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  1. I

    chess

    Atomic, Crazy House, King of the Hill, Fog of war and more... If you want to socialize sometimes, do accountability and play something fun hit me up. I do play these chess variants for a while already along with 960. Atomic is the most fun.
  2. Next24

    Making the decision.

    I'm making the decision of doing my 90 days reboot. 3 days already NoFap, but scared of what's about to come and how I'm going to walk this path. I'm male, 48 yo. Starting with erotic/porn magazines at about 12 years old, on M for years, often with no porn involved. And then growing my...
  3. Khri$$ Javan

    Delete social media.

    Social media fucking garbage. I really dislike it with a passion. Its very toxic and its why young adults are having anxiety issues and having problems socializing. Do YOU want to constantly compare yourself to other people who bring no value to your life? Let's talk about these so called...
  4. from2003

    youtube, snapchat, instagram, twitier, and many more ......

    all those aforementioned platforms are nowadays act like a burning matchstick for our gallons of gallons petrol container like our hard earned streaks . Youtube This platform is like junior xnxx website in the form of short vedios , like seriously everywhere someone is dressing bra or very...
  5. hol

    Advice for temptations (and social advice I guess)

    The most tempting periods are when you have access to technology, are on social media, and are in a warm/comfortable place. I've found if I move my phone out of my bedroom, only use my laptop in the living room, and avoid hot places during the day I do better. When I feel like fapping I either...
  6. D

    The benefits keep working even when you're in flatline

    My last thread was August 26, at this moment (Sep 7) is my 101 days streak. All the benefits is continuing to going on and on. I'm not intended to explain this hyperbolically, just reporting as objective : my colleagues, my friends, on college almost always greet me wherever i walking past such...
  7. J

    From Porn to Instagram, Badoo, Tinder, social dating apss FAP

    Can any of you relate to this modification - till my 20y I used porn to fap. In my 20-21y I discovered Tinder, Badoo as dating apps with the aim to date with girls. However, after my first sexting (girls sent me nudes and described how they want sex), it was for me even more attractive and...
  8. Testify

    Social media

    Here and there on this website i read of guys who avoid or try to avoid social media. But exacrtly what is wrong with social media on a scientific basis? Why avoiding them seems to be for some of this community sonething good for self-improvement? Do we have any scientific paper or any other...
  9. D

    NoFap and Identity

    Hey guys. I want to talk about something that I've been conflicted about for a long time struggling with porn. When it comes to PMOing, I always blamed it for any insecurities/ and flaws I had. However, as I continue grow as a person naturally, I see that it's not always to blame. The reason I...
  10. WingNutLoogia

    I Meet an Old Long Time Friend, Yet I Hate Talking to Them.

    Had you met an old childhood friend after not communicating with each other after a year or more? Upon first meeting each other your friend starts spilling a long list of great achievements to you, like how they got their dream job, and they are working a lot of "super cool" projects with a...
  11. T

    How do I socialize better?

    I have been meeting friends and socializing very bad in the last 4 years, one of the reasons being porn. Before that I was pretty good on socializing and I had many good friends and a gf. Now its very hard for me to talk to anyone, that i dont know. Ever since i started watching porn I have...
  12. Vegetto_97

    I plan to write about porn as a social issue for my bachelors degree...

    I plan to write about pornography as a social issue for my bachelors degree but i am not sure how well my advisor will take it because it should be a huge issue we are facing and i feel like no one takes that seriously. I study law and administration and i have to deliver a report that describes...
  13. SelfControlIsTheGoal

    Porn is a form of social control

    Heres a thought. Pornography is created in order to control men and make them slaves to there urges. Those who control the media actually intend for it to have negative effects on those who use/watch it. Maybe thinking of "them" will help you quit P for good if you know you are being...
  14. P

    What are the actual benefits of nofap? A few thoughts.

    Science says that constantly watching many Hours of porn while fapping might not be good for the function of the brain and cognitive functioning. Watching many porn movies distracts clarity of thought and concentration, but I think that's a Problem with Smartphones, Computers, and TV and...
  15. Sinnersgrin

    STORY TIME! - I Just Embarrassed Myself In Front of My Class

    I unfortunately relapsed the other day after a 50+ day streak and, well, today wasn't the best day to be a college student. So I am an animation student at a college in Massachusetts and today we were pitching ideas for our shorts. At first, I was calm, collected and felt alright, no great but...
  16. ReachYourHighestPeak

    7-Day Approach Challenge

    All the single fellas here, this is for you. For the next 7 days, I want each and every one of you to go up and talk to a cute girl. I don't care if that terrifies you, I don't care if you're gonna piss your panties when you do it. Just do it. Don't ask her out, don't ask for her digits, just...
  17. TheSilverGoat

    Being social with strangers.

    Hi! Hope you all are doing great! I realized I have a minor problem. I've been dealing with my insecurities for years, and I truly feel like I made a progress. I feel better with myself most of the times, and I've become a very open person, I don't feel insecure talking to other people and...
  18. PlanetJuniper

    Making friends the no expectation way

    The hot tip: When making a new friend, have no expectations that I’m gonna make a friendship that will last beyond the event. This way, if you do make a lasting friend, I’ll be happy, and if it doesn’t, it’s okay. Come back to the event next time and you might meet them again. Familiarity will...
  19. GREGOR hulse

    SOCIAL ANXIETY (disorder) HELP

    In this thread I am gonna gather everything a know about social anxiety (disorder). This will serve as compilation of tips and way how to cure that anxiety. (immediate help and long term solution also). IMMEDIATE TIP/ TECHNIQUES When you are in social setting and you feel overwhelmed. Start...
  20. Moscote7

    Advise to expand social life?

