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Hi, Idk where to put this on this website cause off topic was just political stuff. im freshly 18 (ten days ago) and i've got a pretty small dick (4.1 inches long 5 inches girth while hard) and i just can't stop stressing about this shit. I know its fucking dumb but its something i really worry...

Hola, estoy buscando ayuda ya que últimamente he tenido una pareja sexual que me hace desear tener más sexo, esto me agrada muchísimo, lo malo es que recaigo en M lo que me ha costado mucho trabajo a lo largo de mi vida lo que había superado y cada día incrementa mi problema de M. El Sex se ha...

Hi guys how are you doing, I want to ask you something, since April was the month where I relapsed the most, I drastically reduced the frequency of watching P and also M, I went through wet dreams, and relapsed several times on the way, but the most significant progress perhaps, is that in July...

I am not even two weeks into my streak and I feel ridiculously happy. It is actually starting to worry me a bit. I am talking to several women, I have set up an encounter with one and I'm talking to several others. I am normally quiet and reserved. I have done 90 days before and I do not...

Let's start with a quote by Zen monk and teacher Shunryū Suzuki: "Sex is like brushing your teeth. It is good to do it regularly, it is bad when doing it all the time." Multiple choices are possible and encouraged for the poll below.

D11 I masterbated yesterday after sobering 9 days. But i didn't want to fall for it. I will try again. I want it to give up this shit. Today no one is home except me and my brothers wife. Bad thoughts coming in my mind about her. I want to get rid of it. This will drive me to masturbate and...

Hi so I have recently discovered that I have PIED and it was a shock because Im used to having rock hard erections when I masturbate. But I have been trying to sleep around and so far when im with a partner it turns into a confusing mess on why Im unable to stay hard if im able to stay hard im...

Hello everybody, I'ts been a long time for me struggling with porn and all what it concerns. Now i've became an adult, with family and children and this problem is still here. I would like to share with you my theory about this thing and the main reason why do we fail. Basically we were all...

I forgot how to make my own journal through this website. So I'll just post this publicly for now. I decided to cancel my account to this site a few months ago because my views no longer aligned with the NoFap philosophy and to be honest, it still quite doesn't. I believe that PMO is ok if you...

hi i am at 10 days, i want to reach 60-90 days of hardmode, and then go back to sex and masturbation without porn, i also thought that a good way to understand if i could go back to sexual activities was to see how i would feel after a wet dream, since i always feel terribly after ejaculating...

Hey guys, Quick backstory: long history of porn use since I was in middle school, had sex in high school into freshman year of college (2016), nothing since then until this year. I relied heavily on femdom/findom stuff. At least once a day, often times multiple times a day for hours, you know...

Ok so I have around 3-4 weeks nofap, no porn whatsoever and I've been dating a woman for around 2 months. We had sex for the first time last weekend and it was my first time ever. It was great and I surprisingly lasted 10+mins but it didn't feel as good as I was expecting. We've done it 4 times...

I am new to this community but my goal is same as you all present here I want to be free from this never ending addiction of porn and masturbation I have tried before in the past but I was unable to stop this addiction so I herd about this community from my friends and thought of giving it a...

Hi all, thought I would share ways that have worked for me getting over PIED and what I have observed from people trying to recover. I will start with the below because people are going to ask “but how sever were you?” Or “how long did you PMO?” Or “what type of porn we’re watching?” I am 35...

So it’s been around 10 days that I’ve started to abstain and before this I have tried to abstain multiple times but I failed miserably in that. But this time I’m feeling a lot better than my previous tries and my urges are very low this time. Now I don’t know what’s happening me to me, but I’m...

So I went to meet my gf yesterday and we got intimate. So I have a history of 10 years PMO and PIED. So last two times when I tried to have sex with her, it got failed because of my weak erection due to PIED. So I decided to abstain many times but failed miserably. But recently I started...

Tomorrow I a going to meet my gf after like 3-4 months. So we would be having our private time together. So I wanted to know would if it is considered as a relapse and will slow down my progress in this journey or is it fine to be intimate with my gf and see how it goes for me. I don't think I...

Hi Everyone, I'm expecting this to be a long post so I'll leave a tl;dr at the bottom. I never thought I'd see the day. I am no longer gripped by the addiction of porn and masturbation. I don't have any urge to look and I am happy with my life. I will briefly talk about my story and maybe some...

I don’t know why it’s happening but whenever I see a real naked woman(my gf) in front of me, I don’t get that hard and it doesn’t give me that excitement which I used to get before. I have been consuming porn from like 10 years now and stopped it 6-7 months ago. I have PIED and I’m fighting with...

