sexting

I have a sexting addiction, which means that when I relapse, I go on to chatting sites and try to pick up women (talk dirty to them). Might be biased, but I think it's one of the more troublesome subtypes of a porn addiction since it tends to go on longer (I can't just skip to the end of the...

Hey, thanks for taking a moment to read this post. Maybe you are dealing with similar problems yourself. If so, feel free to share your experience here so we can support each other in this thread. Maybe you have also lost yourself in sexual chats before, in forums or on platforms like Reddit...

Hey guys, I felt really inspired finding this forum and I've been browsing it for the past 20 minutes or so–hoping to find a story like mine. Well, I've seen a lot of stories, or human experiences rather, but nothing exactly like mine. So, I decided to share my own and hope that it can help...

Hello. I had an experience with Sexting, yesterday, after some months (3 months), without scamming. Well, the content of Sexting was Kinky, but in the first moment was OK, but after that, my reaction to the activities was " What a f*** I'm doing?!". It's a signal of Healing. Take care. Stay...

Hello all, I am currently awaiting therapy for my porn addiction which has lasted for a very long time. Especially the use of random chat sites have paved the way for addiction to grow. The shame and guilt are tearing me apart as I am currently trying to kick the habit. I am at a pretty bad...

Hi, I'm here for the first time because I want to change my life and my attitude towards sex. I used to masturbate a lot in the past using omegle (we could say I am an omegle "victim") and then I met a beautiful girl that I love so much and we are in a relationship since 3 years now. Everything...

Checking in as I’m now at 90 days clean. Married guy, 57, very much in love in my second marriage. Found myself slowly getting addicted to sexting - it started as a way to keep my brain focused on positive sexual experiences I had as a way to improve my sexual confidence and devolved into a...

I have been doing a good job at fighting PMO, but I think I'm in trouble with virtual exhibitionism. I just feel the need of showing myself in front of the cam, and i also find myself looking for other exhibitionists frequently. I got interested on a nudists lifestyle, but even if I'm not...

I started watching porn when I was about 13, and began sexting strangers when I was 16. I’ve finally accepted that I’ve had a problem with masturbation for about 10 years and I realize that it’s only affected my life negatively. I always struggled with school and going to uni only made the...

Just reviewing my experience at 25 days: I did fall into a flatline / depression at the start of NoFap. I didn’t crave the PMO but I did find my brain adjusting to missing this ritual. It felt like low level depression, sexual apathy, and an element of sadness. That seems to have faded at 20...

Married Sexting Addict, 56 m First weekend trying to get clean and stay clean, one week in. Feeling a flat line and some confusion regarding wanting to have sex because my wife wants it and wanting to abstain and heal and ride out my flat line. Opted to share my insecurities with my wife who...

I have no problem avoiding porn. What gets me is sexting. I get a huge dopamine rush when I get a girl to talk all sexy to me. I just relapsed after 54 days because of because of this and am looking to learn from my mistakes. it started last weekend, I was really bored, and felt like I was...

i have been turning to chatting apps and sexually active chatting places just to get in touch with people(women especially-random women) so as to cure my lust which i now realize is fueled by my porn addiction. I feel a bit lonely without porn. dirty chats and sex chats don't have the exact same...

I just want it to get out of my chest. I'm so much stuck in MO. I almost masturbate twice a day, and sometimes even more, and that's a daily routine. I know it's too much but I'm just stuck. I'm not especially addicted by Porn, because I have people to do sexting with. Sometimes I don't even...

My girlfriend sent me spicy text today. It caused me to think about this. I mean I think it has to do with the definition of porn in this community. If someone's in a relationship, do y'all think that pictures of the people there in a relationship with count? I'm personally not on a hard mode so...

Hi, I've had an addiction to sexting with women on reddit and snapchat for about two years now. I've been trying to stop various times, and always found myself going back for the thrill and the affirmation. I think it is mostly driven by stress and feelings of low self esteem. I am married...

Hello, I got out of a long term relationship about a year ago and started using reddit to ask for nudes and became addicted. It was just a copy and past question, I would spam for hours. Most of the times I wouldnt get answers or no but sometimes I would get someone to sext with. I never sent...

Hello everyone! I have a quick question here. So I'm currently in a long distance relationship, and I am not able to see my girlfriend often. We occasionally have video sessions where we tease each other and possibly masturbate to it. My question is how you think about this, having this sort of...

