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Hey guys, I am currently on a 13 day streak and in the last few days I have been feeling extremely horny. I made the fatal error of reinstalling my snapchat and talking to women and getting hard a few times. I even touched myself once or twice but not actually masturbated. Since I have been...

So I’ve done nofap successfully when I was 17. I’m 22 now and slipped back into habits. Especially this year I’ve been binging, edging, etc. almost everyday. I took a girl out on a date. We ate, we laughed. We drank a bit. I felt confident. Everything was smooth. she denied a kiss. later. She...

I smoke when I visit some places near our town. I never smoke in my home or my home area. I want to quit that too. I keep watching women when I smoke and fantasizing about their body parts and smoke a cigarette or two sometimes keep staring at women and thinking negatively about their bodies...

If you sometimes feel like this, please comment Have you ever thought about the shamelessness of women who work in porn or women who publish erotic pictures and videos of themselves, and this thought makes you sad and lustful at the same time? At this time, I try to remind myself that there are...

I want to discuss the issue of uptight women. I see this problem a lot in these journals and I don't find this topic discussed openly, so here we go. It's important for a recovering porn addicted man to choose wisely the woman he will be with. Because what then, if you choose someone who can't...

Yesterday I had a couple ladies to communicate with so I decided I ought to reboot to better interact with them. I already had added the women to my calendar so I also added on my calendar that the day was a “PMO abstinence” day. Right in the evening when I felt like looking at porn I...

Hi, I'll try to be concise, ever since I remember, from being at school until the present day, I was always extremely easily distracted by girl's/women's feet. At school I sometimes used to go under the table and pretend to be picking something up or finding something, but in reality I was...

I'm a 29 y.o. female and I'm scared out of my mind because my porn addiction got totally out of hand. I'm currently doing a pretty good job ruining both my relationship and my career. Just yesterday I missed the deadline for an important assignment at university because I was too busy watching...

*DISCLAIMER: I am not a sexist man, I don't hate women, I am an advocate of sex fairness, that both sexual genders are unique and have qualities, that men must treat women right, care about them and vice versa, I just want to understand this kind of situations and improve in social environments...

I have learned in these two years of dating: - Look beyond lust, love, beauty and emotions so you can see a woman for what she does and who she is because if you don’t you will experience a bit of hell living on earth. - Let go, no matter how much you have invested in a girl, if you love her...

Geting attention from girls was complete mystery for me, and I hated the fact that some of mine friend and family teased me about it. There was pressure on me to do something about my way with girls and I needed to do it soon, but not many answers did appear to me at the time. One day I found a...

What biological, psychological, behavioral, emotional, mental differences are between men and women. Write you analysis on any subject regarding this. Open thread. Ps: There's no feminism or machismo behind the thread

I asked myself today this question when I was driving across town. All my life I've seen when a woman is crossing a street specially if there are cars and no stoplight somehow they miscalculate how to pass the street they go fast, slow or really fast without need. They look awkward. They even...

I’m going to stop calling girls by beautiful names like baby, honey… Girls always have the impression you just want to have sex with them so, calling her names even do is sweet it can sexualize the dialogue. I always use this type of love adjectives since day one I meet a girl, but I’m going to...

Current streak: 476 days no PMO, semen retention This is an advice that my father a real tantric master told me yesterday “First of all recognize the illusion of this world, the materiality and mundanity of women in general, you need to have clear concepts about the deceit of the material...

Current streak: 474 days no PMO, semen retention I was a monk, I lived in a monastery, and also I was a voluntary celibate for many years, I had this notion since 10 y.o to be a free man and my happiness needed to be independent from any external source, including girls. At some point in...

The basic importance in doing nofap for attracting girls and if you master it is that you are able to see women without lust in your eyes. Women know they are hot, they don't care if you like them for their looks, what they really want is you like them for what they are beyond their looks. I...

When you give a woman something, what happens? They make it twice of something more, and give it back to you. Who said that? Erick S. Gray. His full quote is: “Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby. If you give her a house, she'll give...

I think is a bad idea. One of the two always wants to come back. There is a reason for the break up. Also let's say there is no money, kids or common ownership of any kind so you are not forced to be friends. Also this take us back to the thread about if two straight people from the opposite...

Humor me please : I've spent my childhood raised in a family that was a minefield of resentment and angst. As soon as I became aware of it, I wanted to figure out the reason for why my family was at each other's throats all the time. This might be an oversimplification, but I believe any form...

Like I have no problems with people doing what they want but really... Is this what women seem to do these days...following this shit trend... like ffs this isn't helping my nofap journey at all... so I've totally ignored contact for a week so far as I'm very disappointed. I've done 20 days no...