I'm trying to understand why people who are doing Nofap and trying to desexualize their mind, but paradoxically still quite focused on sex. I see it quite often guys saying. "I want to do Nofap so when I have sex with a woman i will be able to do it". And I'm not talking about them having sex...

Even if all the people of the world become corrupt and immoral, your mind should not be occupied with them; Because each human being is "alone" in front of God and must be accountable for their actions: "And the coming of the Day of Resurrection tomorrow" At all, suppose that all the people of...

Hey guys, I am in my 20´s, from Germany, so I have to excuse for my English in advance and just hope to get better from reading your posts and from writing myself. I write you, because of today, it's been a little more than a week, that my girlfriend (or now ex) found out about my addiction and...

Its not the most important priority but dam I ain't gone lie its pretty high on my list A brotha just wanna slap his nuts inside some cheeks, geez is that hard fucking concept grasps? When has society become so soft? We live in a world when a man is scrutinized shammed for wanting some booty...

Help me with a set of questions to understand if one can get an STD or HIV given that there was no kissing involved, for sex we used condoms, for BJ we used a condom, and ejaculation was done by the hand. No bodily fluids were exchanged. Can I get HIV or STD?

Really want to impregnate some female. Some of them have cute smiles

Hi guys. First of all - It's about this scale -> DOPAMINE - SCALE - TOLERANCE - QUICKSAND 0 is the normal baseline. This is the normal dopamine base line level. When you reach this level you are healed. You can work, study, talk to people, do sports. You have motivation and feel joy. You...

Hi everyone, Been a while since I posted here. I miss this community and look forward to posting more again I have an uncomfortable problem during sex. I haven't told my wife yet because I want to learn more about it before I bring it to her. I have Googled it and didn't find anything. I'll...

The rules are taken from her book The Case Against the Sexual Revolution. What do think of them? Would you apply any of the rules to your life? • Distrust any person or ideology that puts pressure on you to ignore your moral intuition. • Chivalry is actually a good thing. We all have to...

I Am Single Now.......Today I Intentionally Having Dream/Sexual Thoughts Like Showing Love And Cuddle With Future Wife And Kiss With Her Then I Act My Body Like Sex With Her But I Didn't Watch Porn And I Didn't Fap And Ejaculate But I Feel Urges. It is Relapse? I Am Struglling.....

Hi Guys, I would like to ask you for some advice regarding this addiction. My boyfriend recently opened up about the topic and I feel completely overwhelmed by the situation. I would like to hear some pieces of advice on how I can best support him through this difficult time. Should I suggest...

Hi, I just wanted to post and get some much needed help. I feel masturbation can be healthy. But porn has completely rotted my mind. I have tried to quit a few times, longest I've gone with out masturbating was 11 days. I did feel hornier , but ultimately fell right back into porn. My porn...

Just wanted to analyze. Nofap has greatly benefitted and got commited. Both in the honeymoon phase and planning on doing the deed daily at least once .Been a virgin so long that's why asking this Trust me guys, abstain and wait for real sex those who wish to lead a married life. Sex with an...

Hi, I have been having sex with my wife for a month or so now, before that she was virgin, I have had ~7-10 sessions now with her but she says that she doesn't enjoy sex at all and that it is just painful for her and nothing else. In the beginning we realized we were not using enough lubricant...

How to quit porn and masterbation day by day it is increasing not decreasing now even though I want girl for fucki** losing my energy what i do i have no option.

Hi guys, porn has made me anxious, and consequently made me insecure about myself, I haven't had a sexual partner yet, I'm afraid I won't last long when it comes to having sex with my partner, because when it comes to masturbation I don't last long, I mean, If I take breaks, yes, but...

Mods I post this in the wrong section I apologized I haven't posted in awhile. Anyways.I haven't look touch, or been inside some V for almost 2 years . Its causing me to want Edge spear or Mike Tyson somebody ear off Lmao. Isn't the whole reason of doing NOFAP so I can master my sexually...

Well Guys. I made it past the 90 day mark and I liked the benefits I’ve gotten from this so I said why not. Let’s keep this streak going. For a little back story I was exposed to porn at 11 years old (currently 23) It became over a decade long addiction. My longest streak was in 2017 when I went...

kept relapsing these days - 24 days no pmo did but now I stood up on my foot again, started 1 day 9 hours... Saw benefits great 24 days no pmo ... When I relapsed.... Realised that.... I don't like porn in the sense I am more connected to my inner peace that I value more and pmo does not give me...

I want to discuss the issue of uptight women. I see this problem a lot in these journals and I don't find this topic discussed openly, so here we go. It's important for a recovering porn addicted man to choose wisely the woman he will be with. Because what then, if you choose someone who can't...

