sexual thoughts

  1. B

    Sexual Intrusive Thoughts

    Brand new to this page I recently found out alot about my life and why I am like I am, I started reading this book that addresses sexual brokenness and where it steams from. This put me down a long very intense road, my partner is currently heavily pregnant with our baby and I have essentially...
  2. J

    Dealing with urges and erections

    Hey guys, I am currently on a 13 day streak and in the last few days I have been feeling extremely horny. I made the fatal error of reinstalling my snapchat and talking to women and getting hard a few times. I even touched myself once or twice but not actually masturbated. Since I have been...
  3. U

    It's over for impure hearts.

    If you have an impure heart, you will receive impure thoughts. If you allow a sexual thought to defile your mind, it's over for you, now you feel an urge.
  4. trevormicheal

    Imagine Like Giving Lip Kiss To Someone Like Future GF/Wife is Okay?

    I Am on Day 26. Sometimes I Imagine to Give Lip Kiss to Someone Like Future Wife/Gf. But I Didn't Watch Porn,Fap And Ejaculate. This Thing is Okay? Or I Need To Stop? Or I Need to Reset My Streak? (Sorry For My Bad English)
  5. trevormicheal

    Imagine Like Having Kiss And Sex With Future Wife is relapse?

    I Am Single Now.......Today I Intentionally Having Dream/Sexual Thoughts Like Showing Love And Cuddle With Future Wife And Kiss With Her Then I Act My Body Like Sex With Her But I Didn't Watch Porn And I Didn't Fap And Ejaculate But I Feel Urges. It is Relapse? I Am Struglling.....
  6. trevormicheal

    I Struggling With This Problem For 3 Months. Please Help Me....

    Today Intentionally I Having Sexual Thoughts About Old P Videos,Flashback Memories And Moaning My Self. Then I Stopped. I Want To Stop This Problem. This is Considered as Relapse? Or Continue My Journey? Give Me Some Advice And Tips Please?
  7. trevormicheal

    Intentionally Having Fantasize And Sexual Thoughts is Relapse?

    Everyday Morning And Night I Am Intentionally Having Sexual Thoughts And Fantasizing About Old P Videos And Sex With Girl For 2 Hours. Am I relapsed? Or Can I Continue My Nofap Journey? (Sorry For My Bad English)
  8. M

    Sexual Thoughts and Time

    Hello, I'm a 16-year-old who has been doing NoFap since March this year (Not sure of the exact date). I haven't watched (requited) Porn, masturbated or had an orgasm. I've had the idea of NoFap since I was 15, and went through a NoFap streak during my summer break (it wasn't a very good one). I...
  9. Killua19

    Hunt till 365 days

    From today onwards I will start my nofap once more. I already had a past streak of around 200+days but due to sexual pure ocd I failed my streak...to be honest I was also equally to be blamed for becoming selfish. After my earlier streak broke and till now I had numerous small streaks but...
  10. D

    IMAGINATION WORKIN OVERTIME

    Alright so tell me if this may seem like a scenario you may have been in. So you meet this girl you guys start talking and trying to hang out and before anything even happens your brain says OMG THIS IS IT. This is finally going to be it Im gonna have the nasty and we gonna be a thing. Then once...
  11. BulletinNew

    How bad are sexual thoughts for rebooting?

    Hey guys, How bad are sexual thoughts considering rebooting? Do they set us back far? I know that thoughts about porn are really bad but what about thoughts about sexual interaction with people you know and partly already had sex with? Are they also that Bad? Sometimes when going to sleep I get...
  12. A

    Is this a Relapse?

    Im on NoFap and its my 29 th day. I had 4 wet dreams in one month (4 th one happened today morning) I had these 4 wet dreams only after i had sexual or erotic thoughts before bed. Im on NoFap, no porn since one month and willing to continue till 90 days and if possible 150 days I ain't...
  13. EnterTheMatrix

    On 15th day!!

    So today is my 15th day Nofap, not using porn , no sexual thoughts. So I wanna tell you that from the last week I was becoming angry on small things . I was getting aggressive and hurting my family members for small things by words not physically. So now as I am writing this I feel so bad that I behaved...
  14. EnterTheMatrix

    To sex or no to sex?

    Just a quick question! Can I have sex or no? And consider this in my question that I don't have a Girlfriend!!
  15. D

    Ejaculation from sexual thoughts?

    Is this even possible. Sexual thought came in and tried my best to stop it. Stressed out and telling my mind no, I got an erection but not too hard. While I was trying to stop, it felt kind of tingly down there. Tingly feelings only there like something was crawling on your skin. And then I may...
  16. Soul_destroyer

    I'm struggling

    I can't stop getting aroused from TV adverts, movies and TV shows with all the attractive actresses. I'm just constantly horny and thinking about sex, I didn't feel this bad when I was watching porn and masterbating. I'm unfortunately debating going back to it.
  17. GuitarAfficionado

    The invisible spiral, Myelin and why most of us relapse

    in the last week or so I ended up studying lots of self-knowledge and self-improvement principles that could be applied to addiction. Today I just had this huge "a-ha" moment that I want to share with you all. First, let's go for a quick neuroscience detour: - When you do, learn, feel, think or...
  18. mouton1998

    I can't take it anymore...

