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Hello reader, I plan to not come back here, but wanted to leave some encouragement. Here's my story. It may be worth saying I am a Christian and my goals have usually been total abstienence from masterbation and porn. I appreciate not everyone here has those same goals. I hope my story might...

What are some good anti-Valentine's Day movies? You know, the kind of movies that make you glad you're single.

I recently read a couple threads in the relationship section of the nofap forum. It was interesting and eye opening to see the effect of addiction and the implications in a relationship. As a single guy, after reading several threads, I think that rebooting while single is way more easier than...

Does anyone who's single ever feel bitter and resentful of people in a relationship? I sometimes feel this way. A friend on Facebook who's around the same age as me recently celebrated his 15th wedding anniversary and I refused to congratulate him. There are people I know who've gotten married...

I just find myself comparing to other people’s(men) romantic success. It feels like I don’t stack up at all being a single person and am worried I’m going to be 45 year old bitter single man with a beer gut. I guess you can say I have ‘oneitis’. All my life I’ve been trying to better myself but...

Guys I really need help with a problem that has spanned almost the same time as NoFap (& This could be a reason why I haven't had a Girlfriend yet) I don't even know what to call this problem, it could be insecurity Does SM/Text Harm our personality? Like I sometimes I make a fun out of myself...

hey guys, i've been struggling with loneliness. Its been years since I've had any success with girls. When I do start talking to one, my anxiety amps up to 11/10. I overthink and overanalyze every text message. I start to wonder if I said the right thing, (ex. does she like me? Am i being too...

So before I post this question/thought, I just want to say that the thought I am about to share does not resemble me in any shape or form, but I am just rather interested in the answers as it might help me keep my emotions & other insecurities in check. So imagine you're a guy like Chris...

Okay I've got to get this off my chest. I've recently made it almost 3 months on a streak, then slipped up once, twice, and now a third time - all within the space of a few weeks. I've moved from the big city to a relatively small town for a job. The work is good, the people are nice, and I...

I have crush on two really beautiful and cute girls, I just cant do any steps to date any of them. Im too afraid and shy. I will be always alone.. how do you even get a relationship?

Hey guys, I just have to write down what's going on with my views on relationships... Fair warning, this turned out to be a long post! I started using porn around 10, figured out it was problematic like junk food at 25, and am now at 31 with much less porn use, but I still use it. In school I...

I have been single for about 10 years. My last relationship didn't end well but I don't have any regrets ending it with her. Since then, I have been dating/having sex with different girls. I don't have a big social network of friends like I use to since. My friends grew up by getting married...

Hi fellas :) I'm 23 years old, and today decided to do something with my porn and mastrubation addiction and found out about nofap. i dont have any romantic or sexual experience, and never really brought myself to chat up with girls. i tend to get frightened by this and saying to myself that i...

Since this whole lockdown started around March 15th I've been for the most part, single.. For the most part most nights i was keeping myself warm.. Now as the year is wrapping up im reflecting.. finding positives and negatives about spending this year alone.. A positive is i know more about who...

I have experience in my life such that changed the way I think on this topic. So short story is that my father married single mother, and at first everything was great more then great. He lived a decent life, and I think nobody could have predicted any kind of divorce, but the fact of the matter...

I'm currently single and I also don't have many friends. Every time I face an urge to masturbate, a voice in my head says that it's OK because I don't have a girlfriend and I'm not going to meet one any time soon, so it's only reasonable to "release some tension". Do you experience anything...

I don't know if this will help any guys out, but I want to share some experience. When I was divorced in 2017, I went through a lot of bitter loneliness. Trying to get a date was impossible. But what I started to realize was that I might be on my own for some time. If that was the case, I...

Some month ago a friend here told me he was writing letters to his future wife. Isn't that a wonderful idea? However I haven't done it myself since. So I thought, why not do it here, together with others that are looking for a mate (boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband or simply friend)...

Day 0: Hours After PMO Reset I was 7 days in but I gave in to my cravings for sexual pleasure this morning. I've never had a GF and I've had a life long battle of frustration with my relationship status. Pretty much all of my friends have girlfriends but never, ever fucking me. Yeah I'm...

**The following description of my experiences may trigger struggling NoFappers It was a couple of years back that I thought I’d try masturbation after having watched a ‘Love Yourself’ parody with no real understanding of what would take place. I did it while I was casually reading a...

Hello, I have a big problem and I hope you can help. I reached 98 days of NoFap in December, but then a friend abandoned me and since then I'm not able to reach a good streak anymore. I wanted to be more than his friend but then things went terribly wrong. I don't even know what happened and...

I have made many attempts in the past but none worked. I joined this forum a year ago, but it's my first post. May be I was overconfident that I could do it without any help but I need it. I'll try my best to be a part of this community and achieve my goals.

hey ladies, I have been very depressed lately... i m almost 30 years old, single and feel very unattractive.. i do know that i m a bigger guy and feel like this may be my limiting factor.. i tried losing weight but depression making it worse... question is, do you think i m over analyzing it...

I'm a Dutch guy, suffering exactly 10 year of porn addiction (twice on a daily basis). Now noticing the consequences (cannot get hard during sex) and really want to change my lifestyle. However, i'm currently single and doubting whether to hold back from having sex too. Maybe i'll find the...

