So ill keep it short. I was really in love with this one girl. We been together for almost half a year and we were doing long distance all of this time. Up until we met i was a virgin and shes been in a long term relationship before. So the night we had sex i realized i have PIED, i was super nervous and couldnt relax, i couldnt get it 100% hard and the condom just killed all the sensation. I started going soft halfway through and we both just got exhausted and none of us could come. The second night pretty much the same thing happened and she got upset. Soon after she told me that our sex life is bad and she couldnt feel me that much inside her and that were not sexually compatible, which shattered my confidence into a pieces and haunts me till now (almost two months later). She broke up with me soon after and even tho she gave different reasons why i feel like it was one of the them. Im about 6 inches long and pretty skinny in girth, im really devastating about what happened. Im afraid of this happening in my future relationships and it really kills my confidence. I cant get this out of my head and i dont know what to do or think to boost my confidence again.