    Hi guys, I need your help. Unfortunately I'm in a strange situation: I haven't reached flatline yet... but lately I feel like I was flatlined: I'm deconcentrated and not motivated in anything (studying, physical activity, reading and other things); I'm getting more and more irritable and I keep...
  19. mouton1998

    How can I recognize a flatline?

    Hi guys! I'm writing this thread because I would like to read some of your experiences about flatlines. During the first two weeks of rebooting I didn't have any problem: I was constantly studying, reading a lot, taking long walks with my dog and exercising.... But for about a week I feel...
  20. Aboodhi

    How to overcome Porn thoughts.

    My biggest enemy is my mind. Yes! Most of the times mind tricks me into PMO. It breaks the cycle. Sometimes when life goes smoothly all of a sudden I'll have erotic thoughts out of nowhere. I've tried many times to battle these sexual thoughts but every time I end up loosing to it. After fapping...
  21. D

    How to control erection and sexual thoughts

    Im on day 28, and my libido is high and Ive realized that sexual thought creeps into my mind randomly about this girl at my gym who i find attractive! Currently, as soon as i get erection and my mind wanders, i realize and consciously try to bring focus back to my work, but its getting very...
  22. D

    Trying to be a better person

    Hello everyone..... I am from India.....these days i've been addicted to porn soo much that. it has changed my lifestyle drastically.......i've started masturbating a lot.....like 2-3 times a day.....i've started to objectify women around me......the one's i love........my behaviour's changing...
  23. sfmark12

    Do you ever wonder why?(For people with fantasizing problems) (May have triggers)

    I want to be able to write this down while it is fresh in my head before I head into work. For the people struggling with fantasizing on their reboot I ask you, why does your brain give you these unrealistic, sexual, disturbing thoughts? So today I went to the gym and I said hello to the lady...
  24. M

    Sexual thoughts during

    Hey guys im 12 days in to nofap. So last night i was trying to get some sleep but couldnt because i was feeling some flatline. I could tell my brain was craving a rush of dopamoine and sexuall images and fantasies keep popping in my head (porn induced). I tried pushing them away but they...
  25. Chengi

    Can you control your thoughts?

    Hello all. I’m just over a month into my reboot and I’m finding a lot more sexual thoughts are entering my head, sometimes with quite vivid visuals. I always end up getting rid of these thoughts relatively quickly by reading something or distracting myself. But I was wondering if this is a...
  26. Xdecidestoquit

    consecutive sexual thoughts in my head after 11 months. What to do?

    I started masturbating to porn since I was 15. At the time I started to quit masturbation and porn, I decided to do it with the help of my psychiatrist. I had tried quitting before but I was not successful in this matter. Since I had severe depression and some other mental disorder including...
  27. Vincet

    Sendin text to female friends

    Hi, I am on my 13 day of NoFap and having sexual toughts from morning and feeling sensetion on penis. Dur to this, i can not control myself and send text to emale friend but then i stopped my self to going firther on sex chat. But it keep repeating. Wht shuld i do?
  28. Vincet

    Getting sexual thoughts

    Hi guys, I am on 11 day of NoFap. I am having somany sexual thoughts when i see a pretty girl. I can't control my urges. What should i do?
  29. Vincet

    Nofap day 9: Getting sexual thoughts frequently

    Hi Guys, I am on my 9th day of nofap. I am getting sexual thoughts very frequently. I also getting such thought while doing prayer. I am feeling really emberassed myself. Also going hand there every now and then but i somehow control myself.
  30. ASD_OZ

    I need a serious answer !!

    As up this date (11/26/2017) , I'm nearly reaching the month of no PMO (27 days total), but I have great fear over one thing that happen quite often. I often get erections simply by imaging sexual events right before I go to sleep. I fear I might get "blue balls" and I'll have to masturbate to...
  31. M

    Please don't miss this: 'Meditate your way to success'

    Please find corresponding links in pdf file attached. Link1 ****Even if you don't read the full post DEFINITELY watch this video(full)^^ atleast. If you liked it I recommend buying the 'Gita' which is the holy book not just for hindus but for the whole of humanity. It has the potential to...
  32. Constantine Bold

    About Wet Dreams

    When men abstain from ejaculation, the sexual energy starts to build up. When this happens, our mental and physical abilities strengthen significantly. When this sexual energy is not controlled, it controls you. Your mind starts to think harder and more intensely about sex and sexual things...
  33. IWantToBeAHuman

    is sexual thoughts about my girlfriend bad ?

    How can I stop objectifying women and see from who they really are? Help..
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