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“I MISS YOU” text and UP IT WENT-65 Days only

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by JUSTDOITBRO, Jan 14, 2019.

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  1. JUSTDOITBRO

    JUSTDOITBRO Fapstronaut

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    Alright Alright Alright fellas,
    Listen to me carefully, let me shed some light on you all, THIS WORKS and I AM A LIVING WALKING 26 year old PROOF.

    Summary: My gf texted me “I miss you” and UP IT GOESSSS!! It was the best feeling ever, I don’t remember even before my ED when I had an erection for a mere “I miss you” text!!!

    Background:
    I selfdiaganosed my self with all an ED about a year ago, always knew there was a problem but I thought just touching it and getting it hard or keep it hard was just going to my lifestyle, but I was always depressed and worried, there was no content in life, I couldn’t approach girls because I was just scared they would find out I’m not manly enough and blah blah blah you know the story, anything you are going through right now I was going through. Until one day, I stumbled upon NOFAP forums “BEST THING THAT EVER HAPPENED TO ME”. I started doing it.

    NOFAP Journey:
    I started doing this on November 7th 2018, i was really motivated for first 10 days but then I started having thought due to lack of knowledge that what if I lost my MOJO forever, so I started touching it see if I would get hard, one thing lead to another and I started watching some Psubs (bad idea, it’s your bastard brain just craving dopamine). So I got sucked it, would see Psubs, would even edge (but won’t O) often to satisfy the craving but noticed
    soon enough my NOFAP isn’t doing much to me. So, I came here and researched what am I doing wrong, the answer was: “LEAVE YOUR BUDDY DOWN THERE ALONE”, no touching! And NO, PSUBS ARENT OKAY either, it will ruin your NOFAP journey brothers. So I stopped, and went hardcore, no PMO hardcore, and fast forward 63+ days in, and I get a text from my gf “I miss you” and guess what UP iT GOES, my brain has learned to wire the right way it should be!!! But I am not even done, so I know a lot more better days a yet to come. I started getting morning wood REGULARLY!!! I love this lifestyle, P and M are just for losers, you are all better then them!! I RUN now I am in much better shape! NOFAP HAS CHANGED MY LIFE!! I am keeping to as long as I can, I feel I am 80 percent cured but this life style is way too good to leave!!! It is worth it

    You can all do it!! Take me as an example, it’s never too late, P and M are just disgusting dark sides which brings nothing but depression and anxiety! The energy you feel after will be out of this world!!
     
  2. Phantompoint

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    Hey, congrats on your 65 days. I am also a fellow ‘PIED patient’ who is 26 of age. My meter reflects my streak but I must say I don’t share that much benefits as you do. It is highly possible that I am still experiencing what is known as ‘flatline’ so mood swings and mild depression occur from time to time. Anyway, my background aside, would be grateful if you can ellaborate a bit more on the followings:
    1. You selfdiagonosed that you have ED but you also state that you can get your buddy hard, not sure if it is something contradictory or I misinterpreted.
    2. Any subtle changes and examples other than a plain NOFAP HAS CHANGED MY LIFE?
    3. What gets you to the conclusion that you are 80 percent cured? By the stiffness of your buddy, by your perseverance during sex or by something else?

    I am not here to judge you, but as a person who shares similar symtoms and someone who does not see as much benefits as you do, I would like to know a bit more than getting hyped by mere text from your girlfriend.
     
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  3. JUSTDOITBRO

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    Hey brother, first off don’t worry, you are in totally normal position. It’s ok sometimes your brain takes a little more time to rewire. But you will see results.

    1. I selfdiaganosed myself a year ago, when I was with a girl and we were in bed I couldn’t get it up (prior to that I was always able to get horny and would get hard) but this time I didn’t, couldnt feel anything, so I started to stimulate, and after about 5 mins of stimulation I was able to get some sort of erection but I had to keep touching to retain it. That’s when I knew I had some problem. I didn’t know what NOFAP was, so I thought my condition would go away but it only got worse. I used to watch P and M almost every other day if not daily. I had to stimulate to get it up and M. It was a ugly, depressing and horrible experience I’m glad I have left it behind. I went to a doctor he suggested, to take vitamin D I did that for a month. Anyway I found out about NOFAP in November 7th 2018, and that day I just decided I’m doing it and fixing myself.

    2. I wasn’t able to get a wet dream until like 60th day. I was hoping like 20-30 days, sometimes your brain needs some time to rewire, but it will happen, lots of day with “flatline” multiple times but just believe in the process. (it’s like restarting a computer, if there are tons of applications open, and you try to restart it, it takes time to turn them off first and thn restart. Cold shower helped, workout, I started running 5ks. I used to see Psubs in the beginning of my NOFAP just to see if I’d get hard and edge but it was my bastard brain just craving dopamine. So just be smart no seeing any P or Psubs regardless of you are M or O or not. YOU HAVE TO GO HARDCORE TO SEE RESULTS.

    3. I feel like I’m 80 percent cured because: first off my confidence level got really high, I’m not depressed anymore, I can change in the locker room at the gym without feeling sick (because of ED). I get regular morning woods. When I talk to my gf over the phone or text I get excited, I am starting to feel like a whole man again. But I know I have a lot more recovery to make, but trust me P and M are disgusting lies keeping us from freeing ourselves.


    But you have to go HARD CORE NO PMO.
    We are in this together and we can all do it!! Including you and me and everyone here.

    Hope this helps
     
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  4. canstopwillstop3

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    Congrats bro! As for myself, I relapsed last year around 63 days into my reboot. Wasn't a member of the site, but got the inspiration from here. Also had ED from years of PMO. Couldn't get it up when I didn't have a hand going at it. Went limp with past girls and that's embarrassing af when you're 20. When I did my last reboot, I started noticing all the same things. I would get regular morning wood, got hard from just the smallest things a girl would do. I was so damn excited I wasn't going to be popping dick pills for the rest of my life. I was probably about 80 percent cured at that time, but the confidence eventually led to relapse pretty damn quick.

    But like I said, I wasn't a member of the site and didn't check in and keep myself in line, so hopefully you will continue your streak. Because I have been right where you are now, and trust me, there will be days when you feel 100% back in the game and you'll have thoughts about ending your streak for whatever reason. My relapse started with deciding to give my once broken dong a test run (but I decided I was just not going to use porn from now on). Within a week I was back to daily PMO. All it takes is a little small break in your discipline and you're back where you started whether you know it or not. And even at 80% cured, there are going to be strong urges the closer you get to your goal. Don't be like me man. Keep your eyes on the prize brother. Best of luck to you!
     
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  5. JUSTDOITBRO

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    Thankyou for the the heads up. Yes I have those urges but cold shower help me in those times. I appreciate your valuable input. It has made me even firm at my goals. This community has changed my life for the better. Keep up the good work, you are doing a great job!!!
     
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  6. canstopwillstop3

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    I appreciate it man. I have a very positive outlook on this reboot and am so glad I decided to become part of the community. Nothing is better than having people who you can talk and understand what you're going through. Big fan of cold showers btw, never was consistent with them or used them when I needed to but I'll definitely give it a try when the urges come up! You're on the homestretch to your reboot, so keep trucking these last few weeks brother!!
     
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