    I am 24, a graduate school student in Architecture. I am writing my thesis now, so I spend lots of time by myself at writing. Other form the thesis, I hit the gym every morning at 6 to 8, I have Japanese classes 2 times a week. I have not having any sort of social life for almost 2 years, I...
  21. R

    Life Hacks that helped me.

    Hey all! my english is not really great but i would to share some life improvements that worked out for me. So before i got into NoFap i was lazy guy with Social anxiety,Depression,being bullied (2years),No control on my ADHD and skinny. So ofcourse not all problems got fixed just after...
  22. D

    Woman confidence..Improvement?

    Hey everyone! I am making this thread because I am currently struggling with Woman confidence and relationship building at this point in time. I feel like I have been living under a rug for some time never really gaining any success. All my friends and family have relationships and honestly I...
  23. SovjetOnion

    1 month (31 days) in, feeling great!

    I've tried NOFAP multiple times, but this is the farthest I've come. I feel GREAT. My social life has always been OK, but is now at an alltime high. I have so many great friends and I'm going out a lot. I finish more things, I wake up feeling like doing things (wether it's something active or...
  24. D

    Anybody was lonely in the past and made friends succesfully and|or became social?

    It ain't terminating me right now....right now? hmm....but I'm dealing with it. Not really any friends I can call to go out with tonight. To be honest, a bit of a hypocrite ... or not? ... I have told a bunch of people in the past who made posts regarding loliness to just go out in the park...
  25. D

    Improving Empathy?

    I know it is hard to define but I'm interested in in it and ideas for increasing it. What do you think it is? Would you say it is emotionally relating to the needs of others - feeling pain when they feel pain and feeling the potential emotional consequences of actions on others as though you...
  26. Pastoress

    A Work in Progress

    Perhaps you could call me a late bloomer. I was the one in the group to laugh at M jokes but have no idea what it was about, until I was almost 20 years old. When I did decide I wanted to know, all I could find was a brief and rather simple explanation. I was too embarrassed to ask anyone I knew...
  27. Souhail

    Accecpting yourself : self image

    Hey guys i have this problem of doubting myself and feeling that i'm less than people Especially when it comes to heigh when i'm walking i hate seeing someone taller than me and i feel insecure and inconfident , how to solve this ?
  28. Guybrushgood

    When will it stop making damage? I can't stand withdrawals or whatever its called, no more

    This is the only thing I need to know, am going trough 80 day and I feel the same as when I started, worse social anxiety, panic attack, I work at walmart and always am trying to avoid people, dont wanna socialise, Its horrible, when will I set my mind and free of this hell?
  29. D

    Effects of PMO on a relationship

    Discovered masturbating at age 11, porn and hentai at age 13/14, been using it ever since. At first, I used it because it felt so good and I kept wanting more. Later, I needed it to remedy depression and it gave me a feeling of acceptance and connection when I felt rejected and lonely...
  30. W

    Should I delete my Twitter Account?

    Just relapsed after 5 days, and it was caused by a Twitter image. It led me to a porn site eventually (obviously not directly). It got me thinking, I've had loads and loads of relapses caused by images I've seen on Twitter, and I wondered: maybe I should delete my account and come off Twitter...
  31. D

    Anyone else get called "gay"?

    After telling some of my friends that I'm quitting porn and masturbation I get called "gay" in an insulting way, I know it's just a joke but has anyone else get called "gay" by people when you tell them you're abstaining. Thanks :)
  32. D

    New guy

    Hi there! (Sorry for my english) I feel weird from a year or two ago, I notice I don't have the same capacity to concentrate as I had before, even when I'm talking with people I forget easily what I was going to say or I just forget I told something to someone and repeat it again. So yeah...
  33. W

    About me, and my goals.

    Hey there, my name is Even, and i have decided to do the nofap challenge, and hopefully stop watching porn, and masturbate. I decided that i wanted to make this decision, because i have seen many people that have gained more confident and energy by doing it. One of my biggest issues, is social...
  34. Dutt

    Tired but cant control.

    Hello, I am new to NoFap. Got to know about this from a video by Improvement Pill on youtube. Never thought such a community existed. But now that I have found it I am hoping some of you folks who have controlled masturbation can help me out. I am tired of fapping. Just tired of it. I am able...
  35. Goatinatree

    Dear Fapsters and Fapstrettes!

    Hya! I'm a 20 year old guy and I've been fapping since the age of 12. I found out I had a problem two and a half years ago, when I met my current girlfriend. I found out because I couldn't enjoy sex at all. Mentally and physically. I had major erectile dysfunction and almost didn't feel a...
  36. RedPillRebooter

    - The social problem of our time - Porn, PIED, Feminism, Beta Males, the Drug War and Brain Fog

    I am not misogynistic, so please don't go reporting me for some bs. This will be the last post I make ever here on NoFap. I will say some of the stuff on her might not be what you want to here but its the truth. 1) Porn and PIED I want to share with you all what I have observed to be the...
  37. F50C137YZ

    Everything You Know About Addiction is Wrong

    I am convinced that this is why this forum and hanging out with friends keeps me clean.
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