My biggest breakthrough in my self-improvement journey came when I no longer lived as a victim. I used to believe that I had no control over my life. I didn't feel like I had a choice. What I've now learnt is...
I CHOSE to be in a relationship that didn't allow me to develop.
I CHOSE to...
When I was younger I used to blame my problems on every other person and say "It's their fault that I'm in this situation." But now I've come to realize that that everyone including myself plays a hand in problems What matters is how you respond to them but as I grew older I turned to Stoicism I...
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I am talking about my experiences, so i am not attacking someone. I want to take you out of the victim mentality.
But from all the posts that I have read and the people that I have met in rehab/12-step program etc., I came to see that relapse is a choice.
I am free of it now for a long time...
I haven't logged in all this year, I guess I just abandoned this site due to changing views on NoFap. I haven't seen pornography all this year since December 30th, so now I'm on day #280 without P.
Nonetheless, I still consider this site a great community for discussing mental health issues...