So far it’s been a week since my last visit. But I’ve been struggling with this for years. Today I’ve been craving to go see one. I still am. I’ve tried everything I can think of but I can’t find any links or factors that could be related to the addiction. I do watch porn which helps release...

I struggled with an heavy Porn+masturbation-problem for 6 years. I had constantly brain fog, noone respected me and i dropped out of school. Since then i succesfully got on my first nofap-track, after years of failed attemts. I was able to stay hardmode on track for 6 month. I had no more...

Hello, I'm new here, I've been masturbating since I was 11 and watching porn since I was 12, I joined NoFap to regain my confidence, and end the distraction and addiction to masturbation and porn that brings me nothing beneficial. For the past 2 years I have always been trying to abstain from...

Alright guys, i need your advice or tips etc whatever you wanna call it. So in upcoming months, i think i am going to have my first ever sexual experience. Given the noob that i am in this practical field, what starter advice would you guys have? What worked for you and what not? Additionally...

Hey Guys, I am married guy who has just started nofap to get my strength back. I am trying to repair the damage that I have done to my physical and mental health by not masturbating. Just had a question that what if I have a sex with my partner? Will it be considered as relapse? Please help me...

Lately, my urges have been very psychological. I watched this Ted Talk video on porn (link down below) and it's educational and helpful. However, one part in the video talks about real sex (at the 3:08 minute mark). Real sexual interactions includes: courtship, touching, being touched, smells...

Hey, so I have had a girlfriend for 4 months now. We have sex. But the only possible way I am able to cum is when I jerk off on my side. The same way I always masturbated. Even then, it takes some time. Because of this the sex can take ages. We both like it, but it just doesn't end the way 'it...

I have a big foot fetish. From Friday after the fall, another attempt. Avoid anything that has to do with sex. And while it's not a bigger problem with the sex itself or the sight of women, the problem is (note)... my own feet. Yes, you see right. Yesterday after waking up, I looked at one of...

My opinion could definitely change on this but considering how seldomly many of us men get sex, is it so bad to orgasm/have sex with the person we are dating for example so as long as it doesn't lead to PMO?

I've started nofap around 80 days ago, 75 days since last relapse. I've been feeling good and confident but the horniness is killing me. It used to be survivable but not too long ago i met some cute girl which has been driving me mad. She's the ex of one of my mutuals and everyone says she's...

I feel fucking empty They have made me believe that sex was the best thing in the world, and it was a fucking lie. I'm devastated, do men really cry for not having sex? Casual sex is the biggest lie in this society, I have not felt love, I have not felt pleasure, I have not felt anything. It...

Hi Everyone, i want to share my success story. I was watching porn since i was 15 years. I had sex when i was 19 and couldn't keep my thing hard. Tried again at 21 same thing again. Recently i had sex twice with a girl and couldn't keep my thing hard. I thought i was having some problem and i...

hi everyone, I'm new here , i joined this site after long journey of searching for solution for my problem and i hope to find what i want here with help of u guys before i tell u my story i want to apologize for my bad and weak language , I'm arabian man so I'm not very good in English now i...

I wonder if I should blame myself for my addiction and ruining my own life. To start things off, I'm 18 years old, and I started PMOing when I was 14. I went into it thinking it was something healthy and normal, which is what we're all told. Anyway, a few weeks into fapping I noticed that there...

So, I originally started this journey with the objective to retain and release more semen and not just see a pathetic drop of it after a potential sexual encounter (potentially speaking, since I'm still a virgin, if you couldn't tell from my unnecessary worrying of something so trivial). Thing...

JUST AS A HEADS UP I TALK ABOUT WHAT P I WAS ADDICTED TO… so read at your own will!!! So to start things off I’m very new to this nofap thing. I’m 19 years old and I’ve been fapping for a good 7-8 years and when I first started off watching porn it was normal porn. Then over the years I fell...

JUST AS A HEADS UP I TALK ABOUT WHAT P I WAS ADDICTED TO… so read at your own will!!! So to start things off I’m very new to this nofap thing. I’m 19 years old and I’ve been fapping for a good 7-8 years and when I first started off watching porn it was normal porn. Then over the years I fell...

Hey forum once again, its been a long time since i was last active here, been through stuff, had some problems, but ive managed to overcome many of them. Ive come to the conclusion that confidence and experience is what perhaps, we need the most when experiencing certain sexual issues. After...

I remember when we used to have sex (2 months prior to starting no PMO, currently on day 13) with my partner. When we had sex on day 1, I craved for another on day 2. If I had it on day 2, I would crave for more on day 3… Meanwhile I was not a fan of the craving and other side effects (i.e...