I've been sexting girls since I woke up. Literally the first thing I did was open my phone, download my sexting apps and start sexting random girls. It's 1.35pm now and I haven't drank anything, I haven't had breakfast. I smell like a dead animal and my hair is all fucked up. I feel like a...

I've been stuck in a cycle of relapse for weeks now and it's draining me physically and mentally. It seems like everytime I try to stop I realize how isolated and lonely I am and I just can't cope. I know really well what sexting and porn do to me, but I keep choosing it because it's somehow...

Hi, I was just wondering if anyone has had the experience of being publicly shamed or had their online nudes/fetishes discovered? I belonged to an online site allowing users to share nude photos and chat etc., essentially an erotic instagram. I had been posting there a few years and express...

I am in a relationship of almost one year. I am only about a week into my official recovery. I have abstained from porn probably a few days longer than that, but I mark that day as my official starting point. I met my girlfriend online and we began dating after a few months of being close...

Hey people I'm relapsed really hard the past 2 days. I haven't watched porn for the last 3 weeks without big problems. But now that I'm on vacation till the end of the year I have a lot time. I returned to some old behavior of chatting with strangers online and trading porn with them and...

So I relapsed last night after my 10 day streak. I really wanted to do the 30 day NNN but I fucked up. So the first four days of NNN were hard, I almost relapsed on day three, but I managed. After that, I really started to see the benefits of no PMO. Since my dopamine was no longer being wasted...

Hello everybody A little bit of context: since quarantine I started my rebooting plan, after PMOing for 10 years and three bad experiences with PIED. I have been abstaining from P for 4 months, my longest streak in my entire life. I have experienced a lot of what can be read in the forum: low...

I'm engaged to a beautiful girl who knows about my addiction and she really supports me. We are supposed to marry in September but I have a very bad problem which I sometimes want to talk in a very bad and seductive way to her and sometimes to hold her hand and touch her. she doesn't accept that...

I'm here back on Day 21. I want to share my opinion about rebooting in a relationship. Personally, If you want to get ride of your addiction, you have to leave all triggers and dating can be a trigger always for an addicted person. Personally, I have also left my online dating partner, because...

so I was exposed to porn around 12 years old and was addicted to it by age 13-14 around that time I started with Omegle / Kik and I would always catfish because I was embarrassed and ashamed to use my identity years later I got into being a sub since I needed something more extreme and made...

Hi, i'm new in this page. I just admitted that I got a problem with my personal relantionships because of my porn and masturbation habits. Since my mother died, when I was 12 (i'm 22) I started watching porn and jacking me off, at firts it helped me to quit or avoid stress and anxiety, then I...

Hi All, I am 30 and have been watching porn since I was probably 14 or 15. Specifically, I was always into fetish porn but restricted to some fetishes. During my university years from age of 19-23, i have been in relationships and have multiple one nights stands, however, I have always...

I'm 19 years old and I've been masturbating to porn daily since I was about 12 years old. At first I could get really hard erections without touching myself but now I can't get an erection normally without porn and I can only get a weak, fading erection if I touch myself whilst watching it. I...

Hi everyone! I have compulsively watched porn and masturbated since before I was a teenager. Friends showed me a popular porn streaming website when I was 11 and very quickly, I was using it whenever I had access to my parents' computer. With each year, what I watched would become more removed...

Simple question, does reading/writing erotic text and sexting contribute to PIED?

I recently joined kik and I was amazed at how many people were on there, all from different places and backgrounds. At first it was an exciting experience making new friends and having interesting conversations. But then I encountered horny people too and started sexting and exchanging pics...

[M20] I've been fapping since I was 13 or so. Now I'm in college and I still enjoy it. However, recently I've got into the habit of sexting strangers (women between 19-21) at night on Omegle to get off. At first I thought it was really fun. But now I am doing it everyday and it really ruins my...

I have posted on here a few times about my addiction to cybersex. I have emphasised 'addiction' because I keep lying to myself. I realised I am actually addicted when I used snapchat to sext when my girlfriend was in the next room. The fact I am trying to find time to message other people...

is it precum a relapse i dont know what is it because i was sextin and i get a hugh pressure on my dick i was unable to stop it and i get wet to much i dont know it was sperm or precum ..and im on my 13 day idk is it a relapse or not..i dont want to ruin the progress of nofap.

