 45 days away from watching porn and masturbating. I have touched my penis a few times. Naturally after watching porn for 15 years, the cravings are still there and I've been hard many times during the days. But I have done no masturbation. As I'm in a healthy sexual...
  60. A

    decision to bring an absolute end to this addiction

    Hello my name is Avi and I am 29 years old. since the age of 14 I am addicted to faping and Porn. now,After 15 years, i finally decided To put an end to it ,So I'll try the 90 day challenge. This means no PMO for 90 day!!! It is important for me to mention That I have managed to reach 90 days in...
  61. mcpyykkiteline

    Introducing myself (mcpyykkiteline)

    Greetings! This is my first post to introduce myself to the community. I'm slightly over thirty, an Internet porn addict for more than 15 years. Watching porn "evolved" into a sex addiction. Although I'm in a relationship, I started Internet dating to find sex partners and I cheated on my...
  62. L

    Hey 29 y/o newbie

    hey, I'm Chris. I'm a 29 y/o man who has been using porn since middle school and I'm looking for more tools and support to help me quit. My addiction has cost me a job, a fiance, and not least of all, my sanity. I'm afraid that if I don't do something now I may not be able to have a healthy sex...
  63. SolitaryScribe

    Why I relapsed after a year of NoFap.

    Before I had found out about NoFap, there was a period in time in my life where I went through a whole year without masturbating or watching porn. Now this happened back when I was 24 turning 25, I'm currently 31. If it's not made obvious by the title of this thread and my day counter, one can...
  64. F

    Porn and sex addict in need of help

    Hello everyone, Aside from regularly watching porn, I’ve also had sex with 188 escorts in the last 2-3 years at a cost of more than £22,000. I have a wife and young baby. No matter how careful I am, I know it’s only a matter of time until I screw up and she finds out. I don’t want to lose my...
  65. S

    How cand I become a better person ?

    Hi ! I’m a 16 year old boy . I’ve been struggling for a long tine with depression . Somehow , I’ve managed to get an 18 year old girlfriend ( we’ve been togehter for 3 months ) . She’s way smarter than me and superrior in every way possible . The point is that she’s had so much sex since she was...
  66. T

    Any success stories from transgendered person/sissy fetish?

    I'd like to know if anyone has managed to get transwomen and sissy fetishes out of their lives with success. Questions : 1. Do you still think about trannys anymore? 2. How do you feel whenever transgendered person come up? 3. What's it like with females now? 4. Any superpowers? 5. MOST IMPORTANT : HOW DID...
  67. theforestkid45897

    theforestkid45897 Introduction

    Hi guys I am a pornography and sex addict. I have been watching porn since I was 10 after a family friend told me to go onto the playboy website. Ever since then, I've been hooked. Im now 25 years old (birthday was 2weeks ago) and can safely say that porn has had a significant negative in...
  68. P

    Sex Addicts Anonymous

    Was recommend by a family member to join a SAA group for my addiction, I didn't even know that such a thing existed for people with this struggle. Since then, I've been going to one for the past few weeks - I highly recommend it. Just search "Sex Addicts Anonymous" and click SAA-recovery to find...
  69. D

    Sex Addict featured on Where Should We Begin? Podcast

    Just listen to an episode of the Where Should We Begin? Podcast that featured a sex addict and it did a great job in showing how much pain a sex addict brings on a SO and how it can damage a family. After listening to it I really think anyone who has any form of sex addiction (porn, affairs...
  70. green lion eating the sun

    WATCH THIS if you are a sex addict

    I want to share this video with every sex addict. Both males and females. I bumped into this video randomly about a year ago on youtube I was trying to understand why I became a sex addict, the causes that brought me to sex as my main addiction. Why did I turn to sex instead of food, drugs or...
  71. United States Pageant Model

    Ready to Change my Life; Looking forward to Joining a Community that can Help me do it!