Okay, so i have been having a wet dream almost every week. And i want this to stop, the first one i got was a crazy feeling, but now i dont want them anymore, they arent fun anymore. I didnt drink water before i slept and i meditated for 4 minutes. But my thougts were a little impure… very...

Hi, I'm new in here. I just realize that fap is very bad for my brain. I already feel it since 3 years ago. and now I sitll struggling to stop fap and PMO. But my question is, someday when I have wife, I'll having sex with her. Procedurally, it's same like fap, right ? this will release sperm...

Today I enter the 20th day. However, while falling asleep, I realized that I was dreaming about sex. I also realized I was rubbing my object against the bed (but I have no control over this). When I wake up, i'm cummings alr. Do I have to reset from day 0? *Sorry for my poor English

Hello everyone, I have previously posted my story in the below thread: https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/femdom-feet-cuckold-addiction.225878/page-5#post-3293695 In a nutshell, i'm constantly being turned on by feet and humiliation. And still cannot get over my fetish. I'm currently...

I am practicing nofap for 8 months.Since I am single, I am struggling to get sex out of my mind. I know these nasty thoughts should not be there in my mind. In the past 3 days, I was able to control my porn addiction till this sexual thought of spanking a girl during sex came. I tried hard to...

except that it's everywhere. When I was a kid back in the '60s, porn existed in Playboy, and I doubt we even thought of it as porn. It was fluffball girls cavorting, showing off parts of themselves (and they looked nothing like real-life girls in my buttoned-up religious world). Later, there was...

Im writing this post, because im trying to find some clarity. If I meet up with my open relationship partner, I need some time to get in the mood. I cant have sex directly and to be honest thats annoying me. I tried having sex with another girl, but my little thing wouldnt get up. I havent...

Hello friends, I have had a girlfriend of mine whom I was in love with and thinking all the time. This fortunately led me to stop watching porn all together for a whole month. At the end of the month from nearly no erections I got to full hard erections just from kissing or hugging. It was...

Well according to Helen Fisher it doesn't.

Taken from an article in the Huffpost. "I’ve had to come to terms with the fact not everyone will be understanding of my decision. I have tried to prove to men I was somehow ‘worth waiting for’, that we could create a relationship that was meaningful, but have been most often met only by their...

Its weird im on a good streak so I should be horny af right? Shouldnt I be more horny and aroused by every girl that I see? Its sadly not like that. Only if im interacting with my girl, then I am somewhat horny. Should I be concerned? Ive got the testostoron and I am healthy do you have an...

Im on nofap since like 30-32 days. I dont know why, but I still cant really get it up. I didnt watch porn in my abstinence I think only 2 times just to see if my reaction got more intense. It did tbh. But Im still having struggle to get him up while im intimate with a girl. Hes up at the first...

Im on nofap since like 30-32 days. I dont know why, but I still cant really get it up. I didnt watch porn in my abstinence I think only 2 times just to see if my reaction got more intense. It did tbh. But Im still having struggle to get him up while im intimate with a girl. Hes up at the first...

hey all, so like the title states, today I talked with my doctor about pmo. he's an experienced urologist and sexologist (might be the only one in my country). I told him about my pmo addiction etc. and he just said yeah, you gotta stop watching porn. first of all masturbation is selfish...

I’ve been rebooting 18 days now, mad urges. I’ve noticed that I’ve been getting hard while talking to a woman at work. We laid in bed for awhile and I was hard for, about the full duration of the hour she was here. That was last week. Anyway recently she came over and we started making out and I...

It sounds stupid but Im to confused inside of me. Im 20, a Virgin and Im watching porn. Problem is:everytime im getting real intimate with a girl is my dick not realy working. Hes staying low. Its quite frustrating and Im not realy sure why. Even did a testostoron test and im on the fine site...

Hii there My behavior is out of control and i cannot concentrate. That is also affect my study and other productive work. My mind always thinking about sex and girls whats should i do

Self respect, freedom, search of truth and health. And for you?

As a tantric and taoist practitioner for many years I cherish semen retention but in women orgasm is healthy it releases stress, emotional burdens. In sex women are different than us men, tantra and tao search for female orgasm not to avoid it. The most important aspect in tantra for a woman...

I have learned in these two years of dating: - Look beyond lust, love, beauty and emotions so you can see a woman for what she does and who she is because if you don’t you will experience a bit of hell living on earth. - Let go, no matter how much you have invested in a girl, if you love her...