Firstly, thanks for taking the time to read this? If you relate at all, feel free to connect with me and journey along. If there is hope for me.... then I truly believe anyone can change. EVERYTHING in this post is 100% truth. My name is John and I am 33 years old (within a month of my 34th...

I'm writing this to vent to someone. I've never had a girlfriend and Im 17. I've never kissed a girl, nothing. I've been told SO many times that I am super attractive etc. People are always surprised to find out I'm not some stud with the ladies. Yet I have never had anything close to a...

This presentation is so true for me personally. I have been: - in a good/healthy long term relationship, - unwantedly single, - and since a couple of years I volentairily chose to stay single and not be dating/celibate. In my case. I am now (volentairily single & not dating) overall as about...

So far I've worked on the NoFap lifestyle for a week. I'm pretty proud of myself that I've lasted so long in a challenge like this, but now my body is "asking" to consume some porn just to have the thrill. Other than that I have been feeling great, and that is why I don't want to lose my strike...

Well, it's just that I'm bored and tired of failed relationships so I decided to stop trying. I really need a break. The problem is I have a huge sex drive, I found that out thanks to MO. So since I decided to be single, I started relapsing without porn. Any advice on this?

I've had a struggle with porn since high school, and I've had various strings of success through the years, but I have always relapsed. But, frankly, I'm just tired of going through that cycle again and again. I'm a 30yo single male, a pastor, and about to enter into a committed relationship...

Hallo iedereen, ik vroeg me af of ik met zekerheid moet stoppen met masturberen of alleen verminderen? Ik ben al van mijn 12 van 11 bezig met masturberen en het is sinds ik voor de eerste keer klaarkwam daad ik het meer en meer, tot wel 4-5 keer per week. Nu ben ik 16 en nog steeds single ik heb...

Its been 230 days into NoFap. And 90 days since I stopped edging. Life is amazing ever since day 1 and it only got better in the last 90 days. Becoming a whole new person. If I can do it, you all can do it. Keep up the good work and lets work towards a better life. God bless!! Update...

Hi. It started since the age of 12. Girls became hot and I needed a way to deal with the whole thing. Porn came 2 years after. I never really stopped except for a period of 4 months when I had a gf. Strange how that came to be because I didn't even really sleep with my then gf. Today I'm 20 and...

It seems like I get infatuated with every cute girl I see and there never seems to be a feeling of contentment with me being simgle. I just crave a girlfriend and affection so badly everyday maybe it’s because I’m trying to find fulfillment in having a girlfriend? What do I do? How do I stop...

Hey Guys. Mobcy here, 24 living somewhere in the middle east. Im a Medical Student so im basically surrounded by negative vibes of books and exam strees. Currently single. I have first discovered M at the age of 13.I did it without watching P. Watched my first ever P at the age of 15 and ever...

Okay so when i was really young i was goofy but shy. As i started liking girls i realized i needed to be more out going (i realized this about the same time i discovered porn). By the end of freshmen year of highschool everyone knew me as the crazy wild out going guy who was pretty popular and...

hey, I'm Chris. I'm a 29 y/o man who has been using porn since middle school and I'm looking for more tools and support to help me quit. My addiction has cost me a job, a fiance, and not least of all, my sanity. I'm afraid that if I don't do something now I may not be able to have a healthy sex...

When With Guys: I'm like " I AM THE BOSS, I AM DER FUHRER!!!!" When with Girls: Completely DEAD... Seriously, How can I deal with these kind of awkwardness? I am not afraid to have a argument or even a fight, but when comes to girls, I am like a complete shutdown, like the car above. Please...

Hello, my name is Samir. I'm 26 and I'm single. For a long time, people or at least my entourage consider me a model. Besides, they continue to consider me as a model. When I was in high school I advised my friends on the benefit of remaining chaste. By the time my friends were interested in...

First of all, I am feeling like sharing my story, so sorry for the long post. If you don't want to go through all of it just skip to the last para. ____________________________________________ I've been watching porn and masturbating since around 2005 (12 yrs. old). Currently I am 24 and single...

Hi, I'm tired of allowing the same uncertainties to hold me back whenever I meet a woman I'm attracted to: Does she have boyfriend? Does she feel attracted to me? Will she never speak to me again if I express myself and she doesn't feel the same way? Will she talk negatively about me to her...

Hi everyone. Starting a 30 day PMO challenge today. I stopped watching internet porn a year and a half ago, though I think the effect hasn't entirely worn off yet because I still get 'porno dreams' sometimes. My boyfriend of the time introduced me to internet porn, seven years ago. I'd like to...

This might be a long-ish thread so skip to the last paragraph if you're not interested in reading the whole thing but are still interested in lending a hand and giving some advice. Apologies in advance if the post is a little inconsistent but my brain is all scrambled up and I'm addicted to...

anyone here is experiencing that during reboot? 0_o

Hello, not really sure what to write here but here goes. I began a HUGE journey discovering myself last year, which led me traveling around the world, rehabs, healing recovery and a whole lot of beautifulness. As I am coming up to my 9 months sober, with in these months i was able to realise...

Hi, I'm past my third week into nofap (no fapping, no pmo, no porn, etc...), and, well, I feel "fine". I don't have urges, I'm not depressed or anything, I lift weights everyday, and I feel "fine". I understand it's "only three weeks", but shouldn't I be getting "triggered", or "more...