I think that because of pornography I feel a sexual desire, even lust, for these types of women. It's like looking for a mother ... Has anyone managed to solve this problem? Sometimes I try to connect with them through chats or apps, but I feel weird I've been NoFap for 12 days and going up

Czech Casting is a czechoslovakian adult film company known for casting couch interviews with young amateur women. But after the police raided their offices and arrested the ten employees inside, the truth has finally come out. Those casting couch interviews were not staged, they were real. And...

My advice is to stay away from them. Many of them will accuse their ex for all of her problems, and they could be completely right to point a finger at him, but just remember this, she chose him. I’m talking about women who got married voluntarily, and not about women who get cheated or forced...

Recently started the NoFap journey but I’ve been relapsing every other day. My ideal goal is to cut out porn. Can I still masturbate? I will be ejaculating because I do have sex. The women I have sex with prefer to finish after me and I know that if I refrain from masturbating altogether i...

I just realized why womens brs are more pleasant and sanitary than ours.. Cause even when were hitting the middle of the bowl in water little pee dropletts are still bouncing out and around the toilet vicinity.. Not to mention the pubes that fall on the rim while were standing. Wonder why it...

I have a couple of rules that i think are important for most of us man, I saw man who ignored this rules or they were unaware of these problems about this kind of women. Rules are avoid single mothers, promiscuous women, women with tattoos, piercing, that smoke or do any type of light drugs...

r/PornIsMisogyny is a page on Reddit devoted to combatting the prevalence of pornography in our society. Their sidebar description as of November 2020 currently states: This is a subreddit to raise awareness about the misogynistic nature of pornography. We want to raise awareness of the evils...

Have successfully completed 3 days nofap. However , I'm having urges to porn & masturbate. Today, at multiple instances, I got high urges wherever i saw female characters. I'm ashamed to say all these, but here i go - news anchor, anime picture, any celebrity pic, amazon clothes section...

We all know testosterone is what helps a little teenager to become a man. I made some researches and found out that women have some primordial instincts related to testosterone. They can sense if a man has high testosterone and it could attract them to him. 1- Do you agree with this theory? 2-...

lt is not our fault if we fell into PMO. It is the system that wants everyone addicted to something, to be weak and thus easy to control. But often happens some people once they start to hit the road of enlightment they start with those ridiculous speeches about women trying to steal their seed...

Hey guys! I'm 19 year old guy and have been masturbating to porn since I was 12 years old. Jerking off to porn started out as an innocent fascination and quickly became something I was doing every single day. I have known about the NoFap community for quite some time now, and have wanted to stop...

Well, kind of strange that only now I post first time in this forum. I've been reading many stories about loneliness and I want to share mine with you. I have been doing smart work since February and I got back to my hometown to avoid paying rent in the city. I hate my work because it is so...

I read a lot of advices here from men that say: Don’t focus on women, focus on yourself, your growth, your goals. Women are a waste of time. And it is precisely these men that I see relapsing every time.. How crazy is that? Is it to convince yourself not to focus on women? Who are you kidding...

it's one of my major weakness you can say, even when i just see a glimpse or women in shorts or skirts, it causes instant temptation for me. I mean it's very common and well accepted in society nowadays so i need to learn how to cope with it but even after more than 5 months i still struggle...

what are the step behind the addiction ?? if you now in which step you are now , this will help you understand more about your addiction and as result , improvement 1- first step : looking the cycle start from looking to women if you did not look to women , you will block the cycle and hence ...

So, as a preface, I'm a bit of a perfectionist. I may not admit it in normal conversation, but deep down I know that I am. I stand at 5'9.5" in the morning, and it decreases throughout the day by roughly a half an inch. Admittedly, I know that this is not a bad height per se, being the average...

TURBO BLOGS: #Dating PUA doesn’t work , idea of "power” does Dating is a battle for "power" and is essential for our instincts. This is not power over the opposite sex, but rather your internal self power and how you internalize it or externalize it to gain dates. All relationships with women...

Turbo(TBO) here, I'm going to help all of you young single guys out. I'm a married 28 year old man and I've gathered some knowledge about women that will definitely help you out. Keep a realistic and open mindset here. Most of the time women speak in codes to men. Here is a list of codes and...

I'm a 28 year old married man who's always struggled with being nervous around beautiful women. Back in high school I had no shame, I could walk up to almost any girl and befriend her expect the overly pretty ones. Once in college I started experimenting with weed and I matured and this is where...