So I seemed to have rewired but it's like I've only rewired to have sex with my girlfriend. I don't get morning wood or spontaneously erect. I can no longer get hard by myself and have no interest in porn. What's going on? Any had the same thing as me?

I am 24M, but have been masturbating probably since I was like I would say 14-15 until I was 22. Watched porn everyday, used to masturbate every day or like every other day. Decided to go on a NoFap journey I believe in Dec 2019, so I stopped watching porn and masturbating all together but I was...

So I remember reading an article about 3 years ago where someone used their wife to quit porn. It would go something like this: Each week to two weeks you go up a step. Once a day at the most but no more. Do NOT try your hardest to cum, not the objective here. Only enjoy. DO NOT FANTASIZE. Do...

All my dates usually ended up in sex or with a lot kissing and touching. Even first dates. I had an argument with my girlfriend two months ago and we didn't talk since then. Until last sunday we started talking again. Yesterday I saw her, I knew she was tired from work and busy but made...

Current streak: 484 days no PMO, semen retention Be sex independent that is it. If you can live without sex, masturbation, porn. Even without sex while having sex with a girlfriend, meaning that if all of the sudden she breaks up with you or she simply doesn’t want to have sex any long you...

As someone who has never faced prostitution, I would like to hear your thought on this. How's worth meeting a brothel for the first time? How much did it cost? Truth, please.

Hi everyone Im just introducing myself here, for anyone who is willing to read this. I am a 20 year old male, about to head into my final year of college next month. i've been using porn since I was probably 13. my porn tastes are quite vanilla and haven't escalated to anything extreme, however...

ive never had a girlfriend before and im 25. im more interested in a relationship instead of casual sex despite covid still happening but the good thing is that restrictions are being lifted in my country i dont have a job at the moment, i still live at home with my mom because the pandemic has...

Hi guys, I need your help. A month ago I lost my virginity with a girl that I like and and she was a virgin too and yesterday we had sex again. The problem is that both times I felt that my erections were weak and I couldn't manage to cum. She was worried and she asked me if I liked her because...

Ok so I've written posts about this before and I'm scared that I might be gay. Long stry short, I used to think I was straight, had crushes on women, dated women but had very little sex, instead I used to watch porn, show myself on cams etc... Eventually I started liking gay porn too, and that...

Hello, guys. We all knew there are this kind of statements like 'men are more visual', 'men need sex'. I am also male, but nowadays I feel that way, I am attracted to almost every girl and lust after her (but I don't like porn, I just like to look at beautiful girls and can't hel fapping). So...

Greetings fellow members of the NoFap journey! I have been doing NoFap for one year and three months now with one relapse half a year ago. I have experienced no benefits (or at least I do not feel them) and only the contrary. The only exception might be that I can brag to friends about my...

I'm 35 years old now and I've never been able to ejaculate while having sex. I was an extremely shy guy when I was younger and my first sex experience was with a prostitute when I was 20. I don't remember exactly at what age I began masturbating but I noticed something strange after some years...

Current streak: 437 days no PMO, semen retention The main reason porn is bad is you are mixing a physical activity (sex) with a mental activity(porn) A woman with emotional burden, a psychological trauma, specially related to sex or romantic love and has this memories constantly in her mind...

I'm battling with a porn and masturbation addiction. I'm making progress, but my mind is messed up. It wasn't like this before watching porn, but now I think about sex and women almost every time. If a woman or girl walks past me, I have to stare at her body and fantasize. I can also just start...

Current streak: 431 days no PMO, semen retention If you want I explain this in a more simple manner on this other thread: https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/437-days-no-pmo-semen-retention-this-is-why-porn-is-bad.313145/ I’ve been sexually active while doing this streak. I only stopped...

Hi, I have been doing nofap for about 1,5 years. My longest streak was 69 days (just for the number). This 69 day streak was a challenge to myself during a COVID lockdown in which I was also unemployed - I didn’t reach the 90 days but yet I consider it successful as the time was tough and I...

Current streak: 407 days no PMO, semen retention Clarification : usually I advice to do this practice if you already have high amounts of energy and some type of reboot and self control or at least 150 days streak, otherwise this practice can make you relapse or drain the little sexual energy...

Current streak: 404 days no PMO, semen retention a nice palindrome number One of the easiest ways to never masturbate and to do as you please in terms of being under control of your sexuality is saying no to a very beautiful girl. These two scenarios happened to me on sunday and yesterday...

Current streak: 392 days no PMO, semen retention. The easiest way to get rid of PMO or sexual imbalances is outdoor sports and long walks. The energy gets balanced if you do some running every day or some type of physical exercise. Exercise releases dopamine so less need to get it from porn...