Hey guys, I really need some help and support with an on going issue i have. I am recently in a relationship with a girl who is amazing but due to her long hours at work it means I only get to see her during the weekend. This has lead me to message other girls and sext them basically. I am doing...

hey guys and gals, I have been stuck to porn for many years. I have put blockers on my phone so I couldn’t go there. When I couldn’t go there I sexted girls to get nudes. After I felt dirty and ashamed. I have been struggling with this for so long.i am determined to not do it anymore so help me...

Hi, community, Since I am new here, allow me to introduce myself. I am 21 years old, I am big into my fitness since the age of 10, basketball at first, then at the age of 14 I started going to the gym, I was bodybuilding, powerlifting and weightlifting until the age of 18. Long story short...

Hey guys. Hope you are all doing well ! So heres the deal i want to know your opinion on this. The thing ls ive been battling this "addiction" for 2 years now. For me its not porn its cybersex. Most of the time i felt like an addict and blamed myself about it but recently i started working...

Okk so heres the deal... 2 years ive had ups and downs on nofap (mostly downs but im never giving up ) Im deeply involved in personal development and im very well informed on how addiction works, yet i still cant stop. My problem isn't porn oh no no... its cybersex, omegle and snapchat! that...

I have a girlfriend right now. We started seeing each other when I was about a week into my reboot, and she's cool with not having sex and all. We haven't seen each other in a couple weeks, so we've been texting a lot, which has led to some NSFW conversations. Wondering if people think it's...

Hello fapstronauts, I started this journey about 21 days ago. Had a 7 days streak until I did MO (thinking of a girl I'm dating with) and then I got a two weeks streak in which I was feeling (and still do) feel like I'm in heaven. The thing is, I started this journey because I have had a few...

I am in a relationship and have just started rebooting. Once in a blue moon, my GF and I do sext, and I was wondering - do people count this as relapsing? Say, if she instigates it and I comply, is this a relapse? For reference, I'm abstaining from PM and not O, so do people regard this as PM...

Hey, So I'm 16 years old. Looking around the website, it seems I am one of the younger users, but I would like to asked not to be judged by this. I'm not a naive, oblivious teen that feels guilty for masturbating when it isn't a problem. I have come to the conclusion that I do have a problem...

Hey guys (and gals) I have a quick question! Is fantasizing about your girlfriend bad for rewiring? And what are your thoughts about sexting while trying to rewire?

Hello, everyone. I am a 29 year-old guy who has been addicted to masturbation for about 10 years. Up until the age of 18 I would say my fapping habits were pretty healthy, until I started using porn. Although I do watch images and videos, the thing I really struggle with the most is verbal...

Okay. So I recently reconnected with an old fling of mine. We got to talking and one thing led to another and erotic texts started to be exchanged. I know some of you are fine with sex during your reboot, but because of personal reasons I’m trying to abstain from all sexual pleasure until...

I joined NoFap today, and I'm pretty confident that rebooting is the solution to about 90% of the things plaguing me right now. But one remains, and that's my nagging anxiety about the consequences of what I've already done. I've had a lot of cam sex/phone sex/text sex with random strangers on...

Hi! I guess now that I'm here it's time for me to admit to myself that I have an addiction. I've struggled with my sexual proclivities for a long time — it's very hard to be sex-positive and open-minded and be able to draw the line where kinky and fun becomes unacceptable and unhealthy. I've...

Hello, Almost a year ago I resolved to quit using porn & managed to succeed for over two months. I was worried about impotence & my reliance on pornography for gratification over real life experiences. I was even using porn when I had a partner which really upset her and created all sorts of...

So I'm new here. Friend of mine referred me here. I'm having issues because dropping porn wasn't THAT difficult, but dropping sexts and nudie pictures, that's hard. I also deleted all of my Instagram hoes because that shit really ruined every woman I would meet. Not really sure how to cut off...

What about sexting with real girls (friends o sexmates)? Is it allowed?

Hello everyone. I'm new here. I started thing about joining here for a month now. But decided against it at first. The reason was that I thought I would be able to control/stop watching porn. It's very much in control but I think there's more for me to push for. So this is my story. Quit porn...