Hey. I found this thread and decided to tell some of my problems with communicating with women. I was always afraid of approaching girls or even chatting with them , but then accidentally a girlfriend came to my life. By saying accidentally I mean that my friend invited me to a party and...

Hey guys, I'm currently researching for a personal study. I would highly appreciate it, if you would answer the following questions. 1. What are your biggest challenges when it comes to meeting other women (approaching & dating)? 2. What are your biggest fears when it comes to approach a...

Going through a phase where I am staying mostly indoors. When seeing a woman it turns me on now. I don't how things are about where you guys live, but here in UK and Ireland it is becoming more and more common where girls and women are wearing body tight clothing including yoga pants...

Hello brothers, this is my first post here. I am soon to be 23 yo guy that had some nasty porn and fetishes past as many of you. I have heard about the idea of nofap some 2-3 years ago and bought into it quite quickly, not with all my will though - say I was masturbating 2-3 times a week on...

Lately I have been masturbating and watching porn a lot. I also feel like I am losing my friends. I haven’t had much luck with ladies. I don’t know why I have been losing these battles. My friends say I am much more angrier I don’t what it is, I have felt much anger but I have felt distancing...

By God's grace I am free from porn for 6 days and ticking. Now I'm realizing some new behaviours in me and I am afraid that it'd lead me back to PMO. The behaviour is I start to stare so much at women. I stare at every part of a woman now. I mean from tip to toe. I start to enjoy women more now...

I've found myself admiring women, especially my age, that are more tasteful, not narcissistic, and not reserved necessarily, who enjoy having another intellect to speak with. Though this intelligence is not the end-all-be-all. Sexuality is important and a healthy amount of attention and...

I'm on my longest streak since I started PMOing at 15 years old. 70+ days. my previous streak was 27 days. I'm proud of that accomplishment. I have to admit though, during this streak I still looked at pics of several half-naked women on Instagram (had to delete the app recently) and couple...

Dear brothers, It is becoming really necessary to me to tell what it has been happening during the las 30 days. Probably the most intense 30 days in my whole existence. When l used to think about a short period of time in the past l was quite oblivious about the events and facts, everything was...

I haven't fapped in over a month but I still catch myself looking at pics of women on social media. Whenever I see a cute woman on the streets, I catch myself looking at their bodies. It might be because of the amount of testosterone building in my body. I'm still avoiding my responsibilities by...

Well, I would like to experiment with different sort of outfits, like texture, feel, material e.t.c.. I had been wearing formals for very long period of time, so made some changes regard my outfit and outlook.. From now on I`m gonna wear full sleeve t shirts with either henley or polo neck (for...

Hello I am a Heterosexual male and I’m am Sad to say I am a porn addict I’ve been watching porn since I was 12 years old and Haven’t Stop since I’m 20 Now and I am finally realizing that I have been losing control of my social life. I have isolated myself from friends I dread going out in...

Celebrated my dear mother today, and I know not everyone has a great relationship with their moms, but I recognize that one of the people hurt most by my struggle with porn is my own mom :/ And she was one of the first people I lied to about my struggle with porn. Lied to her face. On multiple...

Next weekend I've got two dates planned for the same day! For nearly a month I've had a date planned with one particular woman for next Saturday at 11 am. Now I've just scored a date with a different woman for 3 pm the same day! I've never had this happen before. I've had a couple of times...

Hello, I was in an amazing relationship with this beautiful girl for 3 1/2. We broke up 7 months ago and with that it brought major depression, Weight loss and stopped going to the gym. Porn has always been a part of my life (3rd day of no PMO) the big part is I think escalation has the worst of...

Hello Brothers. Its been nearly 20 days for the first time in life to go without orgasm and masturbation. It truly feels great and i see the energy and benefits. For years i either fapped or tried to hookup with chicks from tinder. I just feel tired of this nonsense of women and their stupid...

Since I didn't have enough space to express myself on my status page, I dediced to share with you in a new thread. In these days I feel like my life is changing step by step. Women, in the case they're not too fat, too ugly or old, look very attractive to me. That's why every outdoor activities...

What’s up, guys Today I have 365 days since I started to count. I have the impression that when my libido came back I had more desire to live. I'm not even interested in women as before. Most recently, I have no strength for anything. Although maybe it is due to the fact that earlier after work...

I’m on 355 day. I’m not enjoy some things that I enjoyed before. I’m even not enjoy looking at women like I enjoyed before. I do not know what's going on. Maybe it's just a stage of reboot. But if it is possible to have second flatline? I feel a little like what I used to be when I had a...

I see a lot of women on dating sites who say they are looking for friends. Some only want to be friends, whereas others are looking for a long-term romantic relationship but want to start as just friends. Now, I have no problem with just being friends with the opposite gender. It's fine if...