    Hey everyone! I'm a new member here, not necessarily new to NOFAP, but.... I've recently found that I'm having a lot of trouble doing it myself. It's very clear to me that I'm addicted, because it's incredibly hard to stop. I started my own company at 19 and ran Nightclubs/Yacht...
  72. T

    Porn & pnp (party and play)

    Does anyone here have experience dealing with a growing addiction to both porn as well as pnp sex? I am a reliable, straightlaced, professional who is engaged in my family life, my partner, and even volunteer extensively in my community But then when my partner travels for work 15 days of the...
  73. T

    I constantly feel like I'm messing up

    I am happily in love and with a partner who has been with me since the start of my reboot. In fast she is the reason for my reboot all together, as my sexual addiction and porn addiction along with compulsive masturbation led to difficulties and struggles within the relationship. My current...
  74. green lion eating the sun

    To tell or not to tell my ex guy I am a sex addict?

    He was the main source of my sex addiction, the guy with whom I exploited it to the fullest. We saw each other for 7 months, we haven't done only sex and I loved him I always wanted to tell him but never found the courage. We used to have sex in the same day 7 times, he used to sweat for how...
  75. FapHorizons

    I'm new here, trying to beat Porn Addiction

    Hello my new fellow Fapstronauts. I'm addicted to porn. I think I've been addicted since I was at least 12, I'm 23 now. I was aware of pornography before then but I actively pursued porn regularly by that time. It's been a force for most of my life. I've always been a sexual person, but also a...
  76. Resolved Oregonian

    Want to go porn free? Read this now.

    As of today, I have achieved 83 days P/M free, and only 7 days away from my long term goal of 90 days. I cannot fully articulate the inordinate amount of freedom I am feeling, as compared to the former life of bondage I was living with porn addiction. At the risk of sounding cliche, truly, I...
  77. green lion eating the sun

    Constant dreams of killing myself due to heartbreak and post-addictions

    Hi, Since my ex guy left me again 3 months ago I keep having the same dream in which I stab myself to death with a knife. I feel drowned by shame, sense of guilt due to my sex and porn addictions. We met after the breakup and we ended up having sex twice. When I saw him I was so happy. I loved...
  78. green lion eating the sun

    On my way to recovery

    Hi, I found this forum last summer by accident and I was overwhelmed by the fact that I could find people like me, that were feeling what I was feeling and I decided to join last month. I always wanted to share my thoughts about my addiction to others that could truly understand the kind of hell...
  79. killmyoldself

    Hi! I am new to nofap. Need everyone supports!

    Hi, i am new to this nofap thing. So i hope for a good ride along with all the successful fapstronaut out there! Your sick friend is coming to check-in! First i want to introduce myself. Of course i should ;p i really just want to be really open as i am not going to reveal my true identity;p...
  80. P

    Childhood sexual abuse & sex addiction

    Hi everyone. I am 26 year old male. I was sexually abused as a child by my older brother from the age of 10-17. After that I became ridiculously promiscuous and had many male sexual partners and have been addicted to compulsive sexual behaviours. All my sexual fantasies are about being sexually...
  81. Awwal

    Loner stoner youjizz

    Serious porn addict but love being a loner very social but like porn it's like all the fantasy are their but it's disgusting after a while feel like it's a problem for over 20 years can't stop watching porn then it keeps getting deeper
  82. F

    Back on the NoFap Train

    So it's been awhile since I legitimately tried to abstain from PMO. While I was single I didn't view my chronic masturbation and hookups to be problematic. Little did I know it was setting me up for failure when I decided to enter a relationship. I'm at the point in my life where every day is...
  83. G

    Hello NoFap World

    I`m a 30 yo guy from Europe. I`m an addict to porn and an avid online dater living in my moms basement. On day 6 of my first ever reboot... Yeah.. I`m living on welfare in my country. Using a lot of time looking at dating profiles and masturbating every night to porn before bed. I got anxiety...
Back
Top