virginity

Hi, everyone. I'm new to NoFap, although I've attempted porn and masturbation abstinence several times. I started watching porn and masturbating when I was 12. Now 22, it's been nearly 10 years since I got addicted to PMO. Watching and masturbating to porn and other sexually arousing content...

This is a big story and nofap website helped immensely. When I was 19 years I was normally functioning sexually with occasional masturbation but was a regular teen. I had a girlfriend but she was a virgin and didn't want to have sex just yet. Then I went to study to a different country. While...

It’s 12:25 AM on January 1st, 2011, and I’m busy in the bathroom while my family celebrates the start of the new year on the other side of the wall. Glasses are half-full of champagne, the tray of sweets on the table is mostly untouched, and the cringy pre-recorded concerts playing on TV seem...

Taken from an article in the Huffpost. "I’ve had to come to terms with the fact not everyone will be understanding of my decision. I have tried to prove to men I was somehow ‘worth waiting for’, that we could create a relationship that was meaningful, but have been most often met only by their...

hello, [a small introduction] twenty three and a half years old. i never had sex as they say... might be that i am careful, overthinking, self deprecating, or not interested in this particular girl. even though, i have enjoyed dancing with girls a few times, even though i have hugged girls with...

It's a closing circle. I finally reached 90 days of no PMO just when you decided to leave... So, this is my story. I came to this forum many times in the past years. In late 2019 I was searching for an AP group of gay people. In this group, I met K. K. has become my AP partner. We used to chat...

Hi, i'm a 29 year old male from Europe. I am struggling with porn & masturbation addiction for many years now, and never had much success whenever I tried to put an end to my addiction. I almost always failed at stopping myself from fapping & always beat myself up whenever I do fail. I never...

Hey y'all. Just wanted to create a thread and say hi and possibly give you some info about me ^^ My name is Julian and I am 22 and I have addiction to pornography. I never thought that this was an addiction up until 4-5 days ago. So here's what happened. I study at about 50 km from where I live...

Not sure if this is the right subforum, but hopefully someone will read this. I'm 21M, single, virgin. Just started nofap, have had some successes (25 day streak 1st attempt) and failures (multiple relapses afterward) but I'm still committed to it. Not an incel - had many opportunities to have...

I see people freak out over them being virgins and thought this article in The Guardian might help. It's about people who lost their virginity in their 30's. It'll remind the virgins 30's or under that they'll not alone. Here's an extract from it: Sarah lost her virginity when she was 31...

Very shortly about myself - 29, male, had porn addiction since I was 14. Screwed up by gay porn. HOCD. Fell in love big time with a girl when I was 17, was too anxious/shy to initiate sex so it never happened. Another attempt to have sex at 22 was a fail - I was very very drunk and couldn't get...

Hello! I've been trying nofap for 2 years, and now I've finally kind of "succeeded" with 223 days streak. I don't see many benefits from my streak anymore, but I don't want to do any PMO, so I think I'm just going to stick with my current streak. Anyways, I'm 18 and virgin, and I think I have...

Until you truly love yourself, you can't love someone else. I know it sounds cliche. But it's true. Until you truly learn to love yourself you will not be able to get over this feeling. Don't get me wrong... I'm not one of those anti-fat shamers or new-age bullshit pushers... If you have nothing...

Okay quickly I need to provide some background info on my situation. I've been emotionally invested in this girl who lives across the US and I have never met her in person (we webcam and etc). When time came, we finally met in person and we had 5 days and 4 nights to spend with one another...

Where do I start... I've been into NoFap for quite some time now, had a few resets during the streak, but at long last I did it, I started talking to a girl, a few weeks ago. Long story short, we are now together. The problem here is, I can't get hard during foreplay with her. I'm a 21 year old...

Just got back from a date with a really nice girl who, understandably, wasn't really interested in coming back to my flat. I got a "maybe next time" but I think it's a "no", I'm not gonna push it, we're still cool. Asking girls out, engaging in conversation, listening with genuine interest...

Bonjour tout le monde, Hier soir alors que j'étais avec une prostitué je n'ai pas eut d'érection je n'ai pas pu finir alors que j'en avais envie. Je sais que tout est la cause de ma dépendance et j'en ai marre! Ce n'est pas la première fois!

Hi everyone! First of all I introduce myself. I'm a 26-year old Italian guy, dealing with masturbation since I was 10. Yes I started early, and this may be one of the root causes of my problems. It's a long-time addiction that made me shy, shameful and numb. Self-esteem was destroyed over time...

Hey guys, so I'm going to skip straight to the point. I'm 21 years old, about to be 22 in 2 weeks, and my social life fucking sucks. I started watching porn at like age 13 and I have been addicted since. Up until like age 19, I had not been aware of nofap and the damages that come from PMO...

Ok guys here in this thread I'll post my everyday game experiences and hope you post your own. Yes, we can do it.

Hello everyone! In the last two jobs I have had it's like everyone eventually figures it out and I don't really know how. I guess it is because I never talk about anything related to sex and if someone I am talking to brings up that topic I try to end the conversation. I need to become more...

Hello fellow fapstronauts; I have been addicted to porn and masturbation for 17 years. It, like many other people here, created barriers to socializing with people. I had this unrealistic expectation when it came to interacting with women and would immediately become anxious and uncomfortable...

Hi everyone....uhh i call myself Mr.Alumni for the sake of secrecy. I wanted to share my story. Forgive me if it sounds too personal. Too start of i've been masturbating to porn since before i knew what porn was. Around age 9 or so. Currently i'm 15 going on to 16 next month Since then i've...

Hello boys and girls Yesterday I posted on a forum asking people who lost their virginity to a prostitute, because I've been thinking about it for a long time (couple of years). There was this one guy, who said he did it, and he was more comfortable with girls after, and he was also into...

Hi guys! This is my first time actually making an account on here. I have been around here looking for answers previously, but thats about it. I really want to make a change, and I think that I will be more accountable if I post my progress and make some friends. I am a bit embarrassed so I...

I'm going to share my recent break up with the community. I started in NoFap because this very relationship I recently cut off. For resume: this girl fell in love with a jerk time ago, and even she was so badly in love for him, he really didn't care and just used her. Time passed, and becasue I...

Hello people. I'm on my 10th day of hard mode nofap. It was a long time since I first heard about advantages of quitting the porn, but I only started trying a few months ago. Before, I was only able to abstain from porn for 5 days maximum and felt very frustrated about it. Recently, I...

I was just wondering what it's like to lose it when your on a good streak. Usually for me when I am on nofap and on a good streak women attraction increases and I get much more confident with women and that gets me close to sexual interactions however I have never had the perfect opportunity to...

So I'm a college student (British colleges are different) and I was talking to another student outside of my music class. She asked me a bunch of intrusive questions. She asked me "If I have a girlfriend" I said no but I've had one in the past. She asked "do you watch porn?" I said not any...

It just upsets me that some people on Nofap are ashamed of being a virgin, and act like it's horrible. Being a virgin, to me, is way better than having meaningless sex with everyone that you see. Any thoughts?

Hello friends.So as I said in my 25 yr old virgin post a few days ago,I joined the Army Reserves when I was 19 yrs old.I was already addicted to porn but stayed in shape enough to be able to join.For me the process of basic training was a huge relief for me,like a therapy.Waking up and always...

Im 25 yr old virgin who was introduced to pornography at the age of 12.It all started when my older brother came home one day with a penthouse magazine.I was immediately hooked with the images since it was something I had never seen before.He was a few yrs older than me but both being teenagers...

Hello, i'm an 20 yo virgin that haven't a girlfriend yet. I really want a relationship, but everytime i mess it up. I'm not best looking and i try to have a good attitude, but i just can't because everytime i get rejected.. Any advices?

Hi guys, first of all, i hope my story won't be to long :D i'm not completely new to the whole NoFap topic, i read about that concept in a book about manliness maybe 1,5 years ago and already tried to avoid masturbation a few times (i think my record was about 25 days or so). Often when i'm...

Had sex for the first time at the weekend with a girl I have been in a relationship with for nearly a year and a half now. First time, everything went well. 2nd time, I struggled to stay erect. 3rd, things were fine and 4th, I had been fine but taking a while to O, then got limp. I presume...

Hello. I've joined this site to prove to myself that I am serious about making a change in my life and kicking old habits. I'm going to do the 30 day challenge and focus that energy on other things in my life. I've been very lazy since I graduated college, I used to always have hobbies or would...

Obviously this contains explicit details, I'm not sure if that is appropriate here but just issuing a fair warning.

I'm nearly 23 and a virgin. I wrote this shortly after I quit PMO. Based on real events. Through the Wall I shut the door, blocking out the sounds of the city, and as my ears slowly grow accustomed to the silence of the empty apartment, I become aware that even silence is not silence. It's...

Hello, I have an awkward question that you don't have to answer if you don't want to. Actually I will put a poll in as well for anonymity. Question is, has anybody broken their hymen from masturbating? Is this a stupid question? I ask this question partly out of simple curiosity, also because...