So it felt like I've abstained from PMO for a while till i looked at my calendar and saw that it's only been four days...the whole day today since I woke up I've been so short tempered and I feel physically hot, like it's hard to focus on some things, and I get a few thoughts thinking maybe I'll...

Hi! I want to ask you if thinking about women but not in a sexual way can cause relapse? I know it's weird, but when my libido started to came back I have often thought about women, to impress them or to draw their attention to me. at those times, I often felt a huge attraction to women. These...

What’s up guys My libido came back probably completely, and I’m so fucking lust recently. I’m on 277 day of my reboot, but I'm afraid I could do something I should not do... Can you remind me what during rehab should not be done? I know about different things, but there are things I do not know...

Women have approached me before, but this was different. I'm certain that this particular type of scenario was the first time it's happened to me. It was a touching and memorable moment which I partly credit to NoFap. I was out at a restaurant with a friend of mine and one of his friends. As we...

Hi everyone! ;) I’m on 258 day of my reboot and my libido probably returned completely. I have recently more desire for sex than before. I also noticed much more women interested in me. It happens that I look at the body of a woman, at her legs, buttocks, breasts. Is it something bad? I do not...

Hi, guys ;) I think recently over certain things. When I returned my libido I feel urges sometimes, although rare and sometimes I thought about women, but never in a sexual way. From the moment in which I returned my libido I started also talk about women with friends, but also never in sexual...

Dear guys, I have this doubt right from my college days.. We dudes have been masturbating since our childhood and we came to know the harmful effects on our body and mind.. I have understood that this is serious issue for all teens.. It will cause PE or ED to our dicks which ll spoil the...

This is so weird... Let me start off by saying that I know no one like me. I have been addicted to masturbating since middle school, I have to do it everyday and it has only been getting worse. The reason i cant get help is because... well.. im a girl. As a 20 y/o women i have a problem where in...

From the moment when my libido has returned, my thoughts often focus on impressing women, thoughts about women appear. It all happens spontaneously. It blocks me because instead of focusing on what I'm doing at the moment, or thinking about anything sensible, I focus on this nonsense. It was...

women apply make-up when on a train... Well, some men are. One man said: 'I think once or twice I just stared at the person thinking that they would eventually notice and feel embarrassed. That never happened, it's something for someone's private space - their bedroom or bathroom. So to find...

Hey there, I am Dan (20) and I know for sure this is the way to go to become my best self. I have done multiple streaks since 2016 and I noticed how my confidence got much better and my mind was free, the thing is I never had the ability of going all the way with women I liked. So after so many...

Hello everyone! I am new here and created an account to talk about this issue that I have, since it seems that this would be the best and most helpful, welcoming community there is. For now, I wish to thank everyone for taking their time to read and hopefully respond to this post. I have...

I want to ask you about withdrawal symptoms. The question will be directed to users with a little bit longer streak. I have 139 days of rehab and I feel the same symptoms for a few days as on the first day. Is it normal? My libido has returned recently, to the extent that I had one wet dream...

I hear a lot of women talk about "rape culture" in our society. The places where I see most latent "rape culture" are in movies, novels, and fiction that women adore and flock to in droves. 50 shades(women loved it), and all the other "romance novels" even though we all know they are just rapey...

Ok guys here in this thread I'll post my everyday game experiences and hope you post your own. Yes, we can do it.

This is like the top of dating advice. Let me tell you I'm really not an expert. I don't have that much experience with women, but I've done my research by watching to make this an epic advice so you reading this and me writing it can go out and crush it with the ladies. Ok so, PUAs usually...

I think it's fair to say generally women hate sports but why? And why do some women like sports? I read that it has to do with how a woman is brought up. If a girl wants to bond with her dad and he loves sports she will develop a love for sports, on the other hand, if he doesn't like sports a...

What's up guys, I'm Jacob. I'm 23. I started my journey of quitting pornography and masturbation exactly 3 weeks ago, alongside completely quitting drinking alcohol, and I've been feeling on top of the world, of course. Every aspect of my life is improving and I feel alive and in control again...

What's up guys, I'm Jacob. I'm 23. I started my journey of quitting pornography and masturbation exactly 3 weeks ago, alongside completely quitting drinking alcohol, and I've been feeling on top of the world, of course. Every aspect of my life is improving and I feel alive and in control again...

women, romance and sex. I don't know where it comes from. I just get in a mood where I hate everything to do with dating. Sometimes I want to date a girl so I can break her heart. Sometimes I think hurting a woman is more better than loving a woman. Sometimes I just look through the dating...

what do you guys do when you come across a scantily dressed attractive woman ? the natural impulse is to look at her ( or perhaps even stare ). and looking at her is not the same as porn but somehow it does not feel right. the dopamine rush is quite strong and it becomes even stronger if she...

How does porn adiction affects on women? I mean, I watch porn since a very young age (I'm a woman), and I cold never have an orgasm during sex, just with masturbation and PM, is it due to porn?

Okay, so I know we have all had urges before. It is hard to fight through them. I have tried many things to fight through them, but this is the one thing that stops me every time. This is a song called "dismantled by love". I know, strange how a song can affect me like This haha. Im not sure...

Hi fellow Fapstronauts, I've been noticing lately that women are flirting with me, wherever I go. That was not a case before going into hardmode. I thought it was just my imagination at first, but now I get more invitations to drink, then I can handle. What are your observations?

Well, I have heard in many places that the expectations of men from women are more straightforward than that of women from men. I am thinking on what I expect but I can not look into the hearts of others. And I think any relationship be as mundane as employer-employee or the warm friendship or...

I am a fairly good looking guy. And girls stare at me a lot. I don't know whether its because of nofap or what but I get annoyed when people stare at me continuously. Like how the hell am I suppose to understand the vicious principles of Thermodynamics when a hottie from the first row turns...

Guys, do you think a 19 (20 in 6 months) year old guy could date a 26 year old woman? When I was just turning 19 I used to date a 24 year old woman but it was a special kind of scenario and she always felt like a pedophile haha. Now, this absolutely gorgeous 26 year old, I don't personally know...

I have social anxiety issues. There are areas in my life where I can cope with challenges, remain calm - even under pressure, and am generally composed. There are other areas in my life where things turn out quite differently. For me that is primarily interaction with women - the more...

on NYE i went to a house party. i am a girl and i am 26. there were like 30 girls and only few guys. i felt i could finally make female friends. i usually have male friends coz it is much easier and i persuade guys easily basically i was very stressed during the party and i wanted to make tons...

I have this problem where I day dreaming almost everyday and never aware of my existence until I get into social interactions. Now , the problem is that while I'm alone I need to take care of my life as any1 does. Thing is , I find myself day dreaming rather than finding the girl of my life ...

Yeah like the title says, I think I have made progress in terms of talking to women. I got a girl's number at work a little while ago and I was speaking to her for a bit. Asked her if she wanted to meet up some time and well...I got turned down. By turned down I mean she just didn't respond...

SINCE quitting PMO, I have started to enjoy and appreciate the simple things in life. Especially what I have right in front of me. Reading books, walking the dog, having a coffee, but music and art are the things I’ve always enjoyed. Especially on the creative and emotional side of it. I’m...

I know how you guys say "NoFap clears your acne, makes it easier to make gains in the gym, you give off pheromones that attract girls, Yada Yada Yada" which is all great, but what if you're just generally unfortunate looking due to circumstances out of your control? For instance, I was born...

Ok, so I've said it before. I first found porno videos at age 9 but didn't start masturbating until age 13. Even after finding porn, before jacking off, I didn't hate girls at all. But for the last 6 years, my feelings have deviated between: (Pretty girl) In my mind I'm saying PLEASE DON'T TALK...

Hi everyone...I'm an Indian guy who has recently moved to Australia. I'm 33 and I have never had a romance with any girl til now Indian or Aussie. Now that I'm here I'm more interested in dating an Aussie girl. The only girl who was interested in me all my life was a lebanese girl who was...

Hey guys (and girls), I just wanted to post something on how I experience the whole NoFap challenge and what the benefits are. The first big benefit is overall energy and recovery. I workout and run 5 times a week. In the past, I always had to take it easy after a few days of training. My legs...

I believe that women can sense that there is something violently wrong with PMO. It is well noted that porn is highly unfavorable among wives, and girlfriends. We have all heard the stories of wives, or girlfriends finding out about the pornographic use of their spouses, or boyfriends...

I've decided that NoFap just isn't good for me ALONE. and I've realised that I need to make some serious life changes if I want to succeed in life . I started nofap exactly 8 days ago and i was feeling AWESOME, untill last night I had a depressing flatline of strong urges, depression , anxiety...

I was always shy around girls in school, but over time I developed a small confidence and became more social, however I still wasn't where I wanted to be. I became more extroverted and better with girls. Even though I was doing much better and socialising, I still had that shyness within...

I was listening to podcast and this was said: Girls want a nice guy, they want a guy who respect them, they also want a guy who stands up for himself and challenges them when necessary. Do you agree? Would also be interested